The love I feel for you
no one can ever change
You are the one I think
of when I wake up and go to
sleep...
I wish you were here for me
to hold you in my arms
And to be able to tell
you how I care for you
One day all this will
come about
And I shall show all the
love I hold for you
Just for now I want you
to know that I do love you
And will carry you in
my heart forever...
To the one that holds
my heart...
2
The light peeks in as I open one eye,
A warmth I can feel lying beside me.
I hear a movement and hear her sigh,
A comfort that overwhelms me.
I begin to think of the new day?s events,
There is so much in this life of mine.
I ponder and wonder if it all makes sense...
I guess this will be answered in time.
I hear a whisper in a very faint tone.
I turn to see the movement of her lips.
Pretty and full, always well shown,
Her beauty brings me back into grips.
Now I know what gives me my will,
As my heart pounds like I?ve run a mile.
Another day to get through, yet still,
I know that she will make it worth while.
3
Engulfed in her fires
I moved to catch her kiss
I dared not blink
For I feared that I might miss.
Yet she slowed down time
And gave me such a rush
That's when I told her how I felt
I saw her face begin to blush.
That is when I knew
That this was more than mere infatuation
I was finally a king
And our feelings required contemplation.
The fires burned hot
And we made such beautiful love
To coin a simple phrase:
She fit me like a glove.
I know that this is real
For it had been so many years
Now my only desire is
To quell all of her fears.
Perhaps I am not worthy
Of the passion she has for me
If such a thing is true
Then I hope she never sees.
I will be her man
I will be her shining knight
I will be the one
That takes her heart to new heights.
And for all time
I know that one thing will be true
I will not be lying
When I tell her "I love you"
4
This heart once pregnant
with love songs and
beauty of wealth,
with rhythm of life and
paths of glory to come.
This heart is mindful
of love's lingering light and
spills of pride,
of threats of joy and
pious drops of eye's cheerful tears.
This heart provides
magnitude of meekness and
solemn stillness it holds,
of golden dreams that
fears have no power to drown.
This heart eyes read
your history of love
perished in bittersweet despair,
and finally become your
deep-reaching fountain of truth.
5
Furtively thou crawled into my life;
Never did I know
would become a permanent citizen here.
Oh how much I love thee
I really cannot tell.
These three words are too less to express
The intense feeling I have for thee.
Day in and day out
Now I have thee on my mind.
Thoughts of thee make me blush;
Eyes bright with lust.
Now with thou in my life
I close the doors;
For with thou in my life
I want no more.
I close my eyes to all;
As no one else they
Intend to see since thee
Now reside in them.
Voice of thee
Ignites the passion burning in me.
The soft words
Kiss me each time;
Telling how much thou
Love me.
I hope my heart thou does not brake.
I pray for thou & for ourself.
6
A relationship is like a rose
How long it lasts, no one knows
Love can erase an awful past
Love can be yours, you'll see at last.
To feel that love, it makes you sigh
To have it leave, you'd rather die
You hope you've found that special rose
You love and care for the one you chose
7
Tonight....I smiled
when my mind turned to you,
remembering times of joy
when only your love would do....
My heart felt the call
whether near or far....
Standing on a lonely beach,..
or gazing at a solitary star....
The world was full of life,
Colours swirled in and out of me,
The sound of rain delighted us,
our passions had been set free....
Nights were brighter while
the days stood strangely still...
we walked alone yet together,
upon roads that led uphill...
In time your heart and mine
found the rhythm of light
the world was a playground,
each day was even more right...
So much time has passed us now,
yet here you are still,
my passion, my heart, my life....
I love you......and I always will...
8
Come to think, a slight wink,
the touch of your hand.
That was all it took, to get me hooked,
I just can't understand.
How you succeeded, totally completed,
A change in me I never sought for.
Now I'm thinking, can't stop seeking,
An explanation as to what is in store.
Is it destiny?
Was this meant to be?
Yes that is what I believe.
I could be wrong, time to find out not long,
my goal I will achieve.
To make you mine again,
You're the only one I need.
So this is for you my love,
there is no one else above.
Whom I adore, my love so true.
Only for you will I save,
my mind, body and soul for.
9
The night sparkled when the stars shone bright.
Upon the wintery field
there was a girl who held my hand,
though she was a mystery to you.
I know who the beautiful maiden is,
when she ran away, I raced to her.
And then I heard an angel voice,
it was her songs of the night.
We dance the moonlight dance
and our love continues on,
as the moonlight keeps going on.
We look into each other?s eyes
and share a kiss that will last all our lives.
10
I know you... you're the song I knew by heart before we ever met;
My warm thoughts when the nights were as cold as they could get.
You're the sweet smile of every blue-eyed boy I see.
Wherever you are... is where I long to be.
I know you... you're that walk I love taking along the shore.
You're the wind in my hair when I'm feeling free.
The one who knows my thoughts and says them,
Sometimes, even before me.
I know you... you're the sea air caressing my cheek;
The rose on my pillow that lets me know I can still love...
That sunrise, so amazing it takes my breath away;
The clouds that feather the summer sky above.
But sometimes I wonder if you really feel it, too.
I wonder if you know me... the way I know you.
11
To voice all that I feel for you
would take eternity...
all love so bold, so intense,
only understood by you and me.
With your absence, missing you,
I sit and patiently wait...
until you're back where you belong,
when I'm finally holding my mate,
your tight grip holding me close,
your lips pressed against mine.
Just the concept of this feeling
was worth all the gone, past time.
To say I love you is not enough
to express what I endure.
If you would ever leave me,
my heart would ever be so sore.
I am searching for my future wife/soulmate. Please stop by again.
Friday, May 31, 2013
Wednesday, May 29, 2013
REVIEW: BEHIND THE CANDELABRA
I was watching the HBO Behind the Candelabra this weekend. A love story about Liberace) and Scott Thorson. I think the best part of the movie was when Liberace called Scott to his death bed after not talking to him for so many year and told him that he was the happiest with him. People won’t remember what clothes you wore, which car you drove, and maybe not even your full name. But they will remember how you made them feel and the positive memories you gave them.
Love is not the problem. – Don’t blame love if a failed relationship interfered with your other important relationships, or robbed you of your self-esteem and personal freedoms. No, don’t blame love. For it wasn’t love that stole from you. It was possession. It was obsession. It was manipulation. It was confusion. Love had nothing to do with your situation. For love doesn’t close the door against all that is good. It opens it wide to let more goodness in. Love creates freedom and abundance.
Love is not the problem. – Don’t blame love if a failed relationship interfered with your other important relationships, or robbed you of your self-esteem and personal freedoms. No, don’t blame love. For it wasn’t love that stole from you. It was possession. It was obsession. It was manipulation. It was confusion. Love had nothing to do with your situation. For love doesn’t close the door against all that is good. It opens it wide to let more goodness in. Love creates freedom and abundance.
MY LANGUAGE OF LOVE
How do you know when you loved? We all have different language that communicates to us that his person loves us. I don't think there is ANYTHING more important than to know what YOU need to feel the MOST loved
I've taken this a step further - you might even feel that you fit into more than one category or you are a little bit of each one, but there will be ONE of them that you cannot live without when you are with someone. And I have found that some of the most common romantic compatibility problems come from being with someone who is not your compatible love language!
1-Physical Affection: Some people feel the most loved if you GIVE THEM AFFECTION all the time -- hold their hand, hug them, kiss them, spoon them, give them massages, play with their hair, scratch their back, snuggle them on the couch or in bed, etc. To me ..it's sex.
2-Words of Affirmation: Some people feel really loved if you SAY things to them like, "You are really smart. You are so funny. You are very sexy. I love you....you are beautiful
3-Acts of Service: Some people feel really loved if you DO things for them: do the dishes, make the bed, cook them dinner, clean the house, put gas in their car, iron their shirts, etc.
4-Receiving Gifts: Some people feel really loved if you GIVE them something all the time – a book, a card, a CD, they want you to bring them back a souvenir if you've gone on a trip, or just any type of gift that says you were thinking of them.
5-Quantity Time: Some people feel really loved if you SPEND A LOT OF TIME with them. This is not the same as "quality time"… EVERYONE wants quality time, but "quantity time" people feel loved if they can spend as much time with you as possible. Given their choice, they would see you every night of the week and all weekend. They'll say things like, "I need to run a bunch of errands today. Will you just come along with me?"
I am searching for my future wife/soulmate. Please stop by again.
I've taken this a step further - you might even feel that you fit into more than one category or you are a little bit of each one, but there will be ONE of them that you cannot live without when you are with someone. And I have found that some of the most common romantic compatibility problems come from being with someone who is not your compatible love language!
1-Physical Affection: Some people feel the most loved if you GIVE THEM AFFECTION all the time -- hold their hand, hug them, kiss them, spoon them, give them massages, play with their hair, scratch their back, snuggle them on the couch or in bed, etc. To me ..it's sex.
2-Words of Affirmation: Some people feel really loved if you SAY things to them like, "You are really smart. You are so funny. You are very sexy. I love you....you are beautiful
3-Acts of Service: Some people feel really loved if you DO things for them: do the dishes, make the bed, cook them dinner, clean the house, put gas in their car, iron their shirts, etc.
4-Receiving Gifts: Some people feel really loved if you GIVE them something all the time – a book, a card, a CD, they want you to bring them back a souvenir if you've gone on a trip, or just any type of gift that says you were thinking of them.
5-Quantity Time: Some people feel really loved if you SPEND A LOT OF TIME with them. This is not the same as "quality time"… EVERYONE wants quality time, but "quantity time" people feel loved if they can spend as much time with you as possible. Given their choice, they would see you every night of the week and all weekend. They'll say things like, "I need to run a bunch of errands today. Will you just come along with me?"
I am searching for my future wife/soulmate. Please stop by again.
Saturday, May 25, 2013
PERSONAL: HAVE YOU EVER NOTICE
Have you ever noticed that some of the best things in life seem to happen by chance?
Not the meticulously planned party, but that spontaneous gathering where you find yourself laughing into the early hours.
That incredible wilderness view you stumble upon, while skiing in the mountains, simply because you took a wrong turn.
That chance encounter or that kiss you weren’t expecting.
That song you downloaded by mistake, only to have it reach inside and touch you.
Do you move around off the beaten track or even exist somewhere in the wilderness?
The Tooth Fairy isn’t real.
If you hear a drumbeat at night, that’s me sending you a message.
Every day is a lucky day.
Doing something, in the moment, just for the hell of it and because you feel like it.
This profile comes with a money back guarantee. If you’re not completely satisfied within 28 days, you can return back to boring times and mediocre guys, absolutely free of charge.
I’ve invented a new color.
Last night I lay in bed, looking up at the stars in the night sky and got to thinking………. where the hell’s the roof gone!!!
I hate fantasies because they always come true.
My superhero power is flying. I’ve almost mastered it. Unfortunately, they keep pushing me off the ledge and I still keep landing with a thud. But I’m optimistic. At the moment, I like to think that I fall with style.
I’m 5′ 7″ on paper but 6′ 1″ when you tickle me.
I once lost a needle in a haystack – and found it.
I tend to float on a stream of consciousness in the hope of discovering something new.
“Frankly, my dear, I don’t give a damn”
Boring, predictable and uninspiring are the guys who contact you and say “Hi, I like your profile, check out mine, we have so much in common”.
My carpet cleans itself.
By the way, even Superheros like to fish.
2
I am at a point in life where I am looking for a long term relationship (Marriage..and kids) within the next year or so... Looking for the whole deal...love, passion and a fire that keeps burning :)
WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR:
Graduate degree or higher education so we are at par and able to communicate. Makes enough money, so I am sure you're not interested in my earning potential alone :)
While I am perfectly capable of taking care of myself, I do crave that special feeling that the right woman generate....that makes a man feel, loved, cherished ..are you the one to do that? In turn I would make you the center of my universe.
I am very traditional in my views about marriage...for that reason it is essential that my woman possess certain qualities...in order for me to be able to respect her and have a balanced relationship. I like a woman who is a woman.
Ideally, she should have equivalent education or at least finish college and have an interest in making the world a better place. She should be someone I can look up to - intelligent, confident, optimistic, family oriented, successful and broad-minded. Honor and integrity are major turn ons for me. Belief in a higher power and purpose is a "must have".
I know what I bring to a relationship and expect the same in return....that's not asking for much is it? I am not designed to settle for less :) When in a committed relationship, I love and give freely and trust completely - no secrets, manipulation or egotism...
RANDOM FACTS ABOUT ME
-- You will find me to be refreshingly honest, that and the lack of manipulation is what keeps me looking young :)
-- If I fall in love with you, you will feel like the luckiest woman alive, because you will be the center of my universe...I do expect the same in return though...you knew there was a catch...didn't you?
-- I can find contentment and happiness with very little, but conversely, I can be very driven and determined once I set my mind on something. I love challenges and ALWAYS finish what I start
-- I am very passionate about my work as well as life outside of work
-- While I am "responsible" - I love being spontaneous
-- I am VERY self sufficient and have no addictions, diseases or debts and an excellent credit rating...in my mind that reflects character and sound judgement....you should be able to say the same
-- I like to keep an open mind. I have been accused of seeing other's point of view too readily...but I choose to be that way
-- I have limitless ability to love, forgive and be optimistic...if what we have or create together is special and unique
-- I have never been jealous...but I do believe very strongly that the only relationship worth having is an exclusive one
3
According to law of attraction, if you are interesting in manifesting your soulmate one of the best ways to allow what you want into your life is to "tell a new story" about it.The idea is that instead of focusing on WHAT IS, you focus on WHAT YOU WANT. Abraham-Hicks mention that when you read it, YOU FEEL GOOD -- you feel like, "Ah, there you are. I know you are here with me now. I can already feel what it is like to be together. You are awesome!" And then you let go and let the Universe do it's job coordinating all the components of the how, when, and where you will meet your ideal woman You allow the Law of Attraction to bring you the relationship you want. I decided to give this a try...so here's an example of telling a true love soulmate story
All I want to do is think about my true love soulmate -- the awesome woman that I can't wait to meet. I bet she's looking forward to meeting me too and having a wonderful relationship together! She's the woman I've waited my whole life to be with!! And I'm the man she's waited her whole life to be with!!! When we meet, it will be like we've known each other forever!!
When I think about her wonderful qualities, I can't help but be joyful!! She's smart and funny and she laughs at everything, especially my jokes. She gets me and my sense of humor. She's so easy to talk to and we never run out of conversation. WE HAVE SO MUCH FUN TOGETHER! She's open and honest and forthright with me about everything. She's reliable, responsible, trustworthy, respectful of me, my time, and my things, and she always makes me feel important and like a priority to her.
I think she's beautiful and when I look at her I think, "She's so dam beautiful". She's super attracted to me too and thinks I'm handsome. She tells me that I'm handsome and how much she loves my body and my personality. She's physical affection as much as me. I loves to kiss her all the time. She is slim with long beautiful hair and her eyes looks right into my soul.
We always have such a great time together -- talking about everything, agreeing on things that are important to me and laughing and giggling about everything. She's doing well financially and he's happy with her work and current career path and plans on continuing on it because it brings him joy! And she's good with his money.She has friends and family that support her and love her. She loves Long Island and want to get married soon and have children as well. She constantly surprise me with gifts. And I would do the same and write love lettters and poetry to her all the time.
She eats healthfully like I do. She exercises regularly and takes good care of her body. We have a good time together even doing the most mundane things like grocery shopping.She loves going out but is a homebody like me. I'm so in love with her already. She's supportive of my personal growth work and wants to deepen our relationship emotionally and takes action to do so.
Our sex life is amazing! She really listens to me when I explain what I like and she DOES what I like and she's GREAT at it! She doesn't say NO and is adventrous.
Her positive aspects are easy to recall at all times. She's easy to love and she's emotionally warm and close and easy to talk to and easy to be around and happy and in love with me too. She is ALL IN from the get-go! She calls or texts me every day and sometimes a couple of times a day just to say hi and see how I'm doing. And she wants to be in a serious relationship with me. She loves me like no one else ever has! We meet and we are DONE, COMPLETE AND THE CIRCLE OF LIFE IS FINISHED! She not only wants to marry me, take care of me, and love me forever, but She DOES THOSE THINGS! AND, that remains constant and our love deepens and grows as times goes on… this is the relationship I've waited my life to have and I'm loving every minute of it! I have finally found my true love soulmate!
4-WHAT I AM NOT
I’m not gonna bore you by talking about how I’m a great guy with brown eyes, a great smile, and a sharp sense of humor. I’m also not going to drone on about how totally awesome and sexy I am. (That should be obvious!) Instead, I’m going to tell you what I'm NOT about: I AM NOT A JERK, so if you're turned on by guys who are rude, mean, like to use you and abuse you or whatever, then you need to click away right now. I AM NOT A BROKE LOSER. I have a house and a car. So if you're looking for a guy who's constantly spending all his time working just to afford beer, or mooching off you in some way, that's not me. I DON'T USER DRUGS OR DRINK, so if you're looking for a guy to smoke meth and/or crack with while chugging a bottle of jack, move along. I'm high on life baby. I don't spend my time with computer games. I AM NOT A STALKER, and I am not desperate. I know I'm a great catch for any woman, so if you want some insecure guy who's obsessed with you, I'm afraid that won't happen here. I'M NOT A HEALTH NUT. I do take care of myself, but I am not a body builder. So if you're only looking for muscle-bound guys who like to spend more time at the gym than they do with you, move along. I'M NOT ABUSIVE and would never physically harm a girl, so if you feel the need to be with a creep who beats on you and treats you like crap, please, for the love of God, do not waste my time because I would never ever hurt a woman. I am very close to my family..
With all that said...that's not to say my experiences with dating and relationships have been a cakewalk. A lot of woman are clueless and their priority are totally messed up.When it comes to choosing a husband, only one thing really, truly matters: character. So it stands to reason that a man's character should be at the top of the list of things you are looking for, right? But if you're not married, I already know it isn't. Because if you were looking for a man of character,you would have found one by now. Men of character are, by definition, willing to commit. Instead, most woman are looking for GQ model or someone rich. Or someone who knows what an Eames chair is. Unfortunately, this is not the thinking of a wife. This is the thinking of a teenaged girl. And men of character do not want to marry teenaged girls. Because teenage girls are never happy. And they never feel like cooking, either.
The reality is, only a handful truly fit the mold of what being the woman a man truly needs and desires.The deal is: most men just want to marry someone who is nice to them. The bottom line is that marriage is just a long-term opportunity to practice loving someone even when they don't deserve it. Because most of the time, your messy, farting, macaroni-and-cheese eating man will not be doing what you want him to. But as you give him love anyway -- because you have made up your mind to transform yourself into a person who is practicing being kind, deep, virtuous, truthful, giving, and most of all, accepting of your own dear self -- you will find that you will experience the very thing you wanted all along:
Love.
So if you haven't been scared off by now, we may actually have something here! So send me an email with your number. I dare you. I double-dog dare you. :-P
Not the meticulously planned party, but that spontaneous gathering where you find yourself laughing into the early hours.
That incredible wilderness view you stumble upon, while skiing in the mountains, simply because you took a wrong turn.
That chance encounter or that kiss you weren’t expecting.
That song you downloaded by mistake, only to have it reach inside and touch you.
Do you move around off the beaten track or even exist somewhere in the wilderness?
The Tooth Fairy isn’t real.
If you hear a drumbeat at night, that’s me sending you a message.
Every day is a lucky day.
Doing something, in the moment, just for the hell of it and because you feel like it.
This profile comes with a money back guarantee. If you’re not completely satisfied within 28 days, you can return back to boring times and mediocre guys, absolutely free of charge.
I’ve invented a new color.
Last night I lay in bed, looking up at the stars in the night sky and got to thinking………. where the hell’s the roof gone!!!
I hate fantasies because they always come true.
My superhero power is flying. I’ve almost mastered it. Unfortunately, they keep pushing me off the ledge and I still keep landing with a thud. But I’m optimistic. At the moment, I like to think that I fall with style.
I’m 5′ 7″ on paper but 6′ 1″ when you tickle me.
I once lost a needle in a haystack – and found it.
I tend to float on a stream of consciousness in the hope of discovering something new.
“Frankly, my dear, I don’t give a damn”
Boring, predictable and uninspiring are the guys who contact you and say “Hi, I like your profile, check out mine, we have so much in common”.
My carpet cleans itself.
By the way, even Superheros like to fish.
2
I am at a point in life where I am looking for a long term relationship (Marriage..and kids) within the next year or so... Looking for the whole deal...love, passion and a fire that keeps burning :)
WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR:
Graduate degree or higher education so we are at par and able to communicate. Makes enough money, so I am sure you're not interested in my earning potential alone :)
While I am perfectly capable of taking care of myself, I do crave that special feeling that the right woman generate....that makes a man feel, loved, cherished ..are you the one to do that? In turn I would make you the center of my universe.
I am very traditional in my views about marriage...for that reason it is essential that my woman possess certain qualities...in order for me to be able to respect her and have a balanced relationship. I like a woman who is a woman.
Ideally, she should have equivalent education or at least finish college and have an interest in making the world a better place. She should be someone I can look up to - intelligent, confident, optimistic, family oriented, successful and broad-minded. Honor and integrity are major turn ons for me. Belief in a higher power and purpose is a "must have".
I know what I bring to a relationship and expect the same in return....that's not asking for much is it? I am not designed to settle for less :) When in a committed relationship, I love and give freely and trust completely - no secrets, manipulation or egotism...
RANDOM FACTS ABOUT ME
-- You will find me to be refreshingly honest, that and the lack of manipulation is what keeps me looking young :)
-- If I fall in love with you, you will feel like the luckiest woman alive, because you will be the center of my universe...I do expect the same in return though...you knew there was a catch...didn't you?
-- I can find contentment and happiness with very little, but conversely, I can be very driven and determined once I set my mind on something. I love challenges and ALWAYS finish what I start
-- I am very passionate about my work as well as life outside of work
-- While I am "responsible" - I love being spontaneous
-- I am VERY self sufficient and have no addictions, diseases or debts and an excellent credit rating...in my mind that reflects character and sound judgement....you should be able to say the same
-- I like to keep an open mind. I have been accused of seeing other's point of view too readily...but I choose to be that way
-- I have limitless ability to love, forgive and be optimistic...if what we have or create together is special and unique
-- I have never been jealous...but I do believe very strongly that the only relationship worth having is an exclusive one
3
According to law of attraction, if you are interesting in manifesting your soulmate one of the best ways to allow what you want into your life is to "tell a new story" about it.The idea is that instead of focusing on WHAT IS, you focus on WHAT YOU WANT. Abraham-Hicks mention that when you read it, YOU FEEL GOOD -- you feel like, "Ah, there you are. I know you are here with me now. I can already feel what it is like to be together. You are awesome!" And then you let go and let the Universe do it's job coordinating all the components of the how, when, and where you will meet your ideal woman You allow the Law of Attraction to bring you the relationship you want. I decided to give this a try...so here's an example of telling a true love soulmate story
All I want to do is think about my true love soulmate -- the awesome woman that I can't wait to meet. I bet she's looking forward to meeting me too and having a wonderful relationship together! She's the woman I've waited my whole life to be with!! And I'm the man she's waited her whole life to be with!!! When we meet, it will be like we've known each other forever!!
When I think about her wonderful qualities, I can't help but be joyful!! She's smart and funny and she laughs at everything, especially my jokes. She gets me and my sense of humor. She's so easy to talk to and we never run out of conversation. WE HAVE SO MUCH FUN TOGETHER! She's open and honest and forthright with me about everything. She's reliable, responsible, trustworthy, respectful of me, my time, and my things, and she always makes me feel important and like a priority to her.
I think she's beautiful and when I look at her I think, "She's so dam beautiful". She's super attracted to me too and thinks I'm handsome. She tells me that I'm handsome and how much she loves my body and my personality. She's physical affection as much as me. I loves to kiss her all the time. She is slim with long beautiful hair and her eyes looks right into my soul.
We always have such a great time together -- talking about everything, agreeing on things that are important to me and laughing and giggling about everything. She's doing well financially and he's happy with her work and current career path and plans on continuing on it because it brings him joy! And she's good with his money.She has friends and family that support her and love her. She loves Long Island and want to get married soon and have children as well. She constantly surprise me with gifts. And I would do the same and write love lettters and poetry to her all the time.
She eats healthfully like I do. She exercises regularly and takes good care of her body. We have a good time together even doing the most mundane things like grocery shopping.She loves going out but is a homebody like me. I'm so in love with her already. She's supportive of my personal growth work and wants to deepen our relationship emotionally and takes action to do so.
Our sex life is amazing! She really listens to me when I explain what I like and she DOES what I like and she's GREAT at it! She doesn't say NO and is adventrous.
Her positive aspects are easy to recall at all times. She's easy to love and she's emotionally warm and close and easy to talk to and easy to be around and happy and in love with me too. She is ALL IN from the get-go! She calls or texts me every day and sometimes a couple of times a day just to say hi and see how I'm doing. And she wants to be in a serious relationship with me. She loves me like no one else ever has! We meet and we are DONE, COMPLETE AND THE CIRCLE OF LIFE IS FINISHED! She not only wants to marry me, take care of me, and love me forever, but She DOES THOSE THINGS! AND, that remains constant and our love deepens and grows as times goes on… this is the relationship I've waited my life to have and I'm loving every minute of it! I have finally found my true love soulmate!
4-WHAT I AM NOT
I’m not gonna bore you by talking about how I’m a great guy with brown eyes, a great smile, and a sharp sense of humor. I’m also not going to drone on about how totally awesome and sexy I am. (That should be obvious!) Instead, I’m going to tell you what I'm NOT about: I AM NOT A JERK, so if you're turned on by guys who are rude, mean, like to use you and abuse you or whatever, then you need to click away right now. I AM NOT A BROKE LOSER. I have a house and a car. So if you're looking for a guy who's constantly spending all his time working just to afford beer, or mooching off you in some way, that's not me. I DON'T USER DRUGS OR DRINK, so if you're looking for a guy to smoke meth and/or crack with while chugging a bottle of jack, move along. I'm high on life baby. I don't spend my time with computer games. I AM NOT A STALKER, and I am not desperate. I know I'm a great catch for any woman, so if you want some insecure guy who's obsessed with you, I'm afraid that won't happen here. I'M NOT A HEALTH NUT. I do take care of myself, but I am not a body builder. So if you're only looking for muscle-bound guys who like to spend more time at the gym than they do with you, move along. I'M NOT ABUSIVE and would never physically harm a girl, so if you feel the need to be with a creep who beats on you and treats you like crap, please, for the love of God, do not waste my time because I would never ever hurt a woman. I am very close to my family..
With all that said...that's not to say my experiences with dating and relationships have been a cakewalk. A lot of woman are clueless and their priority are totally messed up.When it comes to choosing a husband, only one thing really, truly matters: character. So it stands to reason that a man's character should be at the top of the list of things you are looking for, right? But if you're not married, I already know it isn't. Because if you were looking for a man of character,you would have found one by now. Men of character are, by definition, willing to commit. Instead, most woman are looking for GQ model or someone rich. Or someone who knows what an Eames chair is. Unfortunately, this is not the thinking of a wife. This is the thinking of a teenaged girl. And men of character do not want to marry teenaged girls. Because teenage girls are never happy. And they never feel like cooking, either.
The reality is, only a handful truly fit the mold of what being the woman a man truly needs and desires.The deal is: most men just want to marry someone who is nice to them. The bottom line is that marriage is just a long-term opportunity to practice loving someone even when they don't deserve it. Because most of the time, your messy, farting, macaroni-and-cheese eating man will not be doing what you want him to. But as you give him love anyway -- because you have made up your mind to transform yourself into a person who is practicing being kind, deep, virtuous, truthful, giving, and most of all, accepting of your own dear self -- you will find that you will experience the very thing you wanted all along:
Love.
So if you haven't been scared off by now, we may actually have something here! So send me an email with your number. I dare you. I double-dog dare you. :-P
LOVE: WHERE ARE THE REALLY GREAT WOMAN
I saw something that was different.This girl was feeding her boyfriend but… not across the table, like you would normally see, but by sitting right next to him really closely and wrapping the arm that was feeding him around him, like a mother would do to a child who is sitting on her lap. I found the scene to be so intimate and so full of affection.I know that I don’t see this kind of scene very often, and I can also imagine why something this small in combination with a number of other qualities that the girl might have make the guy become crazy about the girl,A woman can show her nurturing quality in a many situations. Just about anything can have a nurturing quality. Holding, touching, looking in the eye, fixing a tie are common examples, but even such little things as a text that says: “When are you coming home? I am waiting for you.” or “I miss you” or “I cooked your favorite dish for you and it’s getting cold, so you better get here soon” can feel just as nurturing to the guy on the other side I don’t know if the fact that nurturing women are so attractive to men because it all goes back to our relationship with our mothers, or there is more to it, but it is in fact a very desirable quality in a woman from most men’s perspective. As I think about it, being nurturing might just be the most important or the second most important quality that makes a woman attractive on the inside after being feminine.
I am searching for my future wife/soulmate. Please stop by again.
I am searching for my future wife/soulmate. Please stop by again.
PERSONAL/LOVE: WOMAN THINKING THEY ARE ENTITLED TO MEET THE PERFECT GUY
Too many women believe that meeting a quality confident guy is a matter of fate, luck, or some mysterious set of circumstances that will bring you and him together by total coincidence. Certainly, luck and being in the right place at the right time play a role in meeting the right person. However, chance is only secondary to your ability to meet and attract the kind of men you want.
In order to attract better men, you must become a better woman. It’s important to remember that quality guys value their time more than all the other guys and they will not trade their free time for just anything or anyone. The guys who are truly great and are serious about their lives are very picky. They will not fall for a woman as easily as other men. They have options when it comes to women, and they know it.
To attract an exceptional man, you must be a woman who stands out from the rest in a way that would make that guy think: “wow, she is someone I see sharing my life with”. Every guy who has dated for a while knows that there aren’t that many women out there who are truly great, but they are out there.
I see a lot of women around who feel that they are entitled to meeting, dating and being with ”Mr. Right”. They think that the only reason they can’t meet or keep one of those great guys is because men as a whole are evil or because these women have some kind of bad luck with the opposite sex. Few things are more unattractive to a quality guy than a woman who believes that she deserves the best of everything without having all that much to offer. You have to commit in being nice...its a much a much more effective way of increasing your chances of meeting that great guy than simply leaning back and saying that you are perfect the way you are and if guys can’t appreciate you for who they are, it’s their problem.
I am searching for my future wife/soulmate. Please stop by again.
Thursday, May 23, 2013
LOVE: THE PROBLEM WITH DATING
My whole life up to this point has been a frustrated world spent admiring beautiful, sexy women from afar, dreaming of all the naked possibilities and seeing yourself as “not worthy” and “out of her league” I think that lack with with women comes down to a few things:
I’m not a model
I’m underweight
I'm not tall
I'm not a millionaire.
If only I could change this these aspect of myself, everything will change and women will be attracted to me and life will be happy. I think most guys believe that in order to attract the hottest women you have to be, at least, tall, good looking, “ripped”, rich, even famous. I have a belief system that believes that only the good looking guys get the hottest, prettiest girls. But in the end, that’s all they are; PERCEPTIONS and BELIEFS, that create a “false reality” in my head. They’re not REASONS, they’re EXCUSES.
I use to that women have the same outlook when it comes to considering a male as husband...I was totally wrong....i drank the wrong cool aid. I need to change my changed my “frame of mind”
The truth is at any given time MOST girls (almost 99%) WON’T be interested in you. Most pretend to like you and string you along so they just use you to boost their own ego .or get you to spend your money on them. It's a number game and I don't like to waste my time with “distractions” – not very efficient or productive if you’re a busy guy
I was a decent guy, women just seemed to take a dislike to me. It really did feel like a huge injustice.
Furthermore, I could never understand why any woman would be attracted to a guy who was rude and disrespectful. And why on earth would any woman remain “keen” on a guy who was just plain “mean” and nasty to her?
The only women who are ever likely to want to spend time with guys who are mean and nasty to them are women with low self esteem and no self respect.
These are the only women these guys can get.
Any decent woman, with an ounce of self respect, just wouldn’t tolerate what these “bad boys” dish out and certainly would have no desire to spend time with them. It tells you more about her and the type of person she really is inside. Women with low self esteem / lack of self respect, in the past and in my experience these women: are full of problems.In the end, I found even the sex to be no compensation for the rest of the relationship and just didn’t want to be in their company. Lack of respect for themselves and for others is what they grew up with and it becomes a way of life for them
One of the biggest mistakes most guys make is in assuming that bad boys and Alpha Males are one of the same.. The difference between a bad boy, an Alpha Male and a nice guy is all down to one word……and that word is RESPECT.
It’s all about demanding respect and not tolerating disrespect, from anyone, male and FEMALE. Treat people the way you want to be treated.
I’m not a model
I’m underweight
I'm not tall
I'm not a millionaire.
If only I could change this these aspect of myself, everything will change and women will be attracted to me and life will be happy. I think most guys believe that in order to attract the hottest women you have to be, at least, tall, good looking, “ripped”, rich, even famous. I have a belief system that believes that only the good looking guys get the hottest, prettiest girls. But in the end, that’s all they are; PERCEPTIONS and BELIEFS, that create a “false reality” in my head. They’re not REASONS, they’re EXCUSES.
I use to that women have the same outlook when it comes to considering a male as husband...I was totally wrong....i drank the wrong cool aid. I need to change my changed my “frame of mind”
The truth is at any given time MOST girls (almost 99%) WON’T be interested in you. Most pretend to like you and string you along so they just use you to boost their own ego .or get you to spend your money on them. It's a number game and I don't like to waste my time with “distractions” – not very efficient or productive if you’re a busy guy
I was a decent guy, women just seemed to take a dislike to me. It really did feel like a huge injustice.
Furthermore, I could never understand why any woman would be attracted to a guy who was rude and disrespectful. And why on earth would any woman remain “keen” on a guy who was just plain “mean” and nasty to her?
The only women who are ever likely to want to spend time with guys who are mean and nasty to them are women with low self esteem and no self respect.
These are the only women these guys can get.
Any decent woman, with an ounce of self respect, just wouldn’t tolerate what these “bad boys” dish out and certainly would have no desire to spend time with them. It tells you more about her and the type of person she really is inside. Women with low self esteem / lack of self respect, in the past and in my experience these women: are full of problems.In the end, I found even the sex to be no compensation for the rest of the relationship and just didn’t want to be in their company. Lack of respect for themselves and for others is what they grew up with and it becomes a way of life for them
One of the biggest mistakes most guys make is in assuming that bad boys and Alpha Males are one of the same.. The difference between a bad boy, an Alpha Male and a nice guy is all down to one word……and that word is RESPECT.
It’s all about demanding respect and not tolerating disrespect, from anyone, male and FEMALE. Treat people the way you want to be treated.
Sunday, May 19, 2013
POETRY: YOU MADE LOVE TO ME
You made love to me
Not to my body,
(You reached deep within me)
but my spirit
I heard you call my name
Not like you sound
Your voice so dim and deep
You touched me that I may feel
All your splendor
You brought me sweet relief
From all my tension
Your love is all I need
Every day and night
From no one will I receive
True love like this
My life, my everything
To you I give
Greater love will be my reward
As long as I live
2
My desire
Is to hold you before my eyes?
This world is
Not worth seeing at present
Blood and bloodstains everywhere
Terror, and more terror everywhere
Haphazardous running, and
Uncertainty everywhere
I am disgusted
With constantly seeing,
Hearing,
Facing all of this
Every day, and every night.
When you are with me
Uncertainty and terror vanish
Faith in life soars to its peak
And under the clear blue sky
Desires take flight
On the colourful wings
of the will to live.
This world is
Not worth living at present
I wish to experience it with you at my side
I wish to see it through your eyes
O, my sacred love!
My desire
Is to hold you before my eyes?.
3
Pushing away manic urges
I cannot afford, clinging to
all I left behind;
the deep breath of desire called "you".
There where love is
given without remorse,
trapped within silent walls,
I travel a fearful course.
A slave to your words
tightly chained to my emotions,
drowning within the hope,
of dark, deep oceans...
Swirling, colors of light and dark,
the rush of my life's blood begins
for a life that is driven,
to edges of reality again.
4
Beggars we are, when it comes to love.
We ask the Lord to send us someone from up above.
Someone to call our own, our lonely heart does need,
A special person, a friend indeed
To exchange a smile with, or an occasional word or two,
And maybe one day, to say to them, ?I love you.?
Being in love, it seems, we all do want,
Having someone to look into our eyes and say, ?you are the one.?
To be loved, strong is this feeling we need,
A warm touch, a kiss, to make us complete.
To get in return, we must be able to willingly give,
But not knowing how to trust and share, we are naive.
Steel is not what it?s made of, this life-giving heart;
We curse the day when love has ended, and we fall apart.
We learn to live with the void in our soul, the hunger within,
Hoping one day love will enter in.
5
Lost in the love that I once adored,
but I am alone.
The moon is my only reprieve
as with it's pale light my shadow stands by me.
In lonesome company I bare a broken heart,
and with my wounded wings of love I begin to heal.
In time I will hope to fly again,
in the daybreak full of joy I plan to spread my wings.
First I must rest and bind what has torn.
Ripped and wrinkled is the battered fabric of my love.
With tender care I hope to mend
but with delicate attention, I will not efface.
I will not forget what once I held so dear,
in my arms, close to my heart.
She was my love and for that I will be there
standing by a sea with the lantern of my devolution.
As true with all, time does wear,
and the night will come I won't be there.
Not that I have forgotten or even let go
but the lantern I held fast gave up on me.
With the weak flame burned out I must move on,
the cold wet night is no longer my home.
In my moment of hope, for new beginnings,
I turn away from that salty sea.
Once in rhythm with my broken tears
the waves now crash silent against the rocks.
With one last salt-filled cry
I start my accent and say goodbye.
With the beach now behind me I hear the sun rise.
My eyes close tight and squeeze out the fear.
The warm light against my back, my days begin.
Even still in long nights on a beach of somewhere
my shadow stands with the moon...
gone, but not forgotten.
6-
I've looked into eyes I've never seen before,
I've kissed lips that have never spoken to me.
I've held the hand of someone I've never met,
I've trusted someone I didn't know.
I loved someone who didn't love me,
But I kept believing that it wasn't a dream.
And everything was just perfect...
Until I woke up!
Not to my body,
(You reached deep within me)
but my spirit
I heard you call my name
Not like you sound
Your voice so dim and deep
You touched me that I may feel
All your splendor
You brought me sweet relief
From all my tension
Your love is all I need
Every day and night
From no one will I receive
True love like this
My life, my everything
To you I give
Greater love will be my reward
As long as I live
2
My desire
Is to hold you before my eyes?
This world is
Not worth seeing at present
Blood and bloodstains everywhere
Terror, and more terror everywhere
Haphazardous running, and
Uncertainty everywhere
I am disgusted
With constantly seeing,
Hearing,
Facing all of this
Every day, and every night.
When you are with me
Uncertainty and terror vanish
Faith in life soars to its peak
And under the clear blue sky
Desires take flight
On the colourful wings
of the will to live.
This world is
Not worth living at present
I wish to experience it with you at my side
I wish to see it through your eyes
O, my sacred love!
My desire
Is to hold you before my eyes?.
3
Pushing away manic urges
I cannot afford, clinging to
all I left behind;
the deep breath of desire called "you".
There where love is
given without remorse,
trapped within silent walls,
I travel a fearful course.
A slave to your words
tightly chained to my emotions,
drowning within the hope,
of dark, deep oceans...
Swirling, colors of light and dark,
the rush of my life's blood begins
for a life that is driven,
to edges of reality again.
4
Beggars we are, when it comes to love.
We ask the Lord to send us someone from up above.
Someone to call our own, our lonely heart does need,
A special person, a friend indeed
To exchange a smile with, or an occasional word or two,
And maybe one day, to say to them, ?I love you.?
Being in love, it seems, we all do want,
Having someone to look into our eyes and say, ?you are the one.?
To be loved, strong is this feeling we need,
A warm touch, a kiss, to make us complete.
To get in return, we must be able to willingly give,
But not knowing how to trust and share, we are naive.
Steel is not what it?s made of, this life-giving heart;
We curse the day when love has ended, and we fall apart.
We learn to live with the void in our soul, the hunger within,
Hoping one day love will enter in.
5
Lost in the love that I once adored,
but I am alone.
The moon is my only reprieve
as with it's pale light my shadow stands by me.
In lonesome company I bare a broken heart,
and with my wounded wings of love I begin to heal.
In time I will hope to fly again,
in the daybreak full of joy I plan to spread my wings.
First I must rest and bind what has torn.
Ripped and wrinkled is the battered fabric of my love.
With tender care I hope to mend
but with delicate attention, I will not efface.
I will not forget what once I held so dear,
in my arms, close to my heart.
She was my love and for that I will be there
standing by a sea with the lantern of my devolution.
As true with all, time does wear,
and the night will come I won't be there.
Not that I have forgotten or even let go
but the lantern I held fast gave up on me.
With the weak flame burned out I must move on,
the cold wet night is no longer my home.
In my moment of hope, for new beginnings,
I turn away from that salty sea.
Once in rhythm with my broken tears
the waves now crash silent against the rocks.
With one last salt-filled cry
I start my accent and say goodbye.
With the beach now behind me I hear the sun rise.
My eyes close tight and squeeze out the fear.
The warm light against my back, my days begin.
Even still in long nights on a beach of somewhere
my shadow stands with the moon...
gone, but not forgotten.
6-
I've looked into eyes I've never seen before,
I've kissed lips that have never spoken to me.
I've held the hand of someone I've never met,
I've trusted someone I didn't know.
I loved someone who didn't love me,
But I kept believing that it wasn't a dream.
And everything was just perfect...
Until I woke up!
Tuesday, May 14, 2013
PUSSY POWER: PUSSY WHIPPED
A man who is “Pussy Whipped” is a man who is living in a constant state of fear and lack rather than living in a state of abundance and masculinity!
What a way to start of a post, huh?
I don’t necessarily like the term “Pussy Whipped” but it’s the only phrase in which every man and woman will recognize and understand…
Why would a guy allow himself to be pussy whipped and walking around day after day with his alpha tail between his legs by a woman that he has such strong emotions towards? Can you even be pussy whipped by a woman that you barely know? Why does one become more whipped as the relationship drags on? And once you start down the road to “Pussy Whipped-ville” is there any turning back without losing the woman? I’m going to try and answer some these question from my own personal experience and from what I’ve seen over the course of my life and still continue to see to this day! Let’s tackle them one by one, shall we?
Why would a guy allow himself to be pussy whipped by a woman that he has such strong emotions towards?
I think most would agree that a serious relationship should be played on a level playing field/ equality. If you’re relationship is based on equalities then the question of how can a man allow himself to be Pussy Whipped shouldn’t even come to mind but it does! As time goes on and we evolve, men are increasingly becoming more and more Beta and losing the core of what once made them men. Today, more than ever, man has become extremely complacent to women by compromising his values and masculinity to the point of no return because of his fear of lack in regards to attracting wonderful women into his life and the lack of knowledge on how to be an Alpha male warrior. I would like to blame the later on his role-models while he was growing up. Whether that be his Mother, Father, school teacher, favorite actor and so on….
Men in todays society have NO REAL role models to look up to. After all, how can a man know what it is to be strong in his values with little compromise if he’s never seen an example of such and if he has by pure luck caught a rare glimpse at an Alpha males behavior, how would he even view him?
It’s really a shame that the men we see in our daily lives are almost all whipped to some extant or another. Most men think that if they behave in an alpha way that the woman will resent him, call him a womanizer and lose her interest towards him. Nothing can be further from the truth! Women respect a real man. A man who can take the lead, who has values that will further himself and their relationship, a man who knows when to take her shit and even more importantly knows when NOT to.
Fear+Beta+Lack=WHIPPED Courage+Abundance+Alpha= Positive Sustainable Realationships
Can you even be pussy whipped by a woman that you barely know?
The answer is, Yes! Being “pussy whipped” happens long before you ever met your girl! Being pussy whipped is just another word for Beta. If you’re the type of guy who allows himself to be pussy whipped than I’ll bet your whole life is one giant continuum of that particular behavior! Your whole life is one giant Pussy Whipped experience. If you’re allowing a woman to walk all over you and make you constantly compromise your values than you’ve been letting everyone else do the same to you for as far back as you can remember!
Why does one become more whipped as the relationship drags on?
I’m sure most of you guys have heard of a “yes ladder”??? If you haven’t heard the term before than let me break it down to you. A “yes ladder” is an evil way for people to get what they want. Most people aren’t even aware that they are employing this psychological technique to such deadly efficiency.
It starts off with a person saying yes once to someone for something asked of them to do something that they don’t necessarily want to do. In other words, one person gets a level of compliance from another. Once you get a “yes” or “compliance” once from someone the trap is set! It will become increasingly easier to get further yes’s or compliances. The more yes’s you get the more you can control that person. The more yes’s you give the harder it becomes to say no. A pussy whipped man is a YES man. The woman who has been getting her yes’s whenever she wants has grown accustomed to his compromises, so when she hears a no out of his mouth, trouble ensues!
And, the more you say “Yes” or “compromise” the more investment you put into that person or situation and you will stay in a bad situation or relationship with the hopes of one day getting a return on your investment. But, how could you possibly get a return on comprimise? You can’t!!! Once a person is used to getting what they want from a person it is nearly impossible to give back to that other person on any significant level.
You can imagine that after years of being in a relationship as the “whipped” man that the fear of saying no is way too powerful to actually act on. You’ve become a trained dog of sorts and well trained dogs rarely disobey their master! Now, if you were living in a state of abundance and non-fear, you would be able to simply say no and walk away and be all the more better because you knew that there were plenty of other options out there for you! It’s when you don’t have any other options or the lack of skill and knowledge to attract wonderful people into your life that you will say YES and compromise all day every day.
…once you start down the road to “Pussy Whipped-ville” is there any turning back without losing the woman?
Of course there is but it’s not going to be easy and may take a considerable length of time. You may even run the risk of losing the girl… But ask yourself this… Is it better to stay in a relationship where you are not living from a place of pure masculinity or go for broke, stand your ground and lose the woman???
Patience is crucial to the “turn-around” process. Escape from Pussy-Whippedville takes dedication and understanding of the male/female dynamic and an even better understanding of dominance.
What a way to start of a post, huh?
I don’t necessarily like the term “Pussy Whipped” but it’s the only phrase in which every man and woman will recognize and understand…
Why would a guy allow himself to be pussy whipped and walking around day after day with his alpha tail between his legs by a woman that he has such strong emotions towards? Can you even be pussy whipped by a woman that you barely know? Why does one become more whipped as the relationship drags on? And once you start down the road to “Pussy Whipped-ville” is there any turning back without losing the woman? I’m going to try and answer some these question from my own personal experience and from what I’ve seen over the course of my life and still continue to see to this day! Let’s tackle them one by one, shall we?
Why would a guy allow himself to be pussy whipped by a woman that he has such strong emotions towards?
I think most would agree that a serious relationship should be played on a level playing field/ equality. If you’re relationship is based on equalities then the question of how can a man allow himself to be Pussy Whipped shouldn’t even come to mind but it does! As time goes on and we evolve, men are increasingly becoming more and more Beta and losing the core of what once made them men. Today, more than ever, man has become extremely complacent to women by compromising his values and masculinity to the point of no return because of his fear of lack in regards to attracting wonderful women into his life and the lack of knowledge on how to be an Alpha male warrior. I would like to blame the later on his role-models while he was growing up. Whether that be his Mother, Father, school teacher, favorite actor and so on….
Men in todays society have NO REAL role models to look up to. After all, how can a man know what it is to be strong in his values with little compromise if he’s never seen an example of such and if he has by pure luck caught a rare glimpse at an Alpha males behavior, how would he even view him?
It’s really a shame that the men we see in our daily lives are almost all whipped to some extant or another. Most men think that if they behave in an alpha way that the woman will resent him, call him a womanizer and lose her interest towards him. Nothing can be further from the truth! Women respect a real man. A man who can take the lead, who has values that will further himself and their relationship, a man who knows when to take her shit and even more importantly knows when NOT to.
Fear+Beta+Lack=WHIPPED Courage+Abundance+Alpha= Positive Sustainable Realationships
Can you even be pussy whipped by a woman that you barely know?
The answer is, Yes! Being “pussy whipped” happens long before you ever met your girl! Being pussy whipped is just another word for Beta. If you’re the type of guy who allows himself to be pussy whipped than I’ll bet your whole life is one giant continuum of that particular behavior! Your whole life is one giant Pussy Whipped experience. If you’re allowing a woman to walk all over you and make you constantly compromise your values than you’ve been letting everyone else do the same to you for as far back as you can remember!
Why does one become more whipped as the relationship drags on?
I’m sure most of you guys have heard of a “yes ladder”??? If you haven’t heard the term before than let me break it down to you. A “yes ladder” is an evil way for people to get what they want. Most people aren’t even aware that they are employing this psychological technique to such deadly efficiency.
It starts off with a person saying yes once to someone for something asked of them to do something that they don’t necessarily want to do. In other words, one person gets a level of compliance from another. Once you get a “yes” or “compliance” once from someone the trap is set! It will become increasingly easier to get further yes’s or compliances. The more yes’s you get the more you can control that person. The more yes’s you give the harder it becomes to say no. A pussy whipped man is a YES man. The woman who has been getting her yes’s whenever she wants has grown accustomed to his compromises, so when she hears a no out of his mouth, trouble ensues!
And, the more you say “Yes” or “compromise” the more investment you put into that person or situation and you will stay in a bad situation or relationship with the hopes of one day getting a return on your investment. But, how could you possibly get a return on comprimise? You can’t!!! Once a person is used to getting what they want from a person it is nearly impossible to give back to that other person on any significant level.
You can imagine that after years of being in a relationship as the “whipped” man that the fear of saying no is way too powerful to actually act on. You’ve become a trained dog of sorts and well trained dogs rarely disobey their master! Now, if you were living in a state of abundance and non-fear, you would be able to simply say no and walk away and be all the more better because you knew that there were plenty of other options out there for you! It’s when you don’t have any other options or the lack of skill and knowledge to attract wonderful people into your life that you will say YES and compromise all day every day.
…once you start down the road to “Pussy Whipped-ville” is there any turning back without losing the woman?
Of course there is but it’s not going to be easy and may take a considerable length of time. You may even run the risk of losing the girl… But ask yourself this… Is it better to stay in a relationship where you are not living from a place of pure masculinity or go for broke, stand your ground and lose the woman???
Patience is crucial to the “turn-around” process. Escape from Pussy-Whippedville takes dedication and understanding of the male/female dynamic and an even better understanding of dominance.
LOVE: NOT LOOKING FOR A GIRLFRIEND, LOOKING FOR A WIFE
I remember YEARS ago, I had an older woman tell me she wasn’t interested in dating me because she was NOT looking for a BOYFRIEND, she’s looking for a HUSBAND – which I thought was the stupidest comment I’ve ever heard. I said “How in the hell do you think you are gonna find a husband without being boyfriend and girlfriend first? Why don’t you just get a damn arranged marriage!” And she calmly looked at me and replied “You just don’t get it – but don’t worry love, you will understand when you are older.” And being young and “all-knowing” I felt she was talking a load of SH*T – but now that I AM older, I realize she was 100% correct. I didn’t get it AT ALL, but now that I do, I’m completely on her wavelength.
If there’s one thing that I, and many other men out there, have perfected it’s how to be single and navigate through “The Game.” See when you are single and not completely serious, you go out and date, you have fun and you may even find yourself someone you can stand enough to make an exclusive commitment too and start going out. Being less than 100% serious lends itself to you choosing to date someone who isn’t exactly what you want, or what you’re looking for or what you would even consider long-term potential, but you’re willing to “try a ting” and see how it all works out. That USE to be me.
I’m FAR removed from that guy. That guy didn’t care about long term potential and building a life with you, because I wasn’t seriously pursuing a partner to join him on this journey through life. That guy didn’t care where you were or where you were headed because we just lived day-to-day and took things as they came. That guy especially didn’t give a DAMN if the woman he was seeing was sleeping with Tom, Dick & Harry, because I strapped the condom on tight and could just as easily lay-up under any Mary, Ann & Helen if I wanted to too. That guy WASN’T serious.
But NOW, I don’t just want a girlfriend that I accept KNOWING there’s no REAL long term potential, because I WANT to build a life with you. And YES, I DO care about who’s tapping your cookie NOW, because if your p*ssy is still being flung around the community, you are simply NOT the woman I want to date SERIOUSLY.Understand, I am NOT saying you’re a bad person or you’re NOT wife material, but what I am saying is that if I’m dating a woman for a month, I want us to be focused romantically on EACH OTHER and that’s IT. And before you cry about double-standards, understand that I will NOT be flinging any part of my balls or around ANY other women while we are dating. Once we start dating, I’m ALL IN, so how can you be mad at me when I see that you’re still making side bets?
Simply put, I will NEVER ask her where her cookie has been in past, because that’s NONE of my business [and vice versa], but I DO expect to know where her cookie is going TODAY as well as it’s VERY recent history [as in the timeframe we started dating]. So if I was dating a woman, and we got physical and she produced a condom out of a fresh box, I would WONDER if I’m the only man she’s seeing, yet HOPE that she just bought that condom recently because SHE wanted to get it in with ME and got them for US alone [unknowingly dating an engaged woman for 3 months can do that to a man]. The reality is, I would NEVER find myself in a situation like that because I would clarify MY expectations on exclusive dating with her as SOON as we began to talk.
Now I’m NOT saying a man isn’t serious about life or dating unless he wants to get married because that’s simply NOT true. All I’m saying is that you can CRITICIZE my expectations in what I want out of a relationship all day, and you definitely DON’T have to adhere to ANY of them – but all that proves to me, is that you are simply NOT the right woman for ME to get serious with
If there’s one thing that I, and many other men out there, have perfected it’s how to be single and navigate through “The Game.” See when you are single and not completely serious, you go out and date, you have fun and you may even find yourself someone you can stand enough to make an exclusive commitment too and start going out. Being less than 100% serious lends itself to you choosing to date someone who isn’t exactly what you want, or what you’re looking for or what you would even consider long-term potential, but you’re willing to “try a ting” and see how it all works out. That USE to be me.
I’m FAR removed from that guy. That guy didn’t care about long term potential and building a life with you, because I wasn’t seriously pursuing a partner to join him on this journey through life. That guy didn’t care where you were or where you were headed because we just lived day-to-day and took things as they came. That guy especially didn’t give a DAMN if the woman he was seeing was sleeping with Tom, Dick & Harry, because I strapped the condom on tight and could just as easily lay-up under any Mary, Ann & Helen if I wanted to too. That guy WASN’T serious.
But NOW, I don’t just want a girlfriend that I accept KNOWING there’s no REAL long term potential, because I WANT to build a life with you. And YES, I DO care about who’s tapping your cookie NOW, because if your p*ssy is still being flung around the community, you are simply NOT the woman I want to date SERIOUSLY.Understand, I am NOT saying you’re a bad person or you’re NOT wife material, but what I am saying is that if I’m dating a woman for a month, I want us to be focused romantically on EACH OTHER and that’s IT. And before you cry about double-standards, understand that I will NOT be flinging any part of my balls or around ANY other women while we are dating. Once we start dating, I’m ALL IN, so how can you be mad at me when I see that you’re still making side bets?
Simply put, I will NEVER ask her where her cookie has been in past, because that’s NONE of my business [and vice versa], but I DO expect to know where her cookie is going TODAY as well as it’s VERY recent history [as in the timeframe we started dating]. So if I was dating a woman, and we got physical and she produced a condom out of a fresh box, I would WONDER if I’m the only man she’s seeing, yet HOPE that she just bought that condom recently because SHE wanted to get it in with ME and got them for US alone [unknowingly dating an engaged woman for 3 months can do that to a man]. The reality is, I would NEVER find myself in a situation like that because I would clarify MY expectations on exclusive dating with her as SOON as we began to talk.
Now I’m NOT saying a man isn’t serious about life or dating unless he wants to get married because that’s simply NOT true. All I’m saying is that you can CRITICIZE my expectations in what I want out of a relationship all day, and you definitely DON’T have to adhere to ANY of them – but all that proves to me, is that you are simply NOT the right woman for ME to get serious with
SPIRITUAL: WE CREATE OUR OWN "HOLES" WITHIN OUR SOUL
If you are so engulfed in your attempts to attract that specific person like I have, you don't realize the very nature of your endeavor. The desperate tone underlying your questions makes me sense your pain.
I understand you want to be happy. You want to end your suffering, but the path you have taken is the very source of the suffering you are trying to get away from. It is the never ending cycle if you go on like this.
What's in it for you? What do you think that specific person provides you with that you believe you are missing?
We create our own "holes" within our soul with our believes. And then, because we feel incomplete, we desire to patch them. Where it feels something is missing, a DESIRE to find the missing piece is born. Just take a look at any desire you have and it will expose the missing parts in you. That great suffering you want to get rid of.
I'm gonna swim against the flow now.
It is believed by many that Law Of Attraction means that LIKES attract LIKES, but that is a statement of ignorance. Magnetic poles of the same charge never attract themselves. It's is the OPPOSITES that attract!
How that relates to LOA? Very simple, whatever vibrational level you are, you are that level for a reason. It is to compensate for the missing pieces within you. It's important to understand, that "missing" pieces or "holes" in your soul are just an illusion created by your ignorance. By your lack of knowledge of who you are. You are already COMPLETE and nothing is really missing.
It may seem that confident people attract confident people. But people need confidence only because of the way they are defining their self-worth is the cause for the need of confidence. Deep inside they are afraid, unsure, worrying. So they build confidence to counter it.
Then you get either people who display those fears and worries openly, they are drawn to confident people.
And then you see confident people, who cover those fears and worries with confidence. But it is the FEARS and WORRIES in them which ATTRACT the confidence of OTHER PEOPLE.
Are you beginning to see the picture now? Negative always attract positive. But even if two positives seemingly attract each other, it is their negatives that has given birth to them which attracts the positive of one another.
And final question to you. Do you think that person would want to be with someone desperate, would you want to be with a desperate person yourself?
I understand you want to be happy. You want to end your suffering, but the path you have taken is the very source of the suffering you are trying to get away from. It is the never ending cycle if you go on like this.
What's in it for you? What do you think that specific person provides you with that you believe you are missing?
We create our own "holes" within our soul with our believes. And then, because we feel incomplete, we desire to patch them. Where it feels something is missing, a DESIRE to find the missing piece is born. Just take a look at any desire you have and it will expose the missing parts in you. That great suffering you want to get rid of.
I'm gonna swim against the flow now.
It is believed by many that Law Of Attraction means that LIKES attract LIKES, but that is a statement of ignorance. Magnetic poles of the same charge never attract themselves. It's is the OPPOSITES that attract!
How that relates to LOA? Very simple, whatever vibrational level you are, you are that level for a reason. It is to compensate for the missing pieces within you. It's important to understand, that "missing" pieces or "holes" in your soul are just an illusion created by your ignorance. By your lack of knowledge of who you are. You are already COMPLETE and nothing is really missing.
It may seem that confident people attract confident people. But people need confidence only because of the way they are defining their self-worth is the cause for the need of confidence. Deep inside they are afraid, unsure, worrying. So they build confidence to counter it.
Then you get either people who display those fears and worries openly, they are drawn to confident people.
And then you see confident people, who cover those fears and worries with confidence. But it is the FEARS and WORRIES in them which ATTRACT the confidence of OTHER PEOPLE.
Are you beginning to see the picture now? Negative always attract positive. But even if two positives seemingly attract each other, it is their negatives that has given birth to them which attracts the positive of one another.
And final question to you. Do you think that person would want to be with someone desperate, would you want to be with a desperate person yourself?
SPIRITUAL: HOW DO I FIND MY SOULMATE USING THE LAW OF ATTRACTION
"How do I find my soulmate? Let's see how using the Law of Attraction can help.
Step 1: Forgive the Past
This is a big one for many people. So many people who wonder why they are not manifesting a good relationship. They are still obsessing about a past relationship that absorbs their attention, generating disappointment, anger, resentment and other negative emotions.
You cannot be emotionally available as long as you are still living in the past. Remember the Law of Attraction will give you more of what you are focusing on. So, as hard as it is, you must let the old, broken relationships go. Wish your ex-girlfriend, ex-wife well and send her on their way to a better life. How do you do this?
Stop talking about this person
Stop allowing yourself to be angry at this person
Stop feeling victimized over how you were treated
<>Summary: Stop giving it your attention. Take your power back and stop letting this situation control you
Instead:
Wish that person well
Be thankful for the lesson they have brought you to deal with which will make you a better person - it will teach you the importance of forgiveness, if you let it.
See releasing this old situation taking you one step closer to attracting your Perfect Mate.
Summary: Ah! Isn't that soooooo much better? Phew! Let's move on...
If you find letting go of bad relationships is a problem, you are not yet ready for a new relationship. You are still dealing with your own issues of pain, rejection and anger. Focusing on these things will not allow you to bring their opposites. The Law of Attraction will not allow it. You cannot bring positive things and people in your life if you are focused only on the negative. You will only bring more of the negative.
Then people talk about the need to "get closure". Getting closure is as simple as never thinking about that relationship again. Period. Block it out. Still thinking about it? Change the subject in your head. Period. Period. Period. There's your closure. You don't need anyone's permission or justification to move on. Just move on.
Step 2: Write down a list of the ideal qualities you wish for in a perfect mate
Be honest with yourself. List the ideal qualities, not what you feel you can "put up with". The Universe likes specifics.
Use Contrast to help you find the right qualities.
Contrast is all crappy stuff you didn't like in the past relationships. Let me explain something here - you are not focusing on these or writing them down. Instead use the contrast from past relationships and switch them to their opposites and write that down. Here are some ideas:
Dated a cheapskate in the past? Use that as inspiration to ask for what you really want: "My Perfect Mate is generous, giving and prosperous."
Had a problem with a cheater?
Try this one: "My Perfect Mate is loyal and loving to me. She values me and supports me in every waypossible."
Tend to attract married and unavailable? How about, "My Perfect Mate is single, available and ready for a long-term relationship".
Step 3: Eliminate Self-sabotage
This is another big one. You may feel you are not be ready for a new relationship because of your own fears and concerns. Or you may be thinking you will not find a perfect relationship at all. In your case, try some "pre-affirmations". See if you recognize something here you can use:
"Please God, give me the strength, understanding, patience and all other qualities I need to be the Perfect Partner."
"I am a Child of God, the Universe, Spirit, etc.) and manifesting Perfect Love is my Divine Birthright."
"I radiate harmony, love, trust and friendship to all I meet."
"I love my body. I am sexy, slim and attractive. I am a woman-magnet."
"The Universe knows what I need in a Perfect Mate and is paving the way for the two of us to meet and recognize each other."
Step 4: Affirm and Visualize What You Want
Twice a day, morning and night, go over your list and recite it out loud. Feel the passion and desire as you read off the qualities you have accumulated. Feel free to add or edit the list if you think of other great qualities. Visualize yourself and your new partner at the beach having a great time. Visualize the two of you in ... uh... intimate moments.
Step 5: Allow the Universe to work its magic
The Universe needs a little time to do it's thing. You need to trust that it is on the job and working behind the scenes, regardless of how things appear on the outside. This means don't worry about how you will meet this person or what the circumstances are. That is none of your concern - it is irrelevant and just causes you to focusing something other than the manifestation itself.
The Universe will find the fastest, quickest and most direct way of bringing the two of you together. When you meet this person, there will be no doubt - for either of you.
Step 6: Express Your Gratitude
Be grateful for all the signs that the Universe is fulfilling your request for perfect love, whether it be someone at work inviting you to lunch or the pizza man flirting with you. You are drawing people to you, so take your time and wait for the right one.
Manifestations often show small signs of manifesting before they deliver the big one. Never doubt the process. Trust that it is happening and continue your affirmations. And be grateful at all signs of manifestation.
Step 7: Be Vigilant, Be Persistent
After you start seeing signs of your manifestation, after you meet this Perfect Person, be sure to keep up the affirmations. Change or update them, if you need to.
"All things between my Perfect Mate and myself are peaceful, compatible and harmonious"
"My Perfect Mate and I are the best of friends"
"My Perfect Mate and I express our love for each other freely and warmly"
"My Perfect Mate is supportive of me and helps me achieve my dreams"
The tendency is to stop once we get what we want. The problem with this is that eventually doubt and our old negative ways start to set in and we start to manifest problems in the relationship because we start distrusting our partner or the process that brought him/her to us.
Present Tense Affirmations
I am attracting my soul mate
I believe deeply that I will attract my soul mate
My soul mate is strongly attracted to me
My mind is totally focused on attracting my soul mate
I am already connected deeply to my soul mate
I always radiate a loving and inviting energy
Others are drawn to me because of my positive energy
I deserve to find my soul mate
My soul mate and I are destined to be together
There is an unbreakable bond between my soul mate and I
Future Tense Affirmations
My soul mate and I will be together
I will find my soul mate and we will live happily ever after
I am attracting my soul mate more with each day
I will attract my soul mate
A positive loving energy is growing between myself and my soul mate
I am beginning to feel deeply that I will meet my soul mate soon
Each day the energy between my soul mate and I grows stronger
I believe more each day that I will find my perfect partner
My soul mate is beginning to sense our connection
I will know my soul mate the instant we meet
Natural Affirmations
I believe in my ability to attract my soul mate
I find it easy to give off positive and loving energy to others
I can sense deeply that there is 1 special person I am meant to be with
Being warm, loving, and loveable is just a natural part of who I am
Others see me as someone they’d like to get to know more
There is a magical connection between my soul mate and I
My Soul mate and I are being drawn together
My soul mate and I are just meant to be together
When I meet my soul mate, I’ll just naturally know
I effortlessly radiate positive and loving energy
see you clearly with the eyes of pure, unconditional love. I love what I see.
My marriage/relationship made in heaven is made manifest on earth.
I am in a joyous, intimate relationship.
Every day in every way our marriage is getting better, better and better.
My partner and I are very much in love with each other.
My partner and I arefully compatible and perfectly aligned physically.
My partner and I arefully compatible and perfectly aligned sexually.
My partner and I arefully compatible and perfectly aligned emotionally.
My partner and I are fully compatible and perfectly aligned intellectually.
My partner and I are fully compatible and perfectly aligned spiritually.
I draw love and romance into my life and I accept it now.
My partner is loyal to me.
I am magnetic and irresistible to my partner.
I radiate pure, unconditional love towards my partner.
From time to time I ask my husband, "How can I love you more?"
I choose to see my husband clearly with the eyes of love and compassion, I love what I see.
Love happens! I release the desperate need for love. I release the need for my partner to approve of me. I allow love to find me easily and effortlessly.
Love is all around me. I feel everywhere. Joy fills my entire world.
I was born to learn to love myself more, and to share that love with people around me.
My partner is the love of my life and we adore each other.
I rejoice in the love I encounter everyday.
I now deserve love, romance, and joy--and all the blessings that life has to offer me.
Love is all there is!
Only love is real.
I radiate pure, unconditional love towards my partner.
I am safe in all my relationships. I am always treated well.
Long-lasting, loving relationships brighten my life.
I am very grateful for all the love in my life. I find it everywhere.
I am surrounded by love. All is well.
My heart is open to love. I speak loving words to my spouse.
I have a wonderful partner, and we are both happy and at peace.
I come from the loving space of my heart, and I know that love opens new possibilities.
There is no problem so big or so small, that it cannot be solved with love.
Deep at the center of my being is an infinite well of love.
I am in a joyous intimate relationship with a person who truly loves me.
My relationships are mirrors that show me myself.
I am now learning from all my relationships.
I laugh with my husband more and more each day.
My relationships are helping me to heal and love myself.
I am strong, vulnerable, and loving in my relationships.
I deserve love and sexual pleasure.
All is well in my marriage. Really.
I am now ready to accept a happy, fulfilling relationship.
I am now ready for my relationships to work.
I love myself and I naturally attract loving relationships into my life.
I am now attracting exactly the kind of relationship I want.
I am now divinely irresistible to my perfect mate.
All difficulties between me and ________ are now being healed.
The more I love myself, the more I love ___________.
I love ____________ and____________ loves me.
All of the changes in my marriage and life are positive. I am safe.
I am open to receiving love and to extending it.
I interact with my husband positively and joyfully more and more each day.
I/We remain focused on the big picture in our marriage.
Giving my husband unconditional love makes me feel energized.
I enjoy performing small acts of kindness for my husband. I love to see joy on his face.
I always keep a sense of humor about things in my marriage.
I am always centered and in present moment in my life and marriage.
I accept, respect, and enjoy our differences. Differences add interest and variety to my marriage.
I look for ways to contribute to my partner's growth and happiness. I support my partner in their goals unselfishly, knowing that it will make them happy.
I respect what my partner has to say. I listen to my partner with genuine interest. I offer empathy when appropriate.
I desire love, so I give my partner love.
I desire respect, so I give my partner respect.
I desire cooperation, so I give my partner cooperation.
I desire compassion, so I give my partner compassion.
I desire control, so I give my partner control!
For women:
I am feminine and full of grace.
I am feminine and receptive.
I possess great inner-strength.
I am fully receptive and appreciative for all the love that my partner showers upon me.
I release excessive control. I live and let live in my marriage.
I am receptive to my husband's romantic advances.
I greatly admire and respect my husband for all that he is.
I admire and respect my partner because ...
I verbalize my respect and admiration for my partner daily.
My yin/feminine energy blends perfectly and beautifully with my partner's yang/masculine energy.
Step 1: Forgive the Past
This is a big one for many people. So many people who wonder why they are not manifesting a good relationship. They are still obsessing about a past relationship that absorbs their attention, generating disappointment, anger, resentment and other negative emotions.
You cannot be emotionally available as long as you are still living in the past. Remember the Law of Attraction will give you more of what you are focusing on. So, as hard as it is, you must let the old, broken relationships go. Wish your ex-girlfriend, ex-wife well and send her on their way to a better life. How do you do this?
Stop talking about this person
Stop allowing yourself to be angry at this person
Stop feeling victimized over how you were treated
<>Summary: Stop giving it your attention. Take your power back and stop letting this situation control you
Instead:
Wish that person well
Be thankful for the lesson they have brought you to deal with which will make you a better person - it will teach you the importance of forgiveness, if you let it.
See releasing this old situation taking you one step closer to attracting your Perfect Mate.
Summary: Ah! Isn't that soooooo much better? Phew! Let's move on...
If you find letting go of bad relationships is a problem, you are not yet ready for a new relationship. You are still dealing with your own issues of pain, rejection and anger. Focusing on these things will not allow you to bring their opposites. The Law of Attraction will not allow it. You cannot bring positive things and people in your life if you are focused only on the negative. You will only bring more of the negative.
Then people talk about the need to "get closure". Getting closure is as simple as never thinking about that relationship again. Period. Block it out. Still thinking about it? Change the subject in your head. Period. Period. Period. There's your closure. You don't need anyone's permission or justification to move on. Just move on.
Step 2: Write down a list of the ideal qualities you wish for in a perfect mate
Be honest with yourself. List the ideal qualities, not what you feel you can "put up with". The Universe likes specifics.
Use Contrast to help you find the right qualities.
Contrast is all crappy stuff you didn't like in the past relationships. Let me explain something here - you are not focusing on these or writing them down. Instead use the contrast from past relationships and switch them to their opposites and write that down. Here are some ideas:
Dated a cheapskate in the past? Use that as inspiration to ask for what you really want: "My Perfect Mate is generous, giving and prosperous."
Had a problem with a cheater?
Try this one: "My Perfect Mate is loyal and loving to me. She values me and supports me in every waypossible."
Tend to attract married and unavailable? How about, "My Perfect Mate is single, available and ready for a long-term relationship".
Step 3: Eliminate Self-sabotage
This is another big one. You may feel you are not be ready for a new relationship because of your own fears and concerns. Or you may be thinking you will not find a perfect relationship at all. In your case, try some "pre-affirmations". See if you recognize something here you can use:
"Please God, give me the strength, understanding, patience and all other qualities I need to be the Perfect Partner."
"I am a Child of God, the Universe, Spirit, etc.) and manifesting Perfect Love is my Divine Birthright."
"I radiate harmony, love, trust and friendship to all I meet."
"I love my body. I am sexy, slim and attractive. I am a woman-magnet."
"The Universe knows what I need in a Perfect Mate and is paving the way for the two of us to meet and recognize each other."
Step 4: Affirm and Visualize What You Want
Twice a day, morning and night, go over your list and recite it out loud. Feel the passion and desire as you read off the qualities you have accumulated. Feel free to add or edit the list if you think of other great qualities. Visualize yourself and your new partner at the beach having a great time. Visualize the two of you in ... uh... intimate moments.
Step 5: Allow the Universe to work its magic
The Universe needs a little time to do it's thing. You need to trust that it is on the job and working behind the scenes, regardless of how things appear on the outside. This means don't worry about how you will meet this person or what the circumstances are. That is none of your concern - it is irrelevant and just causes you to focusing something other than the manifestation itself.
The Universe will find the fastest, quickest and most direct way of bringing the two of you together. When you meet this person, there will be no doubt - for either of you.
Step 6: Express Your Gratitude
Be grateful for all the signs that the Universe is fulfilling your request for perfect love, whether it be someone at work inviting you to lunch or the pizza man flirting with you. You are drawing people to you, so take your time and wait for the right one.
Manifestations often show small signs of manifesting before they deliver the big one. Never doubt the process. Trust that it is happening and continue your affirmations. And be grateful at all signs of manifestation.
Step 7: Be Vigilant, Be Persistent
After you start seeing signs of your manifestation, after you meet this Perfect Person, be sure to keep up the affirmations. Change or update them, if you need to.
"All things between my Perfect Mate and myself are peaceful, compatible and harmonious"
"My Perfect Mate and I are the best of friends"
"My Perfect Mate and I express our love for each other freely and warmly"
"My Perfect Mate is supportive of me and helps me achieve my dreams"
The tendency is to stop once we get what we want. The problem with this is that eventually doubt and our old negative ways start to set in and we start to manifest problems in the relationship because we start distrusting our partner or the process that brought him/her to us.
Present Tense Affirmations
I am attracting my soul mate
I believe deeply that I will attract my soul mate
My soul mate is strongly attracted to me
My mind is totally focused on attracting my soul mate
I am already connected deeply to my soul mate
I always radiate a loving and inviting energy
Others are drawn to me because of my positive energy
I deserve to find my soul mate
My soul mate and I are destined to be together
There is an unbreakable bond between my soul mate and I
Future Tense Affirmations
My soul mate and I will be together
I will find my soul mate and we will live happily ever after
I am attracting my soul mate more with each day
I will attract my soul mate
A positive loving energy is growing between myself and my soul mate
I am beginning to feel deeply that I will meet my soul mate soon
Each day the energy between my soul mate and I grows stronger
I believe more each day that I will find my perfect partner
My soul mate is beginning to sense our connection
I will know my soul mate the instant we meet
Natural Affirmations
I believe in my ability to attract my soul mate
I find it easy to give off positive and loving energy to others
I can sense deeply that there is 1 special person I am meant to be with
Being warm, loving, and loveable is just a natural part of who I am
Others see me as someone they’d like to get to know more
There is a magical connection between my soul mate and I
My Soul mate and I are being drawn together
My soul mate and I are just meant to be together
When I meet my soul mate, I’ll just naturally know
I effortlessly radiate positive and loving energy
see you clearly with the eyes of pure, unconditional love. I love what I see.
My marriage/relationship made in heaven is made manifest on earth.
I am in a joyous, intimate relationship.
Every day in every way our marriage is getting better, better and better.
My partner and I are very much in love with each other.
My partner and I arefully compatible and perfectly aligned physically.
My partner and I arefully compatible and perfectly aligned sexually.
My partner and I arefully compatible and perfectly aligned emotionally.
My partner and I are fully compatible and perfectly aligned intellectually.
My partner and I are fully compatible and perfectly aligned spiritually.
I draw love and romance into my life and I accept it now.
My partner is loyal to me.
I am magnetic and irresistible to my partner.
I radiate pure, unconditional love towards my partner.
From time to time I ask my husband, "How can I love you more?"
I choose to see my husband clearly with the eyes of love and compassion, I love what I see.
Love happens! I release the desperate need for love. I release the need for my partner to approve of me. I allow love to find me easily and effortlessly.
Love is all around me. I feel everywhere. Joy fills my entire world.
I was born to learn to love myself more, and to share that love with people around me.
My partner is the love of my life and we adore each other.
I rejoice in the love I encounter everyday.
I now deserve love, romance, and joy--and all the blessings that life has to offer me.
Love is all there is!
Only love is real.
I radiate pure, unconditional love towards my partner.
I am safe in all my relationships. I am always treated well.
Long-lasting, loving relationships brighten my life.
I am very grateful for all the love in my life. I find it everywhere.
I am surrounded by love. All is well.
My heart is open to love. I speak loving words to my spouse.
I have a wonderful partner, and we are both happy and at peace.
I come from the loving space of my heart, and I know that love opens new possibilities.
There is no problem so big or so small, that it cannot be solved with love.
Deep at the center of my being is an infinite well of love.
I am in a joyous intimate relationship with a person who truly loves me.
My relationships are mirrors that show me myself.
I am now learning from all my relationships.
I laugh with my husband more and more each day.
My relationships are helping me to heal and love myself.
I am strong, vulnerable, and loving in my relationships.
I deserve love and sexual pleasure.
All is well in my marriage. Really.
I am now ready to accept a happy, fulfilling relationship.
I am now ready for my relationships to work.
I love myself and I naturally attract loving relationships into my life.
I am now attracting exactly the kind of relationship I want.
I am now divinely irresistible to my perfect mate.
All difficulties between me and ________ are now being healed.
The more I love myself, the more I love ___________.
I love ____________ and____________ loves me.
All of the changes in my marriage and life are positive. I am safe.
I am open to receiving love and to extending it.
I interact with my husband positively and joyfully more and more each day.
I/We remain focused on the big picture in our marriage.
Giving my husband unconditional love makes me feel energized.
I enjoy performing small acts of kindness for my husband. I love to see joy on his face.
I always keep a sense of humor about things in my marriage.
I am always centered and in present moment in my life and marriage.
I accept, respect, and enjoy our differences. Differences add interest and variety to my marriage.
I look for ways to contribute to my partner's growth and happiness. I support my partner in their goals unselfishly, knowing that it will make them happy.
I respect what my partner has to say. I listen to my partner with genuine interest. I offer empathy when appropriate.
I desire love, so I give my partner love.
I desire respect, so I give my partner respect.
I desire cooperation, so I give my partner cooperation.
I desire compassion, so I give my partner compassion.
I desire control, so I give my partner control!
For women:
I am feminine and full of grace.
I am feminine and receptive.
I possess great inner-strength.
I am fully receptive and appreciative for all the love that my partner showers upon me.
I release excessive control. I live and let live in my marriage.
I am receptive to my husband's romantic advances.
I greatly admire and respect my husband for all that he is.
I admire and respect my partner because ...
I verbalize my respect and admiration for my partner daily.
My yin/feminine energy blends perfectly and beautifully with my partner's yang/masculine energy.
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