PERSONAL/ LOVE LETTER/LOVE LETTER: LEAVING EVERYTHING OBLITERATED

Soulmate

Today I waited for my soul mate; I thought we'd made it. Left the rest to fate, I guess I was ill fated. The love we had created seemed to have suddenly dissipated. All the words she said that made me feel elated seem so deflated. I hate it, it hurts, my heavy heart unearthed by the words she dictated. I can't equate it with anything related, my emotions desecrated Overrated how love is supposed to conquer all when it leaves everything obliterated. Silver-plated, but underneath it lies waiting to take something great and abate it and the advice given: to fuck all their shit and keep living. Trust me I try. 

To live without you by my side I think I'd rather die. But I'm a man so I won't give into suicide or cry. I don't know how you can say you love me then leave And suddenly I feel so hurt I don't even know what to believe. Your love is worth the fight; your arms hold the key to what could be destiny.My only fault was loving you to much because I thought we were meant to be

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PERSONAL/ LOVE LETTER: DEAR SOULMATE...I REALLY NEED YOU TODAY

Dear Soulmate,

Where are you? I've been waiting for you. It seems like I've been waiting forever. You know me, just as I know you. We're supposed to be together. We're supposed to meet somewhere crowded, and run right into each other and laugh and both realize that we can't live without each other. You're supposed to have eyes that can see right inside of me. Eyes that shine brightly and lips that smile every time we're together.

I think I already know you. I think my soul knows you. It's crying for yours. Can't you year it? The silence is deafening.

Where are you?
Am I going to have to travel across the Earth to find you? Or have I already lost my chance? What if I've ruled you out, or rejected you because your eyes looked dead or your hair didn't catch the light the way I wanted. What if your soul didn't scream to mine so after we bumped into each other at the mall or the supermarket or on the street, I kept walking and I never looked back?

What if you're already with someone, or you're dead and I wasn't there to hold your hand, so your soul was taken alone and your last few minutes were spent wondering where I was, and I was probably sleeping or writing and wasn't even thinking about you.

But where are you?
Your soul could scream to mine as loud as it wanted and mine would never hear. Never notice. then your soul would slowly resign itself to someone else and by the time I'd realize it'd be too late.

To be honest with you, soulmate, I'm afraid. What if I never find you? What tif I expect too much or too little and I die all alone because I never saw you when you were there? What if just one day I miss the bus or the train that you're on and you find someone else? And then one day you'll be married and meet me and I'll tell you We're supposed to be together. I'm Alex, your soulmate. We were supposed to meet a long time ago but I missed the bus and now it's too late.' But you wont listen because you'll be happy and have a nice house and dog and 1.3 kids. You wont' throw it all away for a maybe. Your soul won't remember its useless cries. You'll be lost. Lost to me.


So please find me, Soulmate.


I need you today.

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LOVE: WHY I BELIEVE THE ONE THAT IS FOR YOU IS IN FRONT OF YOU RIGHT NOW

Are you looking for the ONE?

Stop waiting. You are the one.

I don’t believe that your soulmate is something you ATTRACT, rather is something that you ARE. Your soulmate is simply an expression of your Self. As you connect more with your soul, that perfect mate will come to you as a mirror manifestation of who and what you are. It is not about finding your soulmate, but removing the barriers, illusions and blocks to the realization of yourself as Love.

BE your SOULMATE. Your own soul is your ultimate mate. Your soul is the source of your true fulfillment. As you recognize who you are, you realize a deeper dimension of your innate wholeness. Out of this wholeness the outer manifestation of your soulmate happens.

As you cultivate this relationship with yourself, and see the truth of your being. A deep intimacy opens up. A deep communion with everything. The feelings of aloneness dissolve as you realize that you are “all one” with all things and that you are profoundly connected with everyone. At the deepest level everything and everyone is your soul mate. There is only “The One.” All of life is the One Source manifesting as a multiplicity of form. From this place of wholeness you are no longer seeking to get something. You are complete. You know that you are Love itself.

When you drop your search for the one, you will find what has never been lost: You. As you give up waiting Love blossoms more fully and comes alive in your heart. You become Love alive. This is the most attractive quality. This energy is palpable and felt by those around you.

If you have ever or are currently debating in your mind “Is this person the ONE?”

Ultimately, they are “the one” that is in front of you right now. They are the one that is inviting you into a deeper possibility of loving. The person in your life right now is giving you the opportunity to open your heart more fully, heal more deeply, and love more freely. Regardless of whether you are with them for a week, a month, a year or a lifetime.

Rather than looking for the one, Be the ONE. Be the one that loves each moment fully. Love each moment like your dear lover. Love this very moment as if it were your soulmate.

If in the aftermath of a relationship, you feel heartbroken, know that even though the relationship might have ended, you dared to open your heart and love, and no one can take that away from you. By the act of loving your heart will never be the same. It will have expanded to hold a bigger capacity for love.

Because a relationship didn’t work out doesn’t mean it was a failure. The real question is  ”Did you grow?” Did you become more of who you really are? Did you learn the lessons that brought that person into your life?”

So long as you got the lesson, then the relationship was a great success.

There are no failures in Love. Only the refusal to love.

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PERSONAL/ LETTERS: OUR SOULS ARE CONNECTED..MAYBE THEY ALWAYS HAVE BEEN

Poets like myself often describe love as an emotion that we can't control, one that overwhelms logic and common sense. that's what it was like for me. i didn't plan on falling in love with you, and i doubt if you planned on falling in love with me. but once we met, it was clear that neither of us could control what was happening to us. we fell in love, despite our differences, and once we did, something rare and beautiful was created. for me, love like that has happened only once, and that's why every minute we spent together has been seared in my memory. i'll never forget a single moment of it.

The reason why it hurts so much to separate is because our souls are connected. maybe they always have been and will be. maybe we've lived a thousand lives before this one and in each of them we've found each other. and maybe each time, we've been forced apart for the same reasons. that means that this goodbye is both a goodbye for the past ten thousand years and a prelude to what will come.

When i look at you, i see your beauty and grace and know they have grown stronger with every life you haved lived. and i know i have spent every life before this one searching for you. not someone like you, but you, for your soul and mine must always come together. and then. for a reason neither of us understands, we've been forced to say goodbye.

I would love to tell you that everything will work out for us, and i promise to do all i can to make sure it does. but if we never meet again and this is truly goodbye, i know we will see each other again in another life. we will find each other again, and maybe the stars will have changed, and we will not only love each other in that time, but for all the times we've had before.



PART 2

I don't know what to say anymore except that i couldn't sleep last night because i knew that it is over between us. it is a different feeling for me, one that i never expected, but looking back, i suppose it couldn't have ended another way.

You and i were different. we came from different worlds, and yet you were the one who taught me the value of love. you showed me what it was like to care for another, and i am a better man because of it. i don't want you to ever forget that.

I am not bitter because of what has happened. on the contrary, i am secure in knowing that what we had was real, and i am happy we were able to come together for even a short period of time. and if, in some distant place in the future, we see each other in our new lives, i will smile at you with joy, and remember how we spent a summer beneath the trees, learning from each other and growing in love. and maybe, even for a brief moment, you'll feel it too, and you'll smile back, and savor the memories we will always share together.

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PERSONAL/LOVE LETTER: DEAR MISSING HALF

Dear Missing Half

Oh, what’s it like to be you? Darling, what’s it like to be you? Whenever you smile. It’s a lighthouse to the lost. A beacon of the found. Your voice is a heavenly sound singing life into dried ground. Your heart is a halo displayed for all to see. It shines in the darkest places. Oh, won’t you shine on me?
Please, come and shine on me

 
Would we talk. from the ocean to the coffee shop? Or would you go on without me and leave me beside the sea. Wondering the things I always have. Wishing you were my missing half. Give love a chance to unfurl. Maybe I could be with you. Darling, maybe, could I be with you?


PART 2

Dear Missing Half,

I have searched for you all of my life. And as I finally heard those golden lips speak. I couldn't tame the emotions that rose from my soul. Your halo shined so bright and in my mind , you are my shining nights star. I am your armor...holding you in my arms made me feel so warm when normally my blood ran cold

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LOVE:HOLDING YOUR STANDARD ON WOMAN

As a child, did your parents ever tell you that you'd fall in love more than once? Or when your mother; who treated you like a prince. tell you that you deserve the best and nothing more. How about the time you were a teenaged boy and in "love" for the first time.. the soaring heartbreak that followed a year later.. you thought it was over.. it was definitely the end of the world, because there wasn't another woman like that out there.. Trust me.. there is sadly. But, then your mother 'the wise one' who says, " There are plenty of fish in the sea." or "You can't cut down a forest in one day.. one tree at a time." That is a parallel statement.. the metaphor can be used for more than one reasoning. I believe that my mom was right on a lot of things, but she forgot to mention a few things. I should stop holding high standards on women.

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PERSONAL/POETRY: MY DEAREST LOVE OF MINE

My dearest love of mine,
I really love you so,
You hold me, kiss me, touch me,
And I tremble at your touch.

My dearest love of mine,
I really hope you know,
I need you, want love you
And I’ll never let you go.

My dearest love of mine,
I grow attached to you.
My heart is screaming for your kiss.
I need you by my side.

My dearest love of mine,
Your lips are so divine.
I hope you know I need you so.
I’ll love you forever more.


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If I had an eternity to show you how I feel
We'd witness the dawn of life infinite times over.
If I had the vision I'd show you with such precision
How love lights blind with delight as embers under the universal night.

With raw passion and intensity
We're devoured by life's brief but overbearing immensity
As we drift with souls of Eden.

Eden, wash us pure of this modern day manure.
And make our bed from all of your precious flowers.
Take us to God's lips to be captured by the kiss that enraptures us with bliss.
And lets our limber bodies fall to Earth's abyss.

Please heed our humble plea and set our mortality free.
For it cries a tearful sea.  One so shallow.  One of sorrow and of misery.
Keep us fearful as we were as babes.
Keep us cheerful for the love we praise.

Unto no man give ethereal release until his time has ended
And his weary soul's at peace.
Unto no woman give weighty tasks of heart.
As of a Mother torn between reason and abandonment
By umbilical departure.

Maturity takes us through irreversible seasons.
Is it a natural state?  Or a wild fated treason?
Can you understand that which puzzles all?
As I call 'Eden!  Do you hear?'  And 'Is my question clear?'
That you might answer I most fear.

What burden should such truth display.
To my meek and weak disposition I dismay.
Tell me should you ever speak:
Does love stand to win?  Or shall it break beneath hatred's heavy feet?

I know.  O, Heavens, please don't tell.
For such a truth shall send us spiraling to Hell.
Wings clipped by a blasphemous spell.

Embrace us in a cuddle that'll thaw the world.
Warm our hearts as would a honey bear's fur.
Of all joys love is not one to be surpassed.
It is a summery day in dead of winter.
It is my love's reflection in the glass.

It is her child-like walk and her baby talk.
It is her cold cheek's brush against mine.
It is her angelic face aflush when she pretends to be shy.
It is imagination of our unborn babes.
Mommy and daddy and their little horseplay.

It is the promise of a dream complete.
It is a firm shoulder on which to lean
When met face first by a brick wall of defeat.
Forgive me, Host of everything that is.
For my manners leave civility amiss.

You see t'wards the future and all things not yet conceived
But never bother with trivial things of ease.
I thank you kindly, for you leave us with time to squander
And perplexities to ponder.

We appreciate the challenges, sought with great nobility and valiance.
We welcome the advances and the rewards in risks and chances.
We are grateful for the mates we've chosen.
Although I wish in this place in time I were frozen.

For a love as this I shall surely miss when life's curtain makes its final draw.
But each show must reach its last act and their authors their demise.
For today we bask in the glory of this great prize.

A prize which cannot be touched by mere digits.
It is no trophy that is rigid.
It's...well , we'll just have to wait and see.
I mustn't spoil it and I don't mean to tease.

My words just wouldn't make it so.
Or even give off the slightest glow.
For when our eyes entwine our souls
Through each's window we shall go.

A wink, a blink, a flickering lash.
A sudden glimpse, a stare, a glance.
They seem so brief but believe me they last.
If one looks closely one can see to the past.

And memories gone by all too fast
Revisited in reflections of glass.
In our eyes of love.
In forever's romance.

 
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Dearest love of mine
With whom I want to share kisses divine
Whose touch I long to have around me
Please sit awhile and listen carefully

What do you mean you have to go right now?
Will you give me a chance to explain somehow?
Will you let me show you what I can give?
I just don’t want you gone; I don’t want you to leave

I don’t wanna live alone with broken dreams of you
I know that I’m scared and I know you are too
I know that the world we live in is full of hate
So please just let us love each other before it’s too late

I’m trying hard to be optimistic though the future is unclear
I know that there are dangers, there is much to fear
We live in different worlds and revolve around them
But I want a love with you the way I dreamt

I will never stop wanting you
And no matter how hard you’ll try
My love for you will never wane
Not even when I die. . .

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PERSONAL/ LOVE LETTER/LETTER: UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN

I can’t really explain how lucky I know I am for having met you. I would be lying if I told you I don't have at this very instant engraved in my mind an image of that set of pearls of yours. I think I stared into them for so long inadvertently that they created a connection between neurons in my brain that I am certain have made me understand one thing about beauty I am sure I did not know before.

For some very brief moments while I sat there with you having trivial conversations I realized that as trivial as it really may be, and to ask whether if its nobler for the mind to suffer (making reference to Shakespeare famous quote, “Whether tis nobler for the mind to suffer. The slings and arrows of outrageous fortune”), I know now for a fact that it is above all far more rewarding. You are sincerely one of the most delicately made females I have met in my entire existence; Handmade to your own imperfectly perfect way.

Whether we will see each other again I am sure will rely on the coincidences of life, cause and effect, and the such. Nonetheless I do hope that this letter does have the catalytic effect I hope to create for you to tilt your desire to see me again as well. You see not believing in free will doesn't mean that I believe that I don't have to make an effort for things to work out the way I would like them to. It just provides me the perspective to get to know how things really should be.

But that's just me. For now I'll stick to some of the blurry details I have about you that I hope will be left, after some time, far from being ambiguous.

Until we meet again,

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PERSONAL/ LOVE LETTER/PERSONAL/LOVE LETTER: DEAR BEAUTIFUL

Dear Beautiful,

I am a complex creature to you and I don’t always make sense because my actions may not always show what my heart feels. It is easier to verbalize things about your beauty than it is to attempt to communicate how in the depths of my being my love for you has made me a better man. Loving you has chipped away at the rough exterior of my emotions and made it possible for me to write you this letter. Let me talk to you for a moment in a way that keeps you from seeing my face where you can attempt to read my thoughts and notice which direction I’m attempting to go. Let me tell you about my love for you.

Most men love the woman they chose to love because of something she offered him. They love them because they are beautiful, or can assist in helping them achieve a certain thing in life. I love you because you ARE! Allow me to explain. I love you because you are who you are, not because of who you will be or who you were, but who you are. I say who you are because even in moments that I don’t LIKE who you are, I LOVE who you are, because you are the one I choose. My love is not seasonal, it does not come like the fall and leave like the winter. It is not always easy to like you, but it is never hard to love you. In the complexities of life one can find a million reasons to leave someone, but I only need one reason to stay, because I love you! I love you does not mean that I understand you, but it does mean that I will spend as much time as I must to attempt to understand not just what makes you happy, but what makes you angry, sad, or in between so that I do my best to only produce good emotions for you and know what to do when bad emotions are present.

It is hard for a man to describe the first time he saw the sun rise, or the stars shine bright on a winter night, so is it for me to describe the depths of my love for you. You see the Sun and the Stars are a mystery to me, but the greater mystery is why you love me like you do? I’m not perfect, I don’t say things the right way all the time, I don’t give you all the time you desire, I don’t have all the money to give you all the things you deserve, but yet you still love me. You see me in ways the world never has and still find a way to say I love you at the end of the night. I don’t have to pretend to be something I’m not, I can just be who I am and for a man to be allowed to just be is a gift.

When I look at you, I see everything I need to see, to inspire me to be a better me. I see a reason to get up in the morning and go to work to be a provider. I see a reason to become a better man. You can always tell when a man loves something. Man is made in the likeness of God and even God gets angry when someone messes with what’s His! As a man, I may not always verbalize it, I may not always look like it, I may not always make you feel like you want to feel, but I love you! I once felt like life never gave me the best, until life allowed me to have you, so do me a favor. Love me, but not how our generation loves, love me like our parents, parents, loved and I’ll love you like a man loved a woman before cell phones and text messages made love quick and impersonal. I’ll love you like a man loved his woman before cars and TVs. I’ll love you in gentle and constant touches, sweet words, and determination to show you that you are the brightest part of my day. I’ll love you in a way that builds with time and no, I won’t be perfect but I’ll always strive to be a better man tomorrow than I was today. To write a letter takes time, focus, and purpose and that’s how I’ll love you, for all time, with every ounce of focus I have and continuously on purpose!

I love you then, now, & always,

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PERSONAL/LETTER: TO REACH GOD THROUGH COMMUNION WITH YOU

Dear You,

You are Beloved. You are God. To my tender and yet strong masculine heart, you are, whether you like it or not, a powerful path–sometimes the only path–to finding myself utterly exposed and surrendered to God. Help me do that. To touch God so fully is to surrender to my every joy, fear and shame. I cannot do this alone. I, by nature, yearn to reach God through communion, through you, with you.

To touch God so fully means I have to let myself die – die completely to my story, open to and embrace fully my shadow, both disturbingly dark, as well as brightly golden. This is the most scariest thing I need to do in my life, and I know that you can help me. If you are willing to do the same, YOU will become my rock. Own and claim your Highest feminine essence and expose your FULL self to me. I am strong. I can handle your shadow…both disturbingly dark, as well as brightly golden. This is the most priceless gift you can give to me, to life. I am just as much under pressure as you are to “show up.” Please love me, guide me, see me, open me, receive me and compassionately challenge me in all my brilliance and flaws to get that much closer to God – to You. You are One. With you, WE can be One.

love it when you take care of your body by eating well and working-out as is appropriate for you. I love it when you KNOW and FEEL your body. That lets me know that you will KNOW and FEEL my body.

I love it when you look me straight in my eyes, unafraid to look and be seen.

I love the “little things” you do for me, a silly magazine or a Hallmark card…whatever YOU think I will enjoy. I love this because it lets me get a little glimpse of the sweet and crazy ways in which you might be seeing me.  I also really like it when you ask me what might I like.

I love the clarity you bring. Its OK that sometimes it isn’t there yet. But if you are aware of whatever IS there–confusion, sadness, tension, aggression or simple joy–you’re already a step ahead.

I love it when you see the chaos that I am yet not get angry or shame me. I promise to do the same for you.

I love it when you take a little time to dress well. When you take the time to be presentable, it makes me feel you care about how you are seen and that you are mindful. Please don’t be shy about looking and smelling hot! Own and adorn your beautiful body with clothes and perfumes and lotions You too are God’s temple.

I love it when you look into my eyes when you are with me. I love the sparkle in your naughty eyes.

I really don’t like it if you are not present even for one moment when you are making love to me. When we make love, remember that it is the most vulnerable place I can go to: to let you into  my heart, my soul, my Spirit so intimately and for me to be inside of your body. Please respect this sacredness and be present. But please don’t let this request make you afraid. Trust the moment and trust me

Please don’t ever hide me, lie to me or lie about me.When you hide me from your world which I long to proudly be a part of, you can hurt my self-esteem in pretty brutal ways. And it will take a long time before I can feel worthy again. If I am losing my self in a lie, I admit that it is my fault and I cannot and won’t blame you. However, if you have a truth you need to live without me, help me live mine by not delaying yours. You are NOT responsible for my life. But i am sincerely asking for your help.

Truly, you can and need to trust me that I can take care of myself. If you are just not that into me and if I am just not good enough for you, or there is someone else, just let me know. Don’t worry about hurting me. Hurt me. Be a woman. I will get over it and get on much quicker and with much more joy if you are honest.

I love it that you are doing your work, and maybe you might see me being lazy or not doing my own development. However frustrating this might make you feel, please don’t belittle me. I am probably doing the best I can no matter how little or clumsy it might seem. Just continue to embody to me YOUR Highest Self or you can also choose to leave. I will learn in my own time and capacity.

I love it that we are quirky unique beings. And we each have our own ways of kissing. Kissing is a big thing.

You are a gorgeous, gorgeous embodiment of Passion, Spirit, Emptiness and God. Thank you for letting me feel your heart wide open and broken. I trust the strength in your arms with which you will move a mountain for me. I trust the vastness of your Being that will witness me fully as I dance around you like a wild man. I trust the depth of your soul that is willing to challenge lovingly my shallowness. And because I trust you like that, I will fall to my knees before you and worship you. When you see me looking up to you and into your eyes, know that I am profoundly proud to be your  the servant of my God, my You.

Always-Already,

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PERSONAL/LOVE LETTER: LOVE HAS A FACE...I'LL RECOGNIZE IT WHEN I SEE IT

Dear You, "Love has a face, I'll recognize it when I see it"

I close my eyes and I see you. This feeling is familiar, I recognize it easily. 
Look upon my face, behold the expression of somber emotion, of ruthless strength, of craven pleasure, of an intense and hopeless desire...the passion!

There is no comfort with this feeling, only familiarity. I see the sign boldly written: "those who go beneath the surface do so at their own peril". I dare to go beyond the marked line, unsure of what I'll find. The courage of the man that has the guts to sell his soul for love.

I know every step may not be fruitful. I know there will stretch out before me an ever-lengthening, ever ascending, ever improving path. I know I may never get to the end of the journey. But this, this endlessness, so far from discouraging, only adds to the joy and glory of the climb.

I know there is the chance of labouring long to build a heaven, only to find it populated with horrors, yet I choose to work as if I live in the early days of a glorious heaven. This is the true and impossible story of my very great love. I take this plunge into the unknown, blindly, and hope that beyond the outlook of horror I will fall into the arms of an angel and find some comfort in that heart of gold, stained with coal and time.

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PERSONAL/ LOVE LETTER/LOVE: DEAR HOPELESS ROMANTIC

Dear Hopeless Romantic,

In time we all begin to see and create our own world based on the perceptions around us, lessons we've gone through, the hurt we've felt, and the aspirations we want to obtain. Our judgements on what we [choose] to see, think, and feel are different from one another's, but often times we neglect to understand that how we perceive the world to be is never what it is in another's.


Most often times I have felt the deepest amount of pain not only from a breakup but to the realization that I was unfamiliar with the person that I should know the most about, myself. When you have latched yourself on to a relationship you begin to mold to the likings and satisfactions of what the other pleases; and in a healthy relationship happens in unison between the two. We begin to lose our sense of self-identity and do things in order to see the ones' we care for happy. Reconfiguring our identity and finding what it is that [we, alone] can offer to the world ends up being the biggest amount of power we, man, hold.


This brings me to a topic that has had me baffled for quite some time. I do not understand the need for people to expect, want, and assume a relationship. I am not talking the emotional satisfactions or the learning of someone in order to build a happier future, but the want of simply the label.


Too many people, wanting to latch on just for the ride/label what does that really prove? A relationship is not about a label, it is however about the happiness and compassion between two individuals maybe that don't even know each other well, but in the process to.


Naturally things fall the way they are supposed to but if ever the question of, "what are we" exists then it is premature.


It is those that we get to know we should see a better "us" come to surface. Someone who shares the same morals in life, aims towards a similar goal, respects our time and space, and most importantly wants to spend the time going through the ride not for the short run, but for a long lasting relationship. There is so much each of us can offer to the world, and having the right companion/partner falls naturally based on the chemistry between the two.


Never should we "settle." Life is too short to just settle for the company. In time, naturally every thing falls where it supposed to. Jumping the gun into something premature will only destroy would may have been a strong relationship, into something that may never work. People who know themselves and know what they have to offer realize that "time" will allow what is supposed to happen to take its course. People who want something purely for the fact that they are afraid they will allow the other to slip away is trying to put a label on something that wasn't meant to happen. If someone is willing to let go for the fact that someone didn't want to rush in a label they are in it for the wrong reasons primarily any way.My philosophy is, anything that is meant to happen... will happen. We have little to lose if we are moving too slow, it's when we try expedite emotions that we can lose some one worth waiting for. If someone is willing to wait through the ride, they must have thought it was worth while, THAT is the one that you should hold on to. 


But, like in any relationship time is a key factor. 


The truth is, life is all about the lessons that we've learned to structure who we become. With age comes wisdom and becoming a better person, for ourselves is the direct result as to who we allow in our lives to deem fit. We have one lifetime to live, and settling down or solely looking for a relationship should not be the main priority in life, but rather one that comes along as we are trying to attain our dreams and goals. 


We must first know that before we start the process in loving another, we must first have to love and respect ourselves. We mustn't expect others' to find our identity but rather share with them the person we have become through our battle wounds, and in turn learn through time theirs. The greater accomplishments in life are never given, they are earned and worked for, & a relationship should not be any different.

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PERSONAL/ LOVE LETTER/PERSONAL/LOVE LETTER

Dear Soulmate,

You have so many things no one else will ever have.You have all my love - now and forever.You have my admiration - for being such an incredibly precious person.You have my unending gratitude - for the way you brighten my life.You have my hopes - all gently hoping you know how glad I am that you warmed my world and touched my very soul.You have my every affection.You have my desires and dreams.You even have the things there are no words for.You have whispered words that belong to you, thoughts you have inspired, and blessings that have touched the deepest part of my heart.You have the most beautiful wishes the stars and I can wish, and my prayer that someday I'll be able to thank you for all this.You have a standing invitation to share the days with me - and to be the one and only person who holds the key to my happiness.You have arms I want around me, eyes I want to lose myself in, and a joy in your voice that I could listen to forever.You have empty pages in the story of your life - pages I'd like us to write together... filling them with memories we'll make and stories that will travel beside us and carry us over whatever comes along.You have my sweet appreciation - for taking my smiles places that my heart has only dreamed of.And you'll always have me, my "thank - God- for - you" feelings, and soooo much love.I am so glad that you ar a part of my life. It is such a privilege - to know you, to share myself with you, and to walk together on the paths that take us in so many beautiful directions.I had heard of "soul mates" before, but I never knew such a person could exist- until I met you.Somehow, out of all the twists and turns our lives could have been, and out of all the chances we might have missed, it almost seems like we were given a meant - to - be moment - to meet, to get to know each other, and to set the stage for a special togetherness...When I am with you, I know that I am in the presence of someone who makes my life more complete than I ever dreamed it could be.I turn to you for trust, and you give it openly. I look to you for inspiration, for answers, and for encouragement, and - not only do you never let me down - you lift my spirits up and take my thoughts to places where my troubles seem so much further away and my joys feel like they're going to stay in my life forever.I hope you'll stay forever, too. I feel like you're my soul mate. And I want you to know that my world is reassured by you, my tomorrows need to have you near, so many of my smiles depend on you, and my heart is so thankful that you're here.

I am searching for my future wife/soulmate. Please stop by again.

LOVE: MY PROMISE TO YOU

How can I hinder or restrain my soul so that it does not yearn for yours? And how can it be lured to life apart from you? I know how everything that stirs me, stirs you too; How you and I are like a bow that's bound through with two strings, to give a single sound. O long sweet song!

I had always had dreams of the potential of my tomorrows, believing that anything was possible. Today, as I set out to live in this world and make a difference in it, it stirs my heart to know that you will be by my side. Your hunger for redeeming the promises of our tomorrows is as strong as my own.

Having found you, I have decided that there is no moment in my life more significant than this one. The moment I offer myself and all that I will become to you. May we share with each other, from this day on, the unending joy of growth and discovery.

Our love extends beyond earth, sea, wind, and flame. It is greater than who we are and meaningless without us. It is more powerful than our past, yet the foundation for our future. It has brought us here today to become one in the eyes of our family and friends, for all days to come. Our love is the essence of our lives.

Our choice is made. Our minds are clear and our hearts strong. This love means more to us than anything else in life. There is no person, precondition, or approval I value more than your love. There is no obstacle I would not overcome to reach you. I give myself to our union. I welcome you as my partner in life. May our love forever keep us strong.

Our love is a work of art, our greatest creation. It is an ongoing pursuit with range, diversity, scope; It is dynamic, ever-changing, and fresh. May it forever challenge, delight, and inspire us as the best works of art do. United, may we discover new facets and subtleties in this, our partnership, our unique and unending collaboration, from this day forward.

I promise to honor and cherish you above all others from this day forward. I bring to you this flower. It is a symbol of the love that is consecrated today. Let us always remember that it must be nurtured and given care to grow and thrive. We will nourish the flower of our love and give it all the care it requires. Do this with me and watch us grow.

We are joining here today because we love, respect, and honor each other. And because we are committed to sharing equally in both the triumphs and trials of the days to come. I take you as my partner. I offer all that I am in return, and pledge to remember, over every day of our partnership, why we unite here today. Join me in celebrating our love.

When you need strength, I will offer mine. When you need words of encouragement, I will listen and provide support. When you need solace and comfort and the silent speech of love, I will understand. I place you in my heart today, before all others, and I pledge to work from this hour forward to make our commitment a sound and challenging one.

You have captured my mind and soul, and I here commit them to our union. From this hour, may we surrender to one another, completely rejoicing in the power of our new partnership, secure in our own identities, and certain in our bond.

May we dare to dream dreams not yet dreamt. May we find constant reward and challenge as we pursue the ongoing adventure of learning who we are and where we want to go. May we always have a special sense of our mission in life together, and may we never tire of the endless possibilities of exploring our shared existence. Today I join with you.

When you came into my life, I found not an endless melody, but an ongoing harmony in which I can play my own part. Today we join our lives in harmony. The refrain is one of love, trust, and respect, a powerful theme that will never be concluded as long as we live together on this earth. Today I take you as my eternal mate, for you are my symphony.

With you, love means freedom. Freedom to love you without judgement and freedom to be yours while maintaining the very soul of me. So on this day, a day we choose together to meet in union before family and friends, I accept you as my partner, in the name of love. My most cherished freedom is now the freedom to love you for a lifetime.

My aim is not to change you, but rather to grow with you. I bring a stronger heart to this choice than I have brought to any other. But I sense that it will grow stronger still with days lived along side you. Stay with me. Learn with me. Live by my side. I will do the same faithfully and joyously.

I will base my life with you on love and caring. I will be considerate of your wishes and desires, and respect your integrity and intentions. I will support your dreams and goals, and strive to keep our lives with laughter and joy. Where there are troubles, I will stand with you. I bring to you the very best person that I can be, now and forever.

Our lives run in parallel, side by side, yet together. With continued love, friendship, trust, and communication, I take joy today in committing my life to yours. When you need me, I will be there, and when your strength fails you, may mine always be there for you. Side by side, step by step, may our journey together begin here, from this day forward.

Your love has provided me with vision and depth beyond the reaches of my years. Now with you at my side, my goals are clear, my hopes are high, and my life is full of purpose. I am ready and able to offer all that I am to you from this day forward. With aspirations tempered by realism and love limited by nothing, I join with you from this day forward.

Today I stand by you, proud and happy, of the special love we have found. Today we celebrate all that lies ahead. I promise to love, cherish, and honor you all the days of my life. I pledge to you faithfulness and friendship in good times and bad, in sickness and in health, from this day forward.

You and I will live with the miracle. And miracles are possible where there is love. Love is the reason we are here before God. And I believe that today, God opens his hand to us. I believe that I was chosen to live my life with you from this day forward. Today I act on this belief before our friends and family, giving myself unendingly to you.

This act is one we share with God, who here joins two souls for all eternity, and who will know us from this day not as two but as one. May God always be gracious unto us, bless our days, and abide in our home. May His tender mercies solidify our union as we join beneath His hand today.

I open my arms to you in the promise of everlasting love, understanding, and hope for the tomorrows yet to come. May we relish the solidity of God who has entered our lives. In His infinite wisdom, He has brought us together today to be made as one. May we continue to grow in His sight as a couple.

I promise to be your partner in times of joy and in times of trouble,  to provide for and support you in friendship, trust, and love. I promise to work with you to build our lives together.  May we grow, our lives intertwined, our love bringing us closer. Let us create a home based on love.  May it be a home filled with peace, with happiness, and with love.

Today as we Celebrate our Love in the presence of God, family and friends, I desire to share in your dreams, through the sunshine and rain, knowing rainbows will follow. I will be beside you, as the thorns of life become beautiful roses.  With passion, understanding and hope, I am honored and thrilled to pledge my love to you, until the end of time.

May my heart be your shelter, my arms be your refuge, for when your strength alone will not carry you through, my strength will forever be there for you.  I open my heart and arms to you with the promise of everlasting love, understanding, and hope for our tomorrows yet to come.  Side by side, step by step, may we journey together through our eternity.

I pledge to love you forever.  To be open honest and faithful to you.  To nurture your spirit and support your dreams.  To honor your thoughts and feelings.  I promise to comfort and challenge you.  I promise to stand with you as we share this life, and cherish the memories we make together.

You are my best friend and everlasting companion. Whatever road we travel down, I will always be by your side. From the first day I laid eyes on you. I knew you were the one. So beautiful then and even more beautiful now. In return, all I ask is that you never give up. Never in my life have I been happier than I am at this very moment.

I pledge to love you forever.  To be open, honest and faithful to you.  I promise to be your best friend-to laugh, cry, sing & dance with you.  To nurture your spiritual growth and to support your dreams.  I promise to listen--and honor your words and to respect your feelings.  I promise to comfort and to challenge you.  These I vow to you.

 I give you my promise of honesty, trust, and devotion. I will stand beside you through the difficult times, wonderful times and the strong and weak times. May we overcome all obstacles together. With this ring, I interlock my heart with yours for eternity.

You have brought me the truest happiness I have ever known. I will walk by your side throughout all of life's labors because that is the love I promise to give to you.  I will weep with you, laugh with you, and always listen to you with a patient heart. You are the most beautiful gift in my life and it is the most humbling honor to love you.

I vow to laugh with you, cry with you, and have fun with you.  I will love you when we are together and when we are apart, when I am proud of you and when I am disappointed in you.  I vow to support your dreams and to respect our differences, to love you and be by your side through all the days and nights of our lives.

Now you will feel no rain, For each of you will be shelter to the other. Now you will feel no cold, For each of you will be warmth to the other. Now you will feel no loneliness, For each of you will be companionship to the other. Now you are two persons, But there is only one life between you. Go now to your dwelling place, to enter into the days of your life together as Life Partners.

I choose now to stay this path with you, wherever it leads, whatever the outcome; To respect the unique person that you are and help you to become who you will be. To travel with you through the adventures of life, loving you at my side; in all that we will find, I pledge my friendship, my faith and my love.

I take you to be no other than who you are. Loving what I know of you & trusting what I don't yet know; with respect for your integrity and faith in your abiding love for me.  You will know the full joy of love and friendship. In all that life may bring us, I pledge my love, now & forever.

I choose now to stay this path with you, wherever it leads, whatever the outcome; To respect the unique person that you are and help you to become who you will be. To travel with you through the adventures of life, loving you at my side; in all that we will find, I pledge my friendship, my faith and my love.

I take you to be no other than who you are. Loving what I know of you and trusting what I don't yet know; with respect for your integrity and faith in your abiding love for me.  You will know the full joy of love and friendship. In all that life may bring us, I pledge my love, now and forever.

I promise to love and care for you, through times of joy and times of sorrow, to rejoice when you are happy, and grieve when you suffer, to share your interests, and hopes for the future, to try to understand you even when I do not agree, to do all in my power to help you be your true self, the person God calls you to be.

We are joining here today because we love, respect, and honor each other. And because we are committed to sharing equally in both the triumphs and trials of the days to come. I take you as my partner. I offer all that I am in return, and pledge to remember, over every day of our partnership, why we unite here today.

With you, love means freedom. Freedom to love you without judgment and freedom to be yours while maintaining the very soul of me. So on this day, a day we choose together to meet in union before family and friends, I accept you as my partner, in the name of love. My most cherished freedom is now the freedom to love you for a lifetime.

You are my best friend and everlasting companion. Whatever road we travel down, I will always be by your side. From the first day I laid eyes on you. I knew you were the one. So beautiful then and even more beautiful now. In return, all I ask is that you never give up. Never in my life have I been happier than I am at this very moment.

I commit myself to you joyfully and without reservation. I pledge to share my life openly with you, so that we may continue to grow and laugh together. I cherish all that you are, and I trust in your love for me. I promise to be with you and for you through all the changes of our lives.

This is the moment. The one I have prayed for - the one I have dreamed of. From this moment on, my life will be shared with another. I promise to you my love, my friendship, my loyalty, and all that life gives to me. We have come together as one, and nothing will ever diminish the love I have for you, nor the happiness you bring me.

Today I dedicate myself to you. I commit to work hard at our goals together. I will be patient and kind. I will listen attentively and compromise. Heather, with you I have found my best friend and life partner. Your trust allows me the freedom to be like a butterfly, free to float about and explore the world exactly as I need to.

You have brought me the truest happiness I have ever known. I will walk by your side throughout all of life's labors because that is the love I promise to give to you. I will weep with you, laugh with you, and always listen to you with a patient heart. You are the most beautiful gift in my life and it is the most humbling honor to love you.

You are my best friend and everlasting companion. Whatever road we travel down, I will always be by your side. From the first day I laid eyes on you. I knew you were the one. So beautiful then and even more beautiful now. In return, all I ask is that you never give up. Never in my life have I been happier than I am at this very moment .

I offer myself to you as companion, lover, and friend. I promise to love you and to honor our love even if I fear other's disapproval . I respect your strengths and accept your weaknesses. I vow to be faithful to you and to love you with all my heart, to always strive for our happiness, harmony and future together for as long as I shall live.

I have waited for this day for all of my life. I never thought I would find my true love until I met you. I will honor and love you for my entire life and will be faithful for you for always. You are my forever love.

With you, love means freedom. Freedom to love you without judgment and freedom to be yours while maintaining the very soul of me. You have given me strength, friendship, trust and love. With you at my side, my goals are clear, my hopes are high, and my life is full of purpose. My most cherished freedom is now the freedom to love you for a lifetime.

I take you to be no other than who you are. Loving what I know of you & trusting what I don't yet know, with respect for your integrity and faith in your abiding love for me. You will know the full joy of love and friendship. In all that life may bring us, I pledge my love, now & forever.

As two come together as one, I give you all that I have, all that I am, and all that I will ever be, in complete trust that you will continue, with all that you are, to stimulate and encourage our love... never ending, never wavering, until the end of time. As I wake to you in the morning sun, as I come home to you by moonlight, I vow you will always be my heart, my soul, my everything.

I promise to love you unconditionally, cherish you and all of our days together, comfort you in sadness, laugh with you in happiness, be a good listener, be understanding of your feelings, respect your opinions & thoughts even when they differ from mine, stand by you in good times & bad through life's trials and tribulations, be honest & faithful to you, commit myself fully to you & to the wonderful life we have chosen to live together.

I promise to love and care for you, through times of joy and times of sorrow, to rejoice when you are happy, and grieve when you suffer, to share your interests, and hopes for the future, to try to understand you even when I do not agree, to do all in my power to help you be your true self, now and in the days to come.

I am searching for my future wife/soulmate. Please stop by again.

PERSONAL/LETTER:DO YOU DREAM OF ME OFTEN

Dear love,

Love is 3/4 dream and 1/4 reality. Problems usually arise when you fall in love with the dream and not the reality. But, yet you find  true love when you fall in love with both. 

The distance is not far, yet it might as well be the span of a galaxy.The time is not too long, what is an aeon to the age of the universe? Perhaps I can speed time up, hasten it from its agonizingly slow pace.Perhaps I can strain myself to parts unknown, just to catch a glimpse of you, however fleeting. Absence is said to make the heart grow fonder, yet if my heart yearns any more for the sight of you, I will explode. Insanity is a comforting friend, calming me at night and allowing me to face the day. The mighty structure is put on every morning, when I get out of the shower the barricade is up. No one can glimpse the hollowness in my eyes, the starving of my soul, the atrophy of my heart. But, at the end of the day, when the city sleepsaway, the hollowness returns. My shoulders loosen, crushed by an unseen force. Movement is difficult, likened more to the elderly instead of the young. The pain returneth, brining along with it despair and anguish. My nightly sojourn climaxes in the release from reality's tenuous grip. A fitful rest awaits me, met only with another dawn without you, another day without you, another night without you. Somewhere, on small mote of dust in the farthest reaches of the Cosmos, you are sleeping also. Do you dream of me often? Do you turn corners expecting to find me? Have you turned to ask me a question, then noticed that I am gone? Has your heart been torn asunder every time you do any task that we shared? Can you find solace in looking up at the night sky, in the same manner that I do, wondering if I am thinking about you under the same night sky somewhere? Do you feel me peering over your shoulder, as I so truly wish to do? I can only hope that in this vast and uncertain world, two people feel that bond which unites them like no other, through the distance and the time.


Love doesn't make the world go 'round. It's what makes the ride worthwhile. I dropped a tear in the ocean. Whenever they find it, I will stop loving you. Falling in love for the first time is easy. It's the second time around, after you had fallen and trusted that someone to catch you the first time and they didn't, when it becomes difficult to let yourself fall in love again. But I do it anyway. Nothing you love is lost. Not really. Things, people - they always go away, sooner or later. You can't hold them, any more than you can hold moonlight. But if they've touched you, if they're inside you, then they're still yours. The only things you ever really have are the ones you hold inside your heart.

When these days are gone, when all the love we gave to each other slowly fades away, when your beautiful smile is only here as a dream,and when the words "I love you" are scripts of the past, I will always have the memories that were once moments and I will always know that 
no matter what, I got the chance to be loved by you.

If it all falls apart, I will know deep in my heart the only dream that mattered had come true. In this life, I was loved by you

I am searching for my future wife/soulmate. Please stop by again.