UPDATE: I called and they give me my account back. They made a mistake....WHAT A BIG MISTAKE!!!!!!!!
I had been a member of Match.com for more than 6 months now and since I didn't met anyone and with their 6 month guarantee they would have to give me the next 6 months for free.I updated my profiles and pictures two days ago and yesterday,,,. I couldn't log in anymore and was advised to contact Customer Care.
Customer Care informed me that I have violated the Terms and Conditions listed on their website and due to the "nature of the violation", my account has been terminated because match believe their action was in the best interests of their member community.
My experience with match hasn't been that great. Most people give you winks rather than respond to you..which I don't understand. It has been disappointing..but anyway...I went through the Terms and Conditions and felt that I have not violated them in anyway. By refusing to provide me an explanation, I am considering that Match.com has terminated my account on an uninformed basis so to make me pay for the service.. Prior to the termination, I even received emails that my updated profile and pictures were approved. I am especially enraged by their dismissive attitude.My profile is perfectly legitimate (no, I didn't solicit in any manner). I wrote and asked for specifics since I had complied with all of the requirements and done nothing wrong and they said that to protect the privacy of their clients I would have to submit a court order. I don't have the time to go get a civil litigation attorney and filing a breach of contract action against Match.com
You know what so funny....Match is presently be sued my Model Yuliana Avalos for using her picture from the internet to post false ads in the form of fake dating profile. MATCH.COM YOU SHOULD GO LOOK IN THE MIRROR before accusing me of anything. http://nypost.com/2013/11/22/model-suing-match-com-for-1-5b-over-fraudulent-fake-profiles/
Sunday, November 24, 2013
Friday, November 22, 2013
DATING/LOVE: WHY GUYS LIKE ME GO FOR WHORES AND SLUTS
What we learned as kids is that we males are each owed, and will eventually be awarded, a beautiful woman. We were told this by every movie, TV show, novel, comic book, video game and song we encountered…
In each case, the woman has no say in this — compatibility doesn’t matter, prior relationships don’t matter, nothing else factors in. If the hero accomplishes his goals, he is awarded his favorite female. Yes, there will be dialogue that maybe makes it sound like the woman is having doubts, and she will make noises like she is making the decision on her own. But we, as the audience, know that in the end the hero will “get the girl,” just as we know that at the end of the month we’re going to “get our paycheck.” Failure to award either is breaking a societal contract. The girl can say what she wants, but we all know that at the end, she will wind up with the hero, whether she knows it or not.
And now you see the problem. From birth we’re taught that we’re owed a beautiful girl. We all think of ourselves as the hero of our own story, and we all (whether we admit it or not) think we’re heroes for just getting through our day.
So it’s very frustrating, A contract has been broken. These women, by exercising their own choices, are denying it to us. It’s why every Nice Guy is shocked to find that buying gifts for a girl and doing her favors won’t win him sex. It’s why we go to “slut” and “whore” as our default insults — we’re not mad that women enjoy sex. We’re mad that women are distributing to other people the sex that they owed us.
In each case, the woman has no say in this — compatibility doesn’t matter, prior relationships don’t matter, nothing else factors in. If the hero accomplishes his goals, he is awarded his favorite female. Yes, there will be dialogue that maybe makes it sound like the woman is having doubts, and she will make noises like she is making the decision on her own. But we, as the audience, know that in the end the hero will “get the girl,” just as we know that at the end of the month we’re going to “get our paycheck.” Failure to award either is breaking a societal contract. The girl can say what she wants, but we all know that at the end, she will wind up with the hero, whether she knows it or not.
And now you see the problem. From birth we’re taught that we’re owed a beautiful girl. We all think of ourselves as the hero of our own story, and we all (whether we admit it or not) think we’re heroes for just getting through our day.
So it’s very frustrating, A contract has been broken. These women, by exercising their own choices, are denying it to us. It’s why every Nice Guy is shocked to find that buying gifts for a girl and doing her favors won’t win him sex. It’s why we go to “slut” and “whore” as our default insults — we’re not mad that women enjoy sex. We’re mad that women are distributing to other people the sex that they owed us.
Thursday, November 21, 2013
PERSONAL/DATING: I KNOW WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR
I know what I’m looking for. I want a woman that has her act together. Everything else beyond that is just a bonus. What do I mean by having her act together? If she has kids, she takes care of them. If she doesn’t have a job, she better have a better reason for it other than “I’m collecting Welfare because I’m too lazy to work”. Oh, and not having any STD’s or terminal illnesses would be fantastic too!”
“I’m a one woman man. I don’t need 5 girls on the side. Not that having 5 girls on the side wouldn’t be fun, but I’m happier with just one drama-free girl. I need a woman that knows her role. No, not in the kitchen (although if you can cook, that’s great!). My ideal woman’s role will be to be herself. That’s right – I don’t want to change who you are. I want you to feel comfortable being who you are around me.”
“Someone told me I needed to make this humorous to attract women. I guess my sexy photo isn’t enough?? No? Alright, well then I guess I’m just going to have to tell you a little bit about who I am and what I’m looking for. I am a man and I’m looking for a woman. If you’re a woman and looking for a man, we should talk!”
“I’m not going to list all of my interests here because then we won’t have anything to talk about. I am very open-minded. I love to get down and dirty when working on cars, but I love staying in and watching a completely stupid comedy as well. I will try anything once (twice if it was fun) as long as it doesn’t involve me being urinated on or ending up in the hospital.”
“They say that since we only live once, we should always live life to the fullest. I can’t say I’ve lived my life to the fullest up to this point, but I do like to have a good time all the time. Life is about having fun. So many people spend so much time stressing about the littlest things. To heck with that! I live my life with no stress. I do what I want to do, when I want to do it. If I want to take a random road trip to Las Vegas to get wasted and blow some money at the Craps table, I’m going to do it. If I want to hike the Rocky Mountains
“Welcome to my world! It’s a beautiful, fun place. I get up in the morning, go to work. And by “go to work”, I mean I being a doctor and helping people.I’m not into games, I’m not into chatting online for hours, I’m not into complimenting women for nothing. I’m a very funny (yes, I know some few jokes), a bit of a serious and jealous guy when it comes to the woman with me and ambitious in his future, who wants a woman who is not skinny at all and who is slim to athelitic can make a man feel happy. I’m not looking for a lazy woman who can’t cook a meal and only cares about her nails; I want a real woman to be with me. If you think you don’t qualify or you are a bit of a drama queen, don’t contact me. However, if you think you are the one I’m looking for, drop me a line or two and tell me a little about you”.
“I’m a one woman man. I don’t need 5 girls on the side. Not that having 5 girls on the side wouldn’t be fun, but I’m happier with just one drama-free girl. I need a woman that knows her role. No, not in the kitchen (although if you can cook, that’s great!). My ideal woman’s role will be to be herself. That’s right – I don’t want to change who you are. I want you to feel comfortable being who you are around me.”
“Someone told me I needed to make this humorous to attract women. I guess my sexy photo isn’t enough?? No? Alright, well then I guess I’m just going to have to tell you a little bit about who I am and what I’m looking for. I am a man and I’m looking for a woman. If you’re a woman and looking for a man, we should talk!”
“I’m not going to list all of my interests here because then we won’t have anything to talk about. I am very open-minded. I love to get down and dirty when working on cars, but I love staying in and watching a completely stupid comedy as well. I will try anything once (twice if it was fun) as long as it doesn’t involve me being urinated on or ending up in the hospital.”
“They say that since we only live once, we should always live life to the fullest. I can’t say I’ve lived my life to the fullest up to this point, but I do like to have a good time all the time. Life is about having fun. So many people spend so much time stressing about the littlest things. To heck with that! I live my life with no stress. I do what I want to do, when I want to do it. If I want to take a random road trip to Las Vegas to get wasted and blow some money at the Craps table, I’m going to do it. If I want to hike the Rocky Mountains
“Welcome to my world! It’s a beautiful, fun place. I get up in the morning, go to work. And by “go to work”, I mean I being a doctor and helping people.I’m not into games, I’m not into chatting online for hours, I’m not into complimenting women for nothing. I’m a very funny (yes, I know some few jokes), a bit of a serious and jealous guy when it comes to the woman with me and ambitious in his future, who wants a woman who is not skinny at all and who is slim to athelitic can make a man feel happy. I’m not looking for a lazy woman who can’t cook a meal and only cares about her nails; I want a real woman to be with me. If you think you don’t qualify or you are a bit of a drama queen, don’t contact me. However, if you think you are the one I’m looking for, drop me a line or two and tell me a little about you”.
PERSONAL/ LOVE LETTER: DEAR SOULMATE
Dear Soulmate
You are my mystery woman. I remember looking into your eyes.Eyes that hypnotise. Eyes that looked deep deep into my soul. I couldn't help myself from looking back. Looking back deep into your soul.We were locked. Locked in an eternal stare. I was mesmerised. I was hypnotised. It lasted a moment. It lasted forever. Our spirits merged. Merged and combined what paradise would I find It was a moment.A moment so sublime...was it a dream that was too good to be true.I'm still locked...locked in that eternal stare. Bonding of souls, most sacred are we.All I want from you is love and compassion.All I want from you is your love and care. All I want from you is...you.I say to you, that all there is, is yours to be taken.I pray you find some comfort in me, I just want to hold you in my arms; Sweet solice of your embrace, In this secret place of ours. Can't it be just you and me? Alone,in this beautiful universe of your love.With your love beside me, I do nothing wrong. With your eyes upon me, with your heart in mine, the cares of this world are left easily behind.When a man loves a woman, he finds inner peace. A sense of belonging, a sense of release.It is you I cannot stop thinking about,. It is you that makes me happy.It is you that I love. Pinch me, am I dreaming? At the moment you penetrated my soul, my heart shattered into a billion grains of joy encircled in your arms .Our bodies and spirits connected. I felt you lift me from the realm of earthly consciousness and we soared on the rarefied breath of rapture with kisses, Swallowing the flood of my surrendering soul, I holding it inside your heart knowing it is a gift that you cannot take from me but reverently share with me.Waves crash over our heads.I cling to you, trusting you will not let me drown in this glorious ocean of rapture.Our bodies tumble with the fierce and gentle whims of the tide washed with saltwater and sand. Our love consolidates into a shining stone.My heart fills with unbearable gladness to know pure love that flows and grows with each moment. Contentedly buoyed in your arms...I float into sleep
You are my mystery woman. I remember looking into your eyes.Eyes that hypnotise. Eyes that looked deep deep into my soul. I couldn't help myself from looking back. Looking back deep into your soul.We were locked. Locked in an eternal stare. I was mesmerised. I was hypnotised. It lasted a moment. It lasted forever. Our spirits merged. Merged and combined what paradise would I find It was a moment.A moment so sublime...was it a dream that was too good to be true.I'm still locked...locked in that eternal stare. Bonding of souls, most sacred are we.All I want from you is love and compassion.All I want from you is your love and care. All I want from you is...you.I say to you, that all there is, is yours to be taken.I pray you find some comfort in me, I just want to hold you in my arms; Sweet solice of your embrace, In this secret place of ours. Can't it be just you and me? Alone,in this beautiful universe of your love.With your love beside me, I do nothing wrong. With your eyes upon me, with your heart in mine, the cares of this world are left easily behind.When a man loves a woman, he finds inner peace. A sense of belonging, a sense of release.It is you I cannot stop thinking about,. It is you that makes me happy.It is you that I love. Pinch me, am I dreaming? At the moment you penetrated my soul, my heart shattered into a billion grains of joy encircled in your arms .Our bodies and spirits connected. I felt you lift me from the realm of earthly consciousness and we soared on the rarefied breath of rapture with kisses, Swallowing the flood of my surrendering soul, I holding it inside your heart knowing it is a gift that you cannot take from me but reverently share with me.Waves crash over our heads.I cling to you, trusting you will not let me drown in this glorious ocean of rapture.Our bodies tumble with the fierce and gentle whims of the tide washed with saltwater and sand. Our love consolidates into a shining stone.My heart fills with unbearable gladness to know pure love that flows and grows with each moment. Contentedly buoyed in your arms...I float into sleep
Monday, November 18, 2013
FROM A FAN/ DATING: I WOULD BE YOUR BEST GIRLFRIEND EVER
10 Reasons Why I Would Be Your Best Girlfriend Ever:
10. You will see me wearing sexy lingerie more than “comfortable” undies. [I think this is fairly obvious.]
9. You won’t hear me nag and complain because I don’t sweat the small stuff. [Men loathe nagging and complaining. It's sandpaper on our eardrums and on our brains.]
8. You will be proud to have me on your arm when we go out in public and your friends will probably be envious. [Dresses, skirts, high heels makeup, and good hair. A man wants to take pride in the woman on his arm.]
7. You will never, ever compete with me. [Men compete with each other, not the woman in his life. competitiveness is a masculine trait.]
6. You will be nicely surprised when I kiss you passionately at unexpected times and in unexpected places. [Affection helps to bond a man to you.]
5. You will never see me roll my eyes at you when you say something because I will respect you. [Men want respect and even small signs of disrespect will drive a man away from you. Try that shit in public and I advise the man to walk away immediately without regret.]
4. You will see my smile far more often than my frown. [Negative feelings are mostly unnecessary drama for men. As the Swedes say about a good woman - she should be happy, horny, and grateful]
3. You will find yourself thinking seriously about my observations on life and current events. [Many men won't well tolerate a woman who only knows shopping and reality TV.]
2. You won’t be holding my purse at the shoe store. You won’t even BE at the shoe store with me. [Do you see that bored chump in the shoe store holding his girl's purse? 'Nuff said.]
1. You rarely, if ever, hear these awful words: “I’m not in the mood”. [Deny sex too often and he will deny or break his commitment. Go ahead ladies, try it. If he still sticks around anyway then you will quickly learn to loathe him.]
10. You will see me wearing sexy lingerie more than “comfortable” undies. [I think this is fairly obvious.]
9. You won’t hear me nag and complain because I don’t sweat the small stuff. [Men loathe nagging and complaining. It's sandpaper on our eardrums and on our brains.]
8. You will be proud to have me on your arm when we go out in public and your friends will probably be envious. [Dresses, skirts, high heels makeup, and good hair. A man wants to take pride in the woman on his arm.]
7. You will never, ever compete with me. [Men compete with each other, not the woman in his life. competitiveness is a masculine trait.]
6. You will be nicely surprised when I kiss you passionately at unexpected times and in unexpected places. [Affection helps to bond a man to you.]
5. You will never see me roll my eyes at you when you say something because I will respect you. [Men want respect and even small signs of disrespect will drive a man away from you. Try that shit in public and I advise the man to walk away immediately without regret.]
4. You will see my smile far more often than my frown. [Negative feelings are mostly unnecessary drama for men. As the Swedes say about a good woman - she should be happy, horny, and grateful]
3. You will find yourself thinking seriously about my observations on life and current events. [Many men won't well tolerate a woman who only knows shopping and reality TV.]
2. You won’t be holding my purse at the shoe store. You won’t even BE at the shoe store with me. [Do you see that bored chump in the shoe store holding his girl's purse? 'Nuff said.]
1. You rarely, if ever, hear these awful words: “I’m not in the mood”. [Deny sex too often and he will deny or break his commitment. Go ahead ladies, try it. If he still sticks around anyway then you will quickly learn to loathe him.]
PERSONAL : I AM NOT LIKE ANYONE ELSE
I'm not like anyone you've ever met before. Unless you've already met me... stalker. :-)
Sure, I could bore you with delusions of how wonderful I am, but lets face it, I'm sure you've already read this about two hundred times in all the other profiles... I believe that actions speak louder than words, so why bother?
A lot of people have told me that I'm "special" or "gifted". I think they're jealous that I can count to 10, or 20 with my shoes off, and even to 22 in the shower. (don't ask)
Anywhoo... I surround myself with optimistic people who are going somewhere in life, and no, I don't mean KFC. I'm very open-minded with an international outlook, a risk- taker who is always up for a new adventure. I love dogs, beaches, meaningful conversations, and self improvement.
I keep very busy and love my life. I don't have the time or inclination to date everyone under the sun anymore, and I have no problem meeting people. I'm extremely selective, and am just fine if I don't meet anyone on here... BUT, if you're someone really really really special, I'd love to have you along for the ride and make our already great lives that much better.
There's something very special about you. You are curious about the world around you. You can take a joke and are not easily offended. You believe that sarcasm is a spice of life. You can spell (without using spell check), and are generally happy. You want to see the world and travel, love to kiss, you cuddle like a cat on the sofa, and shag like a tiger in bed. You are thin, athletic, (curvy in the right places is a plus), your eyes are bright and convey the depth of your spirit. You are beautiful inside and out, and you think you can actually keep up with me.
The rest is negotiable. (well, you can’t be a blood relative)
Sure, I could bore you with delusions of how wonderful I am, but lets face it, I'm sure you've already read this about two hundred times in all the other profiles... I believe that actions speak louder than words, so why bother?
A lot of people have told me that I'm "special" or "gifted". I think they're jealous that I can count to 10, or 20 with my shoes off, and even to 22 in the shower. (don't ask)
Anywhoo... I surround myself with optimistic people who are going somewhere in life, and no, I don't mean KFC. I'm very open-minded with an international outlook, a risk- taker who is always up for a new adventure. I love dogs, beaches, meaningful conversations, and self improvement.
I keep very busy and love my life. I don't have the time or inclination to date everyone under the sun anymore, and I have no problem meeting people. I'm extremely selective, and am just fine if I don't meet anyone on here... BUT, if you're someone really really really special, I'd love to have you along for the ride and make our already great lives that much better.
There's something very special about you. You are curious about the world around you. You can take a joke and are not easily offended. You believe that sarcasm is a spice of life. You can spell (without using spell check), and are generally happy. You want to see the world and travel, love to kiss, you cuddle like a cat on the sofa, and shag like a tiger in bed. You are thin, athletic, (curvy in the right places is a plus), your eyes are bright and convey the depth of your spirit. You are beautiful inside and out, and you think you can actually keep up with me.
The rest is negotiable. (well, you can’t be a blood relative)
PERSONAL/ LOVE LETTER
Dear Love,
As i sat there and watched her sleep i saw her beauty every part of her body gives me this feeling that i can't contain it's been a long time since the last time i said i love myself let alone another, but something about her just gives me my life, i feel very free with her, everything disappears when i hold her, to have her arm around me heals my beaten soul and everything that has ever made me wonder about if there's someone that could help me or love me, now i know that there is someone and now i'm holding her, with her harmless eyes resting deep in sleep as her beautiful body sleeps i just wonder for how long this wonderful feeling will last for both of us... For with every breath.... I belong to you. Every movement I make... acknowledges how I belong to you. My eyes see nothing I belong to... except you. I lie still...and belong to you, I stand tall... and belong to you, I move through this world... and belong to you. Every ounce of my soul, my spirit, my body, is yours... full of desire... to belong to you.I awake and you are on my mind. I slumber and still you I find. My mind, my heart, my soul speaks nothing but your name. My lips long for a passionate kiss. filled with neve rending bliss. My body longs for your touch. I love you so much.You are MY LOVE.
As i sat there and watched her sleep i saw her beauty every part of her body gives me this feeling that i can't contain it's been a long time since the last time i said i love myself let alone another, but something about her just gives me my life, i feel very free with her, everything disappears when i hold her, to have her arm around me heals my beaten soul and everything that has ever made me wonder about if there's someone that could help me or love me, now i know that there is someone and now i'm holding her, with her harmless eyes resting deep in sleep as her beautiful body sleeps i just wonder for how long this wonderful feeling will last for both of us... For with every breath.... I belong to you. Every movement I make... acknowledges how I belong to you. My eyes see nothing I belong to... except you. I lie still...and belong to you, I stand tall... and belong to you, I move through this world... and belong to you. Every ounce of my soul, my spirit, my body, is yours... full of desire... to belong to you.I awake and you are on my mind. I slumber and still you I find. My mind, my heart, my soul speaks nothing but your name. My lips long for a passionate kiss. filled with neve rending bliss. My body longs for your touch. I love you so much.You are MY LOVE.
PERSONAL/LOVE LETTER: MY LOVE
My Love, adoring angel, who was sent from above.I would give you anything and everything that I hold dear for something to assure me that you'll always be near. You see, it was not your looks that captured my heart. My shallowness you mistook for I loved you from the start. Just as these words form a feeling of mine. I yearn to be with you, anywhere, anyplace ...everywhere, every time. It is that very thing which holds our relationship true...TIME...The best gift that I could give you. Besides the love and beyond the romance, the most satisfying moment was when our eyes met at first glance. Those eyes that sparkle like the morning dew.You are the one. The thought I let replicate in pleasure. The droplet of softness reaching for me through all time involved with much pain distraught and slowly closing inside.. You've been the only one who I've ever believed could bring me the vast oil-painting of the sky to forever give me the feeling I've been searching for without ever having the joy of swirling in it. A feeling even i don't know exists until you show itself to me. You are the one the gentle emotion that had long ago settled in me. An image that could never be shaken loose from the ends of this heart.I know it's you who will mend the wrongs the agonies plaintively mourning in my scars. You are the one..The taste of heaven lies upon your lips. I feel it with my trembling fingertips. You touch my lips and grant my wish. I'm engulfed in a pool, your pool, our pool of love. It surrounds me with a cool, calm and comforting feeling. That makes me want to surrender to it all.
Friday, November 15, 2013
PERSONAL/LOVE LETTER: DEAR SOULMATE..THIS EVENING
Dear Soulmate
This evening is filled with rapture, the stars that glimmer are shining so bright. I ate my dinner. I took my shower, got ready for the next day. I chose to end the remaining hours of my day typing on the keyboard as I lay. I think of you tonight and those thoughts gas up my imagination,cutting an incision into my soul, These verses I write are your creation.Tonight I have no worries about staying up and concentrating on you.I have to get up in the morning to go to work and here it is 12:22. But no worries, with thoughts of you. I feel so much peace. It feels like a break away from life underneath a moonlit sky in the east. I burn a candle tonight and incense smoke lingers through the air. A glass of wine stands by my side.Into the computer screen I begin to stare, and again I think on you. If only you were here with me. If only you knew and could see the things my mind paints so vividly. I am quite sure that from that point in time until the time you leave. You would have agreed that night was a night you were pleased. Tonight I am so lonely but yet occupied with your beauty and grace. My mind spins back the times when I first witnessed you within the same space. I saw a strong woman whom I wished had the time for this strong man,When I met you my thoughts went to London, Paris, Italy, and back to this part of the land.How could I explain it other than to say sometimes you melt like ice. Sometimes all it takes is a vision which makes a decision that can change your life. I was curious but, yet, cautious like an animal exploring new terrain.Each time I entered your territory there I stood and wanted to remain. I was glad to meet you, under any other circumstance .I would have kissed your hand just out of kindness to show you what kind of man I am. I like the vibration you set in the place along with the scent you place in the air. Your appearance defined my style of beauty each time my eyes began to stare.You are the breath I breathe,You are the reason I'm here.My breathing becomes faster when you're so close. All that i am, all that i feel, i'm burning for you, with every breathe i breath wanting you more...my heart is no longer my own. You have come to water my heart, to keep it alive just a little while more...you see that it's thirsty, this you know. Like the ocean is my love for you. Thousands of fathoms deep.Filled in my mind are you While I'm awake or in sleep.
This evening is filled with rapture, the stars that glimmer are shining so bright. I ate my dinner. I took my shower, got ready for the next day. I chose to end the remaining hours of my day typing on the keyboard as I lay. I think of you tonight and those thoughts gas up my imagination,cutting an incision into my soul, These verses I write are your creation.Tonight I have no worries about staying up and concentrating on you.I have to get up in the morning to go to work and here it is 12:22. But no worries, with thoughts of you. I feel so much peace. It feels like a break away from life underneath a moonlit sky in the east. I burn a candle tonight and incense smoke lingers through the air. A glass of wine stands by my side.Into the computer screen I begin to stare, and again I think on you. If only you were here with me. If only you knew and could see the things my mind paints so vividly. I am quite sure that from that point in time until the time you leave. You would have agreed that night was a night you were pleased. Tonight I am so lonely but yet occupied with your beauty and grace. My mind spins back the times when I first witnessed you within the same space. I saw a strong woman whom I wished had the time for this strong man,When I met you my thoughts went to London, Paris, Italy, and back to this part of the land.How could I explain it other than to say sometimes you melt like ice. Sometimes all it takes is a vision which makes a decision that can change your life. I was curious but, yet, cautious like an animal exploring new terrain.Each time I entered your territory there I stood and wanted to remain. I was glad to meet you, under any other circumstance .I would have kissed your hand just out of kindness to show you what kind of man I am. I like the vibration you set in the place along with the scent you place in the air. Your appearance defined my style of beauty each time my eyes began to stare.You are the breath I breathe,You are the reason I'm here.My breathing becomes faster when you're so close. All that i am, all that i feel, i'm burning for you, with every breathe i breath wanting you more...my heart is no longer my own. You have come to water my heart, to keep it alive just a little while more...you see that it's thirsty, this you know. Like the ocean is my love for you. Thousands of fathoms deep.Filled in my mind are you While I'm awake or in sleep.
Thursday, November 14, 2013
PERSONAL/ LOVE LETTER: DREAMS
Dear Soulmate,
Dreams were meant for dreamers,so a dreamer I will be;For now that is the only way I have you here with me.Every night when I lay down and close my eyes to sleep; I drift away to my own lil' world where you are mine to keep... ...Then morning brings the pain again and then soon I must realize;That with each passing day the early light must rise.So night time is my special friend, my secret hide away;Where I can go to be with you...and forget the coming day.How I?d like to hold your hand...walk -run away- run home again, hand in hand, in wonderland -in a dream,and not letting go of your hand. I'm drawn to your tender lips To feel them, to touch them.To trace them with my finger tips .They hold so much beauty. Soft like a rose and so petite.So seductive, intriguing and enticing.Their allure captivating and sweet.The feel so sensuous, so lush.The sensation of your lips upon mine Their taste bursting with passion like strawberries fresh of the vine. I long for the touch of your lips.The desire for a kiss grows strong like the bee on the petal of a rose.Your lips on mine are where they belong. To love someone is a frightful thing. To open oneself and allow them in. To tear down those walls.Those barriers you've built. To expose your heart at all. To give up control.To allow them to know.To trust without reason To accept imperfections. To go on through the seasons.To never run out of affection
Dreams were meant for dreamers,so a dreamer I will be;For now that is the only way I have you here with me.Every night when I lay down and close my eyes to sleep; I drift away to my own lil' world where you are mine to keep... ...Then morning brings the pain again and then soon I must realize;That with each passing day the early light must rise.So night time is my special friend, my secret hide away;Where I can go to be with you...and forget the coming day.How I?d like to hold your hand...walk -run away- run home again, hand in hand, in wonderland -in a dream,and not letting go of your hand. I'm drawn to your tender lips To feel them, to touch them.To trace them with my finger tips .They hold so much beauty. Soft like a rose and so petite.So seductive, intriguing and enticing.Their allure captivating and sweet.The feel so sensuous, so lush.The sensation of your lips upon mine Their taste bursting with passion like strawberries fresh of the vine. I long for the touch of your lips.The desire for a kiss grows strong like the bee on the petal of a rose.Your lips on mine are where they belong. To love someone is a frightful thing. To open oneself and allow them in. To tear down those walls.Those barriers you've built. To expose your heart at all. To give up control.To allow them to know.To trust without reason To accept imperfections. To go on through the seasons.To never run out of affection
/LOVE/DATING: VIRTUAL WOMAN....
Virtual woman, I embrace you. Once harbored in my dreams as a fantasy, hope and aspiration which fueled my fire, my quest for my queen, my soul-mate.Virtual woman, like an angel you spread your holy wings of joy over my battered heart. With gentle breaths you revive my soul; with inspiration, and unconditional love.Virtual woman, your DNA matches! Like a carbon copy, reflecting my better half; reminding me of a potential, I had long forgoten. Virtual woman, you are sent by God,because your love is like no other.Like radiation's rays, your love penetrates my soul, causing its molecules to vibrate with joy in your presence.
PERSONAL/ JOURNAL/DATING: RECALLING ONE OF MY FIRST ONLINE DATE
I never really meant to start internet dating, but after getting divorce from a 5 year marriage and realizing my circle of single friends had dwindled as I'd got older, and I didn't want to date someone at work, as that's always struck me as complicated and potentially disastrous. Unfortunately, while I was handsome, intelligent, funny, healthy, have a great job, great family and normal, that gave me no guarantee that the person I'd meet would be the same. On my first online date, the girl thought she'd sexily nibble me over dessert: unfortunately, her "sexy nibble" was actually an incredibly hard bite and I ended up screaming in pain, bleeding all over the table and walking away thinking she was completely mental. It was only a week later, that bite wound was infected. So yeah, an infected human-bite wound. Beat that for a dating story.While this was clearly one of the worst dates ever
PERSONAL/JOURNAL/ LOVE/ DATING: THIS SEARCH FOR LOVE
I have been on this journey in search of love for as long as I can remember. The great love. The Notebook, Nicholas Sparks happy ending love.The love that gets you out of the bed in the middle of the night to drive ten hours. The love that has us on the living room floor thankful in laughter. Foolish boy as I was, I thought across the decades I had found it. So many long term relationships, was married once before. Each time, more hopeful and when it turned out not to be it, not to be the love of a lifetime, I felt like less of myself. It’s that going back and forth. It’s the watching of others coupling and doing all of the things you want to do. I think you reach a point when you wonder when is it my turn?. And it’s not just that, it’s that your friends wonder when it will be your turn too. They gently prod and ask. They worry about the dating decisions you’re making. When I tell you I have done some crazy shit in the name of love? There isn’t anything you can tell me you’ve done that I haven’t done or came close to doing. There isn’t much I haven’t considered doing. You see, the way I’m wired – I will do anything for love. I will do whatever I need to do to make sure the one I love knows they’re loved. Call me a fool, but I would rather be a fool with the love of my life in my bed than the smartest person in the room who has no one to go home to.I have always search for someone to appreciate me in a way I hadn’t seen before. I’ve given multiple chances when there shouldn’t have been any. I’ve dealt with ridiculous rules, dates, orders and mandates – all in the hopes the woman I loved would love me. I’ve laughed a lot. I’ve cried – a lot. I can honestly admit I’ve been flipped inside out.
The reality is my love story is still unfolding. It’s just those of us who manage to have our hopes high and our love quotient even higher are always willing to think, to believe that it’s a miracle I mean, for me – love is all consuming. Like a Phoenix who catches fire. I forego everything for someone else when I’m in love. I’m servant by nature. But I want someone who wants to serve me the same way. For so many of us, love has either become all we think about and all we focus on or we’ve abandoned the idea of it completely. What if we’re supposed to live fully without it? Could you deal and handle that idea? I can't
We are always searching for the intimate and close love. A love transcending time, circumstance and even death. The wife who validates you, who sees you intimately. Who loves you in a way no other person can. Although she hasn’t found me yet – or maybe she has – and hasn’t told me, I will honestly tell you I look for it every day – still. Around every corner. In the eyes of those I love. I look for it. I can’t help it. I think it’s part of my path. But the things I’ve learned along the way in search of the perfect love, have ultimately taught me I was loved. I am loved in ways I hadn’t thought possible. It’s taught me about love, about myself and about the things we most yearn for in the quiet hours of our lives.
The reality is my love story is still unfolding. It’s just those of us who manage to have our hopes high and our love quotient even higher are always willing to think, to believe that it’s a miracle I mean, for me – love is all consuming. Like a Phoenix who catches fire. I forego everything for someone else when I’m in love. I’m servant by nature. But I want someone who wants to serve me the same way. For so many of us, love has either become all we think about and all we focus on or we’ve abandoned the idea of it completely. What if we’re supposed to live fully without it? Could you deal and handle that idea? I can't
We are always searching for the intimate and close love. A love transcending time, circumstance and even death. The wife who validates you, who sees you intimately. Who loves you in a way no other person can. Although she hasn’t found me yet – or maybe she has – and hasn’t told me, I will honestly tell you I look for it every day – still. Around every corner. In the eyes of those I love. I look for it. I can’t help it. I think it’s part of my path. But the things I’ve learned along the way in search of the perfect love, have ultimately taught me I was loved. I am loved in ways I hadn’t thought possible. It’s taught me about love, about myself and about the things we most yearn for in the quiet hours of our lives.
FROM A FAN
The funny thing about sex and money is this. Take any man off the street, well from the majority. A "normal" healthy nice male, middle aged, with no extremely bad past, like being a mercenary, spy, abused child, rape victim, terroist recruit, etc. they all want the same thing. Put 2 thousand dollars in their hand and tell them they can have whatever girl they want for 24 hours and do whatever they want. Yes, they will all like different types, big small, pale dark, artsy or nerdy, old or younger. And they might have different favorite positions, like oral sex more or less, or anal. Different levels of roughness and kinkiness. But I swear give a man money and tell him he can have whatever he wants for a night and all the normal nice ones, will want the same.
Given that it the girl with the most perfect appearance according to them, they all want something quite normal. A good kisser, a girl that actually cums, a girl that will swallow, but most importantly the thing that all men really secretively seek and if could if it were possible would even pay for is love. If they could have whatever they wanted, if they could own a woman for a night, most men would want her and the irony is that is the one thing you cant buy
Wednesday, November 13, 2013
PERSONAL/ LOVE LETTER: WE ARE LIKE TWO TWIN SUN
Dear Soulmate
We are like two brilliant twin Suns, circling the universe, sustained in travel, by the fuel that is our Sun's giving hearts. In search of that special person or match, who will rekindle our own love's fire. Waiting to find and fulfill our destiny, allowing us shine eternally brighter. Searching for that feeling that we are needed as well as, waiting to utilize and share our internal and eternal warmth, for it is our nature. My love, you and I resided in the same orbit so long ago as two twin Sun's. For a hot and tender moment we joined together, creating a warmth and heat that could be felt throughout our complicated universe. We drifted apart, though destiny brought us together again. You and I circled the entire universe, seeing and experiencing so many things. Never finding or replicating the feeling of eternal brightness and completion that we experienced years ago. Now our orbit's gravity is strong. We have learned how to navigate our Sun's heart. We now fulfill our destiny and merge together to create one magnificent, bright and brilliant Sun. Our Sun's heart mergees. Together we emit a warmth and heat that will never again drift or burn out. We have found our place in the universe, joined together as one brilliant Sun, fixed in our destiny's universal home. Together we have the power to keep each others Suns hearts eternally blazing, as well as the power to warm our loves universe and all that is around us. You were my Twin sun and my eternal heat. Now we are eternally one. You are the flame that sustains my hearts warmth, keeping my Suns heart burning forever. We shine together as one... now and forever.Only you can make me happy. I see the sun in your smile, the moon in your eyes and the eagle flying in your soul.You are the love of my life,the other half of my soul.You hold my heart in your hand. You are life to me.And when you love me (like only you can do) my heart and soul flys to meet you.Our spirits join. I love you like no other. Only you have touched the hidden places in my soul. I will love you forever.
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