LOVE: IMPERFECT SOULMATE

Imperfect Soulmate

Imperfection is inevitable.

Same as soulmate. One's soulmate does not have to a perfect person.

My soul is not perfect as well.

When the soulmate person is no longer in your life but in memory, then isn't that one's freedom to create a "perfect soulmate" that you once had?

A person probably only has one soulmate. The one and the only person that will touches your soul in the way no one else can... one's soulmate can have his/ her flaws like anybody else.

Imperfection makes this world beautiful and it makes love beautiful too.

Love is when one accepts and love the other person's imperfection.

What am I talking about? I am not sure.

Missing your soulmate can be an imperfection too? There are a lot of things in life that you can't turn back once you miss it. There are a lot of things in life that you can't get regardless how much you want it.

Leave it imperfect then... so it will be perfect in another way.


What does soul mates mean? Is it true? Do I have a soul mate out there? Have I ever met my soul mate? All those questions are turning up through my mind lately, and no one till now, answered them. I searched over the net, and that's what I got but still it didn't answer my questions?

"The term Soul Mates means many things. These are soul that you have experienced with in past, paralle or future lifetimes. They can also be aspects of your soul experiencing at this time in another body. We are all have multidimensional beings - your soul having experiences, in many realities, at the same time. As we all evolve from the same source of consciousness creation - we could say that we are all souls mates in a manner of speaking.

Soul mates can have various types of relationships, which do not always include romantic love. We tend to think of our soul mate as The One who is there for us and to make us feel complete.

Soul mates can be close friends, co-workers, a teacher, anyone who influences your life one way or another. They play the emotional - spiritual - physical - and mental - games of third dimension with you.

Men often seek the goddess when searching for a mate - one who looks like the priestess - slim body, long flowing hair purity of soul - beauty and gentleness of creation that speaks to their soul of union with the female creational force. It is SHE who brings loves, guidance, compassion and reunion of your twin soul aspects."

What do you think?

Infact most women about picking the right partner, very well written by Vera Ezimora. See below


"I am always looking for a married person who will coach me on how to find, capture and marry my soul mate, but it seems like the more people I talk to, the more confused I become. Some say "love is natural"; there is no need to work for it. Whatever is meant to be will be, but on the other hand, some people say "when you see what (who) you want, go for it (him)." Now, would someone please tell me which one of these theories actually work?"

Amidst all this confusion, some other people have the nerve to tell me that in order to have or find true love, I have to have an open heart; I am not allowed to decide that there is no way anything can happen between me and a certain person. Apparently, I am supposed to give everyone a fair chance. While I am trying to digest this not-so-pleasant piece of information, other people say that I have to be watchful of who I interact with. They say that it is obvious that some people are most definitely not for me. What???

So let me get this straight - I should not work for love because whatever will be will be, and I should also go for what (who) I want when I see it (her), and while I am at that, I should not be judgmental about people, but yet I should know that not everyone is for me. Hmmm, I do not know about you, but from where I'm standing, that is humanly impossible. Am I the only one having this problem? I guess the quest to find my soul mate is a personal race, huh? No rules apply. All that matters is the two people involved: my alleged soul mate and I.

The next phase of this soul mate search is recognizing and observing my "spectrum of possible soul mates." What does this mean? I mean who is my type? I have already broken the rule of giving everyone a fair chance at being my soul mate. I have cut off every woman who is lived farther than meand I have also excluded all woman who were smoker. So who is left?

Wait a minute, that's not all. I have to mention that she has to possess other qualities like loyalty (faithfulness) and honesty. She must also not be a product of "ward robe malfunction" according to my standards.

I would also want to date a woman who is romantic. I am skeptical about using the word "romantic"; I would rather say "thoughtful". I must say that in reality, this is a very important factor to me: security. I need a woman who I can be secure in and who can be secure in me. What does this mean? It means that when I go to bed at night, I do not have to be afraid that when I wake up, she would not love me anymore. It means that when she says she is hanging out with a friend, I do not have to be worried because I am secure in what we have. It means that when we have a fight (which we obviously will), I do not have to be afraid that our relationship is over. I need security.

Ok, on a serious note, how in the world does a guy go about finding her true soul mate? I see couples all the time that look so happy until they open up their mouths, and I am often in disheartening awe. If there is something I know for sure, it is that I truly do want my soul mate. I know we will have problems, and I know there are times when I would want to call it quits, but after all is said and done, I need her to still be my soul mate. In reality, there is a redundant scarcity of soul mates. There are women, but they are either taken or not good enough to be taken, so basically, if she is single, I begin to wonder why, and sure enough, there is something wrong with her. She must be one of the following: immature, a liar, a cheat, a player,or in worst case scenarios, she is even a combination of them all -just a bomb waiting to explode. Or are we males just too picky? Well, can you blame us? The demand for women in the market of marriage is outrageously high, yet the resources remain devastatingly low. While it is unrealistic for me to keep cutting people off my "spectrum of possible soul mates", you must understand and acknowledge that in a sick and twisted way, that really is what we males have to go through. We have our standards and we want to maintain them, but you know what is really ironic? In spite of all our rules and regulations, most of us still end up marrying the "wrongest" person. Why? We are hoping for a change; a change that will not come.Before we know it, we have kids with this woman, and then we begin to feel trapped, but as for me, that juju will not work on me.

What you see is a fine woman who promises to give you the world and beyond; what you see is an honest and mature woman who is secure in you and what you both share. What you get is a woman who cannot control her sexual urges and wants sex on demand; what you get is an insecure woman who panics at the mere mention of another woman's name. What you want is for her to change, and what you do not get is change. Marriage is a difficult investment, so I have to say "more grease to your elbows" to all the married folks out there. Investing in marriage is like buying a computer out of the auction; it is not guaranteed to work, there is no warranty, a return policy is non existent, a refund is most definitely out of the question, you are guaranteed that tons of viruses would be visiting you and crashing your system, the price you pay for it has nothing to do with its quality or the services it would render, hackers would definitely be accessing your computer, no company would want to insure it because they see it as a definite "liability", and it will come with missing parts that cannot be replaced because they are off the market. So you see, if I will go through all these for the sake of marriage, do I not owe it to myself to at least marry my soul mate? Be knowledgeable that marrying my soul mate does not mean that she has all her parts; it just means that hse is functioning without them.

What's a guy like me to do? All I can do is get down on my knees and say to God "this scarcity of soul mates"