Dear Soulmate
The beauty within her radiates through me feeling the warmth of her love within I long for the chance to take her beautiful hand in mine and kiss her soft lips, and caress her smooth skin.As we sit on the beach holding each other I look up and pray that this love will last forever. We watch together as the sun sets across the ocean. The pleasureableness is no competition for the beauty beside me. As the last glimpse of sunlight disappears over the horizon we move in closer to each other, our lips touch. Finally, the moment I've waited for has arrived. It was in slow motion, I did not want it to end. We part and interlocking hands we stand walking off the beach, never to forget those 2 beautiful seconds.Your face is simply beautiful.My eyes are in such awe...The way your mouth shapes into a smile. That easily comforts me like no other. For some time, I've been alone.My heart has dealt with incomparable pain. I was left with the feeling of regret... For giving too much of myself to someone who could have cared less, For dwelling in what took place in the past, For allowing my pride to deny myself real happiness. But when you became a part of my life everything completely changed.You have been there for me when I needed you most.You restored my loss of faith in love.You spent time with me when I needed someone to talk to,Your thoughtfulness makes me feel special. I admire you for just being yourself. You possess the qualities that I felt were missing,Qualities other woman I've known have lacked. Even the little things let me know how much you care about me... A touch of your hand always brightens up the day. I just can't get enough of how perfect you are.
When I wake up in the morning with you lying beside me,Sometimes you smile when you feel me kiss your shoulder softly. Then as I kiss your neck, the smile begins to grow, Makes me happy that you enjoy my touch, and you always let me know. As each dawn shines through the pane, and each day begins anew, I see God's blessings within your face, my one and only you. Slowly your eyes open... a beam lights your face, as you awaken and realize, The love you sensed was not a dream as you gaze into my eyes. A gentle touch upon your cheek, a kiss that's soft and warm. Within my arms you're safe and sound and will never again know harm. For, my love, I dedicate my life to you. With every breath I inhale, The love we share is so much more, than words could ever tell. Glad I can live this life with you, nevermore to ever part. For life with you is more than a dream come true,
it's ecstasy of the heart.
Friday, January 10, 2014
LOVE LETTER: DEAR SOULMATE
Dear Soulmate
Today someone asked me if I would like to be able to go back and change all the things that had gone wrong in my life? I thought at first the idea seemed appealing. I'm comfortable in the knowledge, that since you arrived in my life you have brought perfection.You have given me something that no one else can.You have this incredible soul with the gift of laughter, the miracle of honesty, friendship, and the blessing of a caring soul.That made me think that there is no point of going back.In this world, nothing compares to you, not even the sun, moon and stars that shine through and through. Everything about you is beautiful,which makes me wonder. How can a person be so perfect,yet love someone that's such a blunder? My heart stops when you are near, just knowing you are roaming this earth, makes me wish you were here. You are breathtaking beyond all recognition,no matter how hard life becomes, you're still my ambition. There are many creations, but none as precious as you, it's a blessing there's someone out there so perfect and true. I sat down with the thoughts of you. Ready to write you a poem brand new, but I couldn't describe you with the right words.There are many thoughts going through my head, but there's one I missed that I just heard. I picked up a poem that I just wrote and it read,
"I THOUGHT ABOUT BEAUTIFUL, WHICH IS WHAT YOU ARE.
I THOUGHT ABOUT LOVE, WHICH STANDS AWAY SO FAR.
THOUGHTS OF YOU MADE MY HEART BEAT.
ALL THROUGH MY BODY, THERE WAS SO MUCH HEAT.
YOU ARE MY HEART'S DESIRE.
YOU HAVE JUST SET MY HEART ON FIRE."
With words like that, where's the meaning of love? I've searched through the words, which are only a few. Time has passed and after reading and searching I've found that the meaning of love... is you.
Today someone asked me if I would like to be able to go back and change all the things that had gone wrong in my life? I thought at first the idea seemed appealing. I'm comfortable in the knowledge, that since you arrived in my life you have brought perfection.You have given me something that no one else can.You have this incredible soul with the gift of laughter, the miracle of honesty, friendship, and the blessing of a caring soul.That made me think that there is no point of going back.In this world, nothing compares to you, not even the sun, moon and stars that shine through and through. Everything about you is beautiful,which makes me wonder. How can a person be so perfect,yet love someone that's such a blunder? My heart stops when you are near, just knowing you are roaming this earth, makes me wish you were here. You are breathtaking beyond all recognition,no matter how hard life becomes, you're still my ambition. There are many creations, but none as precious as you, it's a blessing there's someone out there so perfect and true. I sat down with the thoughts of you. Ready to write you a poem brand new, but I couldn't describe you with the right words.There are many thoughts going through my head, but there's one I missed that I just heard. I picked up a poem that I just wrote and it read,
"I THOUGHT ABOUT BEAUTIFUL, WHICH IS WHAT YOU ARE.
I THOUGHT ABOUT LOVE, WHICH STANDS AWAY SO FAR.
THOUGHTS OF YOU MADE MY HEART BEAT.
ALL THROUGH MY BODY, THERE WAS SO MUCH HEAT.
YOU ARE MY HEART'S DESIRE.
YOU HAVE JUST SET MY HEART ON FIRE."
With words like that, where's the meaning of love? I've searched through the words, which are only a few. Time has passed and after reading and searching I've found that the meaning of love... is you.
PERSONAL: DATING
I never thought I would go the route of online dating but am not getting any where with trying to meet quality women in bars. I'm looking for someone who is my best friend - someone who is truly accepting of who I am. If you are in a place in your life where you don't think you are ready to seriously commit to someone, I understand, but please do not contact me.I think this site has the potential to connect people who wouldn't have otherwise met. I'm sure there are many interesting people out there who I wouldn't normally cross paths with due to the routine of our every day lives. I'm not looking for someone who agrees with everything I say or likes everything I like – how boring! :) But, I do think that having basic core values align makes it much easier in the long run to weather the ups and downs of life….. What I look for in a person– integrity, honesty, loyalty, maturity, sense of humor, all of the typical things that every man is looking for. I am drawn to self confidence and intelligence but not arrogance. I can adapt to most situations easily and have a good perspective on life. I don't want to make a running list of what I want because sometimes what we are looking for comes to us in an unexpected way. I try to live every single day to its fullest and to always remember to be grateful along the way. The most valuable thing you can give to someone is your time. I'm ready to share it with that special person, who i'm hoping to meet soon. I'm ready to share my precious time with someone positive and fun, who can put a smile on my face.Ready for an adventure Excited to meet someone who wants to take on the world - from day trips up the coast, a last minute getaway to watching a great movie for the 88th time. Loves : sushi, wine, my dogs, family and being pleasantly surprised. Looking for someone smart with a great sense of humor who is passionate about love and life. Being silly but goal oriented is required. I have a great life, very lucky. Looking for someone fantastic to share it with... No drama please
Wednesday, January 8, 2014
DATING/ LOVE/PERSONAL/JOURNAL: MY MOM LIED TO ME...WHEN I WAS A KID...
When I was a little boy, my family members, especially mom, grandmas, and other female members, got in the habit of telling anyone who would listen (and those who wouldn’t) that I would one day become a ladykiller. “Look at those eyes,” they would say. “any woman would die to have him" . And silly though their exuberant encomiums were to my precocious ears, they somehow persisted, even into the troubled teen years when the wheat is separated from the chaff with the jagged thresher of social order and reality slaps you around for fun.
Fast forward their compliments now sound like feeble charity, if not downright fraudulent. You lied to me, Mom, you lied! I cannot but look back on their pollyannish prophecies and shake my head. What the FUCK? Where are all those conquered hearts?
Here I am, somehow miraculously divorce and now single,yanting about he short victories and crushing defeats. Small bubbles of evanescent joy popping at the surface of a cauldron boiling up with disappointment. Has Cupid’s arrow missed so many times, piercing friends and foes alike in his eternal crossfire with fate? Where is that lothario spirit the parents had been hinting at for so many years? Am I to join the Hall of Shame along with the other legendary busts of my time— What empty curse is this? What unfulfilled promise?
No one has a way of accounting for the future. The child who hears his parents boast of wildly unrealistic feats must one day take responsibility for his own life and his own identity—warts and all—and accept what he is and what he is not. He must navigate the inimical terrain of dating and relationships and all the bullshit they introduce—personalities, awkwardness, infatuations, attraction, availability, rejection, chemistry, and not least of all, timing—without learning to hate everyone who doesn’t give him his way while gaining the confidence to push aside anything that gets into it. He must never forget how good it felt when it was really good and embrace it when it comes again. And he must keep going, because life does not stop for whiners.
Whatareyagonnado? I look back on past, most of which were spent fretting about what was to come. And, you know what? Things aren’t too bad. I became a doctor, got a house of my own, a great car, saving..great family, and my health. ...but sometimes that seems hard to believe, but then I’ll wake up, find no one is laying next to me.. I keep hoping my scot-free days of singledom will one day soon be behind me, and I’ll suck up the last incriminating shreds of bacheloresque indiscretions with my cordless hand vac, but that won’t stop me from enjoying my freedom while I have it. One day soon I’ll happily hang the chains of coupledom on their familiar grooves and swing them as I whistle down the street. And then, suddenly, my parents won’t be liars anymore. After all, one mom’s ladykiller is another woman’s lovable dork.
Fast forward their compliments now sound like feeble charity, if not downright fraudulent. You lied to me, Mom, you lied! I cannot but look back on their pollyannish prophecies and shake my head. What the FUCK? Where are all those conquered hearts?
Here I am, somehow miraculously divorce and now single,yanting about he short victories and crushing defeats. Small bubbles of evanescent joy popping at the surface of a cauldron boiling up with disappointment. Has Cupid’s arrow missed so many times, piercing friends and foes alike in his eternal crossfire with fate? Where is that lothario spirit the parents had been hinting at for so many years? Am I to join the Hall of Shame along with the other legendary busts of my time— What empty curse is this? What unfulfilled promise?
No one has a way of accounting for the future. The child who hears his parents boast of wildly unrealistic feats must one day take responsibility for his own life and his own identity—warts and all—and accept what he is and what he is not. He must navigate the inimical terrain of dating and relationships and all the bullshit they introduce—personalities, awkwardness, infatuations, attraction, availability, rejection, chemistry, and not least of all, timing—without learning to hate everyone who doesn’t give him his way while gaining the confidence to push aside anything that gets into it. He must never forget how good it felt when it was really good and embrace it when it comes again. And he must keep going, because life does not stop for whiners.
Whatareyagonnado? I look back on past, most of which were spent fretting about what was to come. And, you know what? Things aren’t too bad. I became a doctor, got a house of my own, a great car, saving..great family, and my health. ...but sometimes that seems hard to believe, but then I’ll wake up, find no one is laying next to me.. I keep hoping my scot-free days of singledom will one day soon be behind me, and I’ll suck up the last incriminating shreds of bacheloresque indiscretions with my cordless hand vac, but that won’t stop me from enjoying my freedom while I have it. One day soon I’ll happily hang the chains of coupledom on their familiar grooves and swing them as I whistle down the street. And then, suddenly, my parents won’t be liars anymore. After all, one mom’s ladykiller is another woman’s lovable dork.
LOVE LETTER, LOVE, SOULMATE: MY SWEETNESS
My sweetness who I care for so dear. Who is the the only woman i wanna pull near...so I hold you ever so close and hear you breathe knowing that you're the only woman that I will need. So i cry in uttermost happiness because you're with me...only if you think you love me then you will see that i have loved you ever since we met and from that moment my heart has been set. When I was blind you gave me sight. Disoriented from life, you gave me direction.Lost and lonely, you're my only companion In the comfort of your arms you attend to me.Forever grateful for all you've done for me. In appreciation... I'm pouring my heart to you. Lean on me, I'll never love another nor will I ever lead you astray Forever in my heart you've come to stay..only you I give this precious key to my heart. I can never write a poem as beautiful as you.I can never see in a woman as much as I see in you.Gentle hands,loving touch, mesmorizing eyes, facinating body, beautiful lips.Every part of you...so perfect,...so real.And When you are old and grey,you will still be perfect in my eyes.For my love for you is timeless.
Who needs pictures, when you have the lantern of soul music
You're wearing high heels
But you didn't need them to make yourself seen
You're clearly the center of attention in the ballroom
Flawless, exquisite skin
Shining with such radiance that people have to get closer
Within a foot of you to see the diamonds you are wearing
Throwing your head back, your hair slowly cascades down
Everyone in the room collectively holds their breath
The hair seems to be moving in time-lapse photography
Every one catches their breath again through an act of sheer will power
But they are helplessly unprepared for what is next
You had your eyes wide shut, but as they are slowly opened
Every one's lives flash before their eyes
Minds tricked into believing they are on their way to heaven
Eyes are the window to the soul
And the soul emanating from your pools
Your sacred brown pools must be an imperfect diamond
Flawed only by the effects of living in a world of utter darkness
Devoid of anything resembling your kind
Yet, the flaws astonishingly make the diamond that much more enchanting
For despite the darkness, it still shines like a lighthouse
A beacon for lost and weary hearts
No one in the room can conceive of how a thing of such beauty
Looking in your eyes, they see their own imperfections
Magnified and held up to their windows
But they smile, because if you can somehow exist
There must be a God
A God that wanted His people to be so joyous that He created You
Created You for them to behold
And then you smile, pearly white teeth emerging from their slumber
Emerging behind full, rosy lips
If the sound of a heart breaking could be heard, how might it sound?
I'd tell you, because I just heard it happen to every one in the room
But putting it into words would desecrate it
Robbing it of its timeless essence
Wondering how I could be with you
I am still able to summon the courage to take your silken hand
Your fingers close around mine
We both tremble in ecstasy from the sparks generated
I am sure I will be consumed in your fire
Like a moth to a flame
Yet, for the moment I am spared
Then we...
Who needs pictures, when you have the lantern of soul music
You're wearing high heels
But you didn't need them to make yourself seen
You're clearly the center of attention in the ballroom
Flawless, exquisite skin
Shining with such radiance that people have to get closer
Within a foot of you to see the diamonds you are wearing
Throwing your head back, your hair slowly cascades down
Everyone in the room collectively holds their breath
The hair seems to be moving in time-lapse photography
Every one catches their breath again through an act of sheer will power
But they are helplessly unprepared for what is next
You had your eyes wide shut, but as they are slowly opened
Every one's lives flash before their eyes
Minds tricked into believing they are on their way to heaven
Eyes are the window to the soul
And the soul emanating from your pools
Your sacred brown pools must be an imperfect diamond
Flawed only by the effects of living in a world of utter darkness
Devoid of anything resembling your kind
Yet, the flaws astonishingly make the diamond that much more enchanting
For despite the darkness, it still shines like a lighthouse
A beacon for lost and weary hearts
No one in the room can conceive of how a thing of such beauty
Looking in your eyes, they see their own imperfections
Magnified and held up to their windows
But they smile, because if you can somehow exist
There must be a God
A God that wanted His people to be so joyous that He created You
Created You for them to behold
And then you smile, pearly white teeth emerging from their slumber
Emerging behind full, rosy lips
If the sound of a heart breaking could be heard, how might it sound?
I'd tell you, because I just heard it happen to every one in the room
But putting it into words would desecrate it
Robbing it of its timeless essence
Wondering how I could be with you
I am still able to summon the courage to take your silken hand
Your fingers close around mine
We both tremble in ecstasy from the sparks generated
I am sure I will be consumed in your fire
Like a moth to a flame
Yet, for the moment I am spared
Then we...
PERSONAL: WHAT'S IMPORTANT TO YOU?
I’m a tender and charming man. The main my quality is kindness. I have no bad habits and consider health the main thing we should value and take care of. My main goal is to make people that are around me happier and believe one should make only good to people as only good and kind smile can pave the way to people’s hearts.
What's important to you ? Warmth? Beauty... Sure. Intelligence? Wit, Heart... Definitely. How about: Awareness ? Someone who tries to be aware of opportunities to learn, give, share? Warm, Bright, Real man - here. Best line ever: Susan Sarandon answers 'Why commit to Someone...?' : "Because they give a reason for the little things no one else notices ... appreciates. A reason to keep going when otherwise - you'd just give up. Because that Someone becomes witness to your Life - gives it meaning ... Let's face it: if you're not lovin Somebody, honey - you're not LIVING, let alone existing. Immediate gratification? - that's livin on Empty. I want Someone at the end to say, "This person gave my life Meaning." So what can I write - to reach you? You work hard. Me, too. Had relationships - some great - now have stronger idea of Who it is we want to let in to our world. Success doesn't mean much without that Other Half, to share hard-won victories. If you're thinking of trying something, even if it seems risky - TRY it. Like - for example ... this. It sure as hell is not convenient - nothing about a Search is. :) Most of us have been conditioned thru media (or our families) to believe Love will just 'feel right' - happens 'when it's meant to be'... yet here we are - knowing that in NY - where careers/ materialistic success are THE priority ...obviously we need to put in effort / elbow grease, to meet someone special and make it stick. Luck is awesome - anything worth keepin takes input & care. So please : reach out. So much to gain... Be the woman not window-shopping. READY to give my all to a real, savvy, caring woman. YOU Want: Attractive, Grounded, Generous, Bright guy who strives to be his best - has a sense of balance when things go Wrong. (They will ... its Life) You Desire: a guy you are happy to be with... warm n real, to let your armor down around. Someone you trust. With your world. You are: balanced between work / 'off clock'. You enjoy stayin fit - but are not all about the physical. I like a strong jolt of chemistry much as the next -- there needs to be a well-toned heart beneath a healthy exterior =). You want a family in the not too distant sometime ... please - if this is something you don't (or no longer) wish for at some point your future - we are not a Match. 'Perfect Relationships' include: fallibility, friendship, imperfection, forgiveness, honesty. Speak your heart in real time - be authentic with yourself. Say what's on your mind, never assume the other knows what's on your mind... communicate No matter how 'attractive' - if a woman lacks compassion & generous spirit - not attractive. You'll settle for nothing less than a warm, beautiful guy -- inside and out.
What's important to you ? Warmth? Beauty... Sure. Intelligence? Wit, Heart... Definitely. How about: Awareness ? Someone who tries to be aware of opportunities to learn, give, share? Warm, Bright, Real man - here. Best line ever: Susan Sarandon answers 'Why commit to Someone...?' : "Because they give a reason for the little things no one else notices ... appreciates. A reason to keep going when otherwise - you'd just give up. Because that Someone becomes witness to your Life - gives it meaning ... Let's face it: if you're not lovin Somebody, honey - you're not LIVING, let alone existing. Immediate gratification? - that's livin on Empty. I want Someone at the end to say, "This person gave my life Meaning." So what can I write - to reach you? You work hard. Me, too. Had relationships - some great - now have stronger idea of Who it is we want to let in to our world. Success doesn't mean much without that Other Half, to share hard-won victories. If you're thinking of trying something, even if it seems risky - TRY it. Like - for example ... this. It sure as hell is not convenient - nothing about a Search is. :) Most of us have been conditioned thru media (or our families) to believe Love will just 'feel right' - happens 'when it's meant to be'... yet here we are - knowing that in NY - where careers/ materialistic success are THE priority ...obviously we need to put in effort / elbow grease, to meet someone special and make it stick. Luck is awesome - anything worth keepin takes input & care. So please : reach out. So much to gain... Be the woman not window-shopping. READY to give my all to a real, savvy, caring woman. YOU Want: Attractive, Grounded, Generous, Bright guy who strives to be his best - has a sense of balance when things go Wrong. (They will ... its Life) You Desire: a guy you are happy to be with... warm n real, to let your armor down around. Someone you trust. With your world. You are: balanced between work / 'off clock'. You enjoy stayin fit - but are not all about the physical. I like a strong jolt of chemistry much as the next -- there needs to be a well-toned heart beneath a healthy exterior =). You want a family in the not too distant sometime ... please - if this is something you don't (or no longer) wish for at some point your future - we are not a Match. 'Perfect Relationships' include: fallibility, friendship, imperfection, forgiveness, honesty. Speak your heart in real time - be authentic with yourself. Say what's on your mind, never assume the other knows what's on your mind... communicate No matter how 'attractive' - if a woman lacks compassion & generous spirit - not attractive. You'll settle for nothing less than a warm, beautiful guy -- inside and out.
Tuesday, January 7, 2014
SPIRITUALITY/PERSONAL/LOVE:MOST PEOPLE DON'T RECOGNISE THE PREFECT MATCH
There’s no point whatsoever in an unloving man or woman bemoaning their inability to find a partner. They’re doomed to endless frustration because they don’t recognise the perfect match when it appears. That loving person could be right here, right now, and their resistance doesn’t allow them to see it. The unloving person continues to blame bad luck or external factors for their not having a loving relationship. If no one showed up, it was because you needed to handle something on your own and therefore attracted no one to fulfill your energy level at that time.
Love can only be attracted by and returned by love.
Love can only be attracted by and returned by love.
Spiritually you’re already connected to those you want in your life – so act like it. You share the same Source energy with everyone, and consequently, you must begin to think and act in a way that reflects your awareness of this principle. When you feel the need to have the right person show up, being to change your inner dialogue to reflect this awareness. Rather than saying, I wish this person would show up because I need to get out of this rut, activate a thought that reflects your connection, such as: I know the right person will be arriving in divine order at precisely the perfect time.
It’s all unfolding in divine order. By now you should affirming that everyone you need for this journey of yours will show up, and that they’ll be perfect in every way for whatever needs you have at this time. Furthermore, they’ll arrive at precisely the right moment. In this intelligent system that you’re part of, everything arrives from the field of intention where the infinite, invisible life force flows through everyone and everything. This includes you, and everyone else as well. Trust in this invisible life force and the all-creating mind that intends everything into existence.
Don't believe me?....I suggest that you do a quick review, and note all of the people who’ve shown up as characters in this play called your life. It’s has all been perfect. You may feel that they didn’t show up when you needed them, that in fact, you were alone and no one showed up at all, but I urge you to see it from the perspective of all of life being in divine order. If no one showed up, it was because you needed to handle something on your own and therefore attracted no one to fulfill your energy level at that time. Viewing your past as a play in which all characters and all entrances and exits were scripted by your Source and was what you attracted at the time , frees you from the very low energies of guilt, regret, and revenge.
To be infinitely patient means to have an absolute knowing within you that you’re in vibrational harmony with the all-creating force that intended you here. You are, in fact, a co-creator of your life. You know that the right people will show up on divinely ordained schedule. Attempting to rush the schedule based on your own timetable is akin to getting down on your knees and tugging at an emerging tulip shoot, insisting that you need the flower to grow. Creation reveals its secrets by and by, not according to your agenda.
The immediate result that you’ll receive from your infinite patience is a deep sense of peace. You’ll feel the love of the creation process, you’ll stop making incessant demands, and you’ll start being on the lookout for exactly the right person.
It’s all unfolding in divine order. By now you should affirming that everyone you need for this journey of yours will show up, and that they’ll be perfect in every way for whatever needs you have at this time. Furthermore, they’ll arrive at precisely the right moment. In this intelligent system that you’re part of, everything arrives from the field of intention where the infinite, invisible life force flows through everyone and everything. This includes you, and everyone else as well. Trust in this invisible life force and the all-creating mind that intends everything into existence.
Don't believe me?....I suggest that you do a quick review, and note all of the people who’ve shown up as characters in this play called your life. It’s has all been perfect. You may feel that they didn’t show up when you needed them, that in fact, you were alone and no one showed up at all, but I urge you to see it from the perspective of all of life being in divine order. If no one showed up, it was because you needed to handle something on your own and therefore attracted no one to fulfill your energy level at that time. Viewing your past as a play in which all characters and all entrances and exits were scripted by your Source and was what you attracted at the time , frees you from the very low energies of guilt, regret, and revenge.
To be infinitely patient means to have an absolute knowing within you that you’re in vibrational harmony with the all-creating force that intended you here. You are, in fact, a co-creator of your life. You know that the right people will show up on divinely ordained schedule. Attempting to rush the schedule based on your own timetable is akin to getting down on your knees and tugging at an emerging tulip shoot, insisting that you need the flower to grow. Creation reveals its secrets by and by, not according to your agenda.
The immediate result that you’ll receive from your infinite patience is a deep sense of peace. You’ll feel the love of the creation process, you’ll stop making incessant demands, and you’ll start being on the lookout for exactly the right person.
LOVE/DATING/PERSONAL: EVERYTHING WILL HAPPENS AS IT SUPPOSE TO HAPPEN
We’ve heard the phrase “ “Everything happens in God’s time”, but when you’ve been patiently waiting and nothing happens what do you do? Give up or continue to wait until something magical occurs? At a certain age we’ve done all we can and ready for that moment. The moment where we meet someone that enriches our lives for the better. Someone who changes our way of thinking, feeling and loving. Many people wait a whole lifetime waiting for that “one” to come along. Dismissing a few of the rotten apples, bypassing the not so together and totally ignoring the baggage filled. We search for what we can’t find and complain that we don’t see it. You’re waiting for this miracle of a person to appear, the right person is right there and you can’t see it because you just refuse to believe it was that simple.
Don’t get me wrong; I do believe patience is a virtue and everything happens in God’s time, but some people have this unrealistic expectation of the “one”. As I got older and fell in love with the wrong fucking people I realized that what I wanted was so different from what I needed. As I got older I learned that love can take you all the way down and can turn around and build you all the way up. Finding that right person can take as much time as it needs to take, but when it’s suppose to happen it will. The one thing you’ve gotta learn is to keep your options open. All that energy you’re putting into one person and they turn out to be a fraud. This is the mess we face as we wait. The salesmen/saleswomen who try to enter our lives only to get us open and drain the love from us. Only to misuse it and disrespect it. Hence why there are so many single people today. Too scared to open up, but want to but fear the hurt.
You might get to the point where you’re ready to give up. Trust me giving up only shows God that you were never ready. If you aren’t truly ready there is no way to receive what he has to offer. Open your eyes to the beauty of what could be and stop living in the land of doubt. No matter how “ready” you think you are it’s still not going to happen until it’s your time. In the meantime allow yourself to open up to the possibilities you never thought were possibilities. Like I said it all happens in God’s time, but what if she’s shown you but you just refused to see what was right in front of you.
THOUGHTS/ DATING, LOVE: LOVE WITHOUT ACTION
-A man may say to his wife "I love you" but he beats her and does not provide for her. Does he love her?
-A wife says to her husband "I love you" but when he desires sex she does not agree to it. Does she love him?
-A child says to his parents "I love you" but he disobeys them most of the time. Does he/she love them?
Love must be translated in action, attitude and behavior, otherwise it is just a word without meaning.
-A wife says to her husband "I love you" but when he desires sex she does not agree to it. Does she love him?
-A child says to his parents "I love you" but he disobeys them most of the time. Does he/she love them?
Love must be translated in action, attitude and behavior, otherwise it is just a word without meaning.
LOVE LETTER: DEAR SOULMATE
Dear Soulmate,
Your warmth, your tenderness.Takes me back to those sixty seconds again that I feel within your kiss. There is a place where sun, moon and heavenly stars are there for the asking, Where scenery changes by thought. Where the woman I meet is always you. If, but for a moment,I had closed my eyes it would all have been gone. Such a place, I've come to realize,resides in the heart where soft candles glow, where to home I always go and where the door opens and all the possibilities are there- the wants and desires the hopes and dreams the love for you between today and tomorrow...
You know, love is like a lava lamp trapped in an airless glass jar
and powered by a burning light bulb
it comes in all different shapes and colors
and you can turn it on and off whenever you feel like it
inside, when it's off, it's just a cold lump of mass
it's not alive and moving
but when you turn it on, it's an amazing sight
It goes up and down and changes into different shapes
as it heats up, at first, it's broken apart into lil bitty pieces
As it stays on, it gets warmer and the pieces form together
If you leave it on long enough,
it forms into one big glob of beautifully colored moving liquid
but when you turn it off,
it stars to cool
and the pices form into a cold mass once again,
...lifeless
JOURNAL: BIRTHDAY COMING UP AND REFLECTING ON LIFE'S LESSONS
I’m not usually one to make a big deal about my birthday which is coming up next month, but as always, it has given me an opportunity to reflect. I thought I’d share a handful of lessons I’ve learned — as a helpful guide for those just starting out.
1. Always swallow your pride to say you’re sorry. Being too proud to apologize is never worth it — your relationship suffers for no good benefit.
2. Possessions are worse than worthless — they’re harmful. They add no value to your life, and cost you everything. Not just the money required to buy them, but the time and money spent shopping for them, maintaining them, worrying about them, insuring them, fixing them, etc.
3. Slow down. Rushing is rarely worth it. Life is better enjoyed at a leisurely pace.
4. Goals aren’t as important as we think. Try working without them for a week. Turns out, you can do amazing things without goals.
5. The moment is all there is. All our worries and plans about the future, all our replaying of things that happened in the past — it’s all in our heads, and it just distracts us from fully living right now. Let go of all that, and just focus on what you’re doing, right at this moment. In this way, any activity can be meditation.
6. When anyone asks for your attention, always grant it. Give your full attention, and instead of being annoyed at the interruption, be grateful for the reminder to spend time with someone you love.
7. Don’t go into debt. That includes credit card debt, student debt, home debt, personal loans, auto loans. We think they’re necessary but they’re not, at all. They cause more headaches than they’re worth, they can ruin lives, and they cost us way more than we get. Spend less than you earn, go without until you have the money.
8. The only kind of marketing you need is an amazing product. If it’s good, people will spread the word for you. All other kind of marketing is disingenuous.
9. Never send an email or message that’s unfit for the eyes of the world. In this digital age, you never know what might slip into public view.
10. You will miss a ton, but that’s OK. We’re so caught up in trying to do everything, experience all the essential things, not miss out on anything important … that we forget the simple fact that we cannot experience everything. That physical reality dictates we’ll miss most things. We can’t read all the good books, watch all the good films, go to all the best cities in the world, try all the best restaurants, meet all the great people. But the secret is: life is better when we don’t try to do everything. Learn to enjoy the slice of life you experience, and life turns out to be wonderful.
11. Mistakes are the best way to learn. Don’t be afraid to make them. Try not to repeat the same ones too often.
12. Rest is more important than you think. People work too hard, forget to rest, and then begin to hate their jobs.
13. There are few joys that equal a good book, a good walk, a good hug, or a good friend, good movie and good sex. All are free.
14. Fitness doesn’t happen overnight. It’s a long process, a learning process, something that happens in little bits over a long period. .
15. The destination is just a tiny slice of the journey. We’re so worried about goals, about our future, that we miss all the great things along the way. If you’re fixated on the goal, on the end, you won’t enjoy it when you get there. You’ll be worried about the next goal, the next destination.
16. A good walk cures most problems. Want to lose weight and get fit? Walk. Want to enjoy life but spend less? Walk. Want to cure stress and clear your head? Walk. Want to meditate and live in the moment? Walk. Having trouble with a life or work problem? Walk, and your head gets clear.
17. Let go of expectations. When you have expectations of something — a person, an experience, a vacation, a job, a book — you put it in a predetermined box that has little to do with reality. You set up an idealized version of the thing (or person) and then try to fit the reality into this ideal, and are often disappointed. Instead, try to experience reality as it is, appreciate it for what it is, and be happy that it is.
18. Giving is so much better than getting. Give with no expectation of getting something in return, and it becomes a purer, more beautiful act. Too often we give something and expect to get an equal measure in return — at least get some gratitude or recognition for our efforts. Try to let go of that need, and just give.
19. Competition is very rarely as useful as cooperation. Our society is geared toward competition — rip each other’s throats out, survival of the fittest, yada yada. But humans are meant to work together for the survival of the tribe, and cooperation pools our resources and allows everyone to contribute what they can. It requires a whole other set of people skills to work cooperatively, but it’s well worth the effort.
20. Gratitude is one of the best ways to find contentment. We are often discontent in our lives, desire more, because we don’t realize how much we have. Instead of focusing on what you don’t have, be grateful for the amazing gifts you’ve been given: of loved ones and simple pleasures, of health and sight and the gift of music and books, of nature and beauty and the ability to create, and everything in between. Be grateful every day.
21. Get some perspective. Usually when we’re worried or upset, it’s because we’ve lost perspective. In the larger picture, this one problem means almost nothing. This fight we’re having with someone else — it’s over something that matters naught. Let it go, and move on.
22. Use the magic of compound interest. Invest early, and it will grow as if by alchemy. Live on little, don’t get into debt, save all you can, and invest it in mutual funds. Watch your money grow.
1. Always swallow your pride to say you’re sorry. Being too proud to apologize is never worth it — your relationship suffers for no good benefit.
2. Possessions are worse than worthless — they’re harmful. They add no value to your life, and cost you everything. Not just the money required to buy them, but the time and money spent shopping for them, maintaining them, worrying about them, insuring them, fixing them, etc.
3. Slow down. Rushing is rarely worth it. Life is better enjoyed at a leisurely pace.
4. Goals aren’t as important as we think. Try working without them for a week. Turns out, you can do amazing things without goals.
5. The moment is all there is. All our worries and plans about the future, all our replaying of things that happened in the past — it’s all in our heads, and it just distracts us from fully living right now. Let go of all that, and just focus on what you’re doing, right at this moment. In this way, any activity can be meditation.
6. When anyone asks for your attention, always grant it. Give your full attention, and instead of being annoyed at the interruption, be grateful for the reminder to spend time with someone you love.
7. Don’t go into debt. That includes credit card debt, student debt, home debt, personal loans, auto loans. We think they’re necessary but they’re not, at all. They cause more headaches than they’re worth, they can ruin lives, and they cost us way more than we get. Spend less than you earn, go without until you have the money.
8. The only kind of marketing you need is an amazing product. If it’s good, people will spread the word for you. All other kind of marketing is disingenuous.
9. Never send an email or message that’s unfit for the eyes of the world. In this digital age, you never know what might slip into public view.
10. You will miss a ton, but that’s OK. We’re so caught up in trying to do everything, experience all the essential things, not miss out on anything important … that we forget the simple fact that we cannot experience everything. That physical reality dictates we’ll miss most things. We can’t read all the good books, watch all the good films, go to all the best cities in the world, try all the best restaurants, meet all the great people. But the secret is: life is better when we don’t try to do everything. Learn to enjoy the slice of life you experience, and life turns out to be wonderful.
11. Mistakes are the best way to learn. Don’t be afraid to make them. Try not to repeat the same ones too often.
12. Rest is more important than you think. People work too hard, forget to rest, and then begin to hate their jobs.
13. There are few joys that equal a good book, a good walk, a good hug, or a good friend, good movie and good sex. All are free.
14. Fitness doesn’t happen overnight. It’s a long process, a learning process, something that happens in little bits over a long period. .
15. The destination is just a tiny slice of the journey. We’re so worried about goals, about our future, that we miss all the great things along the way. If you’re fixated on the goal, on the end, you won’t enjoy it when you get there. You’ll be worried about the next goal, the next destination.
16. A good walk cures most problems. Want to lose weight and get fit? Walk. Want to enjoy life but spend less? Walk. Want to cure stress and clear your head? Walk. Want to meditate and live in the moment? Walk. Having trouble with a life or work problem? Walk, and your head gets clear.
17. Let go of expectations. When you have expectations of something — a person, an experience, a vacation, a job, a book — you put it in a predetermined box that has little to do with reality. You set up an idealized version of the thing (or person) and then try to fit the reality into this ideal, and are often disappointed. Instead, try to experience reality as it is, appreciate it for what it is, and be happy that it is.
18. Giving is so much better than getting. Give with no expectation of getting something in return, and it becomes a purer, more beautiful act. Too often we give something and expect to get an equal measure in return — at least get some gratitude or recognition for our efforts. Try to let go of that need, and just give.
19. Competition is very rarely as useful as cooperation. Our society is geared toward competition — rip each other’s throats out, survival of the fittest, yada yada. But humans are meant to work together for the survival of the tribe, and cooperation pools our resources and allows everyone to contribute what they can. It requires a whole other set of people skills to work cooperatively, but it’s well worth the effort.
20. Gratitude is one of the best ways to find contentment. We are often discontent in our lives, desire more, because we don’t realize how much we have. Instead of focusing on what you don’t have, be grateful for the amazing gifts you’ve been given: of loved ones and simple pleasures, of health and sight and the gift of music and books, of nature and beauty and the ability to create, and everything in between. Be grateful every day.
21. Get some perspective. Usually when we’re worried or upset, it’s because we’ve lost perspective. In the larger picture, this one problem means almost nothing. This fight we’re having with someone else — it’s over something that matters naught. Let it go, and move on.
22. Use the magic of compound interest. Invest early, and it will grow as if by alchemy. Live on little, don’t get into debt, save all you can, and invest it in mutual funds. Watch your money grow.
23. Learn the art of empathy. Too often we judge people on too little information. We must try to understand what they do instead, put ourselves in their shoes, start with the assumption that what others do has a good reason if we understand what they’re going through. Life becomes much better if you learn this art.
24. Life is exceedingly brief. You might feel like there’s a huge mass of time ahead of you, but it passes much faster than you think. You get gray hairs before you’re done getting your bearings on life. Appreciate every damn moment.
25. Fear will try to stop you. Doubts will try to stop you. You’ll shy away from doing great things, from going on new adventures, from creating something new and putting it out in the world, because of self-doubt and fear. It will happen in the recesses of your mind, where you don’t even know it’s happening. Become aware of these doubts and fears. Shine some light on them. Beat them with a thousand tiny cuts. Do it anyway, because they are wrong.
26. I have a lot left to learn. If I’ve learned anything, it’s that I know almost nothing, and that I’m often wrong about what I think I know. Life has many lessons left to teach me, and I’m looking forward to them all.
24. Life is exceedingly brief. You might feel like there’s a huge mass of time ahead of you, but it passes much faster than you think. You get gray hairs before you’re done getting your bearings on life. Appreciate every damn moment.
25. Fear will try to stop you. Doubts will try to stop you. You’ll shy away from doing great things, from going on new adventures, from creating something new and putting it out in the world, because of self-doubt and fear. It will happen in the recesses of your mind, where you don’t even know it’s happening. Become aware of these doubts and fears. Shine some light on them. Beat them with a thousand tiny cuts. Do it anyway, because they are wrong.
26. I have a lot left to learn. If I’ve learned anything, it’s that I know almost nothing, and that I’m often wrong about what I think I know. Life has many lessons left to teach me, and I’m looking forward to them all.
PERSONAL: I AM KIND MAN
I am kind man who wants to love and be loved. I like to live in harmony and happiness. I am a man who knows how to create comfort and happiness in the family and in the house! I will keep our home and not give love to break our boat about all sorts of adversity! I'm easy-going, sympathetic. I'm very positive person, life-loving, kind and understanding. I'm also romantic and attentive. I love traveling, I have many interests that I would like to share with me beloved and I'm open to find new ones together with her (you). I'm looking for a reliable woman who is willing to start a family. I do not care looks, no matter work and hobbies. Just want to fall asleep in the arms of a loved one. The main thing that we were happy together. I am looking for not just my lover and my best friend, with whom we will be frank, we understand and respect each other
Monday, January 6, 2014
DATING/LOVE: I LOVE YOU LIKE MY SOCKS
In the 19th century, having a husband mattered in that you had to have one — and that was the end of the story. There was no real love or romance, just being cast off by your meddling mother to the highest bidder. You can even see this theme played out in Pride and Prejudice...the classic opening sentence: “It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune must be in want of a wife.” Note: It doesn’t say “his perfect match” or “a soulmate,” but a wife, as if he were purchasing her at an auction.
Pride and Prejudice is about balancing pragmatism and idealism — looking at love the way Charlotte does versus Elizabeth’s views on love, where she’s looking for her match just as much as she’s looking for a husband. It’s not about finding love in the abstract — like Kitty and Lydia, who will fall for the first guy who comes their way and bats an eye at them. It’s about waiting for the right person, a person that intrigues you, infuriates you and challenges you. It’s about finding someone you love so much that you hate them half of the time, someone you want to kiss and then throw in a lake.
When I see couples who have settled for a Charlotte kind of love, I always want to know what keeps them together at the end of the day. Woody Allen once posited that only stupidity and narcissism could lead to that kind of complacent happiness, but I think it’s fear. You are afraid to feel that kind of burning passion, the kind that makes you want to rip your heart out and throw it on the ground. You are afraid of loving someone so much and not being loved back, being rejected, being in a relationship where you love them too much or being dumped and left behind. Whoever said its better to have loved and lost has never eaten half a bucket of tear-stained ice cream in their underwear.
I don’t think its better necessarily, but I think we need those loves — even if they don’t work out in the end. We need to give ourselves over fully to another being or force, whether that’s God or love, to prove that we have the ability to have faith and take that leap. Waiting for the right person — when you are that heart-in-the-pit-of-your-stomach kind of in love takes patience, perseverance and more than a bit of stupidity. You have to be willing to look like a total fool and demand that they love you back. You have to demand that they love you back every single fucking day — and that takes strength, energy and courage.
Real love takes time. The great thing about getting into a relationship with someone you aren’t passionate about is that you don’t have to work for it. It’s as simple as updating your status or hitting the “four star” option on OKCupid. It’s not love, just poking. But actually falling in love with someone isn’t a decision you make once. There’s the first time you realize what’s happening and the second time you consent to the falling, but there’s also the thirtieth time where you have to keep trying, continuing to love them just as much as when they first set your heart on fire. There’s the sixtieth time you fall in love with them, when you let them surprise you and when you do the work of continuing to learn and grow.
You could probably have that feeling with anyone. You could walk up on the street and find some cute guy and say, “Hey, want to marry me?” and I bet some dude would take you up on it. He wasn’t doing anything today, so why not spend your life with a total stranger? I bet you could grow old together and not learn a real thing about each other, loving him like you love the socks on your feet, warm and comfortable. You love them because you know they’re still there in the morning and you think that’s what matters most.
There’s something to be said for this kind of love, but ask yourself: Is this what you really want? Do you want a love that’s like socks? Your love should be like the Trojan War, something for which you would risk the safety of an entire civilization. If love is sending all your ships into battle, you don’t do that for anyone or an everyday kind of love. Love should be the person you’d rather blow up the world than live without.
There’s nothing comfortable or easy about love. What could be less easy than building a life with someone? What could be harder than having this person who knows everything about you and is always around to expect better from you? When it comes down to it, love kind of sucks — the uncertainty, the learning to trust someone with all your neuroses, the opening up and the horrifying feeling it could all come crashing down at any second. Love sucks so much that you couldn’t possibly live without it — all of the drama, the heartache and the beautiful, beautiful bullshit.
Love sucks, but it sucks a lot less when you find the right person to be in love with. Actually, you might find that it doesn’t suck, not even a little bit, not even at all
Pride and Prejudice is about balancing pragmatism and idealism — looking at love the way Charlotte does versus Elizabeth’s views on love, where she’s looking for her match just as much as she’s looking for a husband. It’s not about finding love in the abstract — like Kitty and Lydia, who will fall for the first guy who comes their way and bats an eye at them. It’s about waiting for the right person, a person that intrigues you, infuriates you and challenges you. It’s about finding someone you love so much that you hate them half of the time, someone you want to kiss and then throw in a lake.
When I see couples who have settled for a Charlotte kind of love, I always want to know what keeps them together at the end of the day. Woody Allen once posited that only stupidity and narcissism could lead to that kind of complacent happiness, but I think it’s fear. You are afraid to feel that kind of burning passion, the kind that makes you want to rip your heart out and throw it on the ground. You are afraid of loving someone so much and not being loved back, being rejected, being in a relationship where you love them too much or being dumped and left behind. Whoever said its better to have loved and lost has never eaten half a bucket of tear-stained ice cream in their underwear.
I don’t think its better necessarily, but I think we need those loves — even if they don’t work out in the end. We need to give ourselves over fully to another being or force, whether that’s God or love, to prove that we have the ability to have faith and take that leap. Waiting for the right person — when you are that heart-in-the-pit-of-your-stomach kind of in love takes patience, perseverance and more than a bit of stupidity. You have to be willing to look like a total fool and demand that they love you back. You have to demand that they love you back every single fucking day — and that takes strength, energy and courage.
Real love takes time. The great thing about getting into a relationship with someone you aren’t passionate about is that you don’t have to work for it. It’s as simple as updating your status or hitting the “four star” option on OKCupid. It’s not love, just poking. But actually falling in love with someone isn’t a decision you make once. There’s the first time you realize what’s happening and the second time you consent to the falling, but there’s also the thirtieth time where you have to keep trying, continuing to love them just as much as when they first set your heart on fire. There’s the sixtieth time you fall in love with them, when you let them surprise you and when you do the work of continuing to learn and grow.
You could probably have that feeling with anyone. You could walk up on the street and find some cute guy and say, “Hey, want to marry me?” and I bet some dude would take you up on it. He wasn’t doing anything today, so why not spend your life with a total stranger? I bet you could grow old together and not learn a real thing about each other, loving him like you love the socks on your feet, warm and comfortable. You love them because you know they’re still there in the morning and you think that’s what matters most.
There’s something to be said for this kind of love, but ask yourself: Is this what you really want? Do you want a love that’s like socks? Your love should be like the Trojan War, something for which you would risk the safety of an entire civilization. If love is sending all your ships into battle, you don’t do that for anyone or an everyday kind of love. Love should be the person you’d rather blow up the world than live without.
There’s nothing comfortable or easy about love. What could be less easy than building a life with someone? What could be harder than having this person who knows everything about you and is always around to expect better from you? When it comes down to it, love kind of sucks — the uncertainty, the learning to trust someone with all your neuroses, the opening up and the horrifying feeling it could all come crashing down at any second. Love sucks so much that you couldn’t possibly live without it — all of the drama, the heartache and the beautiful, beautiful bullshit.
Love sucks, but it sucks a lot less when you find the right person to be in love with. Actually, you might find that it doesn’t suck, not even a little bit, not even at all
DEAR SOULMATE: I WONDER IF I DREAMED OF YOU...IF YOU WOULD APPEAR
Dear Soulmate,
I wonder if i dreamed of you-if you would appear?To make my nights full of love,and always hold me near.I wonder if i thought of you-if you would feel it in your soul?Like two spirits in the universe,who always seem to know.Even if the stars went black and the sun were to shine no more.They could find their way to each other,no matter how far the shore.Safely in each other's arms, to bid the rest of time.Finding Eternal Love so many seek to find. Caring for each other through the worst of storms. Leaning on the arms of love and never need anymore. This is how i feel for you, i've known it all along. You are my one true love My world.. My heart.. My soul! A stare from deep inside.I see right through,conceive your thoughts from far beyond my view. I see your kindness breath its fire. Behold the love that you aspire.Discovering two...without words told, A stare so deep inside it connects the souls. You're in the very deepest place where no-one else can see. Fathoms down in consciousness where I meet you and you meet me Fantasy and energy combine in fire and synergy.Life sparks independently Powers surge contentedly.Dimensions connect dynamically Dreams can become reality. We feel so new...the love between us breathes eternal springtime.Hope blossoms for love that never ends...You and me
In the eyes of the soft wind
She blows. Where she's going-
who knows. Love comes and goes
every now and then
with a passion so strong... so fast
Here she comes to look upon me once again
with her gentle eyes and her beautiful past.
O how I wish I could roam with her
in the endless skies toward the angels cries
and look at love through Love's eyes.
But it seems her beauty never lasts,
At least not with the passion of a constant stream
to quench my thirsty dreams
from the crusty sand in this dry sea.
O soft wind, please stay with me.
I can't see the truth through the lies
without your eyes and your purity.
O Love, freely blow upon me for all eternity
I wonder if i dreamed of you-if you would appear?To make my nights full of love,and always hold me near.I wonder if i thought of you-if you would feel it in your soul?Like two spirits in the universe,who always seem to know.Even if the stars went black and the sun were to shine no more.They could find their way to each other,no matter how far the shore.Safely in each other's arms, to bid the rest of time.Finding Eternal Love so many seek to find. Caring for each other through the worst of storms. Leaning on the arms of love and never need anymore. This is how i feel for you, i've known it all along. You are my one true love My world.. My heart.. My soul! A stare from deep inside.I see right through,conceive your thoughts from far beyond my view. I see your kindness breath its fire. Behold the love that you aspire.Discovering two...without words told, A stare so deep inside it connects the souls. You're in the very deepest place where no-one else can see. Fathoms down in consciousness where I meet you and you meet me Fantasy and energy combine in fire and synergy.Life sparks independently Powers surge contentedly.Dimensions connect dynamically Dreams can become reality. We feel so new...the love between us breathes eternal springtime.Hope blossoms for love that never ends...You and me
In the eyes of the soft wind
She blows. Where she's going-
who knows. Love comes and goes
every now and then
with a passion so strong... so fast
Here she comes to look upon me once again
with her gentle eyes and her beautiful past.
O how I wish I could roam with her
in the endless skies toward the angels cries
and look at love through Love's eyes.
But it seems her beauty never lasts,
At least not with the passion of a constant stream
to quench my thirsty dreams
from the crusty sand in this dry sea.
O soft wind, please stay with me.
I can't see the truth through the lies
without your eyes and your purity.
O Love, freely blow upon me for all eternity
PERSONAL: SURRENDER AS I SURRENDER
Surrender, as I surrendered. Don't worry about understanding, living exceeds all understanding. I'm not looking for someone "perfect". Someone intent on finding perfection is bound to be disappointed. I am looking for someone who is well balanced. I just want to meet someone that gives back as good as they get. Someone who I can go out with and have a good time, but also likes to stay in. It would be great to meet someone with common interests, that we could enjoy spending time together, and just see where things go without pressure or expectations. I can't define the type of relationship I want, but I know what I want, regardless of how it's defined. I'm looking for someone real, honest, open, available, affectionate, kind, easy-going, attractive (to me of course) with a great sense of humor and realistic expectations. Communication is extremely important to me. I want to have the kind of relationship where we share the same morals and values, have mutual respect and attraction for each other. For me, the best kind of relationship is where I'd rather do nothing with you than do anything else with anyone else.
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