LOVE: THE PROBLEM WITH DATING

My whole life up to this point has been a frustrated world spent admiring beautiful, sexy women from afar, dreaming of all the naked possibilities and seeing yourself as “not worthy” and “out of her league” I think that lack with with women comes down to a few things:

I’m not a model
I’m underweight
I'm not tall
I'm not a millionaire.

If only I could change this these aspect of myself, everything will change and women will be attracted to me and life will be happy. I think most guys believe that in order to attract the hottest women you have to be, at least, tall, good looking, “ripped”, rich, even famous.  I have a belief system that believes that only the good looking guys get the hottest, prettiest girls. But in the end, that’s all they are; PERCEPTIONS and BELIEFS, that create a “false reality” in my head. They’re not REASONS, they’re EXCUSES.

 I use to that women have the same outlook when it comes to considering a male as husband...I was totally wrong....i drank the wrong cool aid. I need to change my changed my “frame of mind”

The truth is  at any given time MOST girls (almost 99%) WON’T be interested in you. Most pretend to like you and  string you along so they just use you to boost their own ego .or get you to spend your money on them. It's a number game and I don't like to waste my time with “distractions” – not very efficient or productive if you’re a busy guy

I was a decent guy, women just seemed to take a dislike to me. It really did feel like a huge injustice.

Furthermore, I could never understand why any woman would be attracted to a guy who was rude and disrespectful. And why on earth would any woman remain “keen” on a guy who was just plain “mean” and nasty to her?

The only women who are ever likely to want to spend time with guys who are mean and nasty to them are women with low self esteem and no self respect.

These are the only women these guys can get.

Any decent woman, with an ounce of self respect, just wouldn’t tolerate what these “bad boys” dish out and certainly would have no desire to spend time with them. It  tells you more about her and the type of person she really is inside.  Women with low self esteem / lack of self respect, in the past and in my experience these women: are full of problems.In the end, I found even the sex to be no compensation for the rest of the relationship and just didn’t want to be in their company. Lack of respect for themselves and for others is what they grew up with and it becomes a way of life for them

One of the biggest mistakes most guys make is in assuming that bad boys and Alpha Males are one of the same.. The difference between a bad boy, an Alpha Male and a nice guy is all down to one word……and that word is RESPECT.

It’s all about demanding respect and not tolerating disrespect, from anyone, male and FEMALE. Treat people the way you want to be treated.