There are a lot of couples in the world, so why is it that I can’t find love when everyone else seems to be jumping between partners all the time? I feel like the world is conspiring against me and pushing every eligible partner away from me. Or it may be because of my hectic work hours as a doctor or how I lack of chisel look, not being 6 feet tall.. It could be alot a lot of reasons
I look in the mirror everyday in the morning and list out the reasons. But then again, haven’t people with all the shortcomings are getting loving partners and leading happy lives? So why is it not working for me. The truth? I can’t find love because I'am letting those shortcomings get in the way. It’s weighing my confidence down like a big bag of bricks on your back. It’s easy to lose motivation and confidence, and finally give up. But giving up really has never helped anyone. On the other hand, I know guys who are extremely confident about their appearances and everything else, but they’re still single and looking for someone. Why are they single?
If you really want to find love, you need to be looking for love. Many people say that it’s better not to go looking for love. They say love will come to you when the time is right. But that’s not true. Why is looking for love any different from looking for a job? You can’t sit back and wait for the perfect job to land on your lap. You have to look for it. Sometimes, people get lucky, of course. But it’s not always the case.
I never stop looking for love. But I am not running around frantically waving my hands and yelling “I want to find love!” What I learned from my divorce is finding love isn’t as *easy* as finding a great job though. Finding love is complicated and tricky, and you’re never going to know where to find it. and I guess this is why I am here. But online dating sucks, you are going to have to deal with rejections. You can’t expect everyone you fall in love with to fall right back into love with you. It’s just like a job application. You can’t really get any job you want, every time you send in an application, right? If someone’s not interested in going out with you, move on and try to find someone who likes you back too.
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