Saturday, May 11, 2013

PERSONAL/ LOVE LETTER/LOVE LETTER: YOU ARE

I sit here, lost in the memory of you. What is today? I don't know. What is it I'm supposed to be doing now? I can't remember. It couldn't have been very important. Thoughts of last night still fill my mind and heart. Nothing else seems worth my time and effort. Where am I? Well, not here in this confined space, not really. I'm still lost in everything I felt when we were together. That was when you and I became "us" and I could no longer tell where you left off and I began. I love you, and my love is lasting and true. I'm not sure when it began but I know it will never end. Surely, life can offer no higher fulfillment than what we experienced last night.

There can be no other woman in my life now but you. I've been involved in other relationships in the past, but they certainly can't compare to what I have found with you or to what I'm feeling now. Perhaps the others were just "dry runs," practice for the real thing, for a reality that I couldn't even imagine until I had experienced it for myself. Last night, I couldn't help but surrender to the feelings that had captured my soul and yet promised me freedom and joy. Today, the words of an old John Denver song come to mind, and it is only now that I understand what the "sweet surrender" he sang about really means.

You must know I can't stand being away from you much longer. I hope you feel the same way. Tell me when can I see you again!

I love you.



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I hope you know how much our relationship has come to mean to me. Before I met you, there was an emptiness in my heart that at times seemed to consume me, that threatened to break me--but now my life is full of meaning and purpose. I can see my future more clearly now--you are the light in the dark that guides my steps to where I want to be. When the entire world was once overcast by subtle shades of gray, when I seemed caught in a perpetual winter, you brought vibrant color to my life, and in my heart I felt the renewal, the warmth and sunlight of spring again.

I adore your kind smile and your gentle eyes. You have so much good in you--you treat me so well. I love your quiet strength, and your desire to do right. You have such a love for others, and your example makes me want to be the best that I can be. You can always make me laugh, even when I don't always want to. When I look into your eyes--those gorgeous eyes--I see a reflection of my own soul. And in your arms, I know there is no place on earth that I would rather be.

In quiet moments, I wonder what I ever did to be blessed to have you in my life. You remind me of what is truly important in this life, and I'll always be grateful to Fate for bringing us together. I can't remember what my life was about before you became a part of it. You're always on my mind--in my thoughts, and in my dreams.

I love you so much and I hope you know that I will always be here for you. I am yours now and forever, body and soul. Like the ebb and flow of the ocean waves, my love for you goes on forever and forever; like the great redwoods that reach toward the sky, my love for you grows and grows--higher, stronger, deeper. I can't imagine my life without you anymore. I've never loved anyone as I have loved you--I know now I never will. You're everything to me.




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Is the world still spinning? Since last night when you and I ceased to be individuals but became "us," I have felt that I was residing on a world where time did not exist. Is it night or day? I don't know anymore. I no longer need food; sleep is impossible. I have no interest in world events or market prices. All that matters is you. If the sun rises, it rises because of you. If the moon courses across the sky and bathes the world in yellow light, it does so because you exist.

Is this the love they write about in romance novels? What else could it be? What else could compare to this feeling? Surely life would have no meaning for me without you. And other girls? A vague memory. They were only schoolboy romances, puppy love, meaningless flirtations. I can honestly say that nothing I thought I felt could ever compare with the profound love I feel for you now. I am finally alive! What does the poet say?

There were bells on the hills

But I never heard them ringing.

No, I never heard them at all,

Till there was you.

I must see you again. .

I love you.





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Growing up I dreamed about the sort of person I could love someday. I imagined I could meet someone from a fairy tale, someone who was wonderful and charming, who was like no other in this world. As I grew up and started to deal with different situations, I didn't think that that love really existed because things never would work out the way I wished that they could.

One day I met this special someone who walked into my life, someone who made me feel like I could feel love, that maybe that word LOVE really did exist. Not only had the barriers that surrounded my heart plummeted but I could feel the warmth of Love. I could dream again, I could imagine that I was now a part of that fairy tale that I always wanted to be. My life had changed in way that I could never think of possible.

I am one of the luckiest person, because at last my dream has come true. I love that special someone who is wonderful and charming, someone who makes my heart skip a beat. Someone whom if I don't speak to within every hour of the day I become trapped in thought. Someone who when every time that voice is spoken I can't control the smile that not only enlightens my face but my day! I love someone who is not like any other person in this world....it's you



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She is great

There are no words to describe how beautiful she is,
or how special she is,
or my love for her.
To put these things into words would be to define them,
To quantify them, which means to limit them.
There would be a beginning and an end.
There is no definition fitting, nor any limit,
nor beginning or end to her beauty,
or to how special she is, or my love for her.

Because she always give amazing efforts the work she do.
and some times she is  breathtaking,
She is always proud on herself becuase she is always doing good deeds,


She is always on top and She is a joy
She is brave. She is remarkable
In simple words She is the greatest. She is so kind She is magnificent.

She is beautiful She is perfect She is incredible.
She rockzz. She is always gettin better all the time She is super duper lovely.

She is phenomenal, She is out standing girl, She is the best.
She is terrific, She is awesome and sensational.
She is super.She is genious She is champ. She is clever. She is stunning and in real words She is angel She is very special for me She is always A+.
She is unique She is nice. She is inspirational for others.
She is neat She is extra ordinary, She is very talented. Brilliant. She is imcomparable.

She is A MASTERPIECE.



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I want to live in your eyes, die in your arms and be buried in your heart.

I love you because you make me look forward to each day. You're my life, a dream come true. There are no words to express what I feel for you.

There are no songs as beautiful as the music that fills my soul when I hear your voice. There are no roses as lovely as your smile. Nothing moves me like you do. There are no days brighter than the days I spend talking to you.

You're my light in the darkness. There could never be words strong enough to express my love for you. I love you with my body, soul, and mind. I love you so much!

I love you. I love every little thing about you. I love your cute smile, your magical eyes, and the sound of your voice. I love your charm, and I love the warmth I feel when I’m by your side.

I can't stop thinking about you when we are apart. I need you by my side. You complete me. You mean the world to me. You are the best thing that has ever happened to me.

You are the one I've always wished for. I never thought that I would ever meet someone as special as you. I love each and every moment I share with you.

There are no words to express the gratitude I feel in my heart, that our hearts have come to dwell together, as one. You are my life, my heart, my soul.








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Flame of our love will be lightning ever.

To the world you may be one person, but for me you are the world.






If there were no words no way to speak
I would still hear you
if there were not tears no way to feel inside
i'd still feel for you
and even if the sun refused to shine
even if romance ran out of rhyme
you would still have my heart
until the end of time
you are all i need, my love
Love you.................
You have my heart, I never want it bacK




Love Forever

You are everything to me,
Everything I could ever want,
And so much more,
Every time I see your face,
Or hear your voice my heart starts beating fast,
Fast and slow all at the same time,
You are everything to me,
You are everything I could ever hope for,
Everything I could ever want,
Now that I have you in my life Im never letting go,
Because you are everything to me,
You are everything I could ever want,
You mean so much to me,
You are everything,
You are my everything I ever needed,
You are everything to me,
Everything.




You changed my world with a blink of an eye
That is something that I can not deny
You put my soul from worst to best
That is why I treasure you my dearest Marites

You just don't know what you have done for me
You even pushed me to the best that I can be
You really are an angel sent from above
To take care of me and shower with love

When I'm with you I will not cry even a single a tear
And your touch have chased away all of my fear
You have given me a life that I could live worthwhile
It is even better everytime you smile

It so magical those things you've made
To bring back my faith that almost fade
Now my life is a dream come true
It all began when I was loved by you

Now I have found what I am looking for
It's you and your love and nothing more
Co'z you have given me this feeling of contentment
In my life something I've never felt

I wish I could talk 'til the end of day
But now I'm running out of things to say
So I'll end by the line you already know
"I LOVE YOU" more than what I could show







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You Are

The one I love with all my might.

The one I’m thinking of tonight.

The one that helps me make things right.

The one I dream of when I sleep at night.

The one I think of when I hug my pillow tight.

The one I’m not giving up without putting up a fight.

You are the one I LOVE.


You have a special place in my life

that you’ve had from the very start.

I see your smile when I close my eyes

your name is written on my heart.

For the times I can’t be with you

and perhaps you are feeling blue

I am sending you a teddy bear hug,

with love from me to you.



My love is unconditional,

Thats surround you,

when you are far away.

I will think of you often and hold you

when you are near.

Distances will not take my love from you.

It is immortal and knows no boundaries.




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I have took all I can bare,
Now I'm sitting here with this blank stare.
Love has got me blind,
And all l I wanted to find
Was someone to care
Sometimes I feel like nothing is there,
But I know how you really feel;
I know that this is real.
Through all the hurt and pain
I can still see through the rain.
We are meant for one another.
And there is no way we will be without each other.
You are my other half,
You're the one who can make me laugh
You're the one who makes me feel good inside
And you're the one I want to live beside!
There has been so much hurt and so many tears
But look we are still here;
And stronger than ever
And I can honestly say that this is forever.



Tuesday, May 7, 2013

LOVE: LOVE IS AN ACTION

Love is an action, a choice. Love is not really an emotion. I have heard many woman tell me they loved me, but very few really mean it.

To Love someone is to choose to show up to be devoted to The Divine through that person. You constant offering to serve to the Heart of the person you are in a relationship with.  Like Dr. Wayne Dyer said...." How can I serve?"

I guess that is how I can tell if someone really love me....it's the constant giving of action.....their texts, their phone calls, their time, their pussy, their gifts, their letters, constant act of kindness. I am tired of woman who say they love me but are really looking to see what they can get out of me. Maybe I am presenting myself off as the one that will take care of them...but to me that is love...to take care of someone

Those who say they love me the most are the same one who say NO to me the most. You have to constantly say YES...it a a constant surrendering of your protective ego, so that the Heart can open even more and show you the unknown beauty of its depths.It's is the deepest gift that we could ever be given by someone and it’s the greatest gift that we could ever give ourselves.

Love is not a trade. Love is not a power trip. It's asks us to see beyond the fear of our partner, to dive deeper than their ego would want us to and to not leave, even when all that is triggering us wants us to run.

DEAR SOULMATE: I WROTE YOUR NAME IN MY HEART

My heart had been closed until I met you. I never thought I could love again but now I am ready to give you all that I am. Please accept this key to my heart and know that you are the only one that holds it from now until forever

I love who you are, and what you are, and that you are mine to love. I cherish every moment I have with you...it gets better everyday.

Sometimes I wonder how my life would be without you in it. Your love is a constant source of strength that I draw from and it is something that has blessed me in so many ways. All that you have been to me cannot be expressed. It is something only the heart can explain. I live in the warm embrace of your love each and every day. And I want you to know how precious that is to me. I never want to know life without you in it. I look forward to every single day that I am blessed to have you with me. I wish there was some way for me to express how very much I am in love with you. My passion runs bone deep. I love you SO SO much!!!

Your Name I wrote your name in the sky, but the wind blew it away. I wrote your name in the sand, but the waves washed it away. I wrote your name in my heart, and forever it will stay.

You have made me the happiest man in the universe simply by loving me.t turns out that "happiness" is more than a word; it's a destination..... You're the woman who takes me there. You are incredibly special to me. Thank you for brightening my days.

I Love you Sweetheat

LOVE: YOU CAN LEARN A WOMAN BY LOOKING AT HER EYES

You can learn a lot about a woman by looking at her eyes. Are they alive or flat? Cold or warm? Do they convey expression? Amusement? Are there crow’s feet at the edges that are the mark of a woman who smiles and laughs? What do her eyes say about her intent?

Looking back, every woman I ever went out with told me everything I needed to know with her eyes, without saying a word.I love gazing into large, dark, deep beautiful eyes,

You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She’s not perfect – you aren’t either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break – her heart. So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze and don’t expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there


Sunday, May 5, 2013

LOVE: THE TRUTH ABOUT DATING

Well, I am a really, really funny and amazing guy. And you know what? The world doesn’t work that way.

This is how the world works:

If a woman is looking for love online, either browsing personal ads or answering craig’s list personal ads, she is  in one of the following ways: addict. overweight. ugly. angry. mean. single mom. deeply conflicted. low self-esteem. shitty job. no career. no ambition. wants kids. wants financial support. trying to cheat on husband. etc. etc. etc.

The really hot, quality girls are either married, or in “monogamous” relationships. The scare quotes around “monogamous” just mean that they might slip up and sleep with a friend or a random dude in a bar if the mood strikes. Nobody finds out or if they do, they’re forgiven.

The really hot, quality girls spend all their days in a corporate environment (since men and women are equal now) and then go home to their bore-friends who fuck them in pretty much the same way  all the time. (I know this because I’ve been one of those bore-friends).

The really hot, quality girls might go out on a ‘girls ‘night’ but then it’s all about drinking and dancing and looking hot and only occasionally, in a very rare instance, letting themselves get fucked. So-called ‘players’ or player wannabes will spend 90% of their effort trying to find or manufacture those instances when an otherwise ‘claimed’ woman will open her legs for just one night.

The really hot, quality girls are therefore SEQUESTERED away from any really hot, quality guys who may be single.

The really hot, quality girls who are SOMEHOW STILL SINGLE are therefore free to sigh, “where are all the GOOD guys?” Simple because they have constructed (or rather, allowed society to construct for them) a CLOISTER around their lives so they have ALMOST NO CHANCE of meeting a decent guy outside of an alcohol-soaked dance club where they won’t remember anything anyway.

The way for an awesome, funny, intelligent guy like me is NOT TO POST PERSONALS, but to go out to an alcohol-soaked dance club, insult women, insult men, and generally act like an arrogant douche-canoe until a girl is amused enough to let me drag her back to my car / apartment where I will proceed to pound her like a cheap steak, an event that will go down in her personal history as ‘the best night of passion of my life’ due to her filling in all the awkward gaps caused by alcoholic memory erasure with scenes from her favorite romance novel, but which will expose ABSOLUTELY NONE of my best qualities, and therefore lead to no number exchange, no further conversation, no personal expansion, no authentic encounter, no mutuality, no connection, and nothing, in other words, worth doing at all.

If you’re a hot, funny, attractive, intelligent single guy, and you don’t live in NYC, LA, SFO, or (maybe) Chicago, the best thing you can do is either A) move to one of the aforementioned places and join the rest of the human dating race, or B) slit your wrists right now.

PERSONAL: I AM 6 FEET TALL

I am not 6 feet tall,but I feel like that is the magic online height number you ladies are looking for… So you would “over”look me before even looking at me. I’m not short mind you;I’m 5′7 s few inches away from your arbitrary height cut off… If online dating was like Disney World I’d be too short to ride on the rollercoaster of love,well that’s fine with me because while you are trying to defy gravity while on the roller coaster ride reading “He’s Just Not That Into You”and “They Call It a Breakup Because It’s Broken”only to get off feel nauseous and talk to your girlfriends about what happened and why he didn’t call you and analyze why and if he likes you and blah blah blah…You COULD have been out with me drinking Pina Coladas,getting caught in the rain,not being too into yoga,admiring my half a brain;we could have made love at mid-night etc.

Seriously if you want a RICH guy and like weekends in Long Island, expensive dinners,and random trips to Aruba – it might be a good idea to respond to me. Have I got some guys for you,of course they are older…much older…and married…

It’s not true that I JUST want to get laid. I want to be in love and hold hands and all of that stuff¦ and if we happen to have sex along the way –Great. Actually,better than Great kidding of course (about the holding hands thing…)

I am a normal guy,I get along with my parents,I have a job,I leave the toilet seat up and I like sports. Real sports where people collide into each other and woman in revealing outfits roam the sidelines  but of course I never look…And if you came with me to a game I would say things like “No,who cares if a girl with fake breasts can do splits half naked in the snow and rain…All I care about is that I am here with you.”And you know what the sappy truth is,that it would be true.

I like movies but I also like gossip…I am that guy that can hang with the guys,but actually loves dating women so I can read your US and Cosmo for celebrity gossip. Here’s the dirty truth good gossip is just as exciting as a good game…If not better.

LOVE: NEVER BEEN IN LOVE

A beautiful woman recently told me that she never been in love....and I was thinking

There's this feeling we get for other people that's an exhilarating cocktail of passion, lust and desire for their company. Sometimes we have this feeling the moment we meet someone & sometimes we have this feeling for multiple people at the same time. This feeling compels us to do crazy things. Here in America clever marketers use this feeling to get us to spend a lot of money around this time of the year. The world calls this feeling love.

Now I prefer the old school definition of love, which is the ongoing act of sacrifice to something greater than oneself.


Think about the ongoing demanding acts of sacrifice involved when
• A mother or father gives up their life & career to raise their child
• A soldier gives up their life to defend their country
• A business person works 80 hours a week to build a company

Unless you've shown this intensity of commitment to another person you where romantically involved with don't cheapen the definition of love by saying that you were in love with them.

Now while modern day musicians and philosophers struggle to put a definition on romantic love. The defining philosophers and authors of the ages knew exactly what it was; that special feeling perpetuated for a life time between 2 people by the ongoing sacrifice of both partners to each other and to something greater than themselves


LOVE: FEELING LIKE THE WORLD IS CONSPIRING AGAINST ME

There are a lot of couples in the world, so why is it that I can’t find love when everyone else seems to be jumping between partners all the time? I feel like the world is conspiring against me and pushing every eligible partner away from me. Or it may be because of my hectic work hours as a doctor or how I lack of chisel look, not being 6 feet tall.. It could be alot a lot of reasons

I look in the mirror everyday in the morning and list out the reasons. But then again, haven’t people with all the shortcomings are getting loving partners and leading happy lives? So why is it not working for me. The truth? I can’t find love because I'am letting those shortcomings get in the way. It’s weighing my confidence down like a big bag of bricks on your back. It’s easy to lose motivation and confidence, and finally give up. But giving up really has never helped anyone. On the other hand, I know guys who are extremely confident about their appearances and everything else, but they’re still single and looking for someone. Why are they single?

If you really want to find love, you need to be looking for love. Many people say that it’s better not to go looking for love. They say love will come to you when the time is right. But that’s not true. Why is looking for love any different from looking for a job? You can’t sit back and wait for the perfect job to land on your lap. You have to look for it. Sometimes, people get lucky, of course. But it’s not always the case.

I never stop looking for love.  But I am not running around frantically waving my hands and yelling “I want to find love!” What I learned from my divorce is  finding love isn’t as *easy* as finding a great job though. Finding love is complicated and tricky, and you’re never going to know where to find it. and I guess this is why I am here. But online dating sucks, you are going to have to deal with rejections. You can’t expect everyone you fall in love with to fall right back into love with you. It’s just like a job application. You can’t really get any job you want, every time you send in an application, right? If someone’s not interested in going out with you, move on and try to find someone who likes you back too.

PUSSY: PUSSY POWER

I had dinner with a good friend of mine at work and we had a great conversation about being intoxicated by pussy.

He shared a really great story about this girl that he was intoxicated by in his early 30s. Even after he found some really crazy things about her, he was still intoxicated by her pussy.

The sex, he said, was so amazing, that even to this day, he still remembers it like it was yesterday.

And that’s a problem. When you get so intoxicated by pussy, you tend to overlook so many other things about the woman. It happen to me with Melissa.

It seems to only happen when you’re younger, but then again, it can happen at any age, especially if you haven’t had good pussy in a long time.

So what happens is you get intoxicated. The sex is just so damn good that you’ll overlook some of the crazy warning signs that are glaring at you every single day.

Now look, everybody you meet comes with baggage—we all know that; there’s no perfect person out there at all.

Everybody’s got their issues, and everybody’s got their crap, everybody’s got their things, and their fears and their insecurities. It’s just a matter of if you can put up with someone else’s insecurities, fears, and their stuff.

But it’s funny, when you’re younger and you haven’t had good pussy in awhile, you tend to get intoxicated by it, and you overlook some really crazy things…like the fact that she may not be a good person.

So the next time you’re intoxicated by a woman, try to look a little bit harder, and make sure that the person you’re intoxicated by is everything that you think they are, and it’s not just great sex that’s clouding your judgment.

I used to be somebody that would be intoxicated by great sex. Now, I get intoxicated by a great person, and of course, great sex is #2.

So open your eyes a little bit more and make sure what you think you’re getting is exactly what you want, and make sure the person is exactly who you think they

LOVE: BEING A HOPELESS ROMANTIC

Being a hopeless romantic is not easy. I never thought it would be. As our world keeps evolving and getting more modern by the click of a mouse we seem to be losing touch with what romance really is.

Growing up as a kid I loved getting lost in fairytales. I used to fantasize about one day meeting that special someone, and living happily ever after. Now, don’t get me wrong, I am not a complete moron. I do have some sense left in me to know that fairytales aren’t real and that love rarely happens like it does in the movies. But then again, I also think, that if I still believe in love like that surely there has to be more people that do out there in this world. Or is there?

I’ve come across a few individuals that claim to be as hopelessly romanticized as I am, but when push comes to shove it turns out that only in theory are they prepared to live out those emotions. In practice it’s a completely different matter. I don’t understand what people are so afraid of?If I had given up or lost hope that one day I will find someone who’ll fulfill me in the way that I would like them to then I would have packed my bags a long time ago and settled on a desert island away from the perils of reality. But I haven’t. I’m still here.

I didn’t choose to be a romantic.So where did this stem from within me? Was it the lack of love and romance in my childhood that created this hunger? Or was it childhood defiance that made me go in the
opposite direction to the people around me?

All I know is that I had no choice. And I still don’t.

Try as I may I find it hard to live without love in my life. I yearn for it. I long for it. I need it!

But instead of waiting for someone to do something loving for me I started doing things for the people in my life. I’m one of those guys that will wake up in the middle of the night just to give my lover a kiss. I will leave little notes in pockets for them to find, sometime, one day. I will share everything I have. I will find out what makes them happy and try to multiply that by a hundred. I will write messages that later I’ll regret because I then realize how cheezy they sound – but feel right at the time. I will leave a flower at their doorstep for them to find when they come home. I will write crazy love letters that make no sense at all. I will shout my love from the highest mountain top. I will try and help make their dreams come true, even if there’s no logical way for me to do that. I will try. I will run through fire to comfort them when they’re sad. If I can’t, then I will cry with them. I will always be on their side, even if they’re wrong. I will try and make them laugh as much as I can. I will show them the world, if only so I can see it through their eyes. I will do anything I can to ensure their happiness. Or at least try to help them achieve it.

There’s no limit to what I am prepared to do, for someone I love. In the hope that maybe one day, someone would be prepared to do the same for me. Maybe these seem like small and insignificant things. But these things can make a world of difference.

That, to me, is romance. That to me is love. Maybe my view on love doesn’t coincide with yours. But it doesn’t mean that it’s not right.It’s a broad term that has many definitions. There’s no right or wrong in love.

The one thing I definitely do know about love is that it’s scary. Plunging in there’s not much else you can do but hope that someone’s there to catch you as you fall.Trust that they won’t break your heart once you let them roam free inside it and believe in an Ever After.

Hopeless. Romantic.

That’s me.

DEAR SOULMATE: ARE OUR PATH CROSSED

ARE OUR PATH CROSSED

Dear Soulmate,

Have we met yet? Are our paths crossed? Will they ever? Every day, I wonder if you are already close to me or if you are some non-being yet to exist in my bubble of knowledge.

I've been waiting for you for a long time. If you know me, you should show yourself soon, I am getting tired of waiting. Of course... If you really are my soulmate, and I believe you are, then I am just being silly and impatient.

Soulmate, maybe you haven't come out yet because you don't know me well enough. --Have you run away because you know me too well? I want to know all about you, and yet a part of me wonders if the mystery is
more romantic.

Is there only one of you out there, or do you have a twin brother or sister that you can introduce me to? If you know, please tell me, because I have been feeling a little lonely lately.

I saw the movie "You've got mail" the other day. The part where Meg Ryan was supposed to meet with Tom Hanks at a coffee shop, she has a flower as an indicator, a symbol, of who she is. Will you be holding a
rose too? In a coffee shop?

How will I know who you are from all the other people in the world?

Are you just like me, or are you my opposite and compliment in every way?

I thought I found you once. I really did. You were beautiful, and you smiled at me, and you said everything I wanted to hear. You made me laugh, and you made me feel beautiful, you made me feel so complete,
even though you were never mine.

It wasn't really you, though. It was just somebody with your mask on.

Dear Soulmate, are you happy right now? I hope you are, I would never want you to be sad or hurt, even if I haven't met you yet.

Dear Soulmate, whether you're my best friend, or somebody from the other side of the world, please let our meeting as soulmates be special. Please let it be wonderful. I know my eyes will fill with tears of happiness even if it's not a perfect moment, because when I find out who you are, I don't think that anything can dampen the relation I will feel.

Dear Soulmate, I know I will love you with all my heart, and I can't wait for us to fall for each other in a way that is not like falling at all but is more like flying above all others, being next to each other, holding each other, helping each other.

I can't wait.

DATING; LESSON LEARNED

I have all the trappings of success - a high-flying career, financial security and a home in the heart of Long Island. But I don't have the one thing I crave more than anything: a loving wife and family. Today, seeing friends with their children around them tortures me, I convinced that somewhere out there, a better, more exciting, more fulfilling life awaited me. Only there wasn't. So many people will be assessing their lives and relationships, wondering if the grass is greener on the other side. Many will mistake contentment for boredom, forgetting to cherish the good things they have. I would urge those who are considering walking away from such riches to think again.

How different things would be for me now if only I didn't waste time with woman I knew weren't right for me even from the beginning...including my ex wife.  My mom's words to me continue to haunt me."There's a lot to be said for someone who truly loves you...don't waste your time with someone who doesn't." I can truly say that only one person ever really loved me in my life....but I was young, stupid and didn't know what I  had. Now I can only look back and admonish my selfish, younger self. I  was convinced there would be
another, better Mrs Right waiting around the corner.

 After my divorce...I struggled to pull myself back together and did a lot of soul-searching. I finally understood what my mom had mean. To those out there thinking of walking away from humdrum Relationships, I would say don't mistake contentment for unhappiness, as I did. It could be a choice you'll regret for the rest of your life.

Sometime..i feel like love has no meanings unless i find someone who loves me

POETRY: TO DESCRIBE HER HEAVENLY EYES

Everyday I hope that this is the day that I will met you.

To the world you may just be somebody,
But to this somebody, you're the world.
You are truly one in a million,
Like finding a clam on the beach with a pearl.

I have wanted to tell you how I feel for you,
From the first moment we met.
But I was so scared of what you would do.
I didn't want to do something I'd regret.

But now I can't hold my feelings inside.
I want you to know how I feel.
I want you to know how I feel about you,
And let you know my feelings are real.

From the first moment I looked into your eyes
I instantly felt a crush.
And all I did was look in your eyes
And instantly my heart was touched.

I wanted to get to know you.
I wanted to know your heart,
So I just said Hi to you,
And I knew that something would start.

There was just something I couldn't explain.
I didn't know why you were the best.
I knew you were very enchanting and lovely,
Kind of like a Fairy Tale Princess.

But now all the mystery is gone,
And I finally know who you are.
And to me you are so very perfect.
You light up my sky like a star.

You are the sweetest person that I know.
Just thinking of you makes my day.
I look at your picture before I go to sleep,
And it takes all my nightmares away.

So I just hope you know that I care for you,
And my crush on you is real.
And I know that my feelings for you are true
Because it's the truest thing that I feel.




2

For you I will float one single rose upon the Sea
then ask of every Angel to attend to thee
To the end of the earth, for you, i would journey
no matter the distance that comes between you and me

Beside you is where i will always be
Forever and for all of Eternity
Never will you question, you will clearly see
How very special you are to me

I'd catch the only drop of lavender rain
within the palm of my hand
I would catch a bird, as it flies across the land
For me these are not just dreams
It's how i would show you what your love truly means



3

This is how it feels
to love but not love,
to speak and not be heard,
to propose but receive no answer.
  This is how it feels
to live and die in one existence
and still walk the earth;
to have lungs compress and decompress
but bring forth no air to pump the blood.
  This is how it feels
to have beauty brought within grasp
only to have no hands for its seizure;
to go to bed full of passion
and wake as the dried-out core of what used to be.
  This is how it feels
to want what can't be had
and to refuse what should be taken;
to go from the brink of the final option
to stumbling upon a mound of new possibilities.


4


I love you to death we often say
   when we know it's too hard to stay
When little stress gets in the way
   we simply choose to run away

But why do we have to fall in love?
   when we cannot keep our words
Why should our lips have to confess...
   when we're weak to pass the test

So, we always find reasons to leave
   when old feelings no longer appeal...
We simply led love down the drain
   and reneged on all promises made

Sure, there's no romance without finance
   (but true love transcends all barriers)
For better for worse, till death do us part...
   now becomes for better to stay, for worse to go




5


For a while I've look to find someone like you
To find someone who loves me as much as you do
To find someone to change my skies from grey to blue

All my life I've searched for that sweet and complete girl
The perfect girl to share my world

When I look into your beautiful brown eyes
It's no wonder why I see my future in your eyes
You're like the girl I always dreamed of
And I believe I have truely fallen in love

So, there are a couple of things I need you to see
Because you're so very important to me
You mean the whole wide world to me
And you're everything I ever wanted a girl to be

So, I would love to enjoy my life with you
And tell you how much I do love you
And after it all where I hopefully aim
Is to live happily ever after and give you my...
                                       Last Name





6

This heart once pregnant
with love songs and
beauty of wealth,
with rhythm of life and
paths of glory to come.

This heart is mindful
of love's lingering light and
spills of pride,
of threats of joy and
pious drops of eye's cheerful tears.

This heart provides
magnitude of meekness and
solemn stillness it holds,
of golden dreams that
fears have no power to drown.

This heart eyes read
your history of love
perished in bittersweet despair,
and finally become your
deep-reaching fountain of truth.


7

Cloaked in the rare essence of human desire,
   I am the chemistry within the match,
                     which gives it this fire.
I am time and fear consumed into one,
    I am the mere lining of both lust and anticipation.
More powerful than a typhoon, yet my winds roll with ease,
       when crossing the waters it permits a soft breeze.
So you see, I am LOVE...all these things and more.
                        Now what are you waiting for?




8

Missing you
in the sweetest ways
Among the wild
flowers of abandon.
On a stretch
of fine golden sand,
alone
In the city bus,
next to you,
close
Sharing a glance
in a noisy train,
caring
Among the books,
sharing
Holding each other,
in happiness,
delight
Missing you,
in so many delightful ways

Missing you
in my presence
Your sweet breathe
on my ear
A gentle touch
in my hair
Among the roses,
in loving
Holding one another,
passionately
Among the star
studded bedclothes
Of a dreamy encounter
Missing you,
missing you
Endlessly


9

Life is not measured
nor pleasured by years without
tears or even days

without being in
a daze, but by those moments
of light with a bite.


10

It doesn't have to be physical...
it's a moments rush that touches your
heart and mind...reminding you that you are loved...
that you are being thought of with love...

Letting you know that you are never without them...
they are holding you in their heart...that they are always there
with you in spirit
...when they can not be there in body...

Have you ever felt a gentle breeze on the back of your neck...
when there is no wind blowing?
Or the slightest caress across your brow...
a scent that brings forth a face of one who loves you so...

Out of the corner of your eye...a shadow moves by...
when you look there is no one there...but, you feel
as if you were embraced
...a smile is on your face...why?

Do you hear a familiar voice call your name...
and you wake from a sleep? or you turn to look...
as though someone whispered in your ear...
you look around and there is something
that reminds you of the one you love...
you know their spirit was there...

Turning the radio on...you hear "Our" song
being played as if on que...the words warm your soul
and you know it's being dedicated just to you...will they hear it too?
...yes, because your love is
felt in their heart...that trust is there...

Nothing can surpass that physical touch...but, true love has a way
to keep you by each other's side when you can't always be together...
Love, dauntless and faithful, unconditional and with trust...
carries "Love's Touch"...




11



Am I really all that much different,
Or have I finally discovered my truth?
I have uncovered my soul's true blueprint,
Now, with time, will come the proof.

Why this late in my life did it happen?
Why not earlier, at 18, or maybe 23?
I have discovered what my life really means and
Need her to understand what we could be.

I love her and cannot live without her.
I try to fight this overwhelming feeling.
When she comes home from my birthplace,
My heart will again be sent reeling.

Of my incredible transformation,
I'm scared, excited, and bewildered.
I want to give the world to her,
From this I shall not be deterred.

Please, give me strength, give me guidance
To stop talking and to start taking action.
I feel like my life begins at this moment and
My past words were only a distraction.

She is the best thing for me.
I know I will be the best thing for her.
To love, honor, cherish, and uplift,
Together we couldn't be any happier.

If I have one wish that could be granted,
Only one and then nothing more,
It would be to get that one final chance
To walk though that once closed door.

I will solidify her love and her spirit.
Together we will walk throughout life.
I will protect her soul with my own.
This woman, I will know, is my wife.

I sit here and wait for her answer.
I try to find peace within my soul.
Please, set her free not to fear us together,
This is my only true selfless life goal.




12

You command a language of atonic measure
  You give love a voice with expert passion
You transport emotion in a raw new light
  You lend love a name, not given to trite

You allow me your beauty, and give gifts to my soul
  You give me passage to a splendid view
You know how to make my life rich, without greed
  My wings flutter in your presense, indeed


13

I search for words,
words to describe
the beauty in her angel-like face.
What words could I use
to describe her heavenly eyes,
or the way she rolls raisins
between her fingers
just before bringing them
to her soft pink lips?
Are there really such strong words
to describe her baby soft skin,
her golden blonde hair
or her voice that melts the heart?
There is only one way to describe her
and her many pleasures:
perfect.

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