SPIRITUAL: WE CREATE OUR OWN "HOLES" WITHIN OUR SOUL

If you are so engulfed in your attempts to attract that specific person like I have, you don't realize the very nature of your endeavor. The desperate tone underlying your questions makes me sense your pain.

I understand you want to be happy. You want to end your suffering, but the path you have taken is the very source of the suffering you are trying to get away from. It is the never ending cycle if you go on like this.

What's in it for you? What do you think that specific person provides you with that you believe you are missing?

We create our own "holes" within our soul with our believes. And then, because we feel incomplete, we desire to patch them. Where it feels something is missing, a DESIRE to find the missing piece is born. Just take a look at any desire you have and it will expose the missing parts in you. That great suffering you want to get rid of.

I'm gonna swim against the flow now.

It is believed by many that Law Of Attraction means that LIKES attract LIKES, but that is a statement of ignorance. Magnetic poles of the same charge never attract themselves. It's is the OPPOSITES that attract!

How that relates to LOA? Very simple, whatever vibrational level you are, you are that level for a reason. It is to compensate for the missing pieces within you. It's important to understand, that "missing" pieces or "holes" in your soul are just an illusion created by your ignorance. By your lack of knowledge of who you are. You are already COMPLETE and nothing is really missing.

It may seem that confident people attract confident people. But people need confidence only because of the way they are defining their self-worth is the cause for the need of confidence. Deep inside they are afraid, unsure, worrying. So they build confidence to counter it.

Then you get either people who display those fears and worries openly, they are drawn to confident people.

And then you see confident people, who cover those fears and worries with confidence. But it is the FEARS and WORRIES in them which ATTRACT the confidence of OTHER PEOPLE.

Are you beginning to see the picture now? Negative always attract positive. But even if two positives seemingly attract each other, it is their negatives that has given birth to them which attracts the positive of one another.

And final question to you. Do you think that person would want to be with someone desperate, would you want to be with a desperate person yourself?