LOVE: THE ART OF BEING A WOMAN IS GONE

I talk a lot in my blog about vibrational energy and how every one sent their own frequency that most people pick up. What I want to talk about today is about how to keep passion or even love in a relationship. In nature we have polarity. If you have two magnets and put their north and south poles together, they attract each other. Same with us. One person has to have the masculine pole and other person have the feminine pole.

Male energy is self-discipline, direction, aggressive. tough, rough
Female energy is appreciation, trust, softness

If a woman' career is more important than her man, then she will lose her trust to him and begin losing her sexual desire. I don't think there is anything wrong with have an career, but if you carry more masculine energy....it repels the masculine energy of your man. It is great to shift from male and female energy, but in moment of intimacy, one partner must carry more of the masculine and one partner more of the feminine. Due to stress of the working world and professional responsibilities most woman use predominantly masuline energy throughout the day. There are times when using your masuline energy is completely healthy and useful, but there is consequences. If you have a conversation and both of you are in male energy, don't expect him to treat you like a woman. Don't expect him to be sexually or emotionally attracted to you. He might want your pussy and that might be it....because that is all you can offer him.

If you tell your man to do things....for example...let go see a movie,...or let stay in ...or whatever....telling or challenging your man.....you are becoming more masculine and it depolarize the relationship. Because he feel your masculine energy, your man may begin to treat you like any other man. A man treat another man is usually not how a woman wants to be treated. Men challenge each other, compete, analyze and discuss. This is why personally, I like submissive woman. I hate when woman talk about work, or doing what...and not talking about making love, walking on the grass....books. Remember the movie..."Pretty Woman"

I don't think any woman wants to be with another woman unless they are gay. If your man acts like a woman...and get scared when he see a bug...he has just reversed polarity and you will feel his lack of masculine energy and therefore not be particularly sexually turned on by him.

It so hard now to tell a woman to be submissive. Most woman think they can be balanced.....meaning exercising both masculine and feminine energy. However for two people to come together as lover rather than business partner or friends, it's good for the man and woman to relax into their masculine and feminine energies, respectively, so that there is polarity. As much as I tell so many woman about this..they resist. Surrendering to your man....is hard for some many woman. You can't have equality in relationship...there can't be two captain, two males, two female. If you want that...that passion of the relationship dies as well.

So many woman forgot how to be a woman. Oh yeah...they can suck your dick and fuck you...but the art of being a woman is gone. They have gone to work and put up a tough exterior and sexual defense throughout the workday. Personally, I think that defense remains in their system...several hours after work. And when they come home or want to start a relationship...after being halfway polarized, because it wasn't safe or appropriate to open all the way.....they bring in a halfway feminine energy to their man and he will then bring in halfway masculine energy to you.

So many woman ask me ...why I am so rigid and single-minded? How else can I be...I am a man. If you want to trust your man to get the job done, try to accept his need to focus. Without this quality...your man might not carry through with anything.