PERSONAL: HAVE YOU EVER NOTICE

Have you ever noticed that some of the best things in life seem to happen by chance?

Not the meticulously planned party, but that spontaneous gathering where you find yourself laughing into the early hours.

That incredible wilderness view you stumble upon, while skiing in the mountains, simply because you took a wrong turn.

That chance encounter or that kiss you weren’t expecting.

That song you downloaded by mistake, only to have it reach inside and touch you.

Do you move around off the beaten track or even exist somewhere in the wilderness?

The Tooth Fairy isn’t real.

If you hear a drumbeat at night, that’s me sending you a message.

Every day is a lucky day.

Doing something, in the moment, just for the hell of it and because you feel like it.

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I’ve invented a new color.

Last night I lay in bed, looking up at the stars in the night sky and got to thinking………. where the hell’s the roof gone!!!

I hate fantasies because they always come true.

My superhero power is flying. I’ve almost mastered it. Unfortunately, they keep pushing me off the ledge and I still keep landing with a thud. But I’m optimistic. At the moment, I like to think that I fall with style.

I’m 5′ 7″ on paper but 6′ 1″ when you tickle me.

I once lost a needle in a haystack – and found it.

I tend to float on a stream of consciousness in the hope of discovering something new.

“Frankly, my dear, I don’t give a damn”

Boring, predictable and uninspiring are the guys who contact you and say “Hi, I like your profile, check out mine, we have so much in common”.

My carpet cleans itself.

By the way, even Superheros like to fish.




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I am at a point in life where I am looking for a long term relationship (Marriage..and kids) within the next year or so... Looking for the whole deal...love, passion and a fire that keeps burning :)

WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR:

Graduate degree or higher education so we are at par and able to communicate. Makes enough money, so I am sure you're not interested in my earning potential alone :)

While I am perfectly capable of taking care of myself, I do crave that special feeling that the right woman generate....that makes a man feel, loved, cherished ..are you the one to do that? In turn I would make you the center of my universe.

I am very traditional in my views about marriage...for that reason it is essential that my woman possess certain qualities...in order for me to be able to respect her and have a balanced relationship. I like a woman who is a woman.

Ideally, she should have equivalent education  or at least finish college and have an interest in making the world a better place. She should be someone I can look up to - intelligent, confident, optimistic, family oriented, successful and broad-minded. Honor and integrity are major turn ons for me. Belief in a higher power and purpose is a "must have". 

I know what I bring to a relationship and expect the same in return....that's not asking for much is it? I am not designed to settle for less :) When in a committed relationship, I love and give freely and trust completely - no secrets, manipulation or egotism...

RANDOM FACTS ABOUT ME
-- You will find me to be refreshingly honest, that and the lack of manipulation is what keeps me looking young :)
-- If I fall in love with you, you will feel like the luckiest woman alive, because you will be the center of my universe...I do expect the same in return though...you knew there was a catch...didn't you?
-- I can find contentment and happiness with very little, but conversely, I can be very driven and determined once I set my mind on something. I love challenges and ALWAYS finish what I start
-- I am very passionate about my work as well as life outside of work
-- While I am "responsible" - I love being spontaneous
-- I am VERY self sufficient and have no addictions, diseases or debts and an excellent credit rating...in my mind that reflects character and sound judgement....you should be able to say the same
-- I like to keep an open mind. I have been accused of seeing other's point of view too readily...but I choose to be that way
-- I have limitless ability to love, forgive and be optimistic...if what we have or create together is special and unique
-- I have never been jealous...but I do believe very strongly that the only relationship worth having is an exclusive one




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According to law of attraction, if you are interesting in manifesting your soulmate one of the best ways  to allow what you want into your life is to "tell a new story" about it.The idea is that instead of focusing on  WHAT IS, you focus on WHAT YOU WANT. Abraham-Hicks mention that when you read it, YOU FEEL GOOD -- you feel like, "Ah, there you are. I know you are here with me now. I can already feel what it is like to be together. You are awesome!" And then you let go and let the Universe do it's job coordinating all the components of the how, when, and where you will meet your ideal woman You allow the Law of Attraction to bring you the relationship you want. I decided to give this a try...so here's an example of telling a true love soulmate story

All I want to do is think about my true love soulmate -- the awesome woman  that I can't wait to meet. I bet she's looking forward to meeting me too and having a wonderful relationship together! She's the woman I've waited my whole life to be with!! And I'm the man she's waited her whole life to be with!!! When we meet, it will be like we've known each other forever!!

When I think about her wonderful qualities, I can't help but be joyful!! She's smart and funny and she laughs at everything, especially my jokes. She gets me and my sense of humor. She's so easy to talk to and we never run out of conversation. WE HAVE SO MUCH FUN TOGETHER!  She's open and honest and forthright with me about everything. She's reliable, responsible, trustworthy, respectful of me, my time, and my things, and she always makes me feel important and like a priority to her.

I think she's beautiful and when I look at her I think, "She's so  dam beautiful". She's super attracted to me too and thinks I'm handsome. She tells me that I'm handsome and how much she loves my body and my personality. She's physical affection as much as me. I loves to kiss her all the time. She is slim with long beautiful hair and her eyes looks right into my soul.

We always have such a great time together -- talking about everything, agreeing on things that are important to me and laughing and giggling about everything. She's doing well financially and he's happy with her work and current career path and plans on continuing on it because it brings him joy! And she's good with his money.She has friends and family that support her and love her. She loves Long Island and want to get married soon and have children as well. She constantly surprise me with gifts. And I would do the same and write love lettters and poetry to her all the time.

She eats healthfully like I do. She exercises regularly and takes good care of her body. We have a good time together even doing the most mundane things like grocery shopping.She loves going out but is a homebody like me. I'm so in love with her already. She's supportive of my personal growth work and wants to deepen our relationship emotionally and takes action to do so.

Our sex life is amazing!  She really listens to me when I explain what I like and she DOES what I like and she's GREAT at it!  She doesn't say NO and is adventrous.

Her positive aspects are easy to recall at all times. She's easy to love and she's emotionally warm and close and easy to talk to and easy to be around and happy and in love with me too. She is ALL IN from the get-go! She calls or texts me every day and sometimes a couple of times a day just to say hi and see how I'm doing. And she wants to be in a serious relationship with me. She loves me like no one else ever has! We meet and we are DONE, COMPLETE AND THE CIRCLE OF LIFE IS FINISHED! She not only wants to marry me, take care of me, and love me forever, but She DOES THOSE THINGS! AND, that remains constant and our love deepens and grows as times goes on… this is the relationship I've waited my life to have and I'm loving every minute of it! I have finally found my true love soulmate!



4-WHAT I AM NOT

I’m not gonna bore you by talking about how I’m a great guy with brown eyes, a great smile, and a sharp sense of humor. I’m also not going to drone on about how totally awesome and sexy I am. (That should be obvious!) Instead, I’m going to tell you what I'm NOT about: I AM NOT A JERK, so if you're turned on by guys who are rude, mean, like to use you and abuse you or whatever, then you need to click away right now. I AM NOT A BROKE LOSER. I have a house and a car. So if you're looking for a guy who's constantly spending all his time working just to afford beer, or mooching off you in some way, that's not me. I DON'T USER DRUGS OR DRINK, so if you're looking for a guy to smoke meth and/or crack with while chugging a bottle of jack, move along. I'm high on life baby. I don't spend my time with computer games. I AM NOT A STALKER, and I am not desperate. I know I'm a great catch for any woman, so if you want some insecure guy who's obsessed with you, I'm afraid that won't happen here. I'M NOT A HEALTH NUT. I do take care of myself, but I am not a body builder. So if you're only looking for muscle-bound guys who like to spend more time at the gym than they do with you, move along. I'M NOT ABUSIVE and would never physically harm a girl, so if you feel the need to be with a creep who beats on you and treats you like crap, please, for the love of God, do not waste my time because I would never ever hurt a woman. I am very close to my family..

With all that said...that's not to say my experiences with dating and relationships have been a cakewalk. A lot of woman are clueless and their priority are totally messed up.When it comes to choosing a husband, only one thing really, truly matters: character. So it stands to reason that a man's character should be at the top of the list of things you are looking for, right? But if you're not married, I already know it isn't. Because if you were looking for a man of character,you would have found one by now. Men of character are, by definition, willing to commit. Instead, most woman are looking for GQ model or someone rich. Or someone who knows what an Eames chair is. Unfortunately, this is not the thinking of a wife. This is the thinking of a teenaged girl. And men of character do not want to marry teenaged girls. Because teenage girls are never happy. And they never feel like cooking, either.

The reality is, only a handful truly fit the mold of what being the woman a man truly needs and desires.The deal is: most men just want to marry someone who is nice to them. The bottom line is that marriage is just a long-term opportunity to practice loving someone even when they don't deserve it. Because most of the time, your messy, farting, macaroni-and-cheese eating man will not be doing what you want him to. But as you give him love anyway -- because you have made up your mind to transform yourself into a person who is practicing being kind, deep, virtuous, truthful, giving, and most of all, accepting of your own dear self -- you will find that you will experience the very thing you wanted all along:
Love.

So if you haven't been scared off by now, we may actually have something here! So send me an email with your number. I dare you. I double-dog dare you. :-P