SPIRITUAL/LOVE: IF ALL WE HAVE TO DO IS THINK

On a very basic level, the Law of Attraction says that “Like Attracts Like”. What this means is that the thoughts and feelings you choose to focus on the most will determine your experiences in life and also your future. You might be wondering why you have not found your soulmate or your perfect relationships yet.


If all we have to do is think about something in order to bring it into our lives, then why aren’t we all rich, perfectly healthy, and living happily ever after? The answer is simple and is the truth many do not want to hear.Most people, even without being aware of it, don’t really think about what they DO want. They think more about the fact that they DON’T actually have it.

When you understand this truth, then you will understand the reason why many folks don’t have the things that they want. It is because all concentration is spent focusing on NOT having things.This very same concept applies to love and finding your soulmate just the same way that it applies to anything else you cam imagine.


So many people honestly want to find their soulmate, however, rather than think about how happy life will be once you have found your soulmate, you are thinking more about how miserable you are because you HAVEN’T found him/her yet!


Just think about it…


Do you need to find your soulmate? If you do, then which of the following statements honestly describes your thoughts and your feelings when you see a loving couple and you feel you are alone?


• “I am so confident since I have my soulmate coming my way, and I have an unlimited amount of love. I can date anyone that I please and my biggest problem is deciding which one will serve me most.”


• “I am ever so alone and no one needs me! I hate to look at loving couples. So how can I expect anyone else to love me? I’ll be lucky if I can date literally anyone!!!”


You need to be totally honest with yourself to get any benefit out of this.


Which of those 2 statements comes closer to the way that people who need to find their soulmate think of themselves? Closer to what you might be thinking about yourself?


The truth is, the more miserable you are about any particular subject – in this case finding your soulmate, the more powerfully you are going to attract more of the same, since that is your main focus.


The answer to using the true power of the Law of Attraction to find your soulmate is to simply STOP thinking about your current situation in such a negative way!tart thinking confident and positive thoughts.Think thoughts of happiness, being able to attract the man of your dreams.

You can influence reality by holding a thought with emotion and imagery. In essence what you are doing is sending a quantum wave function into the energy field we’re all in. That  quantum wave function goes out and gets “attracted” to other similar wave. This fits with the concept that photons and other particles don’t organize until they are observed. It appears that when you state an intention, you help organize them

The right way to use your quantum brain is to set up the thought pattern of the reality that you actually have that new bicycle. You must envision yourself riding that new bicycle. You just fantasize how it feels to ride the new bicycle…This is how you set up a qwiff to get a response from the universe in a positive manner

What you focus your thoughts on with emotion tends to come to pass. This is why you tend to attract what you love, fear, or hate. There’s raw emotion behind those thoughts. Since you have a choice, why not choose the high road?

Let begin with this question:

What is it I am really wanting to feel and experience with this person?

I want to experience love. I want to experience great sex...great closeness. I want to feel like someone is watching over me and taking care of me like I was their child.

Right now you are assuming that “having” this person is your only path to these feelings and experiences but reality is showing you that this is not true.

You don’t need to understand why you can’t have the person, but you do need to understand that the things you desire to feel and experience can be yours when you are willing to let go of what doesn’t serve you.

I know how painful it can be when you are yearning for someone who isn’t yearning for you.



 Second: list using the best qualities of some of the other women you know as inspiration. For example:

1) She is beautiful and attractive to me
Why do I like that: Because I enjoy feeling attracted to my woman, I like to smile when I see her, I love to feel handsome when she looks at me, I enjoy looking into her eyes when I am inside her

2) She is kind and considerate
Why do I like that: I appreciate that she is gentle with others, it makes me feel special when she thinks of me and does nice things for me, I am proud of her when she treats others with respect, I feel supported and cared for when she thinks about my feelings

3) She has a really good job
Why do I like that:  I don't have to worry about raising my kids with one salary, or taking care of the house. Her job would be like a safety net.