If only you could
step inside my heart
for just a moment or two
you might be overwhelmed
by what I feel for you
Love, pure and simple love
that has no end
and longs to hold you near
for now and forever;
for as long as we’re both here
I want to hold you close
I want to hold your hand
I never want to let you go;
you’re the best I’ve ever had
I want to protect you
I want to keep you safe
I never want to see you cry
or feel an ounce of pain
I want to see you smile
I want to make you laugh
I never want you to wish
for something other than what you have
I want to give you everything
I want to give you my all
I never want to give you less
than anything you want
Because it’s simple
my love for you is pure
and you are the one
I’ve waited my whole life for.
Maybe I am silly for thinking that my words will touch someone's heart. And what she was reading was something much more special than what she normally read. She is looking into the soul of her soulmate. What was happening? She had never felt this way before! Somehow every word seemed to touch her heart. she felt a harmony between something in her heart, and those sweet powerful words. To her it seemed every letter carried so much wonder, exhibited by every sentence, and such a refreshing ravishing food communicated, that she could not stop reading. Excited by these developments, She wants to know more about me and immediately sent me a message. Her love had arrived at her tower. She just needed to throw down her hair and I would climb to to her. She would find me amazing. And over the next few weeks of talking to me ..she has fell deeper in love. My intellect, my enlightened self, my sense of humor and even my perverted side touched her. We decided to met. Seeing her in person made my stomach ache with butterflies on kamikaze missions. She was so beautiful and humble. Her smile made my heart melt at its genuine sincerity.That night as she lay on bed sleeping. Her innocent demeanor caught my attention. She was so real. So genuine. Where had she been all my life? It was in that moment that I would realized something. I had gained something so much more through this journey. I had found a friend. I had found a true friend and partner that was beyond sex, it was beyond her amazing body. We had something much more special. We had a connection that was real, pure and grounded in emotion.
When I typed those very first words,how could we have possibly known. My words would bring us so close,and this beautiful love would be sown. Words exchanged between strangers made their way into your hearts.Then words became words of love, with hopes and dreams to impart.
How can you fall so much in love, with someone who you haven't met? Because it is the words which reveal,the heart of a person on the internet.My words made it so easy for you, for your heart and soul to perceive.And when love is based on words only, falling in love isn't so hard to conceive. You didn't need to see a picture of me, or to even hear the sound of my voice. As it is the person who I am is inside, which made you my dreams only choice.
Our hearts traveled towards each other, and bridged the gap between the miles.There is no distance between two hearts, when it's your love that the bridge compiles.
Wednesday, September 4, 2013
JOURNAL: THE JOURNEY OF LOVE
I became an emotional being without knowing the proper language that it speaks. I had always feared of falling deeply in love, then not having it reiterated or having it taken away from me. I don’t know where this fear started but I’m beginning to understand it. I’ve always wanted a family and those that I have stuck next to and imbedded roots have a tight family connection, I would force myself into situations to make myself to become the man I want to be.
I’m a strong talented guy and getting into positions where easy, but they never allowed me to expand beyond a point. I wanted to develop with someone, not take away but add, learn, love and grow. I never fought with anyone more than myself, I wrestled the ideas, thoughts, fears and notions that I’m not worth shit and beat myself up inside and out. I have always wanted to be a good man. A man of quality and character, sometimes that character takes over. Of all the things I hold dearest, the one of being a husband and father is my highest. It’s hard to understand, but these are what drove me on the divide, the idea of accomplishing something for my family and friends. I’ve never had too many close friends. Because, just like in a relationship the closeness show the imperfections. Alone on a ride or dealing with theses strong emotions, I feel them below my skin, wrapped around bones and muscle I try to find places for them, give them the space and depth they need to make me be that man, I try to conquer them before I return to those I love.
I think that’s a big fear, our imperfections revealed, it’s also what love is, I love my girlfriends imperfections, I love my friends imperfections. I’m a flawed man, but I’m not ok with it, I want to better it, sometimes giving it the language it needs proves the absolute most difficult. I believe that is why I have always ridden, and I allowed it to take over my life. Because it is healthy, it’s steady and it’s also silent. The silence lends itself to the beauty of what we do; giving credence to the endeavor and the effort it takes to do our sport. It is different for everyone but the tones are the same.
It has also damaged me;
I’m a physical being, if you’re in arms reach I can touch you, I can allow my hands to show you how I love, appreciate, and need you. The untangling of emotion that lead to them sometimes gets miss directed, but realizing you’re so much more than a body. All these feelings housed inside my frame have always known effort, I want them to go home, a home we created, one I’ve never had till now. A place of love, a foundation for dreams. To give a language for this huge amount of love and gratitude that I have for my girlfriend, this life, the friends, the rides and places we go. To shed that armor over things that don’t need to be protected.
My ex girlfriends were all beautiful woman, I knew with everyone of them that my life was never going to be the same, from that day forward every thought, actions and effort was going to have a different meaning. It wasn’t her beauty that caught me, it was the emotional intelligence in her eyes that grabbed me, I knew she possessed all that I had been missing and all that I wanted, I knew the pain would be immense the profit would far outweigh the effort, on the other side has changed, no longer fueled by the fear, but maintaining a healthy chip, but by having this amazing love with her, with my friends, I’ve become more than a character, more than the total of my stories, not a myth or statue. But a man who knows loves and desperately understands it. And shouldn’t that be it? To know love, friendship, gratitude, faith? A life spent with all of these is a life lived and shared.
I get turned around in the turmoil, this new found way to speak is awkward at first, but to see the smile on her face, and the lightness in their eyes makes it all worthwhile, we should continue to evolve until we die, even then disappear with a love in our eyes.
I’m a strong talented guy and getting into positions where easy, but they never allowed me to expand beyond a point. I wanted to develop with someone, not take away but add, learn, love and grow. I never fought with anyone more than myself, I wrestled the ideas, thoughts, fears and notions that I’m not worth shit and beat myself up inside and out. I have always wanted to be a good man. A man of quality and character, sometimes that character takes over. Of all the things I hold dearest, the one of being a husband and father is my highest. It’s hard to understand, but these are what drove me on the divide, the idea of accomplishing something for my family and friends. I’ve never had too many close friends. Because, just like in a relationship the closeness show the imperfections. Alone on a ride or dealing with theses strong emotions, I feel them below my skin, wrapped around bones and muscle I try to find places for them, give them the space and depth they need to make me be that man, I try to conquer them before I return to those I love.
I think that’s a big fear, our imperfections revealed, it’s also what love is, I love my girlfriends imperfections, I love my friends imperfections. I’m a flawed man, but I’m not ok with it, I want to better it, sometimes giving it the language it needs proves the absolute most difficult. I believe that is why I have always ridden, and I allowed it to take over my life. Because it is healthy, it’s steady and it’s also silent. The silence lends itself to the beauty of what we do; giving credence to the endeavor and the effort it takes to do our sport. It is different for everyone but the tones are the same.
It has also damaged me;
It’s a phenomenal feeling to overcome a fear, to continue to find a deeper love with another, to use gratitude as fuel instead of anger. I’m more accustomed to fears of a life or death matter, not internal fearful issues, I haven’t acquired the wiring to sometimes handle it, although the light transcends thought, everything is tinted with a shade of gold, but it also causes strife.
I’m a physical being, if you’re in arms reach I can touch you, I can allow my hands to show you how I love, appreciate, and need you. The untangling of emotion that lead to them sometimes gets miss directed, but realizing you’re so much more than a body. All these feelings housed inside my frame have always known effort, I want them to go home, a home we created, one I’ve never had till now. A place of love, a foundation for dreams. To give a language for this huge amount of love and gratitude that I have for my girlfriend, this life, the friends, the rides and places we go. To shed that armor over things that don’t need to be protected.
My ex girlfriends were all beautiful woman, I knew with everyone of them that my life was never going to be the same, from that day forward every thought, actions and effort was going to have a different meaning. It wasn’t her beauty that caught me, it was the emotional intelligence in her eyes that grabbed me, I knew she possessed all that I had been missing and all that I wanted, I knew the pain would be immense the profit would far outweigh the effort, on the other side has changed, no longer fueled by the fear, but maintaining a healthy chip, but by having this amazing love with her, with my friends, I’ve become more than a character, more than the total of my stories, not a myth or statue. But a man who knows loves and desperately understands it. And shouldn’t that be it? To know love, friendship, gratitude, faith? A life spent with all of these is a life lived and shared.
I get turned around in the turmoil, this new found way to speak is awkward at first, but to see the smile on her face, and the lightness in their eyes makes it all worthwhile, we should continue to evolve until we die, even then disappear with a love in our eyes.
Tuesday, September 3, 2013
JOURNAL: I KNOW WHAT LOVE IS
I've written about love and the people that I love many times before, and just from reading my blog one could gather that I am an affectionate person. I write about love so much that I probably sound like a big sappy person that sits around drawing rainbows and hearts all over the place. That's actually pretty accurate. Here's another post focusing on my favorite emotion: love.
I am proud to be part of the population who knows that love feels like. I know what it feels like to be loved, and in return I know what it feels like to love. I love love. I love having people in my life to find me worthy enough to be loved. I love having people in my life who are worthy enough of my love. Love is a rare and precious thing; I firmly believe that it should always be treated as such. I love a lot of people, but there are few people that I am in love with. I know what it feels like to have someone who loves you hold your hand while you walk around in public and not be ashamed of it. I know what it feels like to have a person who loves you hold you, whispering comforting words into your ear while you cry your heart out. I know what it feels like to look at a person and see their eyes light up because they see you. I know what it feels like to mean so much to a person. I know what love feels like. It is an emotion that is all-encompassing. It is an emotion that creates the best feeling in the world while also being the emotion that can destroy a person's entire soul. Love is terrifying, but also wonderful. It's condescending.
I'm not an expert on love, and I'm not pretending to be. Actually, I don't think anyone can be an expert on love. It's too complex to be figured out well enough to have experts. I wouldn't want to be an expert on love anyway. It's way too much fun falling all over the place trying to figure this stuff out. I like finding out what drives a person, what makes them happy, sad, angry or passionate. I like finding out their quirks. I really enjoy falling in love. With that said, I only have one piece of advice: don't try to force love, it doesn't work like that. Go with the flow. Do what feels right to you, not what you think your parents, friends, or what whoever you're falling in love with wants. And one more thing, don't wish love between two other people to fail. Love is an experience everyone deserves to have. Love isn't a one time thing, it happens again and again, as hard as it can be to encourage certain people to be in love with other people, we must try. It's really only their business. Fall in love with whoever you want, don't let anyone tell you you aren't worth it or that person doesn't deserve you. That's just not true.
Now, all together, let's hug. I love you.
I am proud to be part of the population who knows that love feels like. I know what it feels like to be loved, and in return I know what it feels like to love. I love love. I love having people in my life to find me worthy enough to be loved. I love having people in my life who are worthy enough of my love. Love is a rare and precious thing; I firmly believe that it should always be treated as such. I love a lot of people, but there are few people that I am in love with. I know what it feels like to have someone who loves you hold your hand while you walk around in public and not be ashamed of it. I know what it feels like to have a person who loves you hold you, whispering comforting words into your ear while you cry your heart out. I know what it feels like to look at a person and see their eyes light up because they see you. I know what it feels like to mean so much to a person. I know what love feels like. It is an emotion that is all-encompassing. It is an emotion that creates the best feeling in the world while also being the emotion that can destroy a person's entire soul. Love is terrifying, but also wonderful. It's condescending.
I'm not an expert on love, and I'm not pretending to be. Actually, I don't think anyone can be an expert on love. It's too complex to be figured out well enough to have experts. I wouldn't want to be an expert on love anyway. It's way too much fun falling all over the place trying to figure this stuff out. I like finding out what drives a person, what makes them happy, sad, angry or passionate. I like finding out their quirks. I really enjoy falling in love. With that said, I only have one piece of advice: don't try to force love, it doesn't work like that. Go with the flow. Do what feels right to you, not what you think your parents, friends, or what whoever you're falling in love with wants. And one more thing, don't wish love between two other people to fail. Love is an experience everyone deserves to have. Love isn't a one time thing, it happens again and again, as hard as it can be to encourage certain people to be in love with other people, we must try. It's really only their business. Fall in love with whoever you want, don't let anyone tell you you aren't worth it or that person doesn't deserve you. That's just not true.
Now, all together, let's hug. I love you.
POETRY: WE SHARE THE SAME DREAM
Flying always is your mind,
Pursuing anything you like
To seize pleasure anywhere low and high.
Pacing up and down in a crowd all the time,
You fear the taste of loneliness, and sigh.
Soft and fragile is your heart,
Surrendered to drizzle and breeze alike,
Broken with a gentle touch at one try.
You like to keep friends by your side.
You are most scared of night.
But, night is bound to arrive,
And friends to part after a while.
Company won't last a long time.
Fruits of solitude everyone must bite.
Get tired not of only you and I.
When you're lonely, who will come to mind?
Company of someone else will you find?
Your joy and sorrow alike
are forever mine.
Ah, let me accompany you one more time.
2
If my love were a song, I would sing it for you
If my love were a star, it would shine the brightest
And twinkle now and then to remind you as you gaze up above
That my love is steadfast and true, bright and unlike any other
If my love were a mountain, it would be the highest, hardest to reach
And a reminder that few have been there, for the journey is hard
And to conquer it is to survive the journey
If my love were like the ocean, it would be the deepest, most beautiful
Warm, like my heart full of love for you
Deep as the depth of my love for you
Yet at times, rough and precarious due to changes in the weather and life
But, no matter how rough or calm, my love remains the same
3
At times my heart is full of love for you.
At times it's full of desire.
At times I feel I can't go on without you.
At times I fell deceived and hate takes over.
But when I am with you...
All that hate filters away
And all I feel is heartfelt love and desire.
4
My ears, naked with impatience,
find the inches between our
words, extravagant-
My heart, swollen with
an intolerable hush,
reinvents anticipation-
The abandonment drains
the skin of the sun-
The sky drinks
nocturnal merlot-
I am absurd, you are
phenomenal-
My pulse displayed
My complexion, rare-
Then your voice, again.
5
We lay upon the midnight moon
Whispering secrets as our passions bloom.
As the cool breeze carries your scent across the land
I stare into your eyes.
As gentle kisses flutter your hand
Our heart beats echoes in rhythm's demand
While love sounds out like an orchestra of romance.
Your soft body melts into me
Creating twin thoughts.
Your fragrance like flowers.
Your beauty well sought.
The moan that's released for once...
A thousand times before.
You say this night forever,
And I forever more.
6
Dreaming
as i heard your voice whisper in the wind
i listen ever so closely to heart every words
within your heart that's been aching for so
long needing a love that truly belongs.
as we drifted together in places that we
seen yet did not feel that's special
feelings we share today
feels like a dream is all it seems
floating in the clouds, walking in water,
climbing the highest mountain and knowing
that love like this could only be a dream
yet in our heart as we both know
we no longer have to dream no more.
you and i felt what was a dream
but today, my love, we live what we dream
sharing a love that's everlasting
and we no longer have to dream and dream.
7
A sailor without a northern star,
bitter and cold creep within the heart.
Wandering, journeying, far till the soul is ill;
yet my home is further still.
No sandy shores beckon my boat,
and darkness creeps like a woven coat.
Jagged, rigged, cliffs call out,
with shallow waters that hold no clout.
Clouds fever across the barren skies
as a stoned faced disguise
I put in place
while steering the murky waters covered in frothy lace.
Yet...I see a beam,
or is it a miraged gleam?
Could there be a home?
for this fallen sailor who stands alone?
I bear no name
with glory, honor or fame.
Weary, tired, and beaten;
I stand praying my eyes are not decieving.
Yes! For it is a gleam within a smile,
so close...but dare I cross the miles?
Friend or foe?
dare I find? Dare I go?
So many cliffs
with jarring riffs.
Have from my past I not learned?
Battle scars deceitfully earned.
Boats crushed and lie barren at the bottomless sea,
hopes killed deep within me.
Pound one...pound two...pound three...pound four...
Cries NEVER AGAIN! NEVER MORE!
Deserve not I of this gleam,
for it could never be for me!
Tears of red stream my face,
a stone mask well set in place.
Facaded thespians all about,
I hear them cry...I hear them shout.
Yet her light calls to my heart,
although love to me has always been bitter and tart.
Her light could not be for me,
alas I belong upon this barren sea.
A light, a light, a northern star;
an angel's lark like none before.
A sandy beach?
Could it be possible? Could I reach?
Shall I stay? Shall I go?
Dear god hear my sorrow.
For my love runs deep,
yet she lies so far from my reach.
I fear my tarnished soul shall dim her light,
yet I run to her from the hated night.
Please let this be the one,
let my journey end and the farce be done.
For I cannot stop the love that from my heart flows
as she calls to my lonely soul.
Unworthy of her fruit-filled trees
that sway in the gentle breeze.
Her golden fields
that lovingly yield.
Mother nature's greatest sunrise
lying deep within her eyes.
Precious treasures she hides,
but is it my place to try and find?
I may never know
why she accepted my tarnished soul.
But I am filled with such love as she turned my night to day.
So please lord...please lord...never take her away.
8
In momentary inattention of sight
You passed by me with a speed of light.
Weathering the stormy love of my life past
You weakened the defense my heart has known.
You besiege my space with unlimited love
Claiming everything that comes your way.
You occupy my days with all your ways
Without a glimpse of what your love will bring.
The weight of your thought occupies my soul
Keeping me under your merciful control.
All the heavenly bliss, my heart has shown
Are products of your clever, lovely goal.
Through the windows of your innocent heart
You peeped to see my aching life.
Like a wounded soldier in the battlefield
I crawled to safety of your unfailing love.
9
In the moon glow
of earth's candle flame
A glancing smile,
a sultry whisper
"I Love you" "I Love you"
in the echoing vapors
of an ethereal
ochre light
Prisms of a rainbow's prance
dewy remembrances
and a soft repeat
"I Love you" "I Love you"
lost in the soul scape
of scattered dreams
And always, always
a whispered repeat
"I Love you" "I Love you"
in the flickering
of a moon's
dying flame
10
I often forget how much you love me.
I often forget because you're too perfect to exist in reality.
Were you sent to guide my way?
Were you sent to lead me threw each and every day?
What did I do to deserve your loving hands?
What did I do to deserve such a wonderful man?
At first my thought was you wanted something in return.
But giving something for nothing is what I had to learn.
Loving me for me seemed so strange.
Who I was I never let anyone know because of the pain.
I always hid temptation of loving someone else.
I choose to hide feelings, they could never love me for just myself.
I once ran into a relationship
I thought I'd be satisfied to be loved in any way.
That failed when all those women choose not to stay.
I was then confused I didn't know what love was anymore.
When at one time I felt I knew for sure.
Thank You for saving and loving me the best way you know how.
I know how to be loved and give love back in return now.
Thank you for excepting my faults and my past.
Thank you for letting my heart know you'll still be there
Even if it doesn't last.
Pursuing anything you like
To seize pleasure anywhere low and high.
Pacing up and down in a crowd all the time,
You fear the taste of loneliness, and sigh.
Soft and fragile is your heart,
Surrendered to drizzle and breeze alike,
Broken with a gentle touch at one try.
You like to keep friends by your side.
You are most scared of night.
But, night is bound to arrive,
And friends to part after a while.
Company won't last a long time.
Fruits of solitude everyone must bite.
Get tired not of only you and I.
When you're lonely, who will come to mind?
Company of someone else will you find?
Your joy and sorrow alike
are forever mine.
Ah, let me accompany you one more time.
2
If my love were a song, I would sing it for you
If my love were a star, it would shine the brightest
And twinkle now and then to remind you as you gaze up above
That my love is steadfast and true, bright and unlike any other
If my love were a mountain, it would be the highest, hardest to reach
And a reminder that few have been there, for the journey is hard
And to conquer it is to survive the journey
If my love were like the ocean, it would be the deepest, most beautiful
Warm, like my heart full of love for you
Deep as the depth of my love for you
Yet at times, rough and precarious due to changes in the weather and life
But, no matter how rough or calm, my love remains the same
3
At times my heart is full of love for you.
At times it's full of desire.
At times I feel I can't go on without you.
At times I fell deceived and hate takes over.
But when I am with you...
All that hate filters away
And all I feel is heartfelt love and desire.
4
My ears, naked with impatience,
find the inches between our
words, extravagant-
My heart, swollen with
an intolerable hush,
reinvents anticipation-
The abandonment drains
the skin of the sun-
The sky drinks
nocturnal merlot-
I am absurd, you are
phenomenal-
My pulse displayed
My complexion, rare-
Then your voice, again.
5
We lay upon the midnight moon
Whispering secrets as our passions bloom.
As the cool breeze carries your scent across the land
I stare into your eyes.
As gentle kisses flutter your hand
Our heart beats echoes in rhythm's demand
While love sounds out like an orchestra of romance.
Your soft body melts into me
Creating twin thoughts.
Your fragrance like flowers.
Your beauty well sought.
The moan that's released for once...
A thousand times before.
You say this night forever,
And I forever more.
6
Dreaming
as i heard your voice whisper in the wind
i listen ever so closely to heart every words
within your heart that's been aching for so
long needing a love that truly belongs.
as we drifted together in places that we
seen yet did not feel that's special
feelings we share today
feels like a dream is all it seems
floating in the clouds, walking in water,
climbing the highest mountain and knowing
that love like this could only be a dream
yet in our heart as we both know
we no longer have to dream no more.
you and i felt what was a dream
but today, my love, we live what we dream
sharing a love that's everlasting
and we no longer have to dream and dream.
7
A sailor without a northern star,
bitter and cold creep within the heart.
Wandering, journeying, far till the soul is ill;
yet my home is further still.
No sandy shores beckon my boat,
and darkness creeps like a woven coat.
Jagged, rigged, cliffs call out,
with shallow waters that hold no clout.
Clouds fever across the barren skies
as a stoned faced disguise
I put in place
while steering the murky waters covered in frothy lace.
Yet...I see a beam,
or is it a miraged gleam?
Could there be a home?
for this fallen sailor who stands alone?
I bear no name
with glory, honor or fame.
Weary, tired, and beaten;
I stand praying my eyes are not decieving.
Yes! For it is a gleam within a smile,
so close...but dare I cross the miles?
Friend or foe?
dare I find? Dare I go?
So many cliffs
with jarring riffs.
Have from my past I not learned?
Battle scars deceitfully earned.
Boats crushed and lie barren at the bottomless sea,
hopes killed deep within me.
Pound one...pound two...pound three...pound four...
Cries NEVER AGAIN! NEVER MORE!
Deserve not I of this gleam,
for it could never be for me!
Tears of red stream my face,
a stone mask well set in place.
Facaded thespians all about,
I hear them cry...I hear them shout.
Yet her light calls to my heart,
although love to me has always been bitter and tart.
Her light could not be for me,
alas I belong upon this barren sea.
A light, a light, a northern star;
an angel's lark like none before.
A sandy beach?
Could it be possible? Could I reach?
Shall I stay? Shall I go?
Dear god hear my sorrow.
For my love runs deep,
yet she lies so far from my reach.
I fear my tarnished soul shall dim her light,
yet I run to her from the hated night.
Please let this be the one,
let my journey end and the farce be done.
For I cannot stop the love that from my heart flows
as she calls to my lonely soul.
Unworthy of her fruit-filled trees
that sway in the gentle breeze.
Her golden fields
that lovingly yield.
Mother nature's greatest sunrise
lying deep within her eyes.
Precious treasures she hides,
but is it my place to try and find?
I may never know
why she accepted my tarnished soul.
But I am filled with such love as she turned my night to day.
So please lord...please lord...never take her away.
8
In momentary inattention of sight
You passed by me with a speed of light.
Weathering the stormy love of my life past
You weakened the defense my heart has known.
You besiege my space with unlimited love
Claiming everything that comes your way.
You occupy my days with all your ways
Without a glimpse of what your love will bring.
The weight of your thought occupies my soul
Keeping me under your merciful control.
All the heavenly bliss, my heart has shown
Are products of your clever, lovely goal.
Through the windows of your innocent heart
You peeped to see my aching life.
Like a wounded soldier in the battlefield
I crawled to safety of your unfailing love.
9
In the moon glow
of earth's candle flame
A glancing smile,
a sultry whisper
"I Love you" "I Love you"
in the echoing vapors
of an ethereal
ochre light
Prisms of a rainbow's prance
dewy remembrances
and a soft repeat
"I Love you" "I Love you"
lost in the soul scape
of scattered dreams
And always, always
a whispered repeat
"I Love you" "I Love you"
in the flickering
of a moon's
dying flame
10
I often forget how much you love me.
I often forget because you're too perfect to exist in reality.
Were you sent to guide my way?
Were you sent to lead me threw each and every day?
What did I do to deserve your loving hands?
What did I do to deserve such a wonderful man?
At first my thought was you wanted something in return.
But giving something for nothing is what I had to learn.
Loving me for me seemed so strange.
Who I was I never let anyone know because of the pain.
I always hid temptation of loving someone else.
I choose to hide feelings, they could never love me for just myself.
I once ran into a relationship
I thought I'd be satisfied to be loved in any way.
That failed when all those women choose not to stay.
I was then confused I didn't know what love was anymore.
When at one time I felt I knew for sure.
Thank You for saving and loving me the best way you know how.
I know how to be loved and give love back in return now.
Thank you for excepting my faults and my past.
Thank you for letting my heart know you'll still be there
Even if it doesn't last.
Thursday, August 29, 2013
PERSONAL/LOVE LETTER: DEAR SOULMATE
Dear Soulmate,
Love is a four lettered word they say, that changes you forever. The moment love comes into the equation everything else stops mattering and that one person who makes you feel that way becomes the most important thing ever. You are that one for me, for you have made me realize things that took me a long while to see. I love you and this is something that makes you the most important person in the world for me. I’m so glad to have you.
When I sit here today to try to tell you how I feel I know for sure that love is something that was so difficult to come by. I have never been able to feel, true love, and that changed when I met you. I can still imagine you sitting by the window in that café, and it brings a smile to my face, for in that one fateful glance I knew that it had to be you. I am hopelessly in love with you and I hope that you feel the same way too.
To me you are like that monsoon rain, which makes the parched earth come to like again. Your touch of love has made me feel complete again and that is something that I had thought would never happen. Just when life had broken me down, you walked in and helped me to pick up each piece and try to become whole again. You have filled my heart with such gladness that I know for sure that there is no letting go of you. I love you much more than I can ever tell you and I know that even forever is a short time when it comes to you.
here will never be another one for me. I know it in the bottom of my heart, with certainty the kind that is rare to come by, but when it does you know that things will never be the same again. I had never loved really till the moment that I met you and once that happened I knew things would never be the same again, for you made me realize things that I had been ignoring for so long. You have filled my life with new meanings and for that I pledge to you that I will do everything I possibly can to keep you happy. I love you.
There are things in life that one cannot explain, but then they fit into the bigger scheme of things and you know then that things were meant to be like this. When I met you, I had no idea that things would turn out to be this way, we were two strangers who found each other and realized that love was something that we could live by. I have never been able to love like I have loved you and that makes me sure that we were meant to be and that you are here to stay. I love you.
They say that love is something that makes every other emotion in the world more base and value. I was in much pain and was hurting when you found me, you made me feel whole and secure again. I healed and I knew that you were the one, for only you were able to put my heart at ease. Now that I have you, I just want to let you know that I am never going to let you down or let you go, you mean the world to me and the fact remains that you are the one for me
You are the melody that my heart likes to sing whenever it needs a tune. You are the one who has taught me things that I adhere to now. Not only are you a lover but also my best friend, and this is something that most people wish they had, but I have it and I feel like the luckiest girl alive. You have given me so much that I will never be able to repay you back and that makes me feel grateful to God that he sent you to me. I love you.
There aren’t enough words to describe how much you mean to me, I could tell you that love is something that never came easy to me, but to love you has been the most natural thing to do. From the moment that we first met to today you are the one who makes me smile and makes me feel like, I’m the only one on this planet, whom you can do that for. I feel special to you and that is something that no one can take away from me. I love you
Before you came along into my life, I was a bundle of insecurities, who had been struck by life’s blows and hadn’t taken it too kindly. Just when I’d given up all hope of ever being able to find true happiness and love, I found you and life was beautiful all over again. So today I want to thank you for being who .you are, and making me feel loved again. You are the reason why I can stand here today and be brave about everything that life has to give. You have made me feel alive again and for that I love you.
I never knew what true love was up until the moment that I found you, I love you much more than anything or anyone on this planet, you are the reason why I have been able to pull through all the hardships that life has thrown at me, I love you much more than anything on this planet and I know that together we can bring out the best in each other. That is the beauty of our love and I’m thankful to god that we have that together with each other. I love you from the bottom of my heart.
Love is a four lettered word they say, that changes you forever. The moment love comes into the equation everything else stops mattering and that one person who makes you feel that way becomes the most important thing ever. You are that one for me, for you have made me realize things that took me a long while to see. I love you and this is something that makes you the most important person in the world for me. I’m so glad to have you.
When I sit here today to try to tell you how I feel I know for sure that love is something that was so difficult to come by. I have never been able to feel, true love, and that changed when I met you. I can still imagine you sitting by the window in that café, and it brings a smile to my face, for in that one fateful glance I knew that it had to be you. I am hopelessly in love with you and I hope that you feel the same way too.
To me you are like that monsoon rain, which makes the parched earth come to like again. Your touch of love has made me feel complete again and that is something that I had thought would never happen. Just when life had broken me down, you walked in and helped me to pick up each piece and try to become whole again. You have filled my heart with such gladness that I know for sure that there is no letting go of you. I love you much more than I can ever tell you and I know that even forever is a short time when it comes to you.
here will never be another one for me. I know it in the bottom of my heart, with certainty the kind that is rare to come by, but when it does you know that things will never be the same again. I had never loved really till the moment that I met you and once that happened I knew things would never be the same again, for you made me realize things that I had been ignoring for so long. You have filled my life with new meanings and for that I pledge to you that I will do everything I possibly can to keep you happy. I love you.
There are things in life that one cannot explain, but then they fit into the bigger scheme of things and you know then that things were meant to be like this. When I met you, I had no idea that things would turn out to be this way, we were two strangers who found each other and realized that love was something that we could live by. I have never been able to love like I have loved you and that makes me sure that we were meant to be and that you are here to stay. I love you.
They say that love is something that makes every other emotion in the world more base and value. I was in much pain and was hurting when you found me, you made me feel whole and secure again. I healed and I knew that you were the one, for only you were able to put my heart at ease. Now that I have you, I just want to let you know that I am never going to let you down or let you go, you mean the world to me and the fact remains that you are the one for me
You are the melody that my heart likes to sing whenever it needs a tune. You are the one who has taught me things that I adhere to now. Not only are you a lover but also my best friend, and this is something that most people wish they had, but I have it and I feel like the luckiest girl alive. You have given me so much that I will never be able to repay you back and that makes me feel grateful to God that he sent you to me. I love you.
There aren’t enough words to describe how much you mean to me, I could tell you that love is something that never came easy to me, but to love you has been the most natural thing to do. From the moment that we first met to today you are the one who makes me smile and makes me feel like, I’m the only one on this planet, whom you can do that for. I feel special to you and that is something that no one can take away from me. I love you
Before you came along into my life, I was a bundle of insecurities, who had been struck by life’s blows and hadn’t taken it too kindly. Just when I’d given up all hope of ever being able to find true happiness and love, I found you and life was beautiful all over again. So today I want to thank you for being who .you are, and making me feel loved again. You are the reason why I can stand here today and be brave about everything that life has to give. You have made me feel alive again and for that I love you.
I never knew what true love was up until the moment that I found you, I love you much more than anything or anyone on this planet, you are the reason why I have been able to pull through all the hardships that life has thrown at me, I love you much more than anything on this planet and I know that together we can bring out the best in each other. That is the beauty of our love and I’m thankful to god that we have that together with each other. I love you from the bottom of my heart.
PERSONAL/ LOVE LETTER/LOVE LETTER: MY LOVE FOR YOU IS TRULY ETERNAL
Have you ever seen. . .
into my heart where our love lies?
Have you ever felt. . .
the blazing sparks that fly between us?
Have you ever touched. . .
the evening star with our entwined hands?
Have you ever tasted. . .
empassioned, undying love?
Have you ever smelled. . .
the fragrance that reminds you of me?
Have you ever heard. . .
our love strike up a song?
Have you ever. . .
felt like this before?
Have you ever. . .
I have!
Please gift my world to me by being mine forever.
Your love, your care, your support and faith, have made me a better person. I promise you all the happiness, fun and love in life. Be mine forever.
I love to lie down in your arms and listen to your heart beats. It makes me feel that there is someone in this world, whose heart beats only for me. I just can't stop loving you.
After I met you, I found life and a reason to live it. Your smiling face means the world to me. Please gift my world to me by being mine forever.
When I am with you, I am full of life. You make me feel special, you are my heart, soul and world. Please be with me forever.
You are the one, whom I think about while I go to bed, and the reason I blush while listening to love stories. I love you.
I love absolutely everything about you. But the thing I love the most is, the way you make me smile even while you are not around. I'm so madly in love with you.
When you hug me, it makes me forget the world outside. I feel so special and so loved. No one in this world can make me feel this way. I love you.
You encourage me, advice me, love me and spoil me. Most of all you my love, you bring out the best in me. I love you.
When around you, I don't need to be someone else. Thank you for loving me, for who I am.
You are one of those rare dreams after which, one always wakes up smiling. I love you my dear.
You complete my life and make it so worth living. Girl, you are nothing but an angel to me. I love you.
Every time you look into my eyes, it makes me fall in love with you all over again. You are the most beautiful person I have ever met. I'm honored to have you in my life. I love you.
I will love you even if it hurts, because baby you are the one I love the most. I love you.
I'm sending hugs and kisses to you baby, along with a promise I will love you forever.
I cannot put into words what you mean to me. I just love you way too much. I love you like crazy!
Another month, another year, another smile, another tear, another winter, another summer too but there will never be another you!
Some are pretty, some are cute, some have the eyes, some have the looks. Beauty is something that cannot be defined, But if it could be defined, in you it would be confined.
Everyday with you feels like a dream. No matter where I go or what I do, you are the last thought that puts me to sleep each night and the first thought that wakes me up every morning. I love my life because, it has you.
You make me so happy, happier than I have ever been. I can search and search, but I will never be able to find someone who brings a smile to my face the way you do. I love you so much.
I could do anything to bring a smile on your face that I love so much. I can't express my feelings for you. I love you more than you can imagine. I just love you a lot.
I fall In love all over again. Every time I see you.
Let's drive into the sunset. Sing love songs. We'll made promises and swear we'll never love somone else.
True love never dies. It only gets stronger with time.
Love isn't finding someone you can live with... It's finding someone you can't live without.
Love is when you don't want to go to sleep. Bcoz reality is better than a dream.
In love it is better to know and be disappointed than not to know and always wonder.
Love means giving up the one thing that keeps you alive. Your heart.
Behind every successful man is a woman – whoever said this is 100 percent right. You're the secret behind my success, my dear wife. I love you.
Every time I look into your eyes, I remind myself how wonderful my life is. To the most beautiful wife in the whole world, I love you!
I often pinch myself to check if I am dreaming. It's unbelievable for me to have such perfect life and a perfect wife like you. I love you darling.
You have been the first and will be the only one ever to touch my heart. Ever since the day I met you, my heart stopped beating for me. It beats for you, saying I love you with every beat.
I cannot get by a single day without looking into your pretty eyes and feeling the warm touch of your hands. What can I say, I am addicted to your love.
If life with you is so beautiful and heavenly, I might be disappointed with what the heavens have to offer later! Thanks for making every day of my life a joy to live. I love you.
With you by my side, I feel like I am the luckiest man alive to have the most pretty, understanding and loving wife. I look forward to the wonderful years ahead in our lives. I love you!
Every morning I wake up only because I look forward to spending another day with a beautiful princess like you. I love you.
The best day in my life was the day I married you
The best thing in my life is you
I cannot imagine a single day without you
I've said it once, and I'll say it again
I love you!!
I think that the Gods must have been asleep the day you were born. Only then would they have let such a beautiful angel escape to earth! I love you.
Holding you in my arms and spending a few moments hugging you is all I need after a hectic day's work. You are like a healing soul that drives away worries, pains and aches. How could I have ever lived without you my darling?
I don't think I will ever be able to compensate for how much you have tolerated me all these years. I just want thank you and tell you that you mean the world to me. Thanks for making my life worthy of living. I love you.
You are like wine because you get sweeter as the years go by. You are becoming prettier day by day and your ever youthful beauty still makes me feel weak in the knees every time I see you. I love you sweetheart!
Your beautiful eyes take me to a land far away where there is only love, happiness, joy and smiles everywhere. Your pretty lips remind me of your sizzling touch. I feel like a teenager in love when I see you. I just want to say I Love You to the most gorgeous woman on earth.
My love, I don't know how I can ever thank you for being such a caring and understanding person that you are. I just hope I can keep you happy all your life. I love you.
My love for you is deeper than the deepest ocean
Taller than the tallest mountain
Hotter than the hottest desert
And denser than the densest of forests
My love for you is truly eternal
I love you
I want to love you more than forever because even eternity is not enough time for me to express my love for you.
I am afraid of death not because I fear death itself. I am afraid of death because I know that even the heavens cannot be as beautiful as you. I love you my dear wife!
Your love is food for my heart, mind and soul without which I cannot survive a single second. You know my heart beats for you and only you. My darling wife, I love you.
I won't trade even a second spent with you for a billion dollars because every second of my life that I spend with you is priceless.
All my friends are jealous because I have such a loving and wonderful person like you in my life. Let's enjoy our togetherness to the fullest, darling. I love you!
When I first met you
I fell for you
Today all I want in life is you
I love you!
Every moment spent away from you feels like a thorn digging deep into my heart. Come closer and make the thorns go away sweetheart. You are the rose of my life!
The day I met you has been the best day of my life because I realized the true meaning of love. My life is incomplete without you honey. I love you.
I believe in God, I believe in miracles and I believe in angels, because it is a miracle that the Gods sent an angel like you in my life. Love you darling.
I have stopped making wishes on spotting falling stars. Do you know why? Because I have you and that's all I want in my life.
I want you to know that I am yours today, tomorrow and forever. I never knew what true love was until I met you. I love you dear.
Even after all these years together I get goose bumps when you look into my eyes. I feel like a teenager gushing with love every time I see you. You make me forever youthful. I love you!
I share my life with you not because I have to but because I can't live without you.
If a genie told me that I had 3 wishes and I could ask for anything I wanted, do you know what I'd ask for? A lifetime of your love, a lifetime of your touch and a lifetime of you and only you. I love you!
True happiness, true satisfaction and true love are the 3 important lessons that I've learnt after you came in my life. I hope our bond stays strong forever and ever!
My heart loves you like a candle. It burns and beats only to shower love for you, just like a candle sacrifices itself to give light in darkness. The only difference is that my heart will love you until eternity!
Not a single day of my life goes by without thinking about how I can make your life happier. I love you sweetheart and I want to do everything I can to make your life a pleasure, every single day.
You make me feel warm, safe and loved. You are the blanket that I want wrapped around me all the time. I just want to say that I love you and thanks for being there for me all the time.
If loving you was a crime, I am guilty for life. I love you!
I dreamt of loving a person as sweet as you
I dreamt of a relationship just like the one I have with you
I dreamt of a life just the way I live with you
Do dreams ever come true?
Yes they do because I found you
I love you!
Every day I pray for your success, prosperity and happiness because my happiness lies in yours. Love you darling.
I'd rather die in your arms than live a life without you. I love you more than forever!
Morning, afternoon, night
Today, tomorrow and forever
All I need and want is you
I love you!
If love was a disease, I want to suffer all my life because I love you till no end.
into my heart where our love lies?
Have you ever felt. . .
the blazing sparks that fly between us?
Have you ever touched. . .
the evening star with our entwined hands?
Have you ever tasted. . .
empassioned, undying love?
Have you ever smelled. . .
the fragrance that reminds you of me?
Have you ever heard. . .
our love strike up a song?
Have you ever. . .
felt like this before?
Have you ever. . .
I have!
Please gift my world to me by being mine forever.
Your love, your care, your support and faith, have made me a better person. I promise you all the happiness, fun and love in life. Be mine forever.
I love to lie down in your arms and listen to your heart beats. It makes me feel that there is someone in this world, whose heart beats only for me. I just can't stop loving you.
After I met you, I found life and a reason to live it. Your smiling face means the world to me. Please gift my world to me by being mine forever.
When I am with you, I am full of life. You make me feel special, you are my heart, soul and world. Please be with me forever.
You are the one, whom I think about while I go to bed, and the reason I blush while listening to love stories. I love you.
I love absolutely everything about you. But the thing I love the most is, the way you make me smile even while you are not around. I'm so madly in love with you.
When you hug me, it makes me forget the world outside. I feel so special and so loved. No one in this world can make me feel this way. I love you.
You encourage me, advice me, love me and spoil me. Most of all you my love, you bring out the best in me. I love you.
When around you, I don't need to be someone else. Thank you for loving me, for who I am.
You are one of those rare dreams after which, one always wakes up smiling. I love you my dear.
You complete my life and make it so worth living. Girl, you are nothing but an angel to me. I love you.
Every time you look into my eyes, it makes me fall in love with you all over again. You are the most beautiful person I have ever met. I'm honored to have you in my life. I love you.
I will love you even if it hurts, because baby you are the one I love the most. I love you.
I'm sending hugs and kisses to you baby, along with a promise I will love you forever.
I cannot put into words what you mean to me. I just love you way too much. I love you like crazy!
Another month, another year, another smile, another tear, another winter, another summer too but there will never be another you!
Some are pretty, some are cute, some have the eyes, some have the looks. Beauty is something that cannot be defined, But if it could be defined, in you it would be confined.
Everyday with you feels like a dream. No matter where I go or what I do, you are the last thought that puts me to sleep each night and the first thought that wakes me up every morning. I love my life because, it has you.
You make me so happy, happier than I have ever been. I can search and search, but I will never be able to find someone who brings a smile to my face the way you do. I love you so much.
I could do anything to bring a smile on your face that I love so much. I can't express my feelings for you. I love you more than you can imagine. I just love you a lot.
I fall In love all over again. Every time I see you.
Let's drive into the sunset. Sing love songs. We'll made promises and swear we'll never love somone else.
True love never dies. It only gets stronger with time.
Love isn't finding someone you can live with... It's finding someone you can't live without.
Love is when you don't want to go to sleep. Bcoz reality is better than a dream.
In love it is better to know and be disappointed than not to know and always wonder.
Love means giving up the one thing that keeps you alive. Your heart.
Behind every successful man is a woman – whoever said this is 100 percent right. You're the secret behind my success, my dear wife. I love you.
Every time I look into your eyes, I remind myself how wonderful my life is. To the most beautiful wife in the whole world, I love you!
I often pinch myself to check if I am dreaming. It's unbelievable for me to have such perfect life and a perfect wife like you. I love you darling.
You have been the first and will be the only one ever to touch my heart. Ever since the day I met you, my heart stopped beating for me. It beats for you, saying I love you with every beat.
I cannot get by a single day without looking into your pretty eyes and feeling the warm touch of your hands. What can I say, I am addicted to your love.
If life with you is so beautiful and heavenly, I might be disappointed with what the heavens have to offer later! Thanks for making every day of my life a joy to live. I love you.
With you by my side, I feel like I am the luckiest man alive to have the most pretty, understanding and loving wife. I look forward to the wonderful years ahead in our lives. I love you!
Every morning I wake up only because I look forward to spending another day with a beautiful princess like you. I love you.
The best day in my life was the day I married you
The best thing in my life is you
I cannot imagine a single day without you
I've said it once, and I'll say it again
I love you!!
I think that the Gods must have been asleep the day you were born. Only then would they have let such a beautiful angel escape to earth! I love you.
Holding you in my arms and spending a few moments hugging you is all I need after a hectic day's work. You are like a healing soul that drives away worries, pains and aches. How could I have ever lived without you my darling?
I don't think I will ever be able to compensate for how much you have tolerated me all these years. I just want thank you and tell you that you mean the world to me. Thanks for making my life worthy of living. I love you.
You are like wine because you get sweeter as the years go by. You are becoming prettier day by day and your ever youthful beauty still makes me feel weak in the knees every time I see you. I love you sweetheart!
Your beautiful eyes take me to a land far away where there is only love, happiness, joy and smiles everywhere. Your pretty lips remind me of your sizzling touch. I feel like a teenager in love when I see you. I just want to say I Love You to the most gorgeous woman on earth.
My love, I don't know how I can ever thank you for being such a caring and understanding person that you are. I just hope I can keep you happy all your life. I love you.
My love for you is deeper than the deepest ocean
Taller than the tallest mountain
Hotter than the hottest desert
And denser than the densest of forests
My love for you is truly eternal
I love you
I want to love you more than forever because even eternity is not enough time for me to express my love for you.
I am afraid of death not because I fear death itself. I am afraid of death because I know that even the heavens cannot be as beautiful as you. I love you my dear wife!
Your love is food for my heart, mind and soul without which I cannot survive a single second. You know my heart beats for you and only you. My darling wife, I love you.
I won't trade even a second spent with you for a billion dollars because every second of my life that I spend with you is priceless.
All my friends are jealous because I have such a loving and wonderful person like you in my life. Let's enjoy our togetherness to the fullest, darling. I love you!
When I first met you
I fell for you
Today all I want in life is you
I love you!
Every moment spent away from you feels like a thorn digging deep into my heart. Come closer and make the thorns go away sweetheart. You are the rose of my life!
The day I met you has been the best day of my life because I realized the true meaning of love. My life is incomplete without you honey. I love you.
I believe in God, I believe in miracles and I believe in angels, because it is a miracle that the Gods sent an angel like you in my life. Love you darling.
I have stopped making wishes on spotting falling stars. Do you know why? Because I have you and that's all I want in my life.
I want you to know that I am yours today, tomorrow and forever. I never knew what true love was until I met you. I love you dear.
Even after all these years together I get goose bumps when you look into my eyes. I feel like a teenager gushing with love every time I see you. You make me forever youthful. I love you!
I share my life with you not because I have to but because I can't live without you.
If a genie told me that I had 3 wishes and I could ask for anything I wanted, do you know what I'd ask for? A lifetime of your love, a lifetime of your touch and a lifetime of you and only you. I love you!
True happiness, true satisfaction and true love are the 3 important lessons that I've learnt after you came in my life. I hope our bond stays strong forever and ever!
My heart loves you like a candle. It burns and beats only to shower love for you, just like a candle sacrifices itself to give light in darkness. The only difference is that my heart will love you until eternity!
Not a single day of my life goes by without thinking about how I can make your life happier. I love you sweetheart and I want to do everything I can to make your life a pleasure, every single day.
You make me feel warm, safe and loved. You are the blanket that I want wrapped around me all the time. I just want to say that I love you and thanks for being there for me all the time.
If loving you was a crime, I am guilty for life. I love you!
I dreamt of loving a person as sweet as you
I dreamt of a relationship just like the one I have with you
I dreamt of a life just the way I live with you
Do dreams ever come true?
Yes they do because I found you
I love you!
Every day I pray for your success, prosperity and happiness because my happiness lies in yours. Love you darling.
I'd rather die in your arms than live a life without you. I love you more than forever!
Morning, afternoon, night
Today, tomorrow and forever
All I need and want is you
I love you!
If love was a disease, I want to suffer all my life because I love you till no end.
*PERSONAL:IF YOU HAVE NEVER LOVED OR BEEN LOVED, YOU WON'T UNDERSTAND *
First off, I must declare that I am not a serial killer. Nor am I, by any stretch of the imagination, ugly. Though, if you walked into a crowded club, I might not be the first one you’d grind on, or the second for that matter. In fact, I would very likely stand in the corner all night checking my phone and wondering why I even bothered to leave my Netflix queue unattended.
Still, despite being (completely?) sane and of slightly above average attractiveness, I’m single.
I don’t know where you live, but I’m pretty sure there are no castles around here for you to lock yourself in with a dragon so I can finally meet you.... Not to mention that such a feat would undeniably cause me to miss my early Monday morning meeting, as the traffic from Happily Ever After would be dreadful, I’m sure.
So, due to lack of castles, I’ve had to settle for a more modern approach to searching for Princess...ONLINE. So, if the movies, books and songs are so right, how come when we find the one, we can still feel like we're missing something? Why are there married people who are lonely with an emptiness that marriage can't fill? Our hearts can get confused if our reality doesn't match fantasy and we wonder:
I understand that dating can be hard, even maddeningly frustrating. It takes time and commitment, and online dating is no different. You’re going to have a lot of false starts and connections that seem to start wonderfully and then trail off for no apparent reason. Dating is a lot like the lottery. You hope that fate will guide you to THAT ONE SPOT you need to be AT THAT VERY SPECIFIC TIME in order to meet that special someone. It's no different real life as it online. I know that I am handsome,successful,and kind single man looking for Ms. Right.
One day you meet someone and for some inexplicable reason, you feel more connected to this stranger than anyone else--closer to them than your closest family. Perhaps this person carries within them an angel--one sent to you for some higher purpose; to teach you an important lesson or to keep you safe during a perilous time. What you must do is trust in them--even if they come hand in hand with pain or suffering--the reason for their presence will become clear in due time
I am single right now because I am tired of wasting time with women who won’t make a commitment to me. I am totally frustrated with the dating scene. Scared to date again because the last "Dream Woman" turned out to be a nightmare. And I'm not just going to throw yourself at a woman just to get her attention and beside..i just don't have the time to date so many people.I can guarantee you with every fiber of my being, I am not desperate. I will met only someone who I feel is worth the time away from my day to day, my friends, my career, my work out schedule, etc.
Do you want to date jerk after jerk after scum bag that makes you unhappy so all you know is what a failed relationship looks like, or do you want to learn how to build respectful, nurturing relationships? Do you want practice picking up players and cheaters, or do you want to get good at finding nice guys that will treat you right? Do you want to be so heartbroken that you give up on love completely or do you want to someday look back at all your past relationships and have no regret?
Somehow, out of all the twists and turns our lives could have been, and out of all the chances we might have missed, it almost seems like we were given a meant - to - be moment - to meet, to get to know each other, and to set the stage for a special togetherness.
If you have never loved or been loved, you won’t understand or relate to what I am going to share. If you have then maybe you might understand the way I feel or not. And maybe you have felt this way before or maybe not. The things is at the very beginning of any online relationship, it is only my words that can make an effect on you. No physical contact, no voices, no scents – only the words that I write that will connect you to me until the two of us make a step forward to seeing each other in the real life. It is only with an open and incautious heart that you will allow my words to enter your soul and let yourself to fall in love with me.
Your feelings of aloneness dissolve as you realize that you are “all one” with all things and that you are profoundly connected with everyone. At the deepest level everything and everyone is your soul mate. All of life is the One Source manifesting as a multiplicity of form. The person behind these words right now is giving you the opportunity to open your heart more fully, heal more deeply, and love more freely.
From the very beginning from reading my words...i hope that you will experience a profound empathy and compassion for me and you will voluntarily let your guard down. You will feel as safe as if you had entered an extraordinary comfort zone where it is not necessary to play mind games or word games. You knowingly strip away any defenses you have created around yourself and let me feel your soul.
I am not perfect by a long shot but I am hoping that I may be perfect for you. I could fill this little space with loves and hates but what would we have to talk about over coffee? If you turn the page now we may have both just lost something meaningful. Write me something and lets see where it goes from there. What have we got to lose? except possibly a life with someone you enjoy. For me...I would like to meet my best friend, Because...If you don't fall in love with your best friend, You always think there could be better.
I'm not your pen pal. I'm not your back up plan. There's a reason why I have shades in my pictures here, but it's not because I am unattractive...its because of privacy.
You should message me if you enjoy good morning texts and goodnight phone calls. You are educated and financially stable
You really are the type of person that you say you are, instead of claiming that you're the person that you want to be.
You don't complain about hating the way people treat others, when in fact you're the person who does everything you claim to hate.
You call me when you say you're going to call me
You follow through with everything you tell me
You don't tell me things just because you think it's what I wants to hear just to make yourself look good.
You're straight forward and honest
REPEAT
Men have a very fair assessment of women’s overall attractiveness. Like in a normal bell curve, 5% of the women were found to be the least attractive and 5% were found to be the most attractive, with most women falling in the middle 90%.
It’s women, not men, who have unrealistic standards for the “average” member of the opposite sex.Women, on the other hand, rate 80% of men as below average.Let me repeat: It’s women, not men, who have unrealistic standards for the “average” member of the opposite sex.
It's a stark realization when you see just how few men woman even find to be average looking.
I read — and have read — A LOT of women’s profiles — and most women seem to be describing — in terms of looks — the SAME guy — a very George Clooney / Jon Hamm type guy — 6 feet plus, head of hair (no matter what age), athletic, handsome (“I want to feel goosebumps when he walks into a room” etc.).
I have lived on the upper west side and I rarely, rarely see any guys who come close to that type — I moved to Long Island and didn’t see any guys who looked like that…. I went on vacation in Florida and there was only ONE guy I saw who look like what most woman want.
But don’t get me wrong I am quite realistic about the kind of woman I can attract. On one particular dating site, you have the option of having your pictures evaluated by other members, where you are rated on a scale of 1-10 in terms of looks. I thought what to heck — let them rate me. And as I remembered, my average rating was a 7.8, according to the others members.
Maybe something’s just wrong with me? Generally speaking, if someone is interested in me and seems to have enough in common with me (in terms of future plans, beliefs, morals, et al), I’ll go out with her.
None of the woman I’ve dated look anything like one another, as I’m not so much interested in a “look” or a “type” as I am who they are. A lot of my guy friends will wonder why I’m with a woman because they’ll think she is “unattractive” or “not in my league.” But a woman’s looks haven’t ever been the top attribute I seek when searching for a partner.
When it comes to being too picky. The main reasons I rate so many people poorly are the following, in roughly descending order of importance/frequency:
Profile writing quality is poor (proxy for “low intelligence”)
Profile too short (< 400 words)
Obese
Single mother
Not a college graduate
I’m more of the guy next door type, so I’d rather be with a good hearted, fun loving, respectful caring woman — and if she happens to be a 9 or 10, whatever. I’m not all that pressed. My past girlfriend makes me laugh constantly and treats me well. Because of those reasons, she’s sexy to me. Isn’t that all that matters? I also realize that the attraction won’t be based just on looks; I’ve gotta have the whole package! So, in my world, average-looking woman who seem intelligent and show themselves to have the important qualities like loyalty and integrity quickly become a 10.
I write not to the women whom I think are in the “top 10%” (or 5% or 20% or whatever), but instead to the women whom I find attractive going from their profiles (and who, I think from looking at their preferences, might go for me). I’m not positive how all the other men rate the women I write to, but I do hope that I am able to outshine the competition and get the attention of these women.
You should message me if you enjoy good morning texts and goodnight phone calls. You are educated and financially stable
You really are the type of person that you say you are, instead of claiming that you're the person that you want to be.
You don't complain about hating the way people treat others, when in fact you're the person who does everything you claim to hate.
You call me when you say you're going to call me
You follow through with everything you tell me
You don't tell me things just because you think it's what I wants to hear just to make yourself look good.
You're straight forward and honest
REPEAT
Men have a very fair assessment of women’s overall attractiveness. Like in a normal bell curve, 5% of the women were found to be the least attractive and 5% were found to be the most attractive, with most women falling in the middle 90%.
It’s women, not men, who have unrealistic standards for the “average” member of the opposite sex.Women, on the other hand, rate 80% of men as below average.Let me repeat: It’s women, not men, who have unrealistic standards for the “average” member of the opposite sex.
It's a stark realization when you see just how few men woman even find to be average looking.
I read — and have read — A LOT of women’s profiles — and most women seem to be describing — in terms of looks — the SAME guy — a very George Clooney / Jon Hamm type guy — 6 feet plus, head of hair (no matter what age), athletic, handsome (“I want to feel goosebumps when he walks into a room” etc.).
I have lived on the upper west side and I rarely, rarely see any guys who come close to that type — I moved to Long Island and didn’t see any guys who looked like that…. I went on vacation in Florida and there was only ONE guy I saw who look like what most woman want.
But don’t get me wrong I am quite realistic about the kind of woman I can attract. On one particular dating site, you have the option of having your pictures evaluated by other members, where you are rated on a scale of 1-10 in terms of looks. I thought what to heck — let them rate me. And as I remembered, my average rating was a 7.8, according to the others members.
Maybe something’s just wrong with me? Generally speaking, if someone is interested in me and seems to have enough in common with me (in terms of future plans, beliefs, morals, et al), I’ll go out with her.
None of the woman I’ve dated look anything like one another, as I’m not so much interested in a “look” or a “type” as I am who they are. A lot of my guy friends will wonder why I’m with a woman because they’ll think she is “unattractive” or “not in my league.” But a woman’s looks haven’t ever been the top attribute I seek when searching for a partner.
When it comes to being too picky. The main reasons I rate so many people poorly are the following, in roughly descending order of importance/frequency:
Profile writing quality is poor (proxy for “low intelligence”)
Profile too short (< 400 words)
Obese
Single mother
Not a college graduate
I’m more of the guy next door type, so I’d rather be with a good hearted, fun loving, respectful caring woman — and if she happens to be a 9 or 10, whatever. I’m not all that pressed. My past girlfriend makes me laugh constantly and treats me well. Because of those reasons, she’s sexy to me. Isn’t that all that matters? I also realize that the attraction won’t be based just on looks; I’ve gotta have the whole package! So, in my world, average-looking woman who seem intelligent and show themselves to have the important qualities like loyalty and integrity quickly become a 10.
I write not to the women whom I think are in the “top 10%” (or 5% or 20% or whatever), but instead to the women whom I find attractive going from their profiles (and who, I think from looking at their preferences, might go for me). I’m not positive how all the other men rate the women I write to, but I do hope that I am able to outshine the competition and get the attention of these women.
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