DATING: BETA AND ALPHA TRAITS BOBBY AXE IN BILLIONS IS THE IDEAL ALPHA (BOTH FOR WOMAN AND MEN)

Damian Lewis’ new character Bobby “Axe” Axelrod, who, in Damian’s words, is “a prominent, quite well-loved hedge-fund manager over at Axe Capital screams confidence! And one sees confidence in the way Bobby stands, the way he walks and the way he talks… 

The man has presence. In particular, the way he speaks radiates confidence and borderline arrogance, too, in my humble opinion. And, hey, he seems to be looking into U.S. Attorney’s eyes — note that strong eye contact is yet another alpha male trait — who is there to get him: “The moment I let someone in a government office tell me what I can or cannot buy, I can as well close the shop, but I’m not closing the shop.” 

THIS COULD FOR BOTH WOMAN AND MEN

Alpha 

-Direct and Honest – alpha males are not afraid to speak their mind. If they need something, they will tell you. They don’t hide behind a lot of fluff when they are talking to you. They tell you things you might not want to hear. 

-Confident – alpha males tend to think very highly of themselves. They aren’t always right or perfect, but they always believe in their own ability and themselves no matter what. 

-Doesn’t give a sh*t what others think. This makes him very attractive. Simply be confident about how others perceive you. You will act accordingly. Anyone who looks down on you is most likely jealous, and also not worth your time. You do not have time for people who are counter-productive to your self-improvement. 

-Talks slowly, and in deeper tones. His movements are smooth 

-Is always dressed to kill, and groomed well 

-Strong desire to erotically dominate sex partners 

-Does not allow other people to treat him in any sort of disrespectful and/or undesirable manner more than once, and definitely not more than twice 

-Possesses a very boastful and/or extremely competitive ego 

Beta

-Puts Needs of Others First – this isn’t a bad thing, but beta males put the needs of others ahead of their own. They are very giving people and unselfish. 

-Nice guys – beta males are some of the nicest people you will ever meet. They help you when you need help, they are courteous and pleasant to be around. 

-Lack Confidence-beta males lack the confidence alpha males have. There are times that beta males will second guess themselves or make excuses to not do something even though they are fully capable. They just don’t always realize their potential. 

-Needs affirmation from others. Is obsessed with how others think of him. 

-Talks fast, always seems to be nervous or in a rush. 

-Poorly groomed. 

-Can be very agreeable, compromising, empathetic, and even doesn’t have a problem being subservient and acquiescent to others 

-Will allow others to talk to him and/or treat him in a manner that is condescending, disrespectful, blatantly rude, or just downright disrespectful 

- Passive energy 

-Lack of emotional control 

--Lack of Assertiveness- They have trouble standing up for themselves, especially saying “no.” They may even say “yes,” when they mean “no” to please people. 

-Needy and Whiny

-Submissive :yield to the authority of another; unresistingly or humbly obedient

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