MY LANGUAGE OF LOVE

How do you know when you loved? We all have different language that communicates to us that his person loves us. I don't think there is ANYTHING more important than to know  what YOU need to feel the MOST loved 

I've taken this a step further - you might even feel that you fit into more than one category or you are a little bit of each one, but there will be ONE of them that you cannot live without when you are with someone. And I have found that some of the most common romantic compatibility problems come from being with someone who is not your compatible love language!


1-Physical Affection: Some people feel the most loved if you GIVE THEM AFFECTION all the time -- hold their hand, hug them, kiss them, spoon them, give them massages, play with their hair, scratch their back, snuggle them on the couch or in bed, etc. To me ..it's sex.


2-Words of Affirmation: Some people feel really loved if you SAY things to them like, "You are really smart. You are so funny. You are very sexy. I love you....you are beautiful

3-Acts of Service: Some people feel really loved if you DO things for them:  do the dishes, make the bed, cook them dinner, clean the house, put gas in their car, iron their shirts, etc.

4-Receiving Gifts: Some people feel really loved if you GIVE them something all the time – a book, a card, a CD, they want you to bring them back a souvenir if you've gone on a trip, or just any type of gift that says you were thinking of them.

5-Quantity Time: Some people feel really loved if you SPEND A LOT OF TIME with them. This is not the same as "quality time"… EVERYONE wants quality time, but "quantity time" people feel loved if they can spend as much time with you as possible. Given their choice, they would see you every night of the week and all weekend. They'll say things like, "I need to run a bunch of errands today. Will you just come along with me?"

I am searching for my future wife/soulmate. Please stop by again.