Dear Soul mate:
From this day forward, you shall not walk alone. My heart will be your shelter,and my arms will be your home. I am so glad that you are a part of my life. It is a privilege to know you, to share myself with you, and to walk together on the paths that take us in so many beautiful directions.
I had heard of "soul mates" before, but I never knew such a person could exist - until I met you.
Somehow, out of all the twists and turns our lives could have taken, and out of all the chances we might have missed, it almost seems like we were given a meant-to-be moment to meet, to get to know one another, and to set the stage for a special togetherness.
When I am with you, I know that I am in the presence of someone who makes my life more complete than I ever dreamed it could be. I turn to you for trust, and you give it openly. I look to you for inspiration, for answers, and for encouragement, and not only do you never let me down - you lift my spirits up and take my thoughts to places where my troubles seem so much farther away and my joys feel like they're going to stay in my life forever. I hope you'll stay forever, too. I feel like you're my soul mate. And I want you to know that my world is reassured by you, my tomorrows need to have you near, so many of my smiles depend on you, and my heart is so thankful that you're here
Dear Soul Mate,
Forgive me for not using your actual name. It's not that I'm being impersonal or forgetful; I simply have no idea what it is. You see, we haven't met yet. Tell you what -- how ‘about I just refer to you as Julie? I've always liked that name and I wouldn't be surprised if you ended up having it. You know, it feels strange expressing my deepest personal thoughts to a woman I haven't even seen, but I'm making an exception for you because, after all, we will eventually be together for the rest of our lives. Plus, just because we haven't been able to locate each other yet, doesn't mean we can't share our feelings, right? This way, when we finally do meet, we'll be that much farther along in the relationship. It'll be like our seventh date. I hope you have enjoyed the first six -- I know I have. But that's jumping ahead.
I'll be honest -- this past year has been a difficult one. After many years of not being able to find you, the frustration of the endless search started to get to me. I started to feel as though I would never meet my soul mate, never meet you. My heart sank. It seemed like I was right on track for turning into the male equivalent of the old spinster with seven cats and a passion only for crocheting sweaters for friends and relatives lucky enough to have found relationships. I felt myself beginning to experience the Seven Stages of No Soul Mate Grief.
First, there was Shock -- the horrifying realization that it's absolutely likely we may never meet. It seemed as though every woman I met had a giant neon NOT YOUR SOUL MATE sign atop her head. That shock ended up driving me to drink. But I'm not big on alcohol, so I'm now attending a 12-Step program for Snapple iced tea drinkers. Today marks my third month without a Snapple. One day at a time.
It seemed as though every woman I met had a giant neon NOT YOUR SOUL MATE sign atop her head.Denial followed shock. All evidence to the contrary, Julie, I informed anyone who asked about it, that it was simply a question of time and luck before I'd meet my soul mate. They'd nod and give me a half-smile, attempting to be supportive, but, oh yes, I could see the pity in their eyes. It was the same look they gave Jennifer Aniston after she said she's even happier with fill-in-her-latest-boyfriend-here than she ever was with Brad Pitt. Or that they gave Russell Crowe after he said that was the first time he ever threw a telephone at a concierge's head. They realized I was only fooling myself. I knew they were right, but couldn't admit it, wouldn't admit it. I felt like Nixon telling the nation "I am not a crook," or Michael Jackson saying with a straight face that taking a little boy into bed with you is the most loving thing a grown man can do. Was I any different, saying "My soul mate is just around the corner"? No, clearly, I was only fooling myself.
As I moved into the Bargaining stage, I attempted to cope with my loss of soul mate hope by making a deal with God. "Lord, if You allow me to meet my soul mate, I'll become a better person. I'll be kinder to people, I'll make donations to charity even if they don't send the cool, self-sticking address labels, I'll stop taking your name in vain when the driver in front of me is too slow to make it through the yellow light, I'll subscribe to PBS. I'll floss."
Of course, the Guilt stage was no big shocker to me, as I was quite experienced in that arena. It took the form of multiple "If onlys." If only I hadn't turned Kathy down just because she sounded like a goat when she laughed. If only Nicole Kidman would at least send me some response to my countless emails a bit more encouraging than that restraining order. Like she wasn't flattered that I have a shrine to her in my room -- with its own back-up generator in case the power goes out.
It's no wonder I reached the Anger stage. I was angry at life for forcing me to keep paying monthly fees to online dating websites rather than the much easier and far more economical method of simply accidentally bumping into my soul mate in an elevator or supermarket, with appropriate Phil Collins or Elton John soundtrack music, just like in the movies. I was angry at myself for not having developed whatever relationship skills might turn me into a babe magnet. I was angry at my parents for not having given me the genetic gifts of George Clooney's looks, Bill Gates' intelligence, Fred Astaire's dancing ability, 50 Cent's street cred. If we can put a man on the Moon, why couldn't that happen, too?
Depression followed closely upon Anger, Julie. Look what you did to me and you didn't even know me. I lost interest in meeting my soul mate, much less dating at all. I sounded as though all the life and energy had been drained from my voice. I slumped. I couldn't even motivate myself to call a depression hotline. And here's how I realized I was truly, deeply depressed -- Snapple iced tea just didn't do it for me anymore. I went for canned Lipton. Canned Lipton, Julie! Canned Lipton! Do you know how deeply depressed a person has to be to open a can of Lipton iced tea? The horror. The horror. How can canned Lipton iced tea executives even sleep at night? But it's all I felt worthy of.
Finally, I became resigned to the fact that some people just aren't meant to meet their soul mates and apparently I was one of them -- the few, the lonely, the people doomed for the rest of their lives to face restaurant maitre d's who, while the Muzak is playing Roy Orbison's "Only the Lonely," look at them pityingly and ask, "Table for one?" and then shine a spotlight on them as all eyes follow them to their solitary table, offering looks of sympathy as the waiter removes one of the place settings and they cry out in anguish, "Please, for the love of God, look away, I am alone and hideous!"
So, how, you may wonder, did things turn out relatively well? How did I finally arrive at the last of the Seven Stages of No Soul Mate Grief -- the stage of Acceptance and Hope? Well, Julie, you see, there's some good news. Some exciting news. I met someone. Finally. Which to me pretty much constitutes proof of God's existence. I witnessed a miracle. Ten plagues? No. Sea splitting? No. Finding a woman who I like as much as she likes me? Bingo. Miracle. And I really like her. I even got rid of my Nicole Kidman shrine for her. Well, not totally; it's in storage. You never know. Is this woman my soul mate, Julie? Who knows? At this point, I'm not even sure what it would feel like to have a soul mate. I mean, come on, her name isn't even Julie. It's just that... maybe if you find someone you really like, who seems to like you, is pretty and smart and doesn't seem to mind your flaws and smells good and doesn't even bring up the subject of restraining orders, that's soul mate enough for any man. Even me. Now, if you'll excuse me, Julie, I need to go floss and get ready to sleep
Dear Soulmate,
Before I met you there were many points in my life I had thought of you but never knew who you were. Id think of the perfect person. The one who would love me like I loved them. Someone who would make a sacrafice as big as I would. But as I went though the years I never found you. I went through relationship after relationship searching for you. Id be with one person for a few days and then know its not you. I had many dreams and hopes of you and as I waited for you I fell more in more in love with you. Although I had not met you. Or seen you or even known your name. I knew that you exist somewhere in the world.
From a young age this thought started. Not from when adults say you can understand love. Much much before. Oh yes a long time before. I was only eight maybe even seven. I would sigh at night whilst I dreamed of you. I would become depressed if people treated me like dirt. For anything and everything. But the thought of you keept me going. But even though I did not know you I still carried on the hope and the dream. I believed that if you believe hard enough in something then it will eventually come true. And that if you give up then you will never grasp hold of your dreams. Some people say that only those bold enough to chase dreams are willing to catch them. And I guess I thought I was one of those people.
Although the longer I waited the more painful it seemed to be without you I always had faith that I would be with you one day. I hoped every morning that today would be the day but it never came. I was getting use to getting exited and then getting it blown down. It was becoming a lifestyle more than anything else.
I would always picture your face in my dreams. You were like a princess. Like no other. Beautiful, kind, loving and strong. I pictured me and you being one. We would be stronger together. And that nothing would break our bond. However life didnt seem to be that fantasy. Life is not a dream but life is what you make it.
Eventually as I grew older the faith was their but it was getting weaker and weaker. Life seemed to be to long. However when your looking for something it’s harder to find. One day I decided to stop and go with the flow of fate. And that very moment I stopped. I found you.
Fate works in mysterious ways. Love can start in many ways. People can find love through a random click of a button or open of a door. But some can find it through long time of getting to know them. But I knew as soon as I saw you. The dream was in reach. But as I tried to catch I was scared. I would mess up the oppertunity however you cannot mess up fate. Destiny is ment to be. And you are my destiny.
When you catch a dream you make a new one. New goals, targets. And now that we have our love in the palm of our hands. I now see our next steps. I want to marry you. Have a family with you. Live with you. Grow old with you. And pass with you. And be eternally with you.
To my future wife,
You do not know me yet. You are probably wondering why I am even writing to you. You may think that, because I am a man, I will not be able to convey my thoughts, my feelings, my love, in words. But do not underestimate me. There are many things you do not know about me, yet. There are many things I want you to learn and discover about me because some day I want to marry you.
As I was growing up, and I never admitted this at the time, but I had great respect for my mother and father. True, they argued and fought, and disagreed on many occasions. But I never lost my respect for them. My dad, though not perfect, treated my mother like a queen. He never belittled her. He never second-guessed her decisions. He stood behind her at all times. He loved her. His love was a perfect example for me, and my sisters, to follow.
Now, as I grow older and hopefully wiser, and as I approach my own turn at marriage, my thoughts turn to my dad's model behavior. By being persistent, patient, and prayerful, he succeeded in being a loving husband to his wife and a loving father to his children. I hope to emulate my dad's good example; I want to be as good a husband to you as my dad was to my mom.
I write this letter to you because I want to be your husband. I truly want to be your husband. I want to be a husband who will love you, cherish you, and make you always feel special. Husbands nowadays are often mocked, scorned, and ridiculed. Men are often perceived as worthless, egotistical, and selfish. I am none of those. I am a man, a human being, who desires your love and respect. I need those gifts of love and commitment, which only you can give. And I want to return the same to you.
Why should you want me as your husband? What will convince you that I am the one you should look for and eventually marry?
I will be the one who will recognize your goodness. I will be the one who will respect you and appreciate your high moral standards. I will be the one who will admire the way you respect yourself. I will be the one to hold your hand when you need affection. I will be the one to kiss your cheek when you feel lonely. I will be the one who will hold you when you need to feel secure. I will be the one who will comfort you in your sadness and share in your happiness. I will be the one who will be by your side as you bring our children into the world. I will be the one who will love you as if each day was our last together.
But why do I want to marry you? Why not the blonde who winked at me on the beach? Why not the brunette who called me every night? Why not the redhead who challenged my savvy and intelligence? Why not the skinny, long-legged model who catered to my every whim? Why not the cute, perky girl who seemed to have everything in common with me? Why you?
Well, future wife, let me explain. All those girls interested me. But you will not merely interest me. You will love me. And I will love you. Your soft touch will weaken me. Your eyes will enthrall me. Your beauty will mesmerize me. Your goodness will enamor me. Your virtues will captivate me. Your trust will engross me. Upon securing your trust, my heart, mind and soul will finally find peace and contentment.
I really will not ask for much. I will ask that you stand beside me through both the heartaches and the joys. I will ask that you welcome our children with open arms as our parents welcomed us. I will ask that you tell me when I am wrong and tell me when I am right. I will ask for your honesty and respect. In return you will receive uncompromising faith, fidelity and love.
What will draw me to you, more than anything else, however is your love for me. So, please continue to be patient and wait for me. We will soon meet and begin our life together. And with the grace of God, we will see each other soon.
After reading this short letter, future wife, you should now know me a little better. I hope you will be pleased. I hope you now understand why I wrote this for you - so you will see my heart. It beats for you. It will always beat for you.
My dear future wife,
I have waited a very long time for you. Longer than I imagined I would. I watched my friends find someone, become a pair of people in love and then break up. I saw others who became husband and wife.
My love, I have waited.
There were times when I wanted to just find a nice girl, begin dating and hope for the best. There were other times when I wanted to completely ignore finding a woman to love because it seemed like it would never happen. There were times when I wasn’t even sure that God had someone for me….
And then I found one precious girl. She was beautiful to me. Soon enough God whispered to me that it was not meant to be her. I was crushed. This girl, she was perfect! But God simply whispered and said he had someone better for me.
This happened multiple times. It wasn’t hard for me to believe that I may not ever find you. Every time I ran into another girl my desire only grew. It only became more and more difficult to move beyond each girl. But every single time God said she wasn’t the one. He had someone better for me.
And you know what? Now I’ve found you.
I will never be able to let you go. I will never want to let you go. I know that I will be able to fall asleep holding you in my arms. When we have children we’ll most likely embarrass them by being sweet. They’ll be grossed out, but I will never be able to stop myself from loving you.
When I finally find you, nothing, save God himself, will stop me from carrying you away on our wedding night.
Coming from my already undying love for you,
Your future husband
Dear soul mate,
I doubt you care about why I'm sending you this letter or why I refer to you as my soul mate but I want to explain to you. Just so you know. This isn't a pathetic love letter or some ridiculous sounding poem, it's the truth.
Whenever you walk into the room, I immediately notice you and inside, I smile. It's like part of me is 'coming home' when you're near me and when you're not around, nobody can fill the empty, unidentified space. I suppose I could say you complete me.
Sometimes, when I'm all on my own, I'll think about your reactions to me. Almost like you were standing next to me watching as I dropped my toothbrush down the toilet for the second time, I imagine you'd laugh and laugh at my bad luck. So would I; we'd laugh together.
Often, I wonder how long it'll be until our fate is sealed and we're held together through small pieces of metal upon our ring fingers. Doubts come into my mind sometimes but shake them away, allowing for destiny to take over, that's the greatest power of all. If it's meant to be, then so be it. If not, looks like I'll have to move on.
I dream of watching the sunset but also I think of looking after you; being your man around the house simply to do the mundane tasks like washing the dishes or doing the laundry. I don't mind how small our house would be or how messy it could get, just that wherever each other were, we called that place 'home'.
Every day I see my ex-girlfriends falling in love again with the most handsome guys but I'm still left alone. I look upon you and know in my heart that we're meant to be but it's heart breaking how you don't ever seem to see it. I'm not stunning or amazing, I'm just me. Notice I'm alive please?
I'll close my letter by saying this; you'll always occupy a large part of my heart and no matter how many other women enter my life, you'll always be the 'one'.
Yours truly and everlastingly,
Friends and family used to call me a "Hopeless romantic," but after so many years, they understand now that I approach potential love with strength and maturity. When I fall, I may fall harder than most, but I also get back up and somehow rise up a more loving and giving person...not that I am perfect, far from it. However, I don't wither, but instead blossom and deepen in color like a rose reaching it's full potential. I have experienced the highs and lows of relationships. I acknowledge the pitfalls; yet find the lessons they offer fascinating. I am capable of giving and sharing my complete and honest self, including my strengths and weaknesses. I am not afraid, even when I acknowledge a move to be bold and scary. Always out to learn and grow more to reach my greater potential, I no doubt chose the exceptional and extraordinary. This is a class all by itself. Neither money nor success alone can define it, but you must match me in this way. Beauty does not stand on its own here, either, but I must find you attractive by my standards. Inner beauty, strength inside and out, the ambition to be significant in this world and the knowledge to understand the difference between success and significance are but a few qualities, which define this echelon. I am looking for extraordinary and exceptional love, one that lasts a lifetime, like my grandparents shared. I meet plenty of potentially qualified women. Some become really good friends. Still, I continue searching for that one person, who is the right fit for me, the person who feels like home, someone who inspires me to be an even better person, like I will inspire her. That is something worth waiting for. I am not looking for the illusion. I want the reality. If I don't discover it in you or you in me, I wish you the best in your search. If what I said resonates with you to the fullest, then you decide what you want to do about that. I won't waste your time, as mine is precious, as well. It's only personal, in that I know what I want, and I won't settle for less. I live a great life. I don't need someone. I want a partner, a distinct difference. I am lucky to know it.
Dear Soulmate
Are you even coming?
I’m lost in a mess of my own singleness.Here’s the thing about being single; At first it’s the best feeling in the world. You can talk to whoever you want, do whatever you want, there isnt anyone to hold you down, you finally feel free.
After awhile you get this wave of sadness, though. You start feeling this depth of lonliness. You start seeing all the cute couples, you start getting more and more intersted in people. People say that when you’re in a relationship; it’s not all that great, but after being single for long enough; anything has to be better then the touture of loneliness. I mean, im not an expert at relationships. I don’t know how to handle every fight we’re going to have, and i will never be a perfect person. But im willing to take chances, to risk it all and learn everything i need to know about you just so i can keep us together.I promise no one will tear us apart and I won’t give up on you.
That’s what I want. My anchor. I don’t want to flit around adventurously with this and that. I want to have adventures with you. I just want you to prove to me that love is real. I can’t imagine it. I know a part of me deeply, deeply,deeply wants it, more so than I can face on a daily conscious basis - the kind of depth that comes out when I’m bitterly drunk, or the rain is pouring and I’m in my tiny, uncozy bedroom alone, or when my heart aches for a newness I don’t yet know or understand; an adventure, an expression, a restless lust for satisfaction - but I have absolutely. entirely. no idea what it feels like.
Will you really make me want to be a better person?
Will I be in utter disbelief that you exist? that you love me too? that it seems as though we were created for each other?
Will I finally know why there are movies and songs and poems and billions of lifted or broken hearts because of this weird phenomenon I feel so separate from?
I hope you exist, you just have to. I know I may seem like I’m not interested in you but I have good reason to. I’m scared if I act like my true self, you won’t be interested in me because I’m not at all like most guys.But it’s okay, that’s just who I am. I’m also trying to see if you’re going to put in the effort to know the true me. Once you break through my exterior, I promise, I’m everything that you hopefully want. I will be the husband you deserve and you’ll be the wife I’ve always wanted. No one will love you like I would, I promise. When I fall for someone, I fall hard and they know it. I always put in as much effort as I can into my relationships. This one will not be different. In fact, I’ll probably put so much effort that I get annoying to you.
I need you to teach me. teach me how to love, and be compassionate. I’ve ran away from love my whole life, and I need YOU to pull me back & say ‘where are you going? I love you, and want to hold you. Not only that, I want to be with you.’ I want you to tell me sweet things. You need to be the woman that’s there for me, and who tells me to come over, because you found some lame movie that’s so stupid it’s funny & you think I’d like it. I just need you to be everything I need, and everything I think i don’t want at the same time.
I long for the day that we are together again, and pray your forgiveness allows our unity to be transposed, and our lives together to finally begin. You’re my inspiration, whom led me to believe again. So wonderfully created, I long to complete your circle and together reach glorious heights; creating miracles to abide within. You’re a mirror of perfection that is soft spoken, kind, faithful, and true; I see beauty every time I look at you. I am hopeful for the future…the starting day I’m able to hold your hand, kisses on your lips, and hold each other tightly; never ever having a reason of letting go. The highest honor it shall be, to walk beside you, hand in hand, throughout the remainder of this lifetime, and into eternity. Your laugh, your smile, your words, and the way you walk into a room created a sweet melody that instantly desired me to bloom. I cannot say that I am as perfectly wonderful as you are to me, but I promise you that I will strive daily to be, because I could not bear the thought of not being perfectly imperfect without you. Yes, I’ve made mistakes in the past, but thankful that you saw me through. Accepting of who we are capable of being, and what we shall be together as one, continues to motivate me and keeps me pure, because without you, my love, I am not complete…I’m completely happy with the “unknown” timeline, because my heart senses our time is near…near to me, and in my heart you shall forever be. So, please, hurry back and let’s hold each other forever, because I’m ready to be the person I’m destined to be, right here forever with you.
With all my heart, love, and spirit… know my words are spoken from clearer vision, and I long to be with YOU, my beloved!
Love,
Me
A LETTER TO MY FUTURE WIFE
To My Wife,
You’re beautiful. You’re stunning. You’re absolutely perfect in more ways than you know.
I know you’re out there; I know you’re living life just as I am mine. If not now, then someday you will read this letter and gain some insight into who I was before we married. My heart breaks knowing how I betrayed you with those other women. I regret every touch, every kiss, and every fake “I love you.” I was so consumed with lust that I had mistaken it for love, when you are the only woman I want to ever truly love. For everything, I want to apologize.My prayer, at this present time, is that each day God is preparing my heart for you. Marriage is for life, so may what we’ll have last forever.
I know you’re not perfect either. I know you’ve made your mistakes too, perhaps with sins very similar to mine. If your heart is broken, I pray God will repair it. If you’re burdened from sin, I pray He will take away the guilt. Someday I want to look you in the eyes, forgiven, forgiving, and sharing with you a love the past cannot hinder.I can’t wait to know you inside and out. I want to hear all your favorite stories, music, and movies. I can’t wait to meet your family and learn who you were before we met.
Love Your Future Husband
I found myself thinking about you today. Wondering where you are, what you’re thinking and doing. It hurts a little not to be with you, but I can live with that for now, knowing that we’ll spend the rest of our lives together. I’m writing this letter to help you understand what I’ve been thinking about and why. I probably don’t know all the right things to say, but my feelings and words are from the heart.
Actually I find myself thinking about you more and more. The very idea of you provides a much needed break from the pressures of dating, relationships and life. In the midst of it all – the thought of you calms and refreshes me – makes me smile, in spite of my situation and surroundings.
I know it sounds crazy, but I picture you – your smile, the way you pull your hair behind your ear, your wonderful laugh, even when my jokes aren’t funny. I can’t help but wonder what our children will look like.
I’ve gone out with other girls, but something always seems to be missing. I go out and have fun but the idea of you and our future together is always in my thoughts. It keeps me focused and on track, aware of who I am and what’s important.
And loving you, without ever having met you, makes me want to be deserving of your love. So I wait for you – in mind, body, and soul.
I don’t usually talk or write like this, but my mind and heart are racing with anticipation. Because I love you, because I know you’re out there. Because the very thought of you makes my pulse race, my palms sweat, my stomach flip like I’m on a roller coaster. And what better way to show that I’ve always loved you than to save myself for you – completely. And I hope that you’re doing the same.
I know waiting isn’t easy. We’re taught to expect instant gratification. We’re told we shouldn’t have to wait – for anything. Too often we act on feelings or impulses, sacrificing the future by buying into the lie that sex equals love, leaving little room for commitment or marriage. But that’s not love and that’s not why I’m thinking about and waiting for you.
I’m waiting for you because I love you unconditionally. And I need you to know that what matters to me is not where you’ve been or what you’ve done, but where you’re going. Maybe you didn’t know I existed. Or you thought that we’d found each other, only to realize later that what you discovered wasn’t true love. Real love is so different from infatuation or simple pleasure. It isn’t abusive or selfish or purely physical. Real love involves mutual respect, affection, trust, equality, and a shared spirituality..
Have you ever been in the middle of doing something when you stop to think, “This would be perfect if….?” Those words come to mind often – for example, on a Fall day, with leaves covering the ground and crisp, cool breezes blowing, and I think, “This would be perfect if…. She were here.” The thought that someday you will be here comforts me.
And… I want that same thought to comfort you. Whether you realize it or not, I’ve been there in your thoughts, that shiver or the goose bumps you get every once in a while – in the long daydream or a lingering glance. You don’t have to wonder anymore, because I’m real, I love you and I am waiting for you – in every way. And now that you know I’m here, I hope you’ll do the same. Whenever you feel scared, unsure, or pressured to give a part of yourself away, read this letter. Think about us and how perfect it will be when we are together.
You may have been waiting and looking for me all the while. You may be starting today. Either way, we’ll know when we’ve found each other; we’ll be together for the rest of our lives and the wait will have been worthwhile.
All My Love,
Your Future Husband
Hey Wife,
I hope that you are doing well today. I know that you are and that God is protecting you and your heart. I’m sorry if you’ve ever been hurt. I’m sorry if some guy told you that he loved you and then broke your heart soon after. I’m sorry, but you must know that I’ve done the same (without saying that I love you).
I want you to know that I pray and think about you everyday. I want you to know that I’ll do whatever it takes to fight for you and pursue you. I desire to have what it takes, even if people tell me that I can’t have you or that you’re way out of my league. When we’re together, you make my heart thump more than anything You love me regardless of my faults, and I love you equally. .
I know that guys get a bad wrap when it comes to cooking, but I want to let you know that, while I may not be the best, I’ll give it a shot. After all, I do make a killer French Toast recipe, or so I’m told. When I see you my heart wells up in side. Not only do I love your outward beauty, but I also love your inward beauty as well.
When we get married, we are going to think things are perfect. We’ll go on thinking everything is okay and then we’ll have kids. I’ll try my best to serve you with my all, but I know I’ll fail at times.
I realize that we’re going to have our fair share of arguments. My face will probably be red, and sometimes I might take a walk because I’m so mad. But I want you to know that I’m sorry. Would you forgive me?
Thank you for accepting me for who I am and not what I do. I don’t think I’ve met you yet, but maybe I have. When I find you, I’m going to pursue you. I miss you and hope to find you one day.
Until then, I’m going to talk to God about you.
Dear Future Wife,
First let me say how I much I deeply long for the day when I know who you are. While I am living in the moment and being content with what God is doing in me for the time being, there is a huge part of me that wonders what you look like, how I will meet you, what your family is like, what you want for your life, what your strengths are, what your struggles are, what you want our relationship to look like, what is going on in your life right now, I really wish there was a way to open up a time portal and glimpse into the future. But I guess that would ruin the surprise. I want you to know that I am praying that God is working in you each and every day, and that you would hear his still, small voice when your head lays against the pillow at night. It is also my prayer that God would be working in me, so that every day I would be learning something that God wants me to know, in order to be the husband, best friend, and partner that God wants me to be for you.
There are so many things that I cannot wait for. I cannot wait to have inside jokes, to laugh, to go on dates, to sing in the car together, to just be together, in both good times and bad. To quote one of my favorite artists, jenny & tyler (FYI you will be hearing a lot of them in the car), I want to be the person to help carry you when you are weak. I want to be there when you are broken-hearted. I want to be there to pick you up when you fall. I want to be there to share your burdens.
There are just so many things about our future relationship that I am so excited about. But it is probably the chance to stand on an altar and pledge our commitment to each other for the rest of our lives, and then living out that commitment every day, that excites me the most. So know tonight when your head hits that pillow,know that I love you
Love,
Hi, you. I’d like to have kids. You know, with you. I can almost see already how it will unfold. I think our first baby will be a boy. You’ll think that I’ll be thrilled with a son. And I will be. But I’ll also be a little secretly sad that it wasn’t a baby girl to take after you. I’ll hold him for the first time. “He’s gorgeous,” I’ll say. “He really is.” “He looks just like me! Kidding. He looks like both of us.” I’ll smile and kiss you. “Though he mostly looks like me.” We’ll get him home.
It’ll come time for the first changing. “Baby, I’m so tiiiiired,” you’ll whisper. “But it smells really bad.”Alex… you’re the one with all the diaper changing experience.”“Fiiiiiiine.” I’ll carry the little stink bomb into his room. I’ll open his diaper and…“Oh sweet mother! Wow. Just wow. I know you hear me on the monitor, woman. You better not be smiling.” You’ll pull the sheets up to cover your face and to stifle the giggles. “It’s just…” I’ll continue. “So. Bad. It’s like you’ve been feeding this kid Indian food and evil!” And then there’ll be the middle of the night feedings. “Baaaaaby, can you get this one?” “I don’t have any breasts.” “We switched to a bottle weeks ago.” “Well, sure. There’s that.” “I gave birth to your son.” “That one is not going to work forever, you know.” “Yes it is.”
“Curses!”
And when he gets a little older, he’ll waddle over, climb up on my knee and watch soccer with me. “Daddy, who’s playing?” “
“New York Toronto
“You’re mother is a bit of a harlot. I wanted to wait until you were older to tell you…”
“I like Toronto. I Toronto. I am going to cheer for the Toronto FC.” “I will straight up give you to the gypsies.” "Alex!!” you’ll yell, after entering the room without me noticing. “Kidding. I’m kidding!” I’ll shake my head side to side and mouth “I’m not” at the kid. Then I’ll mime “I’m watching you” to him. And when he’s fifteen he’ll want some cash to go to a movie with that cute little brunette girl from his English class who writes poems but won’t show them to anyone but him. You’ll balk because the girl’s mother “always skimped on snacks for the kids’ soccer games” five years earlier. And because, “She’s a judgmental bitch who dresses like she thinks she’s still twenty-two!” And he’ll be sad. And I’ll take him aside. I’ll explain that what seems like love at his age, often isn’t. And that he’ll meet thousands of women in his life, each with attributes that will make her special. And that you and I are doing our very best to help him grow up healthy and happy.
Then I’ll slip him a couple of twenties and say, “Don’t tell your mother.” It’s gonna happen. Make your peace with it now.Then he’ll graduate from high school. And I’ll be annoyed at sitting there for so long. And I’ll wonder, a little too loud, who wrote those terrible speeches. And then the little bastard, who you’ll claim ruined your body (he so hasn’t) and who I’ll resent because his soon to be half-assed university career is going to cost me the stash of money I had put aside for my personal robot that sings Rob Base and DJ EZ Rock’s “Joy and Pain” and makes the world’s best pancakes, will take the stage. And he’ll get his diploma…And we”ll know we did good. You’ll cry. I’ll hug you.
And I’ll hope, with every ounce of my being, that when he finds someone to spend his life with, he’ll be half as lucky as I’ve been.
Love,
Dear future wife,
I want you to know this. I want you to know this and never doubt it. I’m going to find you beautiful. Always.When you smell like recycled air and breakfast burrito.When you haven’t slept. Bags under your eyes. Work stress all over your face and mood.
I’m going to find you beautiful. When you have wrinkles.Grey hair. Less hair. More hair. When you have stretchmarks.
I’m going to find you beautiful. In sweats. In sketchy old t-shirts.In inexplicable neon skinny jeans. No make-up. Lots of make-up.
Eight hours old make-up.
I’m going to find you beautiful.
When your stomach feels too full. When your heart feels too empty. When the world feels too big. Too cold. Too dark. When you feel too little. Too scared. Not enough. God, not nearly enough. When it all feels like it is crumbling down on you. When you can’t for one damn minute understand why I’d ever even want to touch you, let alone hug you, kiss you and pounce on you.
I am going to find you so beautiful. And I’m going to tell you. In whispers. In writing. In actions. In late night kisses that last until early morning. I’m going to tell you. On days when you don’t feel it. Especially.
Dear Future Wife
Patience was never one of my virtues, positive attributes or even a want. I wanted what I wanted and I got what I wanted whenever I felt like I needed it. But I was wrong. No one before you was anywhere near what I was looking for, just women I had happened to find along the way to discovering you. It took more time than I was willing to give to understand that I wasn't ready for you when love had found my friends; and though I thought I was the best man out of all of them, I was the best man for all of them. Their wedding days made me wish I had known you sooner. Their corny nights at home made me want to trade my nights on the town for a storm to hold you through in bed. While my hopes sat on the shelf I pursued you until nothing was left but the hope-less romantic trying to see my life as half-full... That is...until I found you. My imaginings of you were nothing like the teenage fantasies I had conjured up. Had you marked in some shade of awesome with curves like the meanest chicanes and eyes the color of spring in full bloom under a new moon. Wanted to tell you the secret lightning bugs had shed light upon while I waited through the night for you to appear. My want for a woman, a companion, was superseded by the belief that perfection could only be personified when my eyes were ready to see the big picture. You- are the one that I've been waiting for. With soft kisses to your chin and my hand in your hair, my love has been waiting for you to change the tune from these celibacy blues to something upbeat, brilliant, and new. I said I would never settle just to settle down and by the way your hand fits in mine and you smile when I do, I know that what I wanted before meeting you wasn't anything close to rational. Who would have ever believed that waiting was worth it? Those that have found what we have already know. My forever is caught in your eyes and grows in your womb. I know this is love, because I can hear you thinking about me. I can feel your heartbeat when I hold your hand, and every love song I hear makes me want to love you even more than I thought I previously could. Where have you been all my life? That's right.... I wasn't ready for you. Yet my nights will never be lonely and my days will always be bright because when I find you, for real, I know you'll glow when we touch and time will stop when we kiss. Not-so-patiently waiting? No. More like perfecting my life for your immaculate timing.
Love you for who you are-, and who you will be to me.
Dear Future Wife,
This isn’t the first letter I’ve written to you. This may be the first one I’m sharing with you (and others), but I want you to know I’ve been thinking of you for some time now. Years ago I tried to imagine what you’d look like, the things we’d do, the places we’d go. I wrote to you in my head; I wrote to you on paper. I wanted you to know me- the single me, the me before you, the me before we became an “us”. I thought that was important. In some ways, I suppose it is. In other ways, I think the people we are before we become an “us” is irrelevant. By irrelevant, I do not mean unimportant, because the people we were and the choices that we made, both good and bad, are what brought us to each other. I understand now that the important factor is the person I am now, the person I will be in the future.
Writing this letter now that I know who you are (or at least I hope it’s you) feels slightly awkward. I tried to write a letter to my future wife pretending I had no clue who she was, but the letter was generic and impersonal. I tried to write the letter to you pretending we were already married, but seeing as I’m writing to my future wife, it ended up making little to no sense. So I’m here, writing to you, Ms. O, with the assumption that one day you will be my wife.
That word- wife -makes my heart swell.
You are the realist. I am the positivity-ist. But I’m going to jump in your shoes for a second. As much as my rose-colored glasses would want to believe, I know that marriage won’t always be easy. I know we will have our ups and downs and our perfect moments and our trying moments. I know that throughout our life together we will be faced with situations we might not have faced before. I know there will be situations where we might not like decisions or actions the other person chooses. I can accept this. I figure instead of being anxious about it, I might as well embrace it.
And while I can acknowledge these things, I want you to know the most important thing I know for sure. I know that no matter what happens in our life, I will always aim to be the kindest husband, best friend, most caring partner possible. I can’t promise you that I will always be kind. I can’t promise you that I will always be patient. I can’t promise you that I’ll never sulk. I can’t promise you that I’ll never say things I don’t truly mean.
I can promise you that I will try with every ounce of my being to be the best partner I can be for you. I can promise you that I will always try to put my love for you before any other emotion. I can promise you to always put our family first.
We might not be married yet; we might not even be engaged to be married yet, but I want you to know that no matter what our future has in store for us, I will show up every day ready to take on our life together.
I love you with all of my heart,
Your future husband
If you are reading this letter, it is because you may become my wife one day. Lately, my mind and my heart have been filled with thoughts of you and the family that we will one day share. I wonder where you are and what you are doing. Are you dating someone? Relationships have become so pressure-filled, haven’t they? At some point in our future, our paths will cross, and we will eventually spend our lives together in marriage.
You were made to be loved ...and sincerely I have loved you, the thought of you, my life long
—Elizabeth Barrett Browning
That quote I above —I mean it. Think about it. You were made to be loved—unconditionally loved, and that’s how I promise to love
you. Where you have been before today, well...that’s all in the past, and that’s where it should stay. Maybe you had no idea that I was here. But now you know, and how you live your life from today forward matters to me a great deal. I. I’m all for living in the
present, but thinking about the future can help you avoid decisions that may alter your future—our future. I want you to experience life, travel, figure out who you are, go to the moon if you want. Take advantage of this time in your life to learn everything that you can. That will only make our mariage stronger.I need a woman who won’t compromise her family but will put me first—even before
she meets me; a woman whose strength lies in her virtue, her character, and her ability to be an example at work, at play, and most importantly in our home. A real woman knows how to love completely—with her mind, heart, body, and soul. This may sound like a lot to ask of you, but it will all be worth it. I will love you completely— I can promise you that!
You need to know that I’m waiting for you. If there is one thing that I have learned through my dating experiences, it’s that you are worth waiting for. My heart, mind, soul, and body were made for you. We will complete each other in the most profoundly beautiful way imaginable.
Real love is not a temporary feeling or emotion. Emotions and feelings change, sometimes daily. But true, unconditional love is constant. I met a couple the other day who have been married for 50 years, have seven children, 23 grandchildren,and seven great grandchildren. They looked like high school sweethearts. I asked them how they did it, how they made it work when so many marriages are falling apart. You know what he said? He said, “She knows I’m not perfect and she still loves me. She’s my best friend.” How cool is that? That’s what I want. I want us to be best friends. I want you to feel totally free to be you when you’re with me.
Please read this often. Think of me often. I’m thinking of you. I can’t wait to meet you. I can’twait to spend my life loving you. Thanks for waiting for me. I promise it will be worth the wait!
Hi Hun!
Haha, I don't even know your name, where you come from or what you look like. I probably haven't met you yet, although I secretly wish that I already have. And although this whole thing can be a bit weird, I do want to tell you that I know why my future self chose you....
He chose you because every time you looked into his eyes, and said that you loved him it ached. It ached due to the fact that it was so beautiful, because there is nothing more sublime than pain brought upon by beauty. The same pain he gets when sitting down to have breakfast, and she looks at him lovingly in all her morning glory. It aches. When she sings a song for him and puts it on a his MP3 player It aches. When they're in a party, and she's talking to people, and he's talking to people, and from across the room she looks at him, and the once bustling room comes to a standstill. It aches. When she's sleeping peacefully, and he's looking at her sleep peacefully. It aches.
And please remember, when he says you're beautiful and he's looking straight into your eyes, it aches. That's how beautiful you are to him.
He married you because when he kisses you he feels a current flowing through him. When he makes love to you he intertwines his fingers with yours, and he looks deep into your eyes, and gets lost in them.
You are his wife because you saw in him what so many other women took for granted. What others thought they wanted, but not what they in fact needed. You saw in him what he lost in a sea of self doubt and teen angst. Teen angst that never quite fades. You've rescued him from those depths, and now he sails towards something entirely different. You're his compass now, you're his north, you're what he aims for in life.
He loves you and he wants your babies, He wants to worship you, and he wants the both of you to put moments, self fulfillment and family above material posessions and climbing the corporate ladder.
He'll always be jealous, but he'll never admit it because he knows that letting someone loose and letting them come back on their own is the greatest expression of selfless love.
But apart from all that, apart from all the small details that compose a relationship, and create the fabric of our lives, you were his reason to live. When he finally dies you will know that his life only made sense to him when he met you, and after that it was only worth living with you by his side. And for the spirituall that he is, you are the closest thing to a sign that god exists, and the hopes of spending an eternity with the person he loves.
Forever yours,
Dear Wife of My Future,
Although I have yet to lay eyes on you, I have faith that you are worth the wait. Contrary to what I used to believe, you will not complete me, but you will compliment the whole person that I already I am. With that said, I have been and will continue to take advantage of my time of singleness because I realize that singleness is not the plague, but a time for me to work on myself and evolve into the man that I was destined to be. This is why I will not waste this great season of my life sulking and complaining about not having a woman. I was taught that patience is a virtue and great things come to those who wait. So instead of doing all that, I am using this time to attain medical degrees, pursue the career of my dreams, travel the world, learn more about myself as a person and even learn what it means to be a wife as opposed to a girlfriend.
Although I am in no way perfect, I realize that sex is not merely for pleasure but it is a responsibility and a bond that should be shared between a husband and wife.. Sexual intercourse can spiritually and emotionally tie you to a person and I wish to walk with as little baggage as humanly possible in your direction. No disrespect to anyone else and their choices.
With baggage in mind I have also made the conscious decision to refrain from recreational dating I wish to enter our covenant of marriage emotionally and mentally pure as well. I will not date girls after girls just because, acquiring broken heart after broken heart just to appease my boredom or to satisfy my temporary loneliness. I don’t wish to come to you with a shattered heart covered in scars and bruises seeking for you to put the pieces back together. I refuse to enter our relationship not trusting you because of something some other woman did or did not do in the past that I could’ve completely avoided had I just waited for you. I will not jump at the first woman who smiles at me. Engaging in frivolous relationships to merely cure singleness as if it some devastating disease is pointless and not worth the trouble that it brings. We may not cross paths for another five years, five months or five weeks, but once again, I have been convinced that patience is a virtue and I am willing to wait.
See you soon,
Dearly Beloved,
First off, let me just apologize because I haven't yet found you. Even though I don't know you, most of my life rotates around you.
I was created and raised to be everything you want from your man. With every step, I get closer to you because I'm lead by God's hand. But the best part of my story is still yet to be told. It won't start until you're mine to have and to hold; In sickness and in health; through laughter and through tears; In poorness and in wealth; and through the rest of our years. With every aspect of my brain; and the deepest depths of my heart. My answer will always remain: "I DO" until death does us part. Our deep dedication and devotion will see us through any weather. Our romance and passion will be the source of our endless pleasure. But our emmense intimacy and closeness that'd be our true treasure. Our unconditional love will be the glue that holds it all together. It hasn't been easy living without you being here on my own. My heart always cries waking up and going to bed all alone. But you're worth searching through all the heart break and sorrow. Because baby if I was to find you today, I'd marry you tomorrow. You're the most important part of my life, so finding you is my goal. I pray that as im writing this my words can find a way into your soul.
Forever Yours;
I’m writing this letter to my future wife… The woman I am searching for. The woman that I am striving to become a better man for. The reason why I work everyday. The reason why I exercise everyday. The reason why I pray more. The reason why my character grows. The reason why I watch romantic comedies. The reason why I wake up and I’m optimistic about everday. I know one day we will cross paths, see each other and recognize that only faith and chance caused our union. Our hearts will merge…. Our minds will meet on one track… Two becomes one. I will make you my responsibility. You will be my soulmate, I will be your protector. Your biggest supporter, your number 1 fan, your guide. Everyday I practice doing all these things so that when you come into my life, I am the best man that I can be for you. So when you read this letter, imagine that God himself took time out to craft to individuals to match with each other… And only time is keeping us apart. But one day our time will come, and the promise of our matrimony that God has for us will be fulfilled. That day, love will flow forever like a winding river, and nothing will never, ever make it cease.
Dear Future Wife,
By the time you're reading this, I'm holding your hand with all our invited guests around. This is part of my grand plan - to show our families, friends and relatives during our wedding's reception how I value you as my better half.
You are God's gift to me. I really prayed and prayed and prayed that you'll come into my life. I have always believed that Princess exists that's why I have always believed in you. I have never allowed anyone to take away a part of me simply because I wanna be whole for you, Babe.
Saying 'yes' to you was apparently easy for I have found a very good woman in you. I wanna let everyone know how grateful I am for having the opportunity to call you MINE. Babe, thank you for giving me the best in life. Thank you for teaching me how to love this great. Thank you because you took away all my fears and pains in love. Thank you for making me believe in love once more. Thank you for being the best woman in the world.
I honestly don't want to make promises since I don't wanna be unfair with the word's sincerity. However, you're just too exceptional that I'm promising in front of everyone here that I'll be the best husband that you truly deserve. I'll never fail to wake you up with a morning kiss. I will support every endeavor that you're gonna take be it a seminar, business or a pursuit for higher studies. At the end of the day, I will welcome you home with the warmth of my hug.
I have always known deep within me that it's gonna be you. I have met a lot but still found myself looking for your love. We've been through a lot. Some even doubted for our relationship to work. But look at us now, so happily in love.
Love,
To be without you is the worst thing in my life. I'am sitting here alone with my laptop cries.No one else seem to understands me,but only you. What a great gift you bring to my life...the gift of loving you and being love by you.I used to be empty inside,now my emptiness is filled by your love.They may believe it or not,but you and I will caring the touch of love till the end.I can't believe that I'm so addicted to your love.
Like Jacques Audiberti said "'homme et la femmene se rencontent qu'une fois" ;.But I didn't expect to find someone as beautiful and sweet as you.GOD did promess to help me find true loveI didn't know it will be you darling.I knew we both had broken hearts,but sweetheart with all the pieces that left on both hearts we will rebuild one true heart together as one.
Do not be afraid this time to let go.Cause I will hold you,so you won't fall again.There for,there's no greater love than our love.
You love is a blessing,a blessing from above.And I will make sure it last forever and ever. Mon amour to tell you the truth,I never know love could be so beautiful.Never knew a woman could make my heart bloom and blossom.With every though of you that crawls into my mind,never did I know I could fall inlove that deep.
Day and night,I carry a love and a passion for you.This passion leads my heart to a dead end.Where only your shadow appears in my mind.What a Passion,a passion that rips my heart apart and Draws me close to you.And you without announcing Yourself you jump into my mind and find your way down to my heart so you erase all the darkness that covers my heart.Mon amour I feel the burning sensation and the desire to be with you.And no matter what life might bring upon us our love will grow.Because love Conquers all,I love you
My future wife................................
Hello.
First of all, you are breathtakingly beautiful. Your eyes have held my soul more than once, and I can’t really explain how excited I get every time you smile. But I’ve told you before how attractive you are, I just hope you’ve heard less about how wonderful your body is and more about how awestruck I am that the Creator wove together you, this woman of a beauty that begins first in her soul and then it radiates outs, saturating her flesh and then pushing farther still, broad and full, so that someone would have to be a fool to not want to be around you all the time.
And you let me be. I don’t get it. I don’t think I ever will.
I love that you have dreams. I love that before we got married you wanted to be things and you still want to be them. You laughed when I joked that you should go get a degree in homemaking, because we both knew that your passion was so abundant, your talent so vast, that to try and contain you in something so stringent would only result in you leading a peaceful revolution and exodus out of that place. But you, being more gracious than I am,You want real things, realer things, and you want me with you when you find them. So you’ll teach or dance or adventure, keeping one ear to the earth to hear the passing footsteps of God and one ear to my heart to hear the pushes He may be placing on me. Somehow you help make it all make sense. I don’t tell you enough how much I am in love with the vastness of your faith. I always seem to forget to say that out loud. But I watch you, the way you pray when you think you’re alone, when I stop in a doorway just long enough to see you undisturbed, in love with God in ways you could never be with me. I’m thankful. I’m awed every time.
I love your art, even though you always seem to be a bit unsure of it. It’s funny, because you say the same things to me all the time about mine, but somehow neither of us ever seem to really listen. Except when we focus, when we demand the attention, then we know. Your laughter is like the voice of God singing creation into being. You point me back to Center more often than I can remember, sometimes with a laugh, sometimes quietly, there were a few times you yelled. But you had a right to. I wasn’t at my best and it snapped me back, even if it took me awhile to admit it. Each time, your eyes say more than your words ever do, which is saying a lot, because I keep everything you have ever said as close to me as I can, wrapping words like cloth around me, defense against the cold when the art simply doesn’t flow or when the world beyond us, beyond this home we keep constructing from old things and new things and poetry, is that dread world we have laid awake more than once discussing, sometimes through tears. Each time, each beat of your heart, it’s like a whisper of the Divine.
I love that you expect us to have dinner parties. We have a rhythm in the kitchen, which is strange since I rarely can cook with someone else. You’re kind enough to flatter me when I experiment, but good enough to be honest when something just isn’t right. In tandem we move, sometimes both a little too concerned with the presentation and timeliness for our own good, but we have both confessed a handful of times to being friends with people who don’t care about those things and they we invite over the most, because they teach us (well, me) to be more gracious and they teach us (well, you) to let go a bit. When they’re all gone and we put on music and wash dishes, even if it is two in the morning by that point, I wouldn’t trade that moment for anything. Just a few more minutes.
I love that our home is a treasure trove of an adventured life, even now. Books, icons, paintings. You laughed the first time I said I wanted twelve kids. What you didn’t suspect was that by starting you high, it was easier to negotiate down to a large but reasonable number. Truth be told, I don’t really care how many we have God will give us what He will give. I want to have kids with you, because I want sons and daughters to be raised by and learn from a woman like you. I want more of you in the world. It would help a lot of things.
I promise to never talk to you during a movie in a theater, because you know I can’t stand when people do that. I promise to hold the door for you. I promise to tell our children how wonderful you are, especially when you’re not around. I promise to surprise you on a regular basis, though this can be good or bad. I promise to be quiet when you need me to be, especially when you tell me that what you need for me to do is listen. I promise to take you on adventures, to dance with you when you want to dance, and to love you. All of you. I promise to know that love doesn’t mean happiness, that it doesn’t mean easy, and that it doesn’t mean romantic. Not all the time. I promise to know that love means this thing that we seem to make work because both of us try to love Him first, imperfect as that is, so we can imperfectly turn to love each other.
You’re a good woman.
And lastly, I want you to know that you are prayed for.
The truth is, I have no idea who you are. It’s possible you’re reading this right now. It’s possible that you’re in China
I pray that your heart is protected. I pray that you are well, happy, laughing often. I pray that you’re looked after, that you haven’t suffered much heartbreak, but that if you have you’ve found serious comfort. I pray for your friends, your family. I pray for the whole of your person, you fiercely beautiful, awesomely made woman.
Because I don’t know when I will meet you, if I already have, but I know that I’ve waited for you and you’ve waited for me, and without a lot of romantic over-sentimitality forced upon that, I trust that one day, crossing a street against the light in the rain or through a Twitter DM or from a postcard or a carrier pigeon, we’re going to find each other and, at some point, we’ll know.
Until then–and I’m ok with this taking awhile–thanks for the potential memories.
I’m going to be crazy mad in love with you,
Words cannot express the excitement I have when I begin to imagine how God will unfold our lives and how He will bring us together by making our paths cross! I cannot help but wonder what you will be like. What is your family like? What is your age in comparison to mine? What are your likes and dislikes? What are your strengths and weaknesses? What is your favorite color? Are you daddy’s little girl or partial to your mother? How many children do you see yourself parenting with me? What is your career?
These are only a few questions I have when it comes to being your little Curious George. I continually find myself asking God to protect you, bless you, and fill your life with happiness that no one will be able to take away. I know you will be someone who loves and enjoys the small things in life and can have a good time without the trash some people need to “enjoy” this world.
I cannot wait to meet your parents and the rest of your family and let them know that I truly, genuinely care for you and will do whatever it takes to protect you! God DOES and has been preparing us for each other since we first entered into this world. Every heart break and bad relationship will seem to be something small and insignificant once we are finally together and can be each other’s backbone. And we can hold each other’s hand and grit our teeth and fight through whatever God brings into our life. I am ready to encourage you and be your solid rock that I’m sure you have dreamed about since you were a little girl.
Everything will finally seem right when you look down the aisle in your white dress and see me waiting for you in my tuxedo. I probably won’t be able to hold my emotions in as I get ready to fuse our hearts together to become one and embark upon living a life of God, love, devotion to each other, honesty, patience. We will finally be able to live out 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 “Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”
I want you to know I am praying for you on a daily basis!! You are and will forever be my sweetheart. I love you more than you can possibly know at this moment and I cannot wait to see God’s BIG plans for us. But until that day, I’ll be missing you!! I love you the future
Dear Miss Right,
I could ask you the same question. None of us were created to be alone, we thrive off of love and relationship, so I think it’d be mutually beneficial for us to find each other quickly. The truth is, and this is where most guys won’t admit it, I need you as much as you need me. I’ve tried to be one of those super macho guys, but in all honesty, in my heart, nothing could be more satisfying than to be your sensitive and loving provider, your husband. My plans and ideas are everywhere. I ask God daily for direction and confirmation. God’s the only one with the big picture, because I’m as lost as you are. I know that there are wonderful things out there for us to discover together, God will reveal them to each of us in time. There IS a reason we’re still not together. Logically it’s because we haven’t met… or if we have, we haven’t gotten to know each other. You’re not the only one without a line of ducks, I think some of mine might actually be geese, in which case, I have to be rid of them and find the ducks to fill their spots.
I agree with you wholeheartedly about the right woman and the wrong time being the wrong woman. The same can be said for guys. And truthfully, God’s been dealing with me on issues that would only bring our relationship down. I struggle with the idea of being forgiven without cause, and I need to learn to be more accepting of grace. Until I am, please don’t give up on me. Truthfully, the reason we’re not together is that I’ve asked God to hold off on our introduction until I’m ready to be the man you deserve. I have some of the same fears. Trust me, nothing’s scarier for a guy than to think that he’ll be the emotional head over heels in love one, while you look on in disdain. I want to get lightheaded when you walk into a room, and I want you to melt at my smile. Don’t be afraid, you can never ask too much of God. Nothing is beyond His capacity. The very reason you feel like I should be these things for you, is because God has created a desire in you specifically for me and only me, who will be these things, and you won’t be happy with any other guy.
And believe me, I’m far from perfect. I AM looking for you, and I’m waiting for God to deem the time right for us to meet. The fact that I know you’re out there doing the same, only strengthens me further. I hate to disappoint you, but I’m very much into movies and TV… Luckily, to have an interest in something does not necessarily mean to believe it. Love is not a feeling or emotion that coincides with “Happily Ever After”, it’s a choice. And I’ve decided to love you unconditionally into eternity.
Admittedly, a good appearance is nice, but appearances can be deceiving. Don’t worry about it; be yourself. My eyes were made with you in mind, so I’d say you have an advantage over other women. And besides, if you make yourself look too good, you’ll run the risk of attracting more than just me… I don’t want to have to fend the hounds off my woman! Your imperfections are what make you you, and I can put you just as easily on my screensaver or wall, as any of those other women. And the best part is, then I’ll have the real thing right by my side to keep me warm. Good luck with the cover snatching, you’ll need it. (lol) While there are a lot of pretty women out there, there’s only one for me. I would never settle for someone I could live with, and you shouldn’t either. Where’s the fun in that? I’m the one you could never imagine life without.
I’m the guy you might notice at first, but only in that, vague sort of way, but if you got to know me, you’d find a soul that yearns after love, If I only saw beauty from the world’s perspective, I’d be a rather lonely individual, wouldn’t I? There is none more beautiful than a beautiful soul. I can’t wait to be captivated by yours. I’d take on all the pain the world could throw at you, and you’d be the heaven that helped me bare it. I’ll be the first to admit, I struggle with taking a passive role. It’s hard to be a leader with no one to lead. I guess my biggest fear is accidentally getting in too deep with someone that’s not you. I have been hurt and rejected, and mostly because I’ve pursued… In fact, most of the stupid things I’ve done have come from “the hunt.” Maybe I should learn to do less shooting and more tracking. I can’t just fire into the crowds and hope for a hit. God has directed me on how to set my sights to find you. And you’ll be my trophy wife. (lol, couldn’t help myself with that one.) I’ll have you know, if you think I’d get married for the sake of getting married, maybe it’s you that’s looking in the wrong places. Marriage is a commitment for life, and that’s a commitment I’d be miserable to make to anyone but you. That and I want my rib back. I’ll tell you what, my rib for the covers, sound like a deal? There is no one I’d rather build my life with.
We’ll have our pitfalls, but we’ll also have our mountain tops, and there’s no one I’d rather share my adventure with because I know that there’s no way I can grow to be the man God wants me to be without you by my side.
I’m getting kinda tired myself. I was actually oblivious to the clock altogether as I was watching Monty Python’s Flying Circus (but that’s another story). Believe me, I’d rather have been in your arms. I wasn’t truly alone, but I was as good as. I’m one of the ones that feels lonely in a crowd, because I just don’t fit in. I’m not of this world, and that’s how you’ll be able to pick me out. I can’t wait till I can hold you as we usher in our first New Year together. It’ll be my happiest moment… until the next time you smile.
Good night to you, my love! God’s time is His own, but I pray daily that He take into consideration our time not spent together is time lost. I’ll search for you until I die, but I trust God to make sure it doesn’t take that long. Don’t settle for Mister Sorta Charming, because trust me, when you meet me, he’s going to look like the frog. I know not what form you’ll take, but I know you’ll be the woman God’s formed for and from me. I know you will have honesty, faith, tenderness, and a pure heart: each a beauty in and of its own. Even one of these is worth waiting an eternity for. I’ve loved you as long as you have me, and for the same reason. Don’t give up waiting for me, I’m searching for you. When we do finally meet, you can be sure God will have orchestrated it to bring out the both in best of us and to glorify Him in the greatest means possible. God’s been moving in both of our lives, and He’s been moving us together. It’s only a matter of time before that finally happens.
Forever Yours,
Dearest,
By the time you read this, you and I would have met, learned to love each other, and promised to belong together for the rest of our lives. I would have memorized everything about you — your face, your voice, your touch. And you would know me more intimately than anyone ever has or will.
But right now, I am alone. I know you only in my imagination…and my dreams. But, darling, in a way that I can’t explain, I love you now. It’s as if I know you in my heart, and because we are separated by time, I miss you. So I am writing this to you as a way of reaching into the future — to tell you that I am saving my heart until you finally come to claim it. I am waiting for you, beloved. And I pray that wherever you are right now, you are waiting for me as well.
As the days go by, I long for you in a way that I have never experienced before. It is a strange feeling, to miss someone whom I do not even know. I can see the hand of God in giving us this season of waiting. Because you are always in my thoughts, simple activities become special when I think of them as preparation for the future. There is so much more to learn before I am ready. Be patient with me, beloved, for my life is a work in progress. I know that yours is, too. Therefore, allow me to say this now: If there is anything, anything at all in your past that might hurt me, know that you will have my forgiveness. You do not have to earn it; it is yours. I am no stranger to second chances, and I do not want our future to hold any bitterness or recriminations. Let us live in the freedom that the greatest Love of all has restored to us.
Someday, you and I will talk about everything that made us who we are. There may be laughter, tears, thankfulness, and yes, regrets. But always, God’s goodness will be present. It is, after all, because of His love that we will find each other. And when we do, this season of waiting will give way to a season of discovery, when I can finally listen to your stories and tell you all of mine. So until that day, beloved, I am saving myself for you. I have surrendered the keys of my heart to God, and he will open the door for you to enter in the perfect time.
I love you, my darling. I am waiting.
My love,
The nights when we kiss are the sweetest nights of all. Sometimes it’s tender, achingly slow and saturated with meaning, all our deepest longings and promises being spoken without a word. Or it can be playful, softly teasing and utterly ecstatic, sweetened with joy and delighted laughter. There are also times when it’s passionate, intense, driven by heat and unleashed desire. But always, whenever and however you kiss me, I realize why it couldn’t possibly work with anyone else. Only you can make this happen: the whole world fades away, time slows down, and you become the single most important part of my universe. In that moment, the heartbreaks of the past are forgotten and the doubts of the future vanish — nothing else matters but your touch and the beat of your heart against mine. I know then that I am meant to kiss you and only you for the rest of my life.
You really are the woman of my dreams. You know, literally. And someday, I hope I’ll wake up from dreaming into the breathtaking reality of your arms.
Waiting for you,
To the one searching for me,
Are you good at storming walls? I am surrounded by them, and they are tall and resilient. They are not to be breached by passive women, women whose hearts are uncertain, those who always take the easier way. Only a woman familiar with risk and unafraid of failure stands a chance. Are you such a woman?
There have been those who tried, even some who got in. But they proved to be thieves, and took too much that I could not afford to lose. Because of them, the defenses are stronger now, and more subtle. There is too much at stake, too much that is fragile, to make any more mistakes. And yet…and yet, I still long to be found.
These walls are built with more than just stone or cement. You cannot see them, for I am good at pretending I am free, that there are no obstacles between us. It is one of my best defenses, and if you believe it, then you will never get in. And oh, how I ache for you to get in. I need you more than I dare let you know.
I need you to show me that I am worth fighting for. That even behind these walls, I am seen, and desired, and chosen. Chosen despite the dichotomy that pervades me and makes me both eager and afraid to let you in.
And you need me, too. I have all this tenderness waiting inside me, waiting to be lavished on someone who’ll know what it’s worth, who’ll know what chains had to be broken to open even one door. I may have hurt you in trying to keep you out, but set me free, and I can heal you as well. You can rest in my arms, and I will give you everything that I have been saving for this moment, when I can put my guard down and simply trust. I will love you as I have longed to love you since you looked at me and saw the hope behind the fear.
My only question is this: Are you good at storming walls?
Waiting,
Dear Future Wife,
We haven’t met yet. I’m not sure why, but we haven’t. Or if we have, I missed it, so we’ll need to do it again. And I don’t know where you are or why you’re not here exactly, but we need to talk. Because… I need you in my life. I don’t know if you can miss someone you’ve never met, but I know that you’re missing from my life. And that sucks. And it’s your fault. I know I’ve probably not put myself out there enough and I’m really shy when I meet women, which makes it hard to get anywhere in a relationship. But I’m still blaming you (get used to it; it’s going to happen a lot…).
The basic fact is this: I’m ready to be married. Sure, there are things I’ll need to learn along the way (things that I can probably only learn by doing, anyway), but I really think I’m ready. Which means it must be you who’s not ready. I’ve always prayed for the God to send me a woman, not a girl. .
I’m a great guy. I have my flaws (And if I get started listing them, I could talk for quite a while. But that’s not sexy or interesting, so I won’t go there. You’re supposed to love me regardless, remember?). But what guy isn’t flawed? I bet you’ve got quirks, too. And I’ll either love you for them or get used to them. So instead of focusing on flaws (like how late you are), I’m going to tell you how amazing I am and why it would be good for you to marry me. Because I’m self-less and giving like that. Or something.
Anyway, just some of the reasons you want to marry me:
I give great foot massages. And even though I can talk a lot (especially when I’m nervous or really excited about something), I’m totally cool with comfortable silence. Which means that I can be a pretty relaxing person to be with. I have pretty simple desires for my day, like staying home with a good book or cuddling on the couch with a movie. I won’t demand that we go out and do stuff with other people (but we can if you want), so if you have a stressful day at the office, you can just come home to me and I’ll take good care of you. This may include feeding you even when you’re not hungry, but, all in all, I think this is a good deal for you.
My family rocks! We may get loud and chaotic sometimes, but we’re not dysfunctional or chock-full of drama, so we’re a fun bunch to hang out with. Which means that if your family lives far away, is small, or is actually dysfunctional, you’ll have a second family right away. You’ll have to learn to like the loudness and the chaos or become loud and chaotic with us, but really the blessing outweighs the responsibility.
I can write with my toes. So if we’re ever caught in a hostage situation in which our hands are tied and writing a note will save us, I’ve totally got us covered. In my opinion, this is a skill that more men should be looking for in a wife. But most don’t. Which means you’ve found something rare and you should hold on to it.
All I demand in exchange for these amazing benefits (and the many more I didn’t list), is that you show up soon and love me forever. Really, that’s not too much to ask, is it? No, I didn’t think so.r. I’ll be here, waiting,. Your move.
Love,
Dear you,
If only I know your whereabout now.
I do not know where you are, let alone who you are at all evidence. You could be someone whom I have met and known, or probably the total reverse, and even worst, there could be chances that you never really exist even until my mortal life is over one day.
But it is always in my favorite manner to let you know, God bless whoever you are, about what I have here inside the very cavity of my chest; the feelings that have grown so mature now that it beats rhythmically with my own heart, for you to listen to me, and here goes all the things that I have always wanted you to know, every little thing that I have always wanted to say.
You,
If only I could have expressed the amount of warm love I have collected over the years for you right now; of how much I would take you at my full capacity, how much I would put my effort into play just to keep the relationship going at full speed forward and never at all slipped to a complete halt, and how much I am willing to sacrifice my everything just to carve that flawless smile on your very lips to brighten my weatherbeaten days.
Never again my nights will be so bloody empty and never again the otherwise sunny days appear to be so gloomy.
I shall love you to the very end. I shall decorate your empty walls with pretty colors and beautiful words that I could ever come out with. I shall love you before, during and after I shake that old man's hand while everyone is watching and announce that very special sentence for everyone to hear, that will tie the loose knot in between us both, with you sitting over there next to your mother in the best wedding dress ever, smiling at me in tears.
I shall love you in makeup, I shall love you looking your very worst.
I shall hug you each and every night while we sleep just for you to know that I am there to protect you from even the slightest blow of the coldest of wind, even when you are dead mad at me over little things you could possibly be mad with. I shall sleep after you and wake up right before you do, just to have a glance at how peaceful you look when you are deep in your dreams.
I shall take care of you from every little pinch that you get along the way. I will stay up during stormy nights just to keep you company and blanket you from the hitting coldness, so that you could comfortably rest in the warmth of my guard. I shall rub your head gently every time you fall with fever, and stay by your bed all day long ready with cold orange juice and hot chicken soup in case you need any.
I shall write and read you poetry of the prettiest kinds.
I shall be there with you while we are having our very first baby, holding your hand tightly and rubbing off sweat from your forehead as you struggle to deliver. And I shall bring our baby to you myself and kiss you on your forehead with the brightest from every smile a new father could have possibly came out with, thanking you for all you have done that all nine months.
I shall build us a home on a hill facing the sea with a big lawn where we will sit every evening looking at sunset while you rest your head on my shoulder and I caress your hair gently without a word spoken in between us both. And this home will always be there for us even when we are old and the kids have grown up having their own families, doing the same damn thing we use to do every evening without getting at all bored at it.
I shall always listen to your problems and comfort you out even when you do not ask for one. I shall lend you my shoulder for you to hang on to and my chest for you to wet with your tears. I will endlessly offer you tissues and paper towels and even my own shirt until you let everything all out without me urging you to stop at all, because I know you need to cry just to feel right about things again. All I will do is to hug you and hush you with a whisper or two until you fall asleep on me.
I will do everything, everything at all just to keep that smile on your face.
* * *
But then again, I hope you would accept me the way I am.
I am just another ordinary man you could easily find standing purposely at a corner of a busy street. I have a great job, a great house, a great car...a great family and good health. I shall work hard within my best capacity every and each day; going out early in the morning and come home later in the evening to keep the food on the table for you and the kids, even when I have to stay hungry the whole day.
I, too, am a man of many flaws. I could probably at times forget how to love; I might at times fail to become anymore perfect like you have always wished for; I could at times lose my temper over little things, hurt you unintentionally with my words, and every other thing that you find disappointing about me. And should that happens, I would want you to know that I am totally sorry, for I am only human and I could have not have an entire control over myself at all time, for the reasons that we all lose ourselves every now and then just to show how human we all are.
I hope you will read this, whoever you are.
And I just hope that this will not end as just another meaningless hope.
* * *
I am halfway from you now.
Please don't be late.
But then again if you will be, I'd still patiently wait.
As I sit here and think about where my life is headed, I realize that as much as I try to avoid it, you will one day cross my path. I have tried to stay away from you, I have tried to not think about you and to just focus on me, but I realize that one day you will step into my life and change everything and so I accept that and I want you to know a few things.
I promise to take care of you. I promise that for the rest of our lives and beyond, you will be the most important person in my life. Not my parents, our children, my boss, or anyone will take more importance in my life than you. You will always be the most important person and thing that happens to me and I will make that obvious every day. I will take care of you financially, I am hard working and I am doing well for my self so far. I am ambitious and if I have to, I will work two jobs and support the family. You will never know a day with me where I am not busting tail to provide for you.
I will always protect you. I promise you that in these arms, you will always feel safe and secure. No one will be able to bring harm to you because I will always do anything to keep you from that. In my arms you will find strength to fight for you, but you will also find comfort and warmth for those times you just need to be held.
I promise to spoil you. You will always be my queen and I will always treat you as such. I have learned so much babe, so many experiences that have helped me be better for you and I know that it will always be important to me that you feel spoiled in every way possible.
I will always listen to you. Those nights where you just want to talk about your day at work, or how the kids behaved, I will listen to you always and you will forever have a chatting companion when you are with me. I promise that I will not be annoyed when you just want to cuddle and talk. I promise that I will not make fun of your silly stories about shopping and the problems between you and your girlfriends, I will always take everything you say important and you won’t ever have to fight for my attention.
I am not perfect. I have a past and there are things in my life I am not proud of. But the Lord has forgiven me and if you can find it in your heart to forgive me as well, I promise you that all those things I have lived will be so I can be a better husband and father. They will serve me as experience to know how to handle situations in our family. I promise you that I have become a better man because of it. I know we will fight, I know we will argue, but I promise you that I will never go to bed upset, I will work it out with you all night if I have to.
And finally, I promise to always love you with everything that I have. I promise to always show you that I care for you and love you. My words will not be alone; my actions will always dictate my love for you and what you mean to me. Everyone around us will know that I adore you and will be so jealous of our relationship, but none of that will matter, what matters is that you will be the happiest you have ever been everyday of our lives and for all eternity.
I promise you all these things and wait anxiously your arrival. Your future husband,
Dear Future Wife,
“To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:” (Ecc. 3:1)
I’m not sure who you are or where you are at this precise moment but I know one thing, I love you and I can’t wait to meet you. “To every thing there is a season…” Right now we are both in the season of singleness. This season seems to be so long. I can’t wait until we meet. So happy am I while thinking about it. I wonder what you will be like. Are you nice and beautiuful? Are you romantic? Are you older than me? Do you have blue eyes or brown eyes? Are you tall or short? Do you like to read? So many questions I have for you. So many times I look for you, at school, work, grocery store, church, etc… I wonder where I will meet you.I know I have been waiting for almost forever to meet you. I can tell you this; the wait has not been easy. So many times I see my friends and other people my age fall in love and get married and have children. And I wonder, when are we going to meet? When are we going to get married and have children? But I do know something. I know that you are out there somewhere waiting on me like I am waiting on you. I also know that we are both waiting on God’s perfect timing. When is his perfect timing? I am not sure but I know it has to be soon. I have had a great desire to learn specific skills to help and prepare for our marriage. Dear sweet, sweet wife I know you are out there and I know that time seems to be at a standstill while we are waiting for the time we are to come together. Promise me that you will pray for me as I pray for you. I want to be prepared for you. And I know you want to be prepared for me. I love you even if I haven’t met you. And I know that you love me. I love you and can’t wait to meet you.
Love,
Dear my future lover,
I lay on the grass while the gentle sound of the song “I’ve never been to me” is slowly invading my mind. Looking up the above sky, I see not only those clouds and winds are flirting but rays of sunshine are dancing as well. I feel so green when couple of orioles are singing on the orange tree and looking at me with their curious eyes. I open the door of my heart and write a love letter for you.
Honey….So sweet as honey…. I don’t know who you are.. I don’t know what is your name.. I even don’t know where you are from ...but I really want one day this letter can be reached in your hands.
I feel so lonely in this world….My life has no meaning …It is too far and I don’t know where destination is. Darkness is a beast just want to swallow a little guy like me. Some love stories came and went in my life. Some lovers made me smile then cry. Happiness and sorrow like a love song singing slowly in my head. I go alone in the rain and let it ease my pain. What if you just like a wind through my life? What if I was born in this life without you? What if we are looking for each other but God keep a parallel line between us? What if I found you then I will fall down when you belong to another girl? What if I kiss you then I feel your lips calling her name? What if you don’t see wave of love in my eyes? What if? Thousands “what if” I want to ask this world!
What is love? My future lover, What is true love? It is only a simple question but most of people in this world are willing to pay their breath and searching for the answer all their life. I am notan exception. If you come into my world, I will cry to say “ A moment like this, I am waiting for all my lifetime…”.
Love is a game. Love is a sorrow. Love is a fruit. Love is a call in the middle of night just to wake me out of nightmare.. Love is sweet fairy brings a princess to a Prince Charming then he laughs at my innocence when I find out he is a wizard and what that princess told me just a lie then she kills my heart with her coldness.
Please don’t ask me to change myself in order to make you satisfied you. Please don’t play with me for fun …. You know you can take my heart away by this way then let me down without turning back to see me falling down in the rain. Have you ever read this story “SHMILU”? Only true love like this can let them go on the same road forever.
If my future lover is an alien? Yes, I am willing to go with you to outerspace if you are the woman I am searching for all my life.
When you read this letter…. Will you see a door is opened? Will you see a girl is waiting for you at the end of that long road?
Dear wonderful, future Woman,
Where the Hell are you?! But really… I hope you are doing well. What is keeping you so busy and unaware of my awesomeness? Are you climbing mountains in some far off country? Are you reading seminary books while debating my existence? Or could it be that you are right here in New York
let’s be honest here, if you are going to marry me you just can’t be that traditional. So I am led to believe that you are doing your own thing right now, and I can respect that. I can respect that mostly because I’m trying to figure that out for myself as well. I want to know who I am before I have to figure out who I am with you. Please be patient with this.
I have been keeping myself in very good shape; spiritually, physically, and emotionally. Don’t get me wrong though… I am terribly excited to meet you!If you want to secretly go around beating up all the woman who broke my heart or just bust out their car windows, I am perfectly okay with this! Feel free to steal my crow bar if you need it. A fter all, they left the mess you are going to have to help clean up. And I’m sorry that I let that happen to you. And to us. But I can promise that I will try my hardest to mend what I can, but someday I know I will need your help with this.
Anyway, as full of anticipation as I am about you finally entering my life… please don’t do it with wrong timing or wrong intention. Don’t show up too early and please… please!..don’t be late. I’ve been impatient for you and my reasons for meeting you were all wrong. I haven’t trusted in God with, for, or about you. I’m sorry.
But I love you. I hope that wherever you are, you are safe, and happy,. I hope you have a good sense of humor too, you are going to need it! Haha.
See you soon? After a while?.. hmmm….
See you on God’s timing.
With love,
Your wonderful, future Husband
p.s. if you are dating someone right now, please dump him. Thanks.
Dear Future Wife,
Hi, it’s me, Alex. Duh, you already knew that. Sorry if I seem a little nervous, I don’t want to sleep on the couch tonight for something I wrote 20 years ago. I don’t think I know you yet, or maybe I do. Maybe you’re someone I’ve known for my entire life. You could be reading this right now 20 years ago. Let’s not get lost in the physics of reading this throughout the space-time continuum, though. What I would like to focus on is you: intelligent, funny, caring, sexy, strong, witty, and endlessly beautiful you. I want to marvel as to how I got a broad like you. Did we meet on vacation in Florence or Mykonos ? Did I court you for months? Years? Did I win you over with my muscles? Probably not. It must have been my brains. (‘cuz brains is good!) Or maybe I just bought you from a small town in northern Russia
I’m sure I’ve expressed my feelings about procreation to you by now. Do we have kids? What did I name the little focker? Alex Jr.? Real original. Is it a girl? Is it five girls? I’d like to believe we share similar views on having children. I probably fell in love with you the moment you told me you want kids. I’ve always known what the outcome would be if I made tiny copies of myself: chaos. Especially since my sperm is flooded with X chromosomes. No matter how hard I try, I will have a girl. A pretty, hopefully smart, surely slutty, stubborn, free bird of a girl,. She will drive me crazy. I will make her change 1,000 times before letting her out of the house. I will approach every “new contender”, as I will call her boyfriends, like Will Smith and Martin Lawrence in Bad Boys 2. No man will ever be good enough for her and that’s what I will say at her wedding as I stare into that punk’ s eyes standing next to her. I will bring forth a fatherly might that can only be paralleled by the hard-nosed wit of Red Forman. But like I said, I don’t want kids.
If you’re the woman I expect you to be, you’ll be having none of that. So have no fear, I’ll be at your side cooking and cleaning and most importantly – putting out every night. I’ll make it a point to go to dinner and a movie every week. You obviously know I love movies by now, right? I promise I’m not the type to get complacent and I will win your heart over every year. But you know this. You already know the type of man I am. You also know that Sundays are mine unless you can watch football without asking a question after every play or cheering for the Jets. You already know that you’ll laugh every day. You already know that heaven to me is you, a couch, and my DVD collection. Paramountly, you already know that I don’t break my promises.
Your Husband,
Alex
Girl sitting at the computer,
I know you've been sitting here for a very long time, reading and waiting for something that sound like they could be written by him, that make you feel like you're not alone, letters so tragic you can't help but feel better about your own ridiculous situation.
Well just know, you're beautiful. You're going to find a fantastic guy one day. I know what you're thinking all I want is him. Well things have a way of working out, if he's meant to be the one, he will be the one. Buf if he's too blind to how amazing you are, then he was never meant to be the one in the first place.
You'll find someone who will be everything you want, who will make you feel like you're worth it. Just give it time, and never give up hope.
One day, you might be on here, writing about how magical the kiss you just had was, or the guy you're currently with makes you feel like you could fly.
You just need to give yourself time.
To an unknown dearest,
I have never met you. You have never met me. Has fate decided it this way? Will I see your face one day? Or shall we be divided by the seven seas, the indomitable waves splashing our stunned cheeks until we’ve had enough? I look around me here in the city. Of all these people, the watress and the grocery store cashier and the telemarketer and that woman walking across the street right there, how could I mingle with all of these people and not find you? I hate to think, what if one of the thousands of people I see a year was you and we passed each other, those three seconds of interaction never occurring, never talking, never caring? We just never knew, we never knew…
God, this wistful contemplation is hard to take, and yet we must wonder.
Know this, my dear, that you are not alone. I can’t fathom how I’ll feel when you find that guy oh yes that guywhom you will adore with all your porcelain heart, how I’ll smile when I hear of you making your success in this bittersweet, cruel world, how I’ll wonder what could have been. But know this, darling, that you hold a special place in my heart.
Your unknown beloved
A GOOD WOMAN FOR A NICE GUY
One has to be skeptical of the beautiful, intelligent, fully capable woman who simply says that she can’t find a good man anywhere. I know a couple of woman who are well-balanced and who also appreciate the idea of respecting men in the same way they would like to be respected, have no trouble finding suitable mates. Sorry to break this to you, but the only constant variable in your relationships is a person called YOU. I think that if you have trouble finding a good man its because you have become enchanted with the dream-like alpha male: the guy who fits every single portion of the checklist (height, income, education, toe nail length, swag, etc.), but who may not be available for a monogamous, long-term relationship. What many women seem to forget is that there are some men who always have room for another woman on the roster. If you’re wasting all your time with the lying, cheating, super dog, you might miss out on the chance to be with the man who will love you forever and father all of your children. He may not come in the same package, and by comparing the two without considering the differences in what each of them offers, you may be passing up on your opportunity.
I think I have everything going for me...my health, my family, my job, my house, and my friends> I am looking to get get married and have kids I live a quiet, drama-free charmed life and I am seeking someone to share it all with. There are "good" men and women out there, it just most folks are not looking for just good, but great and/or damn near perfect men and women. I am not perfect, but I know i will be prefect for one woman. A woman who gets her husband is the one who makes the man WANT to be married: she let’s him feel free, strong, needed, loved and supported and that is exactly what I am looking for.The act of love is a process of being open, feeling and sharing, not trying to dominate one another. So, if you need to be “handled” in your relationships, realize that you are likely going to only attract men who are mean, rough and insensitive enough to handle you effectively. Fighting and domination is not the same as love – let’s not get it twisted. Most women want their man to make them feel beautiful and to feel like a woman. So, why is it not acceptable for a man to expect his wife to make him feel like a man? A man doesn’t want to marry another guy – or rather, a woman who feels that any and all gender roles are an insult to her feminine independence and also expects the man to be willing to be regularly emasculated. It’s O.K. to make your man feel like he’s THE man, a king and a leader. A good man will surely return the favor and make you feel like a beautiful woman.
There is really no "standard" litmus test for telling right away that a woman is "a good woman" or one of those "other" ones, but I know who i am and I am looking for someone who reflect me because everything I am asking for I am willing to do. Only a good man can attract a good woman, because like attracts like, I am hoping to attract the quality of woman I deserve, nothing less, nothing more....a mirror image.. She has an open and welcoming smile that goes beyond the surface deep inside her eyes -- the window to her soul. Her eyes and her whole demeanor kind of "lights up" when you walk into the room or towards her. She let's you be you. She does not want to change you - clean you up, re-make you or rename you etc - so she can love you but accepts you just the way you are. She genuinely enjoys your company - isn't afraid to ask for it or tell you that she enjoys being around you. Being around her feels like being around your best friend because you can truly be just yourself -- no feeling like you're always walking on egg-shells or trying too hard to please (and always coming short). The experience of being around her is "satisfying" in its own. She goes out of her way to do things she thinks will make you happy. She's the woman who'll call you just to say "hi" or "I was thinking of you" however busy/tired she is. She is independent and secure within herself. She does not need constant attention and does not put pressure on you to feed her self-esteem, anxiety or worries about the future. She's there for you when it's up and when it's down. She's happy out in an expensive restaurant just as she's happy sitting next to you on the couch, doing nothing.She does what she says she will do. She does not play mind games but lets you know where you stand because she cares enough to treat others the way she'd like to be treated.She shows respect for you not only in private but more so in public because she cares about how others see you and treat you. She's not just nice to people she has something to gain from but is kind and treats the doorman, the customer service rep, the waitress, the beggar on the street, a child, the elderly etc. with compassion and respect. This is a telling sign of how she'll treat you once she feels she has you and isn't trying to impress you anymore. She genuinely wants to be in a relationship with you and not just looking for "any man" to solve all her problems. She talks positively of the opposite sex but also not blind to their shortcomings. She likes the things you like and makes an effort to do even the things you like and she doesn't. She's not embarrassed or too proud to show you how much she loves you. She gives you her love and she also gives you her trust. She's positive, happy with her life and always upbeat. She does not try to put other girls/women down to look better than she really is. She makes you feel like you really matter even with all your faults and shortcomings-- and she's happy that you were born! It really comes down to 3 word: kindness, caring, and honesty.
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DEAR SOULMATE
Sooner or later we begin to understand that true love is real and the most important thing in our lives. Somebody said once that "love is a promise that is always kept, a fortune that can never be spent, a seed that can flourish in even the most unlikely of places. And this radiance that never fades, this mysterious and magical joy, is the greatest treasure of all - one known only by those who love".When I was child I thought it would be easy to find you, my dear soulmate, but it seems I was wrong. Yet, how can a child be wrong? In my country, old people say that only children are able to talk to angels and angels listen to them. My people also say that somehow, we lose this communication with our "bodyguards" when we grow up. Well, deep inside I am still a child believing in miracles. I know that sometimes I dream too much, but I dream of you, I dream of the moment we'll discover each other. Now I can only hope that angels will guide me on the road that leads to you.Love is always willing to find a way...
I Have no power but to wait, could it be a thousand miles a way or right at the corner of my eyes, I truly had no clue. What is our mission in life?, is it to seek answers for our sake of being or just waiting to die. Dear old soulmate, are they even exist. Love is a way through not a puzzle, but how can it be fun. Is’nt the riddle that keeping us on guard each night, is’nt it the misery that take us to sacrifice. Whatever it is, it took a lifetime I believe, existed or not, dream or illusion,we just have to believe there is someone out there waiting for us just like we waiting for them, even if it take a lifetime. Somehow it all be worth it. Cause if it not, is there any reason for us to live a good life that we always wanted.
I fell in love, in love with you suddenly.Some day we will be together. Some day we'll be happy forever, and some day we'll be able to make special memories.I've never missed anybody so much. Everywhere I go , I see you. I know that you're with me in spirit , as I am with you. What we have is special & hard to find. I'm glad that I've found you sweetheart because you've opened my eyes. You're so wonderful & understanding and I can't wait till we can spend the rest of our lives together. It's been almost 11 months now, and each day is bringing us closer to one another. I can't wait till I can spend every moment with you. I can't wait till the moment I get to finally hug you and kiss you. I dream about you every night, the dreams are so real .. and so beautiful . I just wish you were here with me right now. It's getting harder every moment, but you manage to keep me strong.
Right now i really just want to cuddle on my living room floor with you. i want to draw circles on your stomach and hear you sing all the words to every Beatle song in my ear while you run your fingers through my hair. i want to kiss you on your forehead, your nose, your cheeks, your lips. have your eyelashes tickle my cheeks when i rub my nose against yours and hide my smile in your chest/neck when you tell me secrets. I want to miss you ten minutes after you say goodbye and be the most nervous I've ever been ten minutes before i see you again. i want to hold hands so much my hand feels weird when we don't. i want to take road trips out of town to the beach and for shows and
the whole time i just want to constantly sing at the top of my lungs to you and take pictures of you while you drive. and at shows i want you to kiss me between every song cause i know you'll be in the pit most of the time, and i know you'll have friends and want to hang out so just tell me what's up so i don't worry about you. and if there's hundreds of miles between us don't make me feel like there's distance between us. keep in touch, make me feel like no matter where we are I'm the only guy for you.
i want to know that no matter how many guys who flirt with you, fling themselves at you, come on to you, whatever; you'll stay true to me.you wouldn't hurt me if your life depended on it.i want to love you. plain and simple....who are you? where are you?
49-DEAR SOULMATE:
Dear Soulmate,
I am wondering at this very moment if you are thinking of me, if like me ‘am wondering what taking us so long to find each other. Many times I thought I finally found you only to be disillusioned by the fact that my wait has not yet ended. I get up each morning hoping, dreaming, longing to meet you.I am thinking of how we will meet, would it be as romantic as the ones I have seen in movies? Or is it possible that I have known you all my life but we have yet to realize that we are meant for each other? How I wish you were here right now because you are the only one who has the answers to all my questions.
Sometimes I ask myself if I have ever really known "Love". I don not have the answer to that question either but I believe that more often than no, we will never really known love is until we find the right person… and since I have not yet found you yet, then maybe I don’t really know what love is! You just don’t know how often I dream of finally knowing what it feels like to be in your arms. Even at this very moment I am imagining how you will simply sweep me off my feet! Perhaps I would drawn to you by your smile, or make me laugh by your silly little ways…
I don’t really know for sure but I am praying that God will help me recognize you when the right time comes. I think of all the pain that I have gone through in the past and of how I cried since the day I began my search. I just wanted you to know that I find my strength in clinging onto my vision of the beautiful life ahead of me — the life I shall spend with you. In my mind and in my heart I know that you are worth all the pain and sacrifice. After all, the tears have become part of my life and I believe that they are slowly washing away my flaws so that I would become perfect, not perfect in its truest sense, but perfect - for you. I wonder if you’ve gone through so much pain as well. I wonder if you’ve been hurt so many times along the journey.
But my dearest one, please don’t ever give up because I’m right here… patiently waiting for you. I assure you that when we finally find each other, I would slowly heal those wounds by my love. At night I utter a silent prayer and send all my cries to heaven’s above thinking that in time they would reach you. And when I feel impatient, I just close my eyes and believe that you are on your way and that you are longing to see me as well. It’s funny but when I finally fall asleep, it is still you that I think of, for you are always in my dreams. For now, that is the only place where I can hold on to you. And this, all that more that, makes me want to wake up and face the new day. I am assured that you are worth the wait, with God’s will and guidance. In spite of the pain and amidst, the simple joys of life - I would be very thankful because they all lead us to each other.
In the meantime, take care of yourself for me.Believe in your heart that we will find each other no matter what happens. God has planned the course and it is up to us to follow the directions. Don’t worry, don’t be afraid about getting lost. God see to it that all the roads, no matter which way you choose to follow, leads me to you. Take Care and God Bless.
Patiently waiting,
Your Soulmate
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DEAR SOUL MATE
Dear Soulmate:
I don’t know where you are, but I know you exist. I feel you in my heart and I see you in my dreams. Sometimes I gaze up at the stars, and I feel comforted because I know somewhere you are starring upon the same sparkling stars searching for me. But yet lost in thoughts of me and the life we will someday share, when you find me. Everything and everyone before now will have been a lesson, but demanded, so we could be who we are, it’s forever a part of our own story-our journey toward finding ourselves and one another, our own private Forever. Trust in me and I will honor your love. I am all you have dreamed I would be and more. I am your destiny.
The fairy tale you created and relived in your mind when hurt & pain seemed to envelop you. I was your own private HOPE, it was me who sustained your FAITH, when all else evaded you .I am what you always believed I would be…waiting patiently for you, faithfully…someday…but I cannot come until you are ready, until your heart is free and you have closed all the chapters that won’t allow you to move on. In your soul although hidden, you truly know me. I am the one who has always been standing by your side when things fall apart around you, my eternal promise,you have always felt inside. I am TRUTH. Remember, our love, waiting out of pureness and innocense, with the angel’s blessing, out of our dreams, unconditional, eternal, living only in our hearts and a special dream.
I sit daydreaming as the sun begins to rise, bringing with it a new beginning. Will today be the day you find me? Whoever you are.. you have a special room in my heart... You have the keys.. open it..
51-DEAR SOULMATE
Dear Soulmate,
I want to tell you that I believe you are out there. I am putting this out in the universe that I do believe, I’ve never stopped believing. At times I get frustrated that I haven’t yet met you. The timing seems so right on my part but then I have to remember perhaps I’m really not ready and maybe you aren’t either. I dream about you often, I think about you and I have faith in you. I know that when we meet it will be magnetic and we won’t be able to get enough of each other, we will continually drink in everything that each of us has for each other as though we have this constant thirst that just will not be quenched. At night I dream about you and I think about what it will be like to have you laying next to me caressing me tenderly and telling me that we will always be okay because we will always have each other.
You will be my best friend and I yours. You will embrace all of my imperfections as they fit perfectly with you. We will keep no secrets and love each other unconditionally, you will be my world and I will be the soft place you land when you have a bad day. I will raise your spirits and renew your faith in believing that everything will always be alright because I will continually support you and be by your side. It will be complete and utter bliss, we will get through our trying times not because we have to but because we love each other and want to together. We will grow old together and fall more in love with each other even more than that first moment we met.
I think about when my eyes will first lock with yours, you will see my deep eyes and understand the words that speak from them with nothing ever being said. You will understand my passion for life and my ambitious drive of living every moment to the absolute fullest. You will get my goofy quirks and think they are cute as I will laugh at you idiosyncrasies and embrace them all because my love runs deeper for you than any river run long and any ocean is deep. I will love you and cherish each and every moment that we have together for tomorrow may never come.
I get lost in the thought of the moment that I have realized I have finally found you and I get goose bumps thinking about it. I think about seeing the love for the first time behind the deep colored pools that you see the world from. I think about that first touch when it’s like two magnets that are stuck together. I will want to be in your life and you will want to be in my life. I think about that first kiss when our lips lock and we both swear we saw fireworks, not every kiss may be as explosive as that first one but we certainly can keep trying.
I look forward to meeting you. I know you are there, you may be in Spain
I know that you will fit with me and me with you; it will be like we were made perfectly for each other. We will accept each other as is and love one other unconditionally until eternity. I’m at peace right this moment knowing that you exist and someday soon we will find each other. Each moment of each day brings us one step closer until that magical moment of realizing we are each other’s half that makes us whole. You will be the other half of the “us” and “we” that I have been longing for and so desire. I want you to be my best friends always, my lover whenever and my significant other forever. That’s what I want, so today, here I am putting it out in the universe for you to feel, breathe in, sense and just know I am here patiently waiting with an open arms, open heart, open mind and open soul until the moment we meet. Until that day, I wish you a better tomorrow than you had today and know that my heart will belong to you freely, my spirit will soar with you high above the clouds and my soul will be with its rightful mate and forever feel at peace….
Until then, I love you.....I will miss you until you come into my life…..I will cherish each and every moment that you and I will be blessed to have together….until then you are in my heart and I can feel you….open yourself up to me, to love me freely, to love me forever, to love my imperfections that will fit ever so perfectly with you……let love in and let yourself be loved truly and unconditionally and I promise you it will be unlike anything you have ever experienced before…….this is your invitation to my heart, my soul and my life, I’m ready, I’m waiting and I look forward to meeting you……
With Open Arms
I Will Love You For Always
Your Other Half That WIll Make You Whole,
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DEAR SOULMATE
Dear Soulmate, where did you come from? Did you happen to hang from the nearest star out of my window while I was not looking and fell down when I began my song of searching?
Did you live in the asteroid where I built all my hopes and longings, or did you travel across the twilight skies to search for your lost rose? You found me instead, a mere mortal with no celestial power. I gave you a tentative smile, within it perhaps; saved-up wishes and endless questions, You returned my smile and I felt suspended among stars. Little did I know that you would transport me to your world and slowly help me turn into the rose I have longed to be.
Now dear soulmate, I am asking. You must have been through a lot of pain in your journey and I have made it my role not to let you ever be lonely again.
"Do you know how much I love you?"
On the night when shooting stars appear, I remember the memory of our first encounter and smile. The vastness of the Sahara Desert
I remain a mystefied ariator of your dusky skies, and I don’t fear of falling because your arms are there to catch me.
And yes, I forgot to tell you that I have fallen and I will forever be, in love with you.
53- DEAR SOULMATE
Dear Soulmate,
I've spent quite a bit of time (well, some may say that I have wasted said time) trying to figure out why certain individuals haven't been my soulmate. What was it that I was so sure about at one point in time or another, that eventually faded to obscurity and irrelevance as someone new entered the picture? What is it about love and time that can make one person a hot swap for another, and how do we make sure that we haven't accidentally thrown the baby out with the bathwater, metaphorically speaking?
And what about those, that you cannot replace? That despite everything you have done, all the careful planning and the moving on and the relationships you promise yourself you find significant; that you can't change the way your heart still skips a beat every time their name comes up in conversation, or the feeling of completeness you have when you think about being near them. What of those left behind for reasons unexplained or not worth rehashing, except for the fact that they are truly missed? How many of those are there? The answer for most is one. I'd never want to confuse the 'one that got away' with my soulmate, but you reach the epiphany of ending up with that person, you'll be left scratching your head and playing out insane scenarios for years. Which begs the question; to find your soulmate, is it truly a right place, right time kind of scenario?
I vow to never live resigned to the fact that action (or inaction) will define the way I will encounter my soulmate. I'm fortunate enough to realize that soulmates find each other in the most unexpected ways. That no matter how lost you feel you may be -- that lack of a directional compass may lead you closer to love. And those holes in our hearts -- the ones that have been left by those we simply and inexplicably can not erase, may very well be left open, waiting to be refilled by those who took the time to put them there in the first place. Soulmates make the most of situations, because they never know what may be set in motion next...
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DEAR SOULMATE
My dear soulmate,
I am sorry I stopped believing in you. I am sorry that I stopped hoping to meet you... I am sorry about so many things... I am so sorry... Nothing is going on right in my life - it never has been. I know that someday, if we are together, somehow, it will all be okay, and everything will work out fine.
I am so lonely without you. To make up for this gaping hole in my life, I set my mind on money. I wanted to buy all the worldly pleasures and possess great amounts of riches - just to make up for this void within my soul. Deep inside, I know that nothing will taste sweeter than being with you, and showing you my true self without fear.
My love... Every day of my life, I will gaze upon you with my new eyes; and with awe, I shall discover your beauty once again. Every single day we live shall be a new day to discover each other, a new way to celebrate our love... because the mysteries of our souls are infinite, and each life is full of new experiences to be lived together.
There is a huge weight that has always been in my heart - it is a profound sadness: that of not being with you. What are you doing right now? Are you happy, or are you sad? Is there a man in your life, or are you thinking about me too?
So often, I stare at the moon and think about you, my perfect one. I think about your face I have never seen. I think about your hair I have never felt. I think about your perfume which has yet to enchant me... My love, where are you?
Maybe the right time has not come yet. Maybe we are not yet prepared for the amazing things that are about to happen in our lives. My princess, I promise to become a better man, a better soul. I promise to be the one you need when we finally meet. I will be strong, and I will not stop waiting, for I know that without you, the flowers in my garden will never bloom.
Your soulmate,
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DEAR SOULMATE
Once upon a time, I asked several dear "couple" friends of mine the secret to the beautiful relationship they had created. I asked how was I ever going to find that perfect Ms. Right?? After all I had failed miserably after trying to make one relationship work for 5 years. They gave me various pieces of advice. There was a common silver thread in everything I was told.
The one thing everyone told me about was the Law of Attraction. They also said to create a Manifesto for the Soul mate I was longing for. HOW do I do that? I pondered. I researched, I asked questions, , Here is what was created:
I see a new and exciting person entering my life's experience. This person is a beautiful woman who vibrates in harmony with what I am wanting. She is spiritual in the sense that she knows who she is and believes that all things are possible and is moving in the same direction that I am. She has a wonderful sense of humor and appreciates mine as we bring out the best feelings in each other when we are together. She has a sense of adventure and a willingness to try new things. She is curious by nature and loves learning, experiencing and experimenting.
She is honest with his feelings and dealings with me and others. She is positive, upbeat, and happy. She is a joy to be around and I feel wonderful to be with her. She has her own mind and is independent emotionally and financially.
She is vibrant and healthy- she literally glows with energy and enthusiasm. She believes in himself and believes in me. She sublime nature is a grace that makes all our interactions smooth, natural and effortless. We support each other in our life's mission and I feel like a queen when I am with her, and she feels like my queen We are able to speak for hours with each other, while at the same time being able to give each other space when we want it.
She loves to travel and has a great appreciation for the beauty, serenity, and grandeur of nature. She really feels like a soul-mate, sharing a like mind and soul. She is full of life and reminds me of the power of love. There is a magnetic pull that draws us together. There is definitely a strong sense of physical attraction and at the same time the attraction extends beyond the physical and into the emotional, mental, and spiritual side as well. We are a perfect match and are in harmony on all levels. She is a growth seeking being and e enjoy growing together and learning from one another.
I see myself sharing my life with this beautiful, loving, fun, supportive, honest,gentle, spiritual, intelligent soul-mate. When I am with her, I feel alive and strong, more of my best self. I feel the great possibility of all things. Talking with her is like talking to myself, for her thoughts are my thoughts. We are one and we are in harmony. Our relationship grows through love and great joy and a desire to always expand the limits of our beliefs. WE want to experience all the richness that life has to offer. This life is a wonderful adventure/creation and we expectantly look forward to each new day.
I have made space for this special man in my life- someone of like mind and heart. I feel her definitely being attracted to me as I am writing this. We will meet and there will be joy and excitement in our meeting. She will see what I'm doing and support it wholeheartedly as I will be committed to assisting him in fulfilling our life's purpose.
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Dear Soulmate.
I love you already, I can't stop thinking about you.
What you'll be like
Who you are
What you'll become
Everything.
It just hit me that, I have a person out in this world that is
meant
to be with me.
And I pray to God that we will meet,
what a joyous day
to meet my partner in life.
I can't wait
another second.
Just come get me now,
and wrap me in your arms.
Let me feel your warmth,
and your never-ending "I love you"s
Maybe, at this very moment your
dreaming
of me.
Like how I do of you.
I can't wait to meet you,
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DEAR SOULMATE
Dear Soulmate,
I am wondering at this very moment if you are thinking of me, if like me, you are wondering what is taking us so long to find each other.Many times i thought i finally found you, only to be disillusioned by the fact that my search has not yet ended.I get up each morning, hoping, dreaming, longing to meet you. I am thinking of how we will meet. Would it be as romantic as the one's I have seen in movies?
Or it is possible that I have known you all my life but we have yet to realize that we are meant for each other?
Oh how I wish you were here right now because you are the one who has the answers to all my questions.
Sometimes I ask myself, if I have really known love. I do not the answer to that question either, but i believe that more often than not, we will never really know what love is untill we find the right person.
And since I have not found you yet, then maybe I do not really know what love is..
You just don't know how often I dream of finally knowing what it feels like to be in your arms.
Even at this very moment I am imagining how you will simply sweep me off my feet!
Perhaps I would be drawn to you by your smile, or your eyes, or maybe how you manage to make me laugh by your silly little ways!
I don't really know for sure but I am praying that God will help me recognize you when the right time comes.
I think of all the pain that I have gone through in the past and of how much I have cried since the day I began my search.
I just want you to know that I have found my strenght in clinging unto my vision of the beautiful life ahead of me...the life I shall spend with you!
In my mind and in my heart, I know that you are worth all that pain and sacrifice.
After all, the tears have become a part of my life and I believe that they are slowly washing away my flaws so that I would become perfect, not perfect in its truest sense, but perfect for YOU!
I wonder if you've gone through so much pain as well. I wonder if you've been hurt so many times along the journey.
But my dearest one, please don't ever give up, because I am right here...patiently waiting for you.
I assure you that when we finally found each other, I would slowly heal those wounds by my love.
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Dear Soulmate,
It's been so long since I last wrote to you, but I have not forgotten you. I am in a lot of pain right now, because I haven't met you. It hurts so much. I have a sinking pit in the bottom of my stomach all the time now, and each day it gets harder and harder. Sometimes I don't want to go on. I'm trying very hard to be happy....alone, but I get angry at God, and sometimes lose faith completely because he is not hearing or responding to my prayer. I have done so much to try to find you...yet you don't want to come near to me. Trust me, I'm not repulsive, but quite attractive, and despite all the pain, still I'm able to find some joy in life. I don't know if you are reading this, or listening to my intentions out there, but if you are, I am asking you to please come into my life....and soon, and strong, and lovingly. Look into my eyes and you will see the connection we have. Life is going by so quickly and my youth is fading. Please hurry along. I wrote to God last night, praying for him to send you to me. I hope he was listening as well. So, I'm signing off, and I want to say, I love you. I love you. Even if we haven't met yet, know that I love you.
Dear Soulmate,
Have we met yet? Are our paths crossed? Will they ever? Every day, I wonder if you are already close to me or if you are some non-being yet to exist in my bubble of knowledge.
I've been waiting for you for a long time. If you know me, you should show yourself soon, I am getting tired of waiting. Of course... If you really are my soulmate, and I believe you are, then I am just being silly and impatient.
Soulmate, maybe you haven't come out yet because you don't know me well enough. --Have you run away because you know me too well? I want to know all about you, and yet a part of me wonders if the mystery is more romantic.
Is there only one of you out there, or do you have a twin brother or sister that you can introduce me to? If you know, please tell me, because I have been feeling a little lonely lately.
I saw the movie "You've got mail" the other day. The part where Meg Ryan was supposed to meet with Tom Hanks at a coffee shop, she has a flower as an indicator, a symbol, of who she is. Will you be holding a rose too? In a coffee shop?
How will I know who you are from all the other people in the world?
Are you just like me, or are you my opposite and compliment in every way?
I thought I found you once. I really did. You were beautiful, and you smiled at me, and you said everything I wanted to hear. You made me laugh, and you made me feel beautiful, you made me feel so complete, even though you were never mine.
It wasn't really you, though. It was just somebody with your mask on.
Dear Soulmate, are you happy right now? I hope you are, I would never want you to be sad or hurt, even if I haven't met you yet.
Dear Soulmate, whether you're my best friend, or somebody from the other side of the world, please let our meeting as soulmates be special. Please let it be wonderful. I know my eyes will fill with tears of happiness even if it's not a perfect moment, because when I find out who you are, I don't think that anything can dampen the elation I will feel.
Dear Soulmate, I know I will love you with all my heart, and I can't wait for us to fall for each other in a way that is not like falling at all but is more like flying above all others, being next to each other, holding each other, helping each other.
I can't wait.
Dearest Soulmate,
Where are you when I need you the most? I know you are out there in this huge world.... And, even though it might take a while for me to find you...I know you are looking for someone like me too. I know everything about you...even though I have never met you. But, I feel like I've known you all my life. You are sweet, funny, smart, caring, thoughtful, and gorgeous! I just love the way you make me laugh. All your jokes are funny to me...I guess because I love you so much! You just have no idea how much you mean to me. I love how you always try to do little sweet things, like put a little ring or something in my food when I go to the restroom. Or put messages on the mirror like, "you are beautiful" for when I get out of the shower. You just amaze me every day. You are full of wonderful surprises! You are the one on my mind right before I go to sleep, and the first one on my mind when I wake up. You are just perfect in every way. And that smile....oh, it just makes me melt! Whenever you walk into a room it just lights up. You make all my rainy days have sunshine. You are like the oxygen, that I can't breathe without. I don't know what I would do if I never found you. I know I would be lost, and wouldn't know what to do with myself. You are like an angel on earth to me. I don't think there is any other angel more heavenly than you. I just want to let you know that, you are not only my lover, but you are my best friend! I will cherish all of our memories together.
Dear My Wonderful,
To My Soul Mate ,
I was going to call you my "perfect" soul mate, But i realized your not going to be perfect,I'll love you for whoever you are, No matter what i realize that,With all the fault you and I have, We will become perfect togeather. Since that's the only way i see people being perfect...Is when they are togeather.See i never believed in someone like you ( soulmate) until i realized how much i needed you, I need you to love me. I'll need you to understand that sometimes things will get tough,When they do, I get scared and literaly "Run" away from our realitionship. Please i beg you not to let me run, I have been searching for you since the first time i feel in love, I was 16, , I know your out there, Behind a star just waiting for me and my life to be ready for you, Then "God" will have you brought down here to me, I only hope you'll know it's me,Many many times love can be so blind that you never know its there , Until it's not there anymore. I am so scared that you'll see me and i'll see you and i won't realize that you are my "Soul mate" So please when we meet, Don't let me go, I Promise to love you more than anything,As long as your promise the same. I know at times i will be hard on you sometimes, And sometimes i'll get scared, As long as you don't give up on us, Niether will I. I know i'll find you someday, Or we will find eachother, I know that togeather we will be perfect , And well i just want you to know i'll love you and no matter what happens and i will support you and be there for you forever. With all my heart and soul i promise to love you and togeather we can make things right....If we are really meant to be togeather ,I will not let anything stop our love...And all of this i say in the hope of a "SoulMate" being something then just my hopes and dreams. With all my love and afffection and most of all with my heart.
To My Soulmate: I wanted to sit down and write this letter to tell you what is in my heart. Every day I wake up and my first thoughts are of you, just as my last thoughts were the night before. I think of how lucky I am that I found someone who so perfectly completes my soul. Do you remember that old Greek myth I told you about? The one about the people BEFORE the people we know today... They were much larger than people today. They had four arms and four legs, two heads and much bigger bodies. When they began to become too powerful, the Gods split them in half so that each could only function properly with its "other half". That is supposed to be the reason why each of us searches for our soulmate today. In you I truly believe I have found this, my other half. You're everything I could have asked for, you're everything I spent so many nights dreaming of and days searching for... Thank you for being who you are, and for making me the person I am when I am with you. I feel alive and beautiful under your gaze, and I know that each day I lived before I met you was only half-lived because you were not there to share it with. I look forward to spending tomorrow and the thousands of tomorrows to follow with you; I know now I was put here on this Earth to love and be loved by you alone. Do you remember the night we stayed up and watched the sun rise together while I read you The Notebook? I honestly think Nicholas Sparks was thinking of people like us when he wrote: Poets often describe love as an emotion that we can't control, one that overwhelms logic and common sense. That's what it was like for me. I didn't plan on falling in love with you, and I doubt if you planned on falling in love with me. But once we met, it was clear that neither of us could control what was happening to us. We fell in love, despite our differences, and once we did, something beautiful and rare was created. For me, love like that has only happened once, and that's why every minute we spent together has been seared in my memory. I'll never forget a single moment of it. I'm sure that in the future things will not always be so wonderful and we will not always see each other through rose-tinted glasses. Please know that in these times of struggle, my love for you will never waver...my patience and my temper may be tested at times, but I trust that God would never give me someone so wonderful if I was not meant to be withforever. I love you, my darling...and I know that this, WE, were meant to be. -
Dear Future Soulmate,
I don’t believe we’ve met yet. But when we do, and I know we will, you will be the most important person in my life. I can promise you now that it won’t be love at first sight, nor will it necessarily be easy— nothing has come easy in my life. But I will fall in love with you and your flaws. You will fall in love with me and mine. I will love you not because you are pretty, or because you are easy to talk to, or fun to hang out with; I’m sure you will be all those things, but it won’t be what I fall in love with.
You see, I love you because of who you are. I love the experiences you’ve been through. I love how those experiences have shaped how you think and the person that you’ve become. I love the fact that you are compassionate and kind. I love that you are smart and educated. I love that we share similar life experiences. I love how seemingly easy it is for me to empathize with you. I love that you are my best friend. I love you unconditionally.
On the other hand, I am not perfect, nor are you. But, I fell for you not because you are perfect but rather because you are imperfect. I’m fond of the idea that I need you as much as you need me. We complete each other. Our imperfections apart, become strengths together. And together the sky is truly the limit. You are the cornerstone of my happiness. You are the pillar of my world.
Like all relationships ours has had its hurdles. But with each hurdle comes new discoveries. With these new discoveries comes the foundation to which we build our future together. As long as it’s with you, it doesn’t matter that our dreams may not be filled with the 2.5 kids, a dog, and a white picket fence surrounding our colonial. Because happiness is truly all you need in life-- you make me happy.
This is all speculation, of course. Truth is, I don’t know if you actually exist. I don’t know whether we will ever meet. And I surely don’t know if there is such a thing as a soulmate. But I like to believe there is. I like to believe we will one day find each other. I will never give up hope that there is really someone for everyone. Until I find you, you will lie in my dreams and there you will remain as hope and inspiration.
Love,
Dear Soul Mate,
A desperate cry calls out from my soul to yours.
I have missed you so strongly that I ache to
hear your voice and to speak with you at length.
You have held my secret whispers close within your heart,
and you have never betrayed my trust.
You have always met my heart's needs and deisres with the
utmost of care and concern.
I truly have no idea how you do it. How do you
continue to love me and to console me, even with
all my many faults?
To touch you is indescribable, divine pleasure.
To be with you ... completely calms my soul.
I can talk with you for hours... about nothing
and about anything... and yet, you listen intently
and with unflagging concern.
Your eyes completely enthrall me with their gaze of
intense passion and their promise of unconditional
love.
You're there for me at every unexpected turn.
You always care for me; our souls together burn.
I cannot breathe but that you breathe for me as well.
You are my Heaven that I should never know of Hell.
No distance keeps our souls from feeling we're apart,
We are forever bound to one another's heart.
Forever yours,
Your Soul Mate.
I needed you today
Even screamed your name a thousand times
Held several conversations with you today
Even looked your way so I could say
I need you today
But
You were not there
I needed you to answer me,
and meet my expectations of thee
I needed you to
Give me advice and get me out of this vice
I needed you to hold my hand
and remind me just who I am
I needed you to rescue me
make me understand just where I am today
I needed you to see my soul
and heal all the broken holes
I needed you today
So I did it
I needed to share my life with you today
I needed you to tell me "Everything will be O.K"
I needed to bare my soul to you today
and have you make me whole again
for one more day
I needed to hear your voice today and rejoice
because I am your choice though it all
I needed you today
and I'll need you tomorrow
But
I'll be there
I was four when I realised I needed you. Whenever I witnessed two hands holding passionately I would literally cry. I had a loving family, but it wasn’t enough for me. I needed you. My soul mate. The other half that will complete me. I knew you would be special. Someone who would fill the void inside me. No one could fill it but you.
And as the years went by I remember wishing to meet you, bump into you. I wished that I could just take a peek at the unseen and find out what you were doing at that specific moment. If you were thinking of your soul mate; me. I have spent many lonely days and nights without you, growing on my own, exploring the world through eyes that wish to see you. I remember days when I would cry because I missed you, even though I have never met you. But I believe we have met, before we came to earth; this is how strong my feelings are for you.
I’ve loved you before I even met you. I know I will love you when I meet you and get to know you. I know I will sacrifice my life for you. I would be happy to take a bullet for you, just so you can live on, because I know I would die without you.
My soul mate, I don’t know how I have survived all these years without you, but I have, successfully. I know when I do meet you though, I will wonder how I ever did get along without you, your love, your care, your voice, the gentle loving way you will look at me.
And there’s only one thing I want from you my love. I don’t want the riches of the world, I don’t want you to go to the moon to prove your love to me, nor do I want you to swim to the bottom of the ocean to get me the most precious pearl.
No. All I want is your love. All I want is to feel it, even if we sit across the room from each other. I want to be showered with emotional love. I want to feel that you genuinely can’t live without me, that you adore me, honour me, love me. I want you to be my best friend, someone I can talk to, laugh with, run around the park with and play hide and seek, screaming with laughter.
I want to have a special connection with you, for us to be much more than husband and wife; friends, family, soul mates, twin souls. It’s that simple for me, to have that special love with you. To feel that I’m one of the most important people in your life. To feel that you can’t breathe without me, like I can’t breathe without you. To be sleeping in the middle of the night and feel you hold me because you love me. To be watching TV or reading a book and to have you cuddle up to me. To be walking in the street and have you hold my hand with love and devotion in your eyes.
This doesn’t just have to happen in the movies…it can happen for us too, if you open your heart and believe in Allah’s power to do anything; believe that you can find me so I can love you. So you can love me.
Until then I am still four years old, in a pram, looking at the others holding hands, laughing together, wishing we could be in that place. I am in no rush. I am in no hurry. I await patiently. I travel the world looking for you. I develop personally and professionally, religiously, so I can be better for you.
You deserve the best, I want to be able to deserve you. I know you will be mine, you were written for me before I was placed on earth. And if it is not our time to meet in this world, I will gladly die without loving anyone else, so we can begin our lives in heaven together, with our pure, true love that will last for all eternity.
Dear Soulmate
You come into my life like a breath of fresh air, your face is so familiar that I recognise it immediately. You are neither to tall or to small, you always look down with loving eyes to me. The energy I feel is one of unity and total love, a light direct from source.
You are caring and compassionate to me as well as others, but you don't suffer fools gladly. You deal with those who cross your path in a calm, caring understanding way, always making others feel better about themselves in a positive way.
Your face is beautiful with eyes that absorb my soul, with just one look we connect via our eyes always first and our bodies become entwined as one. You are protective of me but always allow my own judgement to fulfil my growth, and I will return that same loyalty you bestow on me.
Your funny in a comical dry way, witty but not sickly, you love my subtle humour as well a my qualities of loving, caring and understanding. We guide each other in a constant moving motion, and allow each other to see our vulnerable sides behind the masks we carry.
We are always true to each other as well as ourselves, our passions will always be paramount but they will not separate us, they may give us time for our own growth independently but they will always be respected and not envied, encouraged, but not indulged to the detriment of our relationship or friendship or partnership. For we are united, but we work well away from each other for periods of time.
Your kisses are like luxurious chocolate of which I can not get enough of, your body is like a welcoming temple. Fat or Thin we see the true side of our souls. Your hugs make me warm and secure, you can hold my hand and lead me or I lead you and we will know we are safe in each others presence, or in time of need when not in each others presence, know that by all means, we would make sure we were safe, somehow.
Our love for each other is not sickly but totally apparent, we kiss regularly and love each other with a passion, pleasure and total joy. We are not afraid of our bodies in each others company, we are connected.
If I have bad days you will see and know this and leave me be until I need that comforting, and offer me wisdom if I need it, I promise to do the same. But even if those days may be for a time, I want you to know I love you and will be patient. And I hope you will remember to be therefore me for any periods of black cloud days.
You never forget a birthday of mine, even if it's just a card, you never forget an anniversary of ours and bestow with love and thoughtfulness of how you feel about our time together. I will do the same and even though I may not have the finance or the time, and like wise for you, we can be imaginative and find other ways of celebrating our coming together.
Our love extends to family and friends and most people we meet will feel our power as it emanates from "All-that-is".
All animals big and small will be seen by both of us as part of the whole, respected, adored and loved and protected to the best of our ability.
You will see and help me gain my needs and I will do the same for you. We will try to be in balance as much as possible and when days that will come along that puts us out of sync either with each other or others, we always find a way back within no time, with no hard feelings. We are best friends on top of everything else and share our deepest fears, joys, and feelings with no judgement.
We constantly move in tandem for our futures and that of our family, they are important, but in the same vein they won't over rule us.
We love to travel together, and experience many different things and don't worry even though I may not like something I wouldn't stop you trying as long as it didn't go against my principles too much or morals and the same applies for you.
You will never or rarely say "I don't care" for you do care but rather if you or I for that matter as it applies to me too, that we do care but we can't see the solution available in order to solve what ever it is at the time.
We are honest with our feelings and will respect each others views even If we don't agree, they will never come between us.
We may come from different backgrounds but we incorporate what we have experienced from our different cultures with respect and balance.
There is plenty more that I could write to you my love, but we can talk about this more when we meet again...for we have known each other many life times and endured many pains together, this is our journey of remembrance and each day will be a new dawn, with joy and love and happiness and peace.
Dear Soulmate,
Where are you?? It seems as if I have been searching for you my entire adult life. I am writing this so you will know that I am not giving up on my search for you. I know you wont give up on me either. Sometimes I wonder if we may have already met, maybe in passing. We might have even had a moment of recognition and realization, but we were so busy in our daily lives that it became a passing thought. A look and smile and nothing more. Other times I feel you are probably out there just wondering when I will drop into your life.
Noone seems to believe in us anymore. Noone believes in true love anymore, especially that magical kind-of love that you and I share. You know my heart has some bruises around it too, but the wounds don't penetrate deep enough to still my heart, for it beats to love you. Please be patient with me though when we meet because it may take me some time to completely open up to you. You and I both know it will be worth while in the end. I have had some disappointments in love as I am sure you have too. Finding you has been a long, hard road. I have taken several paths and wrong turns. There have been many ups and downs. I have met some wonderful people though along the way to finding you. I have made a lot of friends. I have met a lot of great individuals and then some not so great. We both know that for the majority most people are decent. I am glad you have been so dedicated in your search for me, as I have been with you. I am also glad that your belief in "true love" has never wavered. I know you have a lot of faith in God, as I do. Because God is Love. His greatest gift to us and for us. Love is the closest to Heaven we will ever get here on this earth, don't you agree?
I have to tell you something, and I know you will understand, as you may have faced the same on your journey to finding me. Allong the way to finding you I got sidetracked, and being immature,. The search for you has been long, and I wasn't sure that I would ever find you, so I settled {for a moment}. I know you mirror me and you take commitment to heart. I tried to make the most of my mistake and really stick it out, but in the end I couldn't give up on you. I will give my ex girlfriend the respect and dignity he deserves though because she has been a good woman, just us together wasn't good. I know you believe in marriage though and take those vows seriously, as I did and do. You know I did try my very best as I will with you. I know in my heart though that with us it wont be quite as hard, marriage is hard work but your heart has to be in it. With us it is true and pure and we will fight to keep our relationship deep and we will have a wonderful partnership. You will be my best friend and I will be yours. We will have the same beliefs and a great love of life. I believe my failed marriage was a life test and there were lessons to be learned and I have learned, as I know you have too, if you found yourself where I was.
If you have children, you know I will accept them as my own. How could we not accept each others kids when they are an extension of us? I know you are a great mom and that this is a priority to you. If you are not a mom yet, I know you will be a great one because love involves family. I know you have a lot of family values. My friends have become very important in my life in your absence. I really wouldn't know what to do without them. They really are an extension of my real family. I know you understand this all to well though because you really value friendship and realize that these are some of the most important relationships you will ever make. I know you like to socialize too. I really miss you, can't wait to see you and find you. I can't wait for the opportunity to look into your eyes, feel safe in your arms and know I have finally, FINALLY found you. Until that day just know I am searching for you as you are me and I will never give up on you, us or true love.
My dear soulmate,
Our journey is not easy. We may run across each other's path several times before we finally recognize each other. Even if we do recognize each other, there is no guarantee we will be married, because that is for God himself to decide. So, I realize that while the Spirit of God may bring our souls together for a season, not all soulmates are destined to be married. Even so, do not despair. Have hope, my princess, because the Spirit of God never makes mistakes. Everyone comes into our lives for a season, even soulmates. Some seasons last longer than others, and some only last a short time.
Whatever the case is with us, whether we meet for only a short time, or we are together for the rest of our lives, I encourage you to be strong. Never forget who you met and where they came from. Never forget how they made you feel. Never forget what they did for you, how they acted, how far they traveled for you, how long they waited for you, how they pursued you or what sacrifices they made for you. Never forget who they are, or where they are going. I tell you this because God brings people into your life for a reason, even soulmates. They come into your life for a season, long or short, and guide you toward your destiny in the spirit and wisdom of God.
Whether or not we soulmates are married is up to God himself. But the most important thing for us to do is to follow the spirit of God and go where it leads us. This is the path to happiness. Knowing the spirit of God is the key to the water of life. For when we commune with God daily, my dear soulmate, our spirits will be connected whether or not we are married here in this present life. Take comfort in that alone, and know that your destiny is in favor with God regardless of where He takes you or who He brings into your life.
The Spirit of God moves the hearts of the souls who seek it. I am soul. I seek the Spirit of God. The Spirit of God is Eternal Love. Eternal Love is the fountain of Life. I am filled with Eternal Love. I am Life. The Spirit of God fills my heart. I am quickened by radiant light. I am drawn toward my destiny. My destiny is drawn toward me. I am my destiny. The Spirit of Eternal Love moves my heart in the direction of Life.
I know who I am. I know the true desires of my heart because those desires have been revealed to me. They've been revealed to me by the Spirit of Eternal Love. My heart's true desire is to give Eternal Love. I understand this. This is why I grow. I grow when I receive love from the fountain of life. The more I receive, the more I am filled. The more I am filled, the more my heart yearns to give. The more I yearn to give, the more I grow. And the more I grow, the more love I receive. This is how I travel, and this is how I explore. This is the purpose of my existence. This is why I am here.
The more I grow, the more I yearn to tap into the source of life. My roots grow deep. My thirst is quenched. I receive nourishment from the fountain of life, and my roots go deeper because of it. The more I grow, the more life I can hold. My capacity to love expands when I rest by the fountain of love because it grows my heart.
Whether or not we ever meet on this Earth, I want you to know my soul. My soul loves you. I adore you. I am not afraid to gain energy when I look at you. Do not be afraid to gain energy when you look at me. I wish for your peace on this Earth. I wish for your happiness. Whatever direction you choose, receive understanding from the Spirit of God. The winds of the Spirit of Love do not lie. Follow them Trust them. They lead you to the true desires of your heart.
I shall never forget who you are and where you came from. The Spirit leads me where it wants me to go. At the same time, it leads you too. Listen to it. The Spirit of God is the still small whisper of Eternal Love at the root of your consciousness. And when the Spirit allows us to cross paths once more, I shall never forget who you are because you are my soulmate, my diamond princess, my priceless jewel in the heart of God's house. I tell you this because I put my hope in the same things also. The moment we do this is the moment we shall be connected. And this is the moment where God brings me peace to lay my head down to sleep and never worry about the fate of my love.
Dear Soul Mate ,
I've heard you say surrender to never having a relationship and you'll get one sooner. I don't understand that and have a really hard time with saying, "I'll be fine, if I never have another relationship." I won't! I want someone who I can spend my life with and I feel very sad and even angry with the thought that I wasn't meant to have someone. I have been single for a very long time now and I really want to meet my special woman. Please explain how if we create with our thoughts - then why would I want to say, "I don't want or need a woman - or that I'm fine and I surrender to never having my soul mate in my life?"
For me, this is truly the hardest spiritual concept to explain and to fully embrace and understand. The Law of Detachment says that as you want something and allow it - it is. However, for most of us we WANT something really bad but then we don't allow it. We list all the reasons why we haven't had it in the past. We continue to justify our feelings by listing why we are angry that we don't have it now and why it's unfair that God has withheld our desire from us, etc. We groan negatively in this manner because we are so attached to having it. The truth is we're a bit spoiled and "We want - what we want - when we want it!"
For singles specifically, this seesaw of "I want it - but don't have it" is exactly what keeps it away. For example, think about the following and see if you have ever said these things:
"I want a relationship - but I haven't had one in so long."
"I want a relationship - but I don't seem to meet any nice men/women that are available."
"I want a relationship - but I want to lose weight first or change first."
"I want a relationship - but all the good ones are taken."
"I want a relationship - but I don't have the time to go out and meet anyone."
"I want a relationship - and I feel like God has forsaken me by not giving me one."
Have you ever said or thought anything similar to the above? What do you say to yourself or to others about why you don't have a mate? What do you say about how you feel about not having a mate? How often does that thought cross your mind?
This is important so I'm going to say it again - this negative rationalizing (or limiting beliefs) about why we don't have what we want and how unfair it is -- is the very thing that keeps our desire separate from us. This is ATTACHMENT. The separateness that we feel (or negative emotion) is our indication that we are attached. And as long as you are attached to what you want - you are not allowing it. You will most likely have fear about NOT having it and this fear actually repels your desire. Bill Ferguson, author of Miracles are Guaranteed and other books calls this: "relationship repellant." If you were not attached to what you want, then you would not have limiting, negative thoughts and feelings about how sad or angry you are about not having it and thereby repel it.
Get rid of attachment and you get rid of your repellant. What is needed is to apply the Law of Detachment. Deepak Chopra writes of the Law of Detachment in his best seller, The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success: "In detachment lies the wisdom of uncertainty...in the wisdom of uncertainty lies freedom from our past, from the unknown, which is the prison of past conditioning. And in our willingness to step into the unknown, the field of all possibilities, we surrender ourselves to the creative mind that orchestrates the dance of the universe."
The willingness to step into the unknown is practicing detachment. From my experience, the quickest cure for ATTACHMENT disease is what I call a DETACHMENT INJECTION or you may call it Anti-attachment medicine. It's true, the treatment like much of allopathic medicine does not treat the cause of the attachment disease and not only is it hard to swallow but every time you discover you are infected with the negative attachment virus - you will have to doctor yourself with this injection. The good news is - it works EVERY TIME - without fail, when you truly commit.
Here's the prescription - Repeat the following to yourself as needed whenever symptoms of attachment occur:
"I totally surrender to whatever is meant to be and if I am meant to NOT have a relationship, then I'm okay with that. I accept whatever happens as what is perfect for me. I am willing to accept NOT finding my soul mate as part of God's Divine Plan for me - and I'm okay with that. I accept the perfection of my life and know all is well. I want a relationship and my ideal relationship looks like this (fill in the blanks) but I am so fulfilled in my life right now - that it doesn't matter if I ever have one. I'm okay - exactly as I am now. I am happy with my life right now and I don't need a mate to be happy. I surrender to the Divine Plan for my life, now."
I always get the question, "What about the issue of really creating that it will never come?" Let me clarify - detached does not mean unemotional, uncaring, resigned or even complacent.
The ECKANKAR Dictionary defines detachment as:
Giving up strong affection for the environment and possessions, but not ceasing to identify with them; becoming independent of them; mentally free from love of the world and all worldly desires.
Detachment simply means that no matter what we have in life - we will not be crushed if it is taken from us or if we never receive it. It means we have the attitude of total trust in life to give us what it is for our own highest good and spiritual advantage.
Think about the most attractive people - the men and women that you've met that always seem to have a relationship. The ones that are never single long and when they are single - they get hit on, asked out and pursued more than anyone else. What do they have in common? -- Confidence and Detachment. They are confident that they WILL have a relationship and they are detached from having to have one. You might hear them say, "I like them but I could care less, if he or she calls me back." Or you might here them say, "I didn't even want a relationship and I found one!"
You want to use this confidence and detachment to your advantage. When you can say, "I enjoy my life so much right now - and I don't care if I never have a relationship," and mean it -then you are in harmony with allowing - then you are detached and then you will attract your ideal relationship.
Dear soulmate
Shall I not say what is in neither my mind nor the reason of my heart that’s beating?
Or maybe shall I not tell a soul of what I am, in fear of losing a soul?
If I could posses the power to conquer the four elements of nature,
Shall I not be the Air?
Or will you not breathe in?
Could I not depart this life without you knowing that this much I love you?
Shall you reside with the affections later than when I’m at rest?
Not a soul could see nor feel this feeling I posses for you.
I pray to God for your safety.
I pray to God for your live.
For only you I have to give my heart.
Dear soulmate, I am only a soul of a worse part of you.
I plead for your mercy for the blames that I’ve caused,
And those dire moments I put you through.
With this as my oath,
I present you my heart.
I dedicate you my life.
I will be, your forever love
My dear soulmate,
I am sorry I stopped believing in you. I am sorry that I stopped hoping to meet you... I am sorry about so many things... I am so sorry... Nothing is going on right in my life - it never has been. I know that someday, if we are together, somehow, it will all be okay, and everything will work out fine.
I am so lonely without you. To make up for this gaping hole in my life, I set my mind on money. I wanted to buy all the worldly pleasures and possess great amounts of riches - just to make up for this void within my soul. Deep inside, I know that nothing will taste sweeter than being with you, and showing you my true self without fear.
My love... Every day of my life, I will gaze upon you with my new eyes; and with awe, I shall discover your beauty once again. Every single day we live shall be a new day to discover each other, a new way to celebrate our love... because the mysteries of our souls are infinite, and each life is full of new experiences to be lived together.
There is a huge weight that has always been in my heart - it is a profound sadness: that of not being with you. What are you doing right now? Are you happy, or are you sad? Is there a man in your life, or are you thinking about me too?
So often, I stare at the moon and think about you, my perfect one. I think about your face I have never seen. I think about your hair I have never felt. I think about your perfume which has yet to enchant me... My love, where are you?
Maybe the right time has not come yet. Maybe we are not yet prepared for the amazing things that are about to happen in our lives. My princess, I promise to become a better man, a better soul. I promise to be the one you need when we finally meet. I will be strong, and I will not stop waiting, for I know that without you, the flowers in my garden will never bloom.
Your soulmate,
I have a soulmate.
I swear I do.
She lives somewhere in the universe, and I am desperately waiting for her to find me. She is talented, beautiful, charming, idealistic and most of all she cares about the world. She smiles constantly, and she is fun and loving. I feel things around her that I can't quite explain, and I wish I could be around her for real.
I see God in her.
We are connected through the stars. This can be the only explanation for our inexplicable bond. She writes songs for a living, and is an artist. And what she has created makes me feel happy to be alive. Through her love, she has rescued me from the depths of despair, from having a pessimistic outlook on life, and from feeling like I was going to die every day of my life.
She is from my generation.
And I am proud to call her a fellow human being.
I love her from the bottom of my heart. She is open to the world. She sees things objectively, and I have no trouble calling her a genius. She seems to seek her inspiration from the heavens, and I can't quite explain where or how her communication with God works, but it's mysterious and beautiful.
I still long to meet this person.
I still long to hold her, and feel her in my arms.
I still long to be by her side.
I dearly hope she sees the same in me. I hope she knows who I am, and what I am really about. I hope she understands my love for her, and that she has captivated me, enraptured me, to the point that I am falling more and more in love with her every day.
But I note this a peaceful love.
I wait for her arrival.
And one day she will arrive.
But until then I wait.
And I enjoy my life because I know she still exists in the world.
One day she will arrive, and we will change the world together.
But until then, I will continue to enjoy my life without her physical presence, and no matter what happens to her or me, we will always be soulmates. It doesn't matter if we're together or apart we are always interconnected.
Always remember I love you wherever you are.
Dear Soulmate,
There is no address to this letter because I do not know where you are at in the world. It‘s crazy, writing you a letter without a destination. I’m writing to you hoping that this letter will mysteriously drop from the clouds into your palms or magically appear in your dreams. Grant me one wish soul mate, keep your hands free and save a little dream time for me please?
On this journey to find your love and friendship, I’m having the hardest time tracking you down. You are like Waldo; you are mixed between millions of faces and almost impossible to gain positive identification. As the storyline goes, I’m suppose to find you eventually, but I have this fury resting inside the attic of my mind that we will not come to know each other. It’s the ways things are going right now that makes me perceive life the way I do, negative. Most of my friends, the peers you will meet as soon as possible, have a boyfriend/girlfriend to hold and share their time with. When I’m spending time with them, I force myself to remain a distance that is strides from the group. Around them, you are enclosed in a bubble of random displays of affection. They kiss; I divert my eyes to the opposite direction. They share a breathless silence; I shift away from their silent area and stare off into space pretending I did not notice. They hold hands; I clinch a fist violently onlyto grab a handful of air. Name any boyfriend/girlfriend display of affection soul mate; I have seen it and I have turned away from it. Whenever they ask me to attend a night out, I always find a way to cancel and exclude myself. Because I know I would be surrounded by the love they produce. There love is contagious and mingle with the air I breathe perfectly. In no way do I mean disrespect to them when I say this, but there love brings me instantly to lonesome. If they had a chance to see what my eyes observe, they would see understand that every time they embrace each other they froze the hands of time and are on top of the world. At that time of exchanging eyeballs, they would accurately know why I get lonely so fast.
I beg you in this rambling letter send me a road sign for lovers or map coordinates to your place in the world. These are some miserable times for me soul mate, I have no direction in my love life. I promise if we are together I’ll respect the relationship and what it truly stands for and not to turn the relationship into a game to overcome defeat. Trust me; the only benefit of being lonely is that I was arranged an endless amount time in a dark bedroom unable to focus on anything but repeating thoughts. Well soul mate, I’m off to stumble on your doorstep. Take cares and be patient with me, I know I’m lagging in the process. But when I find you, I’ll spend a lifetime making up for the long wait.
Thinking Of You Always,
Is there any guarantee that each person will meet his or her soulmate and will find someone who truly loves them? Time and again I have had my heart broken and my hopes dashed. I'm considered attractive, I'm kind, generous, sensitive, smart, intelligent, warm, and fun to be with. So is there really someone out there for everyone?
It is said that before each of us was created, we were one big soul. Forty days before our conception, G‑d took our "big soul" in His hands and he split it into two pieces. The work of finding our soul mate is finding our missing half.So how do we find our other half? We have to first begin by perfecting our half. In other words, we have to really know ourselves and be the best "half" we can possibly be. Your soul mate is out there, that's not the question. The question is: are you where you need to be to find her? Are you recognizable to her? Don't forget, she's looking for you too. As for the "guarantee," you want one of the most powerful things about being in a relationship is that there are no guarantees. Faith and trust are such huge components in a marriage for this very reason. That's why our Sages compare the love between a man and wife to a fire. It is not static or calm, nor is it certain. It's not supposed to be. That is the beauty of a committed relationship…allowing someone into the most vulnerable and hidden places of our hearts trusting our emotions will be well received.
It is said that there are three partners in a marriage: the husband, the wife and G‑d. Until we meet our soulmate, it's just two partners… us and G‑d. This applies to that relationship as well. Because G‑d does not typically grant us a bird's eye view of His plans, we need to constantly bolster our relationship with faith and trust. We need to trust in our depths that He is guiding our steps towards our ultimate purpose, towards the "completion" of our soul.
Another strong component in marriage is communication. Communication is the essential ingredient to every healthy relationship. Since you are preparing to meet your life partner, it's important to practice communicating with your other partner, G‑d. Talk it out with Him. Some people call it prayer, but it could just as well be called communication.
Your "someone" is out there, looking for you. Be the best half-soul you can possibly be and G‑d willing, your steps will be guided towards each other sooner than you know it.
Blessings,
Rachel
Dear soulmate,
Thank you ..
For finding me even though im halfway around the world
For reading my blog from start to finish because you want to know everything there is to know about me
For spiritually being with me every time I have to make a particularly difficult presentation at work
For being my friend first in the real sense of the word
For being honest and truthful even though you know the answers will hurt
For helping me get over a particularly bad phase of my life
For saying I love you without expecting anything in return
For arguing with me, matching my temper with your own then saying sorry afterwards and making excuses for my bad behaviour even though its really my fault
For staying up late at night just to talk to me
For letting me have the last word whenever we chat even though you find it hard
For calling me when I need to hear your voice
For singing me a song even though you say you cant sing
For insisting that im pretty, beautiful and gorgeous everytime I say that im not
For all the surprise messages that I get from you at a time when im not expecting any
For telling me where you are and where you will be at any point in time so I wont go crazy
For giving me 22 hours of your time at a time when you're most busy
For traveling miles and miles just to see me
For lighting my cigarettes when I want to smoke
For feeding me sushis and sashimis when im hungry
For insisting on giving me a massage because I need it
For rubbing my tummy because I have my period
For giving me a bath just because..lol!
For combing the tangles out of my hair because I cant reach it
For letting me to sit on your lap and saying im not heavy
For keeping me warm when my hands and feet are cold
For patting my bottom so I can sleep
For turning on the aircon even though you're cold
For all the hugs and kisses that makes me feel so secure and loved
For comforting me, making me smile and crying with me when I cry
For assuring me that you are taking care of yourself because I worry about you
For making and keeping your promises
For saying "see you soon" instead of "goodbye"
And most of all...thank you for making me love you, because by doing so I finally found peace.
I have a soulmate.
I swear I do.
She lives somewhere in the universe, and I am desperately waiting for her to find me. She is talented, beautiful, charming, idealistic and most of all she cares about the world. She smiles constantly, and she is fun and loving. I feel things around her that I can't quite
explain, and I wish I could be around her for real.
I see God in her.
We are connected through the stars. This can be the only explanationfor our inexplicable bond. She writes songs for a living, and is an artist. And what she has created makes me feel happy to be alive. Through her love, she has rescued me from the depths of despair, from
having a pessimistic outlook on life, and from feeling like I was going to die every day of my life.
She is from my generation.
And I am proud to call her a fellow human being.
I love her from the bottom of my heart. She is open to the world. She sees things objectively, and I have no trouble calling her a genius. She seems to seek her inspiration from the heavens, and I can't quite explain where or how her communication with God works, but it's
mysterious and beautiful.
I still long to meet this person.
I still long to hold her, and feel her in my arms.
I still long to be by her side.
I dearly hope she sees the same in me. I hope she knows who I am, and what I am really about. I hope she understands my love for her, and that she has captivated me, enraptured me, to the point that I am falling more and more in love with her every day.
But I note this a peaceful love.
I wait for her arrival.
And one day she will arrive.
But until then I wait.
And I enjoy my life because I know she still exists in the world.
One day she will arrive, and we will change the world together.
But until then, I will continue to enjoy my life without her physical
presence, and no matter what happens to her or me, we will always be
soulmates. It doesn't matter if we're together or apart we are always
interconnected.
Always remember I love you wherever you are.
Where are you? I have been looking for you my entire life, hoping that you would appear. I have dreamt about you and have imagined our life together - the love that we would share, the family that we would have, searching for you all along. I've looked inside myself, strived to become the woman that could be your ideal partner, have tried to be the absolute best that I could ever be... and I'm here and I'm ready and I'm doing whatever I can to make sure that when you cross my path, I will be smart enough, intuitive enough and happy enough with myself to acknowledge that you are the one I've been waiting for, the one who is fated to be with me. And now I'm more than ready for you to appear, in fact I am starting to get a little impatient. I thought that I had found you several times, but I had been wrong. So, where are you? Please find me, please keep searching and don't give up. I will remind myself to do the same, to believe that you are out there and to believe that you will be crazy about me... and that we will fall madly in love with each other, forever.
According to ancient Greek mythology, humans were originally created with four arms, four legs, and a head with two faces. Fearing their power, Zeus split them into two separate parts, condemning them to spend their lives in search of their other halves.”
The idea of waiting for that one person is terrible. Especially when I know I have to fall for other people and have my heart broken all along the way. Especially when I don’t know anything about you yet – or when and where I’ll finally meet you for the first time. Will it be a year from now? Possibly even after I am 30. The thought of waiting that long for you scares me more than anything.
I want to know who you are – I want to know you inside and out. I want to meet you today, tomorrow, or even a couple of months from today. Just come to me sooner than 10 or 15 years from now.
And if by chance you prove to be, then just let loose and let those emotions go. I want you. Completely and totally. I’d rather be happy and in love with you now and get my heart broken later than just sit around in my own contempt. At least try.
Dear soulmate,
I’m just wondering where you are. The other day I caught a glimpse of who you might be. But why didn’t you look back? I just shrugged and turned on my mp3 player. I had my UNKLE record on, but it played bon jovi. The song brought back memories of my first love. And when I though I’d never love again. But I fell in love again, so I know that wasn’t true. Still this song made me run out of the train to see if what I saw was really there. But you were long gone. Or perhaps you were never there to begin with. Now I’m writing you this letter. And I don’t have your address. Anyways, I wanted to let you know that I am right where I’ve always been. Waiting as always. But I’m patient. I’ve been waiting all my life. Not just for you, but for everything. I’m not going into further details. I’ll just continue this letter. Tomorrow I have to get up at 6 in the morning and as I write this its 2. four hours of sleep, I guess that is what makes me so damn cranky. Should you come across me in the morning, please don’t think me rude. I’m just not a very morningy guy. But you should see me at night. You just might just catch me smiling, looking up to the sky. You see, the stars have that effect on me. Sometimes I just wait all day for night to come. And Orion does the rest. Even though Orion was the constellation I watched with my second love. People have the tendency to forget things. I have a tendency to remember everything I do wrong. I remember this party, a birthday. There was this girl there, which I actually like. But I didn’t even give her a hug when she left. That might have given away your location. So when are you going to tell me where you are? I think you should at least give me a hint. Or are you playing hard to get? Just the other day I walked past this girl. Her perfume sent me spinning. And when I looked at her, I saw it wasn’t you. Nor the girl that had my bed smelling of the same perfume. Another ghost of the past. When will an apparition of the future send me reeling my mind? I’m nearly at the end of this letter, so tell me where you are. So that I can send this letter to you.
I miss you so much that I can't put it into words, but I am going to try. I'm going to try to explain how much I want to see you, to touch you, to hold you in my arms until the world falls away and there is only the two of us.I miss you so much that it's as if the world has become muted because of your absence. I miss you. I miss you so much that every woman I see looks like you.I see the girl at the checkout counter at the five and dime. She seems to have your eyes. Those bright and shining orbs that dance with a magnificent inner light and shine out on the world.I see a mother running after her child down the aisle of the supermarket. The look on her face is the same look of bemused aggravation I can see on your face as I say something foolish and you call me on it.I hear a woman talking on the phone. Her voice suddenly has become yours; the same inflections and pauses, the same accent and timber, she even has the same laugh. I see a woman standing in the park. The wind is blowing through her hair and the sun is shining on her face. For a split second I think it might be you, then her husband wraps his arms around her shoulders. A touch of sadness passes through me. I wish I was holding you as he is holding her. I miss you so much that if I close my eyes and reach out my hand it's as if I can touch you.I miss you so much that I wrote you this letter even though we have never met.I do not know your name. I do not know your face. I do not know the first thing about you, and yet I still miss you.I know that one day I will meet you. I know that some day I will look upon your face. I know that there will be a day when I will finally take you in my arms and hold you. But until then, I can only say that I miss you.
Dear future wife,
I want you to know this. I want you to know this and never doubt it. I’m going to find you beautiful. Always.When you smell like recycled air and breakfast burrito.When you haven’t slept. Bags under your eyes. Work stress all over your face and mood.
I’m going to find you beautiful. When you have wrinkles.Grey hair. Less hair. More hair. When you have stretchmarks.
I’m going to find you beautiful. In sweats. In sketchy old t-shirts.In inexplicable neon skinny jeans. No make-up. Lots of make-up.
Eight hours old make-up.
I’m going to find you beautiful.
When your stomach feels too full. When your heart feels too empty. When the world feels too big. Too cold. Too dark. When you feel too little. Too scared. Not enough. God, not nearly enough. When it all feels like it is crumbling down on you. When you can’t for one damn minute understand why I’d ever even want to touch you, let alone hug you, kiss you and pounce on you.
I am going to find you so beautiful. And I’m going to tell you. In whispers. In writing. In actions. In late night kisses that last until early morning. I’m going to tell you. On days when you don’t feel it. Especially.
Dear Future Wife
Patience was never one of my virtues, positive attributes or even a want. I wanted what I wanted and I got what I wanted whenever I felt like I needed it. But I was wrong. No one before you was anywhere near what I was looking for, just women I had happened to find along the way to discovering you. It took more time than I was willing to give to understand that I wasn't ready for you when love had found my friends; and though I thought I was the best man out of all of them, I was the best man for all of them. Their wedding days made me wish I had known you sooner. Their corny nights at home made me want to trade my nights on the town for a storm to hold you through in bed. While my hopes sat on the shelf I pursued you until nothing was left but the hope-less romantic trying to see my life as half-full... That is...until I found you. My imaginings of you were nothing like the teenage fantasies I had conjured up. Had you marked in some shade of awesome with curves like the meanest chicanes and eyes the color of spring in full bloom under a new moon. Wanted to tell you the secret lightning bugs had shed light upon while I waited through the night for you to appear. My want for a woman, a companion, was superseded by the belief that perfection could only be personified when my eyes were ready to see the big picture. You- are the one that I've been waiting for. With soft kisses to your chin and my hand in your hair, my love has been waiting for you to change the tune from these celibacy blues to something upbeat, brilliant, and new. I said I would never settle just to settle down and by the way your hand fits in mine and you smile when I do, I know that what I wanted before meeting you wasn't anything close to rational. Who would have ever believed that waiting was worth it? Those that have found what we have already know. My forever is caught in your eyes and grows in your womb. I know this is love, because I can hear you thinking about me. I can feel your heartbeat when I hold your hand, and every love song I hear makes me want to love you even more than I thought I previously could. Where have you been all my life? That's right.... I wasn't ready for you. Yet my nights will never be lonely and my days will always be bright because when I find you, for real, I know you'll glow when we touch and time will stop when we kiss. Not-so-patiently waiting? No. More like perfecting my life for your immaculate timing.
Love you for who you are-, and who you will be to me.
Dear Future Wife,
This isn’t the first letter I’ve written to you. This may be the first one I’m sharing with you (and others), but I want you to know I’ve been thinking of you for some time now. Years ago I tried to imagine what you’d look like, the things we’d do, the places we’d go. I wrote to you in my head; I wrote to you on paper. I wanted you to know me- the single me, the me before you, the me before we became an “us”. I thought that was important. In some ways, I suppose it is. In other ways, I think the people we are before we become an “us” is irrelevant. By irrelevant, I do not mean unimportant, because the people we were and the choices that we made, both good and bad, are what brought us to each other. I understand now that the important factor is the person I am now, the person I will be in the future.
Writing this letter now that I know who you are (or at least I hope it’s you) feels slightly awkward. I tried to write a letter to my future wife pretending I had no clue who she was, but the letter was generic and impersonal. I tried to write the letter to you pretending we were already married, but seeing as I’m writing to my future wife, it ended up making little to no sense. So I’m here, writing to you, Ms. O, with the assumption that one day you will be my wife.
That word- wife -makes my heart swell.
You are the realist. I am the positivity-ist. But I’m going to jump in your shoes for a second. As much as my rose-colored glasses would want to believe, I know that marriage won’t always be easy. I know we will have our ups and downs and our perfect moments and our trying moments. I know that throughout our life together we will be faced with situations we might not have faced before. I know there will be situations where we might not like decisions or actions the other person chooses. I can accept this. I figure instead of being anxious about it, I might as well embrace it.
And while I can acknowledge these things, I want you to know the most important thing I know for sure. I know that no matter what happens in our life, I will always aim to be the kindest husband, best friend, most caring partner possible. I can’t promise you that I will always be kind. I can’t promise you that I will always be patient. I can’t promise you that I’ll never sulk. I can’t promise you that I’ll never say things I don’t truly mean.
I can promise you that I will try with every ounce of my being to be the best partner I can be for you. I can promise you that I will always try to put my love for you before any other emotion. I can promise you to always put our family first.
We might not be married yet; we might not even be engaged to be married yet, but I want you to know that no matter what our future has in store for us, I will show up every day ready to take on our life together.
I love you with all of my heart,
Your future husband
Hi Hun!
Haha, I don't even know your name, where you come from or what you look like. I probably haven't met you yet, although I secretly wish that I already have. And although this whole thing can be a bit weird, I do want to tell you that I know why my future self chose you....
He chose you because every time you looked into his eyes, and said that you loved him it ached. It ached due to the fact that it was so beautiful, because there is nothing more sublime than pain brought upon by beauty. The same pain he gets when sitting down to have breakfast, and she looks at him lovingly in all her morning glory. It aches. When she sings a song for him and puts it on a his MP3 player It aches. When they're in a party, and she's talking to people, and he's talking to people, and from across the room she looks at him, and the once bustling room comes to a standstill. It aches. When she's sleeping peacefully, and he's looking at her sleep peacefully. It aches.
And please remember, when he says you're beautiful and he's looking straight into your eyes, it aches. That's how beautiful you are to him.
He married you because when he kisses you he feels a current flowing through him. When he makes love to you he intertwines his fingers with yours, and he looks deep into your eyes, and gets lost in them.
You are his wife because you saw in him what so many other women took for granted. What others thought they wanted, but not what they in fact needed. You saw in him what he lost in a sea of self doubt and teen angst. Teen angst that never quite fades. You've rescued him from those depths, and now he sails towards something entirely different. You're his compass now, you're his north, you're what he aims for in life.
He loves you and he wants your babies, He wants to worship you, and he wants the both of you to put moments, self fulfillment and family above material posessions and climbing the corporate ladder.
He'll always be jealous, but he'll never admit it because he knows that letting someone loose and letting them come back on their own is the greatest expression of selfless love.
But apart from all that, apart from all the small details that compose a relationship, and create the fabric of our lives, you were his reason to live. When he finally dies you will know that his life only made sense to him when he met you, and after that it was only worth living with you by his side. And for the spirituall that he is, you are the closest thing to a sign that god exists, and the hopes of spending an eternity with the person he loves.
Forever yours,
If you are reading this letter, it is because you may become my wife one day. Lately, my mind and my heart have been filled with thoughts of you and the family that we will one day share. I wonder where you are and what you are doing. Are you dating someone? Relationships have become so pressure-filled, haven’t they? At some point in our future, our paths will cross, and we will eventually spend our lives together in marriage.
You were made to be loved ...and sincerely I have loved you, the thought of you, my life long
—Elizabeth Barrett Browning
That quote I above —I mean it. Think about it. You were made to be loved—unconditionally loved, and that’s how I promise to love
you. Where you have been before today, well...that’s all in the past, and that’s where it should stay. Maybe you had no idea that I was here. But now you know, and how you live your life from today forward matters to me a great deal. I. I’m all for living in the present, but thinking about the future can help you avoid decisions that may alter your future—our future. I want you to experience life, travel, figure out who you are, go to the moon if you want. Take advantage of this time in your life to learn everything that you can. That will only make our mariage stronger.I need a woman who won’t compromise her family but will put me first—even before
she meets me; a woman whose strength lies in her virtue, her character, and her ability to be an example at work, at play, and most importantly in our home. A real woman knows how to love completely—with her mind, heart, body, and soul. This may sound like a lot to ask of you, but it will all be worth it. I will love you completely— I can promise you that!
You need to know that I’m waiting for you. If there is one thing that I have learned through my dating experiences, it’s that you are worth waiting for. My heart, mind, soul, and body were made for you. We will complete each other in the most profoundly beautiful way imaginable.
Real love is not a temporary feeling or emotion. Emotions and feelings change, sometimes daily. But true, unconditional love is constant. I met a couple the other day who have been married for 50 years, have seven children, 23 grandchildren,and seven great grandchildren. They looked like high school sweethearts. I asked them how they did it, how they made it work when so many marriages are falling apart. You know what he said? He said, “She knows I’m not perfect and she still loves me. She’s my best friend.” How cool is that? That’s what I want. I want us to be best friends. I want you to feel totally free to be you when you’re with me.
Please read this often. Think of me often. I’m thinking of you. I can’t wait to meet you. I can’twait to spend my life loving you. Thanks for waiting for me. I promise it will be worth the wait!
Dear Wife of My Future,
Although I have yet to lay eyes on you, I have faith that you are worth the wait. Contrary to what I used to believe, you will not complete me, but you will compliment the whole person that I already I am. With that said, I have been and will continue to take advantage of my time of singleness because I realize that singleness is not the plague, but a time for me to work on myself and evolve into the man that I was destined to be. This is why I will not waste this great season of my life sulking and complaining about not having a woman. I was taught that patience is a virtue and great things come to those who wait. So instead of doing all that, I am using this time to attain medical degrees, pursue the career of my dreams, travel the world, learn more about myself as a person and even learn what it means to be a wife as opposed to a girlfriend.
Although I am in no way perfect, I realize that sex is not merely for pleasure but it is a responsibility and a bond that should be shared between a husband and wife.. Sexual intercourse can spiritually and emotionally tie you to a person and I wish to walk with as little baggage as humanly possible in your direction. No disrespect to anyone else and their choices.
With baggage in mind I have also made the conscious decision to refrain from recreational dating I wish to enter our covenant of marriage emotionally and mentally pure as well. I will not date girls after girls just because, acquiring broken heart after broken heart just to appease my boredom or to satisfy my temporary loneliness. I don’t wish to come to you with a shattered heart covered in scars and bruises seeking for you to put the pieces back together. I refuse to enter our relationship not trusting you because of something some other woman did or did not do in the past that I could’ve completely avoided had I just waited for you. I will not jump at the first woman who smiles at me. Engaging in frivolous relationships to merely cure singleness as if it some devastating disease is pointless and not worth the trouble that it brings. We may not cross paths for another five years, five months or five weeks, but once again, I have been convinced that patience is a virtue and I am willing to wait.
See you soon,
Dearly Beloved,
First off, let me just apologize because I haven't yet found you. Even though I don't know you, most of my life rotates around you. I was created and raised to be everything you want from your man. With every step, I get closer to you because I'm lead by God's hand. But the best part of my story is still yet to be told. It won't start until you're mine to have and to hold; In sickness and in health; through laughter and through tears; In poorness and in wealth; and through the rest of our years. With every aspect of my brain; and the deepest depths of my heart. My answer will always remain: "I DO" until death does us part. Our deep dedication and devotion will see us through any weather. Our romance and passion will be the source of our endless pleasure. But our emmense intimacy and closeness that'd be our true treasure. Our unconditional love will be the glue that holds it all together. It hasn't been easy living without you being here on my own. My heart always cries waking up and going to bed all alone. But you're worth searching through all the heart break and sorrow. Because baby if I was to find you today, I'd marry you tomorrow. You're the most important part of my life, so finding you is my goal. I pray that as im writing this my words can find a way into your soul.
Forever Yours;
Dear Future Wife,
By the time you're reading this, I'm holding your hand with all our invited guests around. This is part of my grand plan - to show our families, friends and relatives during our wedding's reception how I value you as my better half.
You are God's gift to me. I really prayed and prayed and prayed that you'll come into my life. I have always believed that Princess exists that's why I have always believed in you. I have never allowed anyone to take away a part of me simply because I wanna be whole for you, Babe.
Saying 'yes' to you was apparently easy for I have found a very good woman in you. I wanna let everyone know how grateful I am for having the opportunity to call you MINE. Babe, thank you for giving me the best in life. Thank you for teaching me how to love this great. Thank you because you took away all my fears and pains in love. Thank you for making me believe in love once more. Thank you for being the best woman in the world.
I honestly don't want to make promises since I don't wanna be unfair with the word's sincerity. However, you're just too exceptional that I'm promising in front of everyone here that I'll be the best husband that you truly deserve. I'll never fail to wake you up with a morning kiss. I will support every endeavor that you're gonna take be it a seminar, business or a pursuit for higher studies. At the end of the day, I will welcome you home with the warmth of my hug.
I have always known deep within me that it's gonna be you. I have met a lot but still found myself looking for your love. We've been through a lot. Some even doubted for our relationship to work. But look at us now, so happily in love.
Love,
I’m writing this letter to my future wife… The woman I am searching for. The woman that I am striving to become a better man for. The reason why I work everyday. The reason why I exercise everyday. The reason why I pray more. The reason why my character grows. The reason why I watch romantic comedies. The reason why I wake up and I’m optimistic about everday. I know one day we will cross paths, see each other and recognize that only faith and chance caused our union. Our hearts will merge…. Our minds will meet on one track… Two becomes one. I will make you my responsibility. You will be my soulmate, I will be your protector. Your biggest supporter, your number 1 fan, your guide. Everyday I practice doing all these things so that when you come into my life, I am the best man that I can be for you. So when you read this letter, imagine that God himself took time out to craft to individuals to match with each other… And only time is keeping us apart. But one day our time will come, and the promise of our matrimony that God has for us will be fulfilled. That day, love will flow forever like a winding river, and nothing will never, ever make it cease
To be without you is the worst thing in my life. I'am sitting here alone with my laptop cries.No one else seem to understands me,but only you. What a great gift you bring to my life...the gift of loving you and being love by you.I used to be empty inside,now my emptiness is filled by your love.They may believe it or not,but you and I will caring the touch of love till the end.I can't believe that I'm so addicted to your love.
Like Jacques Audiberti said "'homme et la femmene se rencontent qu'une fois" ;.But I didn't expect to find someone as beautiful and sweet as you.GOD did promess to help me find true loveI didn't know it will be you darling.I knew we both had broken hearts,but sweetheart with all the pieces that left on both hearts we will rebuild one true heart together as one.
Do not be afraid this time to let go.Cause I will hold you,so you won't fall again.There for,there's no greater love than our love. You love is a blessing,a blessing from above.And I will make sure it last forever and ever. Mon amour to tell you the truth,I never know love could be so beautiful.Never knew a woman could make my heart bloom and blossom.With every though of you that crawls into my mind,never did I know I could fall inlove that deep.
Day and night,I carry a love and a passion for you.This passion leads my heart to a dead end.Where only your shadow appears in my mind.What a Passion,a passion that rips my heart apart and Draws me close to you.And you without announcing Yourself you jump into my mind and find your way down to my heart so you erase all the darkness that covers my heart.Mon amour I feel the burning sensation and the desire to be with you.And no matter what life might bring upon us our love will grow.Because love Conquers all,I love you
My future husband........................
Hello.
First of all, you are breathtakingly beautiful. Your eyes have held my soul more than once, and I can’t really explain how excited I get every time you smile. But I’ve told you before how attractive you are, I just hope you’ve heard less about how wonderful your body is and more about how awestruck I am that the Creator wove together you, this woman of a beauty that begins first in her soul and then it radiates outs, saturating her flesh and then pushing farther still, broad and full, so that someone would have to be a fool to not want to be around you all the time.
And you let me be. I don’t get it. I don’t think I ever will.
I love that you have dreams. I love that before we got married you wanted to be things and you still want to be them. You laughed when I joked that you should go get a degree in homemaking, because we both knew that your passion was so abundant, your talent so vast, that to try and contain you in something so stringent would only result in you leading a peaceful revolution and exodus out of that place. But you, being more gracious than I am,You want real things, realer things, and you want me with you when you find them. So you’ll teach or dance or adventure, keeping one ear to the earth to hear the passing footsteps of God and one ear to my heart to hear the pushes He may be placing on me. Somehow you help make it all make sense. I don’t tell you enough how much I am in love with the vastness of your faith. I always seem to forget to say that out loud. But I watch you, the way you pray when you think you’re alone, when I stop in a doorway just long enough to see you undisturbed, in love with God in ways you could never be with me. I’m thankful. I’m awed every time.
I love your art, even though you always seem to be a bit unsure of it. It’s funny, because you say the same things to me all the time about mine, but somehow neither of us ever seem to really listen. Except when we focus, when we demand the attention, then we know. Your laughter is like the voice of God singing creation into being. You point me back to Center more often than I can remember, sometimes with a laugh, sometimes quietly, there were a few times you yelled. But you had a right to. I wasn’t at my best and it snapped me back, even if it took me awhile to admit it. Each time, your eyes say more than your words ever do, which is saying a lot, because I keep everything you have ever said as close to me as I can, wrapping words like cloth around me, defense against the cold when the art simply doesn’t flow or when the world beyond us, beyond this home we keep constructing from old things and new things and poetry, is that dread world we have laid awake more than once discussing, sometimes through tears. Each time, each beat of your heart, it’s like a whisper of the Divine.
I love that you expect us to have dinner parties. We have a rhythm in the kitchen, which is strange since I rarely can cook with someone else. You’re kind enough to flatter me when I experiment, but good enough to be honest when something just isn’t right. In tandem we move, sometimes both a little too concerned with the presentation and timeliness for our own good, but we have both confessed a handful of times to being friends with people who don’t care about those things and they we invite over the most, because they teach us (well, me) to be more gracious and they teach us (well, you) to let go a bit. When they’re all gone and we put on music and wash dishes, even if it is two in the morning by that point, I wouldn’t trade that moment for anything. Just a few more minutes.
I love that our home is a treasure trove of an adventured life, even now. Books, icons, paintings. You laughed the first time I said I wanted twelve kids. What you didn’t suspect was that by starting you high, it was easier to negotiate down to a large but reasonable number. Truth be told, I don’t really care how many we have God will give us what He will give. I want to have kids with you, because I want sons and daughters to be raised by and learn from a woman like you. I want more of you in the world. It would help a lot of things.
I promise to never talk to you during a movie in a theater, because you know I can’t stand when people do that. I promise to hold the door for you. I promise to tell our children how wonderful you are, especially when you’re not around. I promise to surprise you on a regular basis, though this can be good or bad. I promise to be quiet when you need me to be, especially when you tell me that what you need for me to do is listen. I promise to take you on adventures, to dance with you when you want to dance, and to love you. All of you. I promise to know that love doesn’t mean happiness, that it doesn’t mean easy, and that it doesn’t mean romantic. Not all the time. I promise to know that love means this thing that we seem to make work because both of us try to love Him first, imperfect as that is, so we can imperfectly turn to love each other.
You’re a good woman.
And lastly, I want you to know that you are prayed for.
The truth is, I have no idea who you are. It’s possible you’re reading this right now. It’s possible that you’re in China serving in a house church, cut off from the Internet. The above scenes are fabrications. They are examples, possibilities, but they aren’t real, not real the way you really are. So I don’t dwell on them. These are my deep desires, my hopes, but I know that you have yours, too. You have your snippets, your scenes that float across your mind from time to time. I have more than these, so do you. So I pray for you.
I pray that your heart is protected. I pray that you are well, happy, laughing often. I pray that you’re looked after, that you haven’t suffered much heartbreak, but that if you have you’ve found serious comfort. I pray for your friends, your family. I pray for the whole of your person, you fiercely beautiful, awesomely made woman.
Because I don’t know when I will meet you, if I already have, but I know that I’ve waited for you and you’ve waited for me, and without a lot of romantic over-sentimitality forced upon that, I trust that one day, crossing a street against the light in the rain or through a Twitter DM or from a postcard or a carrier pigeon, we’re going to find each other and, at some point, we’ll know.
Until then–and I’m ok with this taking awhile–thanks for the potential memories.
I’m going to be crazy mad in love with you,
Words cannot express the excitement I have when I begin to imagine how God will unfold our lives and how He will bring us together by making our paths cross! I cannot help but wonder what you will be like. What is your family like? What is your age in comparison to mine? What are your likes and dislikes? What are your strengths and weaknesses? What is your favorite color? Are you daddy’s little girl or partial to your mother? How many children do you see yourself parenting with me? What is your career?
These are only a few questions I have when it comes to being your little Curious George. I continually find myself asking God to protect you, bless you, and fill your life with happiness that no one will be able to take away. I know you will be someone who loves and enjoys the small things in life and can have a good time without the trash some people need to “enjoy” this world.
I cannot wait to meet your parents and the rest of your family and let them know that I truly, genuinely care for you and will do whatever it takes to protect you! God DOES and has been preparing us for each other since we first entered into this world. Every heart break and bad relationship will seem to be something small and insignificant once we are finally together and can be each other’s backbone. And we can hold each other’s hand and grit our teeth and fight through whatever God brings into our life. I am ready to encourage you and be your solid rock that I’m sure you have dreamed about since you were a little girl.
Everything will finally seem right when you look down the aisle in your white dress and see me waiting for you in my tuxedo. I probably won’t be able to hold my emotions in as I get ready to fuse our hearts together to become one and embark upon living a life of God, love, devotion to each other, honesty, patience. We will finally be able to live out 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 “Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”
I want you to know I am praying for you on a daily basis!! You are and will forever be my sweetheart. I love you more than you can possibly know at this moment and I cannot wait to see God’s BIG plans for us. But until that day, I’ll be missing you!! I love you the future
Dear Miss Right,
I could ask you the same question. None of us were created to be alone, we thrive off of love and relationship, so I think it’d be mutually beneficial for us to find each other quickly. The truth is, and this is where most guys won’t admit it, I need you as much as you need me. I’ve tried to be one of those super macho guys, but in all honesty, in my heart, nothing could be more satisfying than to be your sensitive and loving provider, your husband. My plans and ideas are everywhere. I ask God daily for direction and confirmation. God’s the only one with the big picture, because I’m as lost as you are. I know that there are wonderful things out there for us to discover together, God will reveal them to each of us in time. There IS a reason we’re still not together. Logically it’s because we haven’t met… or if we have, we haven’t gotten to know each other. You’re not the only one without a line of ducks, I think some of mine might actually be geese, in which case, I have to be rid of them and find the ducks to fill their spots.
I agree with you wholeheartedly about the right woman and the wrong time being the wrong woman. The same can be said for guys. And truthfully, God’s been dealing with me on issues that would only bring our relationship down. I struggle with the idea of being forgiven without cause, and I need to learn to be more accepting of grace. Until I am, please don’t give up on me. Truthfully, the reason we’re not together is that I’ve asked God to hold off on our introduction until I’m ready to be the man you deserve. I have some of the same fears. Trust me, nothing’s scarier for a guy than to think that he’ll be the emotional head over heels in love one, while you look on in disdain. I want to get lightheaded when you walk into a room, and I want you to melt at my smile. Don’t be afraid, you can never ask too much of God. Nothing is beyond His capacity. The very reason you feel like I should be these things for you, is because God has created a desire in you specifically for me and only me, who will be these things, and you won’t be happy with any other guy.
And believe me, I’m far from perfect. I AM looking for you, and I’m waiting for God to deem the time right for us to meet. The fact that I know you’re out there doing the same, only strengthens me further. I hate to disappoint you, but I’m very much into movies and TV… Luckily, to have an interest in something does not necessarily mean to believe it. Love is not a feeling or emotion that coincides with “Happily Ever After”, it’s a choice. And I’ve decided to love you unconditionally into eternity.
Admittedly, a good appearance is nice, but appearances can be deceiving. Don’t worry about it; be yourself. My eyes were made with you in mind, so I’d say you have an advantage over other women. And besides, if you make yourself look too good, you’ll run the risk of attracting more than just me… I don’t want to have to fend the hounds off my woman! Your imperfections are what make you you, and I can put you just as easily on my screensaver or wall, as any of those other women. And the best part is, then I’ll have the real thing right by my side to keep me warm. Good luck with the cover snatching, you’ll need it. (lol) While there are a lot of pretty women out there, there’s only one for me. I would never settle for someone I could live with, and you shouldn’t either. Where’s the fun in that? I’m the one you could never imagine life without.
I’m the guy you might notice at first, but only in that, vague sort of way, but if you got to know me, you’d find a soul that yearns after love, If I only saw beauty from the world’s perspective, I’d be a rather lonely individual, wouldn’t I? There is none more beautiful than a beautiful soul. I can’t wait to be captivated by yours. I’d take on all the pain the world could throw at you, and you’d be the heaven that helped me bare it. I’ll be the first to admit, I struggle with taking a passive role. It’s hard to be a leader with no one to lead. I guess my biggest fear is accidentally getting in too deep with someone that’s not you. I have been hurt and rejected, and mostly because I’ve pursued… In fact, most of the stupid things I’ve done have come from “the hunt.” Maybe I should learn to do less shooting and more tracking. I can’t just fire into the crowds and hope for a hit. God has directed me on how to set my sights to find you. And you’ll be my trophy wife. (lol, couldn’t help myself with that one.) I’ll have you know, if you think I’d get married for the sake of getting married, maybe it’s you that’s looking in the wrong places. Marriage is a commitment for life, and that’s a commitment I’d be miserable to make to anyone but you. That and I want my rib back. I’ll tell you what, my rib for the covers, sound like a deal? There is no one I’d rather build my life with.
We’ll have our pitfalls, but we’ll also have our mountain tops, and there’s no one I’d rather share my adventure with because I know that there’s no way I can grow to be the man God wants me to be without you by my side.
I’m getting kinda tired myself. I was actually oblivious to the clock altogether as I was watching Monty Python’s Flying Circus (but that’s another story). Believe me, I’d rather have been in your arms. I wasn’t truly alone, but I was as good as. I’m one of the ones that feels lonely in a crowd, because I just don’t fit in. I’m not of this world, and that’s how you’ll be able to pick me out. I can’t wait till I can hold you as we usher in our first New Year together. It’ll be my happiest moment… until the next time you smile.
Good night to you, my love! God’s time is His own, but I pray daily that He take into consideration our time not spent together is time lost. I’ll search for you until I die, but I trust God to make sure it doesn’t take that long. Don’t settle for Mister Sorta Charming, because trust me, when you meet me, he’s going to look like the frog. I know not what form you’ll take, but I know you’ll be the woman God’s formed for and from me. I know you will have honesty, faith, tenderness, and a pure heart: each a beauty in and of its own. Even one of these is worth waiting an eternity for. I’ve loved you as long as you have me, and for the same reason. Don’t give up waiting for me, I’m searching for you. When we do finally meet, you can be sure God will have orchestrated it to bring out the both in best of us and to glorify Him in the greatest means possible. God’s been moving in both of our lives, and He’s been moving us together. It’s only a matter of time before that finally happens.
Forever Yours,
Dearest,
By the time you read this, you and I would have met, learned to love each other, and promised to belong together for the rest of our lives. I would have memorized everything about you — your face, your voice, your touch. And you would know me more intimately than anyone ever has or will.
But right now, I am alone. I know you only in my imagination…and my dreams. But, darling, in a way that I can’t explain, I love you now. It’s as if I know you in my heart, and because we are separated by time, I miss you. So I am writing this to you as a way of reaching into the future — to tell you that I am saving my heart until you finally come to claim it. I am waiting for you, beloved. And I pray that wherever you are right now, you are waiting for me as well.
As the days go by, I long for you in a way that I have never experienced before. It is a strange feeling, to miss someone whom I do not even know. I can see the hand of God in giving us this season of waiting. Because you are always in my thoughts, simple activities become special when I think of them as preparation for the future. There is so much more to learn before I am ready. Be patient with me, beloved, for my life is a work in progress. I know that yours is, too. Therefore, allow me to say this now: If there is anything, anything at all in your past that might hurt me, know that you will have my forgiveness. You do not have to earn it; it is yours. I am no stranger to second chances, and I do not want our future to hold any bitterness or recriminations. Let us live in the freedom that the greatest Love of all has restored to us.
Someday, you and I will talk about everything that made us who we are. There may be laughter, tears, thankfulness, and yes, regrets. But always, God’s goodness will be present. It is, after all, because of His love that we will find each other. And when we do, this season of waiting will give way to a season of discovery, when I can finally listen to your stories and tell you all of mine. So until that day, beloved, I am saving myself for you. I have surrendered the keys of my heart to God, and he will open the door for you to enter in the perfect time.
I love you, my darling. I am waiting.
My love,
The nights when we kiss are the sweetest nights of all. Sometimes it’s tender, achingly slow and saturated with meaning, all our deepest longings and promises being spoken without a word. Or it can be playful, softly teasing and utterly ecstatic, sweetened with joy and delighted laughter. There are also times when it’s passionate, intense, driven by heat and unleashed desire. But always, whenever and however you kiss me, I realize why it couldn’t possibly work with anyone else. Only you can make this happen: the whole world fades away, time slows down, and you become the single most important part of my universe. In that moment, the heartbreaks of the past are forgotten and the doubts of the future vanish — nothing else matters but your touch and the beat of your heart against mine. I know then that I am meant to kiss you and only you for the rest of my life.
You really are the woman of my dreams. You know, literally. And someday, I hope I’ll wake up from dreaming into the breathtaking reality of your arms.
Waiting for you,
To the one searching for me,
Are you good at storming walls? I am surrounded by them, and they are tall and resilient. They are not to be breached by passive women, women whose hearts are uncertain, those who always take the easier way. Only a woman familiar with risk and unafraid of failure stands a chance. Are you such a woman?
There have been those who tried, even some who got in. But they proved to be thieves, and took too much that I could not afford to lose. Because of them, the defenses are stronger now, and more subtle. There is too much at stake, too much that is fragile, to make any more mistakes. And yet…and yet, I still long to be found.
These walls are built with more than just stone or cement. You cannot see them, for I am good at pretending I am free, that there are no obstacles between us. It is one of my best defenses, and if you believe it, then you will never get in. And oh, how I ache for you to get in. I need you more than I dare let you know.
I need you to show me that I am worth fighting for. That even behind these walls, I am seen, and desired, and chosen. Chosen despite the dichotomy that pervades me and makes me both eager and afraid to let you in.
And you need me, too. I have all this tenderness waiting inside me, waiting to be lavished on someone who’ll know what it’s worth, who’ll know what chains had to be broken to open even one door. I may have hurt you in trying to keep you out, but set me free, and I can heal you as well. You can rest in my arms, and I will give you everything that I have been saving for this moment, when I can put my guard down and simply trust. I will love you as I have longed to love you since you looked at me and saw the hope behind the fear.
My only question is this: Are you good at storming walls?
Waiting,
Dear Future Wife,
We haven’t met yet. I’m not sure why, but we haven’t. Or if we have, I missed it, so we’ll need to do it again. And I don’t know where you are or why you’re not here exactly, but we need to talk. Because… I need you in my life. I don’t know if you can miss someone you’ve never met, but I know that you’re missing from my life. And that sucks. And it’s your fault. I know I’ve probably not put myself out there enough and I’m really shy when I meet women, which makes it hard to get anywhere in a relationship. But I’m still blaming you (get used to it; it’s going to happen a lot…).
The basic fact is this: I’m ready to be married. Sure, there are things I’ll need to learn along the way (things that I can probably only learn by doing, anyway), but I really think I’m ready. Which means it must be you who’s not ready. I’ve always prayed for the God to send me a woman, not a girl. .
I’m a great guy. I have my flaws (And if I get started listing them, I could talk for quite a while. But that’s not sexy or interesting, so I won’t go there. You’re supposed to love me regardless, remember?). But what guy isn’t flawed? I bet you’ve got quirks, too. And I’ll either love you for them or get used to them. So instead of focusing on flaws (like how late you are), I’m going to tell you how amazing I am and why it would be good for you to marry me. Because I’m self-less and giving like that. Or something.
Anyway, just some of the reasons you want to marry me:
I give great foot massages. And even though I can talk a lot (especially when I’m nervous or really excited about something), I’m totally cool with comfortable silence. Which means that I can be a pretty relaxing person to be with. I have pretty simple desires for my day, like staying home with a good book or cuddling on the couch with a movie. I won’t demand that we go out and do stuff with other people (but we can if you want), so if you have a stressful day at the office, you can just come home to me and I’ll take good care of you. This may include feeding you even when you’re not hungry, but, all in all, I think this is a good deal for you.
My family rocks! We may get loud and chaotic sometimes, but we’re not dysfunctional or chock-full of drama, so we’re a fun bunch to hang out with. Which means that if your family lives far away, is small, or is actually dysfunctional, you’ll have a second family right away. You’ll have to learn to like the loudness and the chaos or become loud and chaotic with us, but really the blessing outweighs the responsibility.
I can write with my toes. So if we’re ever caught in a hostage situation in which our hands are tied and writing a note will save us, I’ve totally got us covered. In my opinion, this is a skill that more men should be looking for in a wife. But most don’t. Which means you’ve found something rare and you should hold on to it.
All I demand in exchange for these amazing benefits (and the many more I didn’t list), is that you show up soon and love me forever. Really, that’s not too much to ask, is it? No, I didn’t think so.r. I’ll be here, waiting,. Your move.
Love,
Dear you,
If only I know your whereabout now.
I do not know where you are, let alone who you are at all evidence. You could be someone whom I have met and known, or probably the total reverse, and even worst, there could be chances that you never really exist even until my mortal life is over one day.
But it is always in my favorite manner to let you know, God bless whoever you are, about what I have here inside the very cavity of my chest; the feelings that have grown so mature now that it beats rhythmically with my own heart, for you to listen to me, and here goes all the things that I have always wanted you to know, every little thing that I have always wanted to say.
You,
If only I could have expressed the amount of warm love I have collected over the years for you right now; of how much I would take you at my full capacity, how much I would put my effort into play just to keep the relationship going at full speed forward and never at all slipped to a complete halt, and how much I am willing to sacrifice my everything just to carve that flawless smile on your very lips to brighten my weatherbeaten days.
Never again my nights will be so bloody empty and never again the otherwise sunny days appear to be so gloomy.
I shall love you to the very end. I shall decorate your empty walls with pretty colors and beautiful words that I could ever come out with. I shall love you before, during and after I shake that old man's hand while everyone is watching and announce that very special sentence for everyone to hear, that will tie the loose knot in between us both, with you sitting over there next to your mother in the best wedding dress ever, smiling at me in tears.
I shall love you in makeup, I shall love you looking your very worst.
I shall hug you each and every night while we sleep just for you to know that I am there to protect you from even the slightest blow of the coldest of wind, even when you are dead mad at me over little things you could possibly be mad with. I shall sleep after you and wake up right before you do, just to have a glance at how peaceful you look when you are deep in your dreams.
I shall take care of you from every little pinch that you get along the way. I will stay up during stormy nights just to keep you company and blanket you from the hitting coldness, so that you could comfortably rest in the warmth of my guard. I shall rub your head gently every time you fall with fever, and stay by your bed all day long ready with cold orange juice and hot chicken soup in case you need any.
I shall write and read you poetry of the prettiest kinds.
I shall be there with you while we are having our very first baby, holding your hand tightly and rubbing off sweat from your forehead as you struggle to deliver. And I shall bring our baby to you myself and kiss you on your forehead with the brightest from every smile a new father could have possibly came out with, thanking you for all you have done that all nine months.
I shall build us a home on a hill facing the sea with a big lawn where we will sit every evening looking at sunset while you rest your head on my shoulder and I caress your hair gently without a word spoken in between us both. And this home will always be there for us even when we are old and the kids have grown up having their own families, doing the same damn thing we use to do every evening without getting at all bored at it.
I shall always listen to your problems and comfort you out even when you do not ask for one. I shall lend you my shoulder for you to hang on to and my chest for you to wet with your tears. I will endlessly offer you tissues and paper towels and even my own shirt until you let everything all out without me urging you to stop at all, because I know you need to cry just to feel right about things again. All I will do is to hug you and hush you with a whisper or two until you fall asleep on me.
I will do everything, everything at all just to keep that smile on your face.
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But then again, I hope you would accept me the way I am.
I am just another ordinary man you could easily find standing purposely at a corner of a busy street. I have a great job, a great house, a great car...a great family and good health. I shall work hard within my best capacity every and each day; going out early in the morning and come home later in the evening to keep the food on the table for you and the kids, even when I have to stay hungry the whole day.
I, too, am a man of many flaws. I could probably at times forget how to love; I might at times fail to become anymore perfect like you have always wished for; I could at times lose my temper over little things, hurt you unintentionally with my words, and every other thing that you find disappointing about me. And should that happens, I would want you to know that I am totally sorry, for I am only human and I could have not have an entire control over myself at all time, for the reasons that we all lose ourselves every now and then just to show how human we all are.
I hope you will read this, whoever you are.
And I just hope that this will not end as just another meaningless hope.
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I am halfway from you now.
Please don't be late.
But then again if you will be, I'd still patiently wait.
As I sit here and think about where my life is headed, I realize that as much as I try to avoid it, you will one day cross my path. I have tried to stay away from you, I have tried to not think about you and to just focus on me, but I realize that one day you will step into my life and change everything and so I accept that and I want you to know a few things.
I promise to take care of you. I promise that for the rest of our lives and beyond, you will be the most important person in my life. Not my parents, our children, my boss, or anyone will take more importance in my life than you. You will always be the most important person and thing that happens to me and I will make that obvious every day. I will take care of you financially, I am hard working and I am doing well for my self so far. I am ambitious and if I have to, I will work two jobs and support the family. You will never know a day with me where I am not busting tail to provide for you.
I will always protect you. I promise you that in these arms, you will always feel safe and secure. No one will be able to bring harm to you because I will always do anything to keep you from that. In my arms you will find strength to fight for you, but you will also find comfort and warmth for those times you just need to be held.
I promise to spoil you. You will always be my queen and I will always treat you as such. I have learned so much babe, so many experiences that have helped me be better for you and I know that it will always be important to me that you feel spoiled in every way possible.
I will always listen to you. Those nights where you just want to talk about your day at work, or how the kids behaved, I will listen to you always and you will forever have a chatting companion when you are with me. I promise that I will not be annoyed when you just want to cuddle and talk. I promise that I will not make fun of your silly stories about shopping and the problems between you and your girlfriends, I will always take everything you say important and you won’t ever have to fight for my attention.
I am not perfect. I have a past and there are things in my life I am not proud of. But the Lord has forgiven me and if you can find it in your heart to forgive me as well, I promise you that all those things I have lived will be so I can be a better husband and father. They will serve me as experience to know how to handle situations in our family. I promise you that I have become a better man because of it. I know we will fight, I know we will argue, but I promise you that I will never go to bed upset, I will work it out with you all night if I have to.
And finally, I promise to always love you with everything that I have. I promise to always show you that I care for you and love you. My words will not be alone; my actions will always dictate my love for you and what you mean to me. Everyone around us will know that I adore you and will be so jealous of our relationship, but none of that will matter, what matters is that you will be the happiest you have ever been everyday of our lives and for all eternity.
I promise you all these things and wait anxiously your arrival. Your future husband,
Dear Future Wife,
“To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:” (Ecc. 3:1)
I’m not sure who you are or where you are at this precise moment but I know one thing, I love you and I can’t wait to meet you. “To every thing there is a season…” Right now we are both in the season of singleness. This season seems to be so long. I can’t wait until we meet. So happy am I while thinking about it. I wonder what you will be like. Are you nice and beautiuful? Are you romantic? Are you older than me? Do you have blue eyes or brown eyes? Are you tall or short? Do you like to read? So many questions I have for you. So many times I look for you, at school, work, grocery store, church, etc… I wonder where I will meet you.I know I have been waiting for almost forever to meet you. I can tell you this; the wait has not been easy. So many times I see my friends and other people my age fall in love and get married and have children. And I wonder, when are we going to meet? When are we going to get married and have children? But I do know something. I know that you are out there somewhere waiting on me like I am waiting on you. I also know that we are both waiting on God’s perfect timing. When is his perfect timing? I am not sure but I know it has to be soon. I have had a great desire to learn specific skills to help and prepare for our marriage. Dear sweet, sweet wife I know you are out there and I know that time seems to be at a standstill while we are waiting for the time we are to come together. Promise me that you will pray for me as I pray for you. I want to be prepared for you. And I know you want to be prepared for me. I love you even if I haven’t met you. And I know that you love me. I love you and can’t wait to meet you.
Love,
Dear my future lover,
I lay on the grass while the gentle sound of the song “I’ve never been to me” is slowly invading my mind. Looking up the above sky, I see not only those clouds and winds are flirting but rays of sunshine are dancing as well. I feel so green when couple of orioles are singing on the orange tree and looking at me with their curious eyes. I open the door of my heart and write a love letter for you.
Honey….So sweet as honey…. I don’t know who you are.. I don’t know what is your name.. I even don’t know where you are from ...but I really want one day this letter can be reached in your hands.
I feel so lonely in this world….My life has no meaning …It is too far and I don’t know where destination is. Darkness is a beast just want to swallow a little guy like me. Some love stories came and went in my life. Some lovers made me smile then cry. Happiness and sorrow like a love song singing slowly in my head. I go alone in the rain and let it ease my pain. What if you just like a wind through my life? What if I was born in this life without you? What if we are looking for each other but God keep a parallel line between us? What if I found you then I will fall down when you belong to another girl? What if I kiss you then I feel your lips calling her name? What if you don’t see wave of love in my eyes? What if? Thousands “what if” I want to ask this world!
What is love? My future lover, What is true love? It is only a simple question but most of people in this world are willing to pay their breath and searching for the answer all their life. I am notan exception. If you come into my world, I will cry to say “ A moment like this, I am waiting for all my lifetime…”.
Love is a game. Love is a sorrow. Love is a fruit. Love is a call in the middle of night just to wake me out of nightmare.. Love is sweet fairy brings a princess to a Prince Charming then he laughs at my innocence when I find out he is a wizard and what that princess told me just a lie then she kills my heart with her coldness.
Please don’t ask me to change myself in order to make you satisfied you. Please don’t play with me for fun …. You know you can take my heart away by this way then let me down without turning back to see me falling down in the rain. Have you ever read this story “SHMILU”? Only true love like this can let them go on the same road forever.
If my future lover is an alien? Yes, I am willing to go with you to outerspace if you are the woman I am searching for all my life.
When you read this letter…. Will you see a door is opened? Will you see a girl is waiting for you at the end of that long road?
Dear wonderful, future Woman,
Where the Hell are you?! But really… I hope you are doing well. What is keeping you so busy and unaware of my awesomeness? Are you climbing mountains in some far off country? Are you reading seminary books while debating my existence? Or could it be that you are right here in New York and our paths have no yet crossed? Either way, I miss you. Can you miss someone you’ve never met? Maybe. But I actually kind of hope you keep your distance for a while, because I’m not ready for you.
let’s be honest here, if you are going to marry me you just can’t be that traditional. So I am led to believe that you are doing your own thing right now, and I can respect that. I can respect that mostly because I’m trying to figure that out for myself as well. I want to know who I am before I have to figure out who I am with you. Please be patient with this.
I have been keeping myself in very good shape; spiritually, physically, and emotionally. Don’t get me wrong though… I am terribly excited to meet you!If you want to secretly go around beating up all the woman who broke my heart or just bust out their car windows, I am perfectly okay with this! Feel free to steal my crow bar if you need it. A fter all, they left the mess you are going to have to help clean up. And I’m sorry that I let that happen to you. And to us. But I can promise that I will try my hardest to mend what I can, but someday I know I will need your help with this.
Anyway, as full of anticipation as I am about you finally entering my life… please don’t do it with wrong timing or wrong intention. Don’t show up too early and please… please!..don’t be late. I’ve been impatient for you and my reasons for meeting you were all wrong. I haven’t trusted in God with, for, or about you. I’m sorry.
But I love you. I hope that wherever you are, you are safe, and happy,. I hope you have a good sense of humor too, you are going to need it! Haha.
See you soon? After a while?.. hmmm….
See you on God’s timing.
With love,
Your wonderful, future Husband
p.s. if you are dating someone right now, please dump him. Thanks.
Dear Future Wife,
Hi, it’s me, Alex. Duh, you already knew that. Sorry if I seem a little nervous, I don’t want to sleep on the couch tonight for something I wrote 20 years ago. I don’t think I know you yet, or maybe I do. Maybe you’re someone I’ve known for my entire life. You could be reading this right now 20 years ago. Let’s not get lost in the physics of reading this throughout the space-time continuum, though. What I would like to focus on is you: intelligent, funny, caring, sexy, strong, witty, and endlessly beautiful you. I want to marvel as to how I got a broad like you. Did we meet on vacation in Florence or Mykonos? Did I court you for months? Years? Did I win you over with my muscles? Probably not. It must have been my brains. (‘cuz brains is good!) Or maybe I just bought you from a small town in northern Russia. I’m guessing we make up a different story every time someone asks because no one would believe you are actually my wife. If my future pans out as planned, I should be a famous, snarky, scotch drinking, black-tee-wearing writer à la Hank Moody (minus the frequent occurrences of the ménage à trois, and the sex with a minor charge). If you don’t know about Californication, then stop reading this and go file for a divorce. Otherwise, I’d like to go over a few pointers to ensure a lengthy and successful marriage.
I’m sure I’ve expressed my feelings about procreation to you by now. Do we have kids? What did I name the little focker? Alex Jr.? Real original. Is it a girl? Is it five girls? I’d like to believe we share similar views on having children. I probably fell in love with you the moment you told me you want kids. I’ve always known what the outcome would be if I made tiny copies of myself: chaos. Especially since my sperm is flooded with X chromosomes. No matter how hard I try, I will have a girl. A pretty, hopefully smart, surely slutty, stubborn, free bird of a girl,. She will drive me crazy. I will make her change 1,000 times before letting her out of the house. I will approach every “new contender”, as I will call her boyfriends, like Will Smith and Martin Lawrence in Bad Boys 2. No man will ever be good enough for her and that’s what I will say at her wedding as I stare into that punk’ s eyes standing next to her. I will bring forth a fatherly might that can only be paralleled by the hard-nosed wit of Red Forman. But like I said, I don’t want kids.
If you’re the woman I expect you to be, you’ll be having none of that. So have no fear, I’ll be at your side cooking and cleaning and most importantly – putting out every night. I’ll make it a point to go to dinner and a movie every week. You obviously know I love movies by now, right? I promise I’m not the type to get complacent and I will win your heart over every year. But you know this. You already know the type of man I am. You also know that Sundays are mine unless you can watch football without asking a question after every play or cheering for the Jets. You already know that you’ll laugh every day. You already know that heaven to me is you, a couch, and my DVD collection. Paramountly, you already know that I don’t break my promises.
Your Husband,
Alex
My darling, come to me and ease the anguish in my soul to fill me with the desire of what it longs for. Just to feel that touch of such passion only you can bring to me and awaken such overwhelming affections in my heart. Oh my darling, it is you that this soul... this heart of mine... longs for to free the pleasures that are locked within it. Open yourself to me and for tonight let us share the pleasures of our desires. Let us become absorbed in this moment, letting all our problems melt away and the world outside no longer matter. Just the feel of your sultry skin against mine, kisses so intense and fiery, fingers tracing the frame of each other’s bodies lost within the sensations we give each other. My darling, come to me and share your passion with me. Let us make love right now in the silence of this room to ease the craving of our souls and give to each other something special which is a normal human need when that special person comes around. For it is a normal human need... and a need of the heart and soul.
If you are going to love me, love me deeply. If you break my heart, then break it all. If you are going to care, care for me completely. If you decide not to hold me, then just let me fall. If you are going to stay, then stay forever. And if you want to leave, then do it today. If you are going to change, change for the better. And if you are going to talk, then please mean what you say.
Are you even coming?
I’m lost in a mess of my own singleness.Here’s the thing about being single; At first it’s the best feeling in the world. You can talk to who ever you want, do whatever you want, there isnt anyone to hold you down, you finally feel free.
After awhile you get this wave of sadness, though. You start feeling this depth of lonliness. You start seeing all the cute couples, you start getting more and more intersted in people. People say that when you’re in a relationship; it’s not all that great, but after being single for long enough; anything has to be better then the touture of loneliness. I mean, im not an expert at relationships. I don’t know how to handle every fight we’re going to have, and i will never be a perfect person. But im willing to take chances, to risk it all and learn everything i need to know about you just so i can keep us together.I promise no one will tear us apart and I won’t give up on you.
That’s what I want. My anchor. I don’t want to flit around adventurously with this and that. I want to have adventures with you. I just want you to prove to me that love is real. I can’t imagine it. I know a part of me deeply, deeply,deeply wants it, more so than I can face on a daily conscious basis - the kind of depth that comes out when I’m bitterly drunk, or the rain is pouring and I’m in my tiny, uncozy bedroom alone, or when my heart aches for a newness I don’t yet know or understand; an adventure, an expression, a restless lust for satisfaction - but I have absolutely. entirely. no idea what it feels like.
Will you really make me want to be a better person?
Will I be in utter disbelief that you exist? that you love me too? that it seems as though we were created for each other?
Will I finally know why there are movies and songs and poems and billions of lifted or broken hearts because of this weird phenomenon I feel so separate from?
I hope you exist, you just have to. I know I may seem like I’m not interested in you but I have good reason to. I’m scared if I act like my true self, you won’t be interested in me because I’m not at all like most guys.But it’s okay, that’s just who I am. I’m also trying to see if you’re going to put in the effort to know the true me. Once you break through my exterior, I promise, I’m everything that you hopefully want. I will be the husband you deserve and you’ll be the wife I’ve always wanted. No one will love you like I would, I promise. When I fall for someone, I fall hard and they know it. I always put in as much effort as I can into my relationships. This one will not be different. In fact, I’ll probably put so much effort that I get annoying to you.
I need you to teach me. teach me how to love, and be compassionate. I’ve ran away from love my whole life, and I need YOU to pull me back & say ‘where are you going? I love you, and want to hold you. Not only that, I want to be with you.’ I want you to tell me sweet things. You need to be the woman that’s there for me, and who tells me to come over, because you found some lame movie that’s so stupid it’s funny & you think I’d like it. I just need you to be everything I need, and everything I think i don’t want at the same time.
I long for the day that we are together again, and pray your forgiveness allows our unity to be transposed, and our lives together to finally begin. You’re my inspiration, whom led me to believe again. So wonderfully created, I long to complete your circle and together reach glorious heights; creating miracles to abide within. You’re a mirror of perfection that is soft spoken, kind, faithful, and true; I see beauty every time I look at you. I am hopeful for the future…the starting day I’m able to hold your hand, kisses on your lips, and hold each other tightly; never ever having a reason of letting go. The highest honor it shall be, to walk beside you, hand in hand, throughout the remainder of this lifetime, and into eternity. Your laugh, your smile, your words, and the way you walk into a room created a sweet melody that instantly desired me to bloom. I cannot say that I am as perfectly wonderful as you are to me, but I promise you that I will strive daily to be, because I could not bear the thought of not being perfectly imperfect without you. Yes, I’ve made mistakes in the past, but thankful that you saw me through. Accepting of who we are capable of being, and what we shall be together as one, continues to motivate me and keeps me pure, because without you, my love, I am not complete…I’m completely happy with the “unknown” timeline, because my heart senses our time is near…near to me, and in my heart you shall forever be. So, please, hurry back and let’s hold each other forever, because I’m ready to be the person I’m destined to be, right here forever with you.
With all my heart, love, and spirit… know my words are spoken from clearer vision, and I long to be with YOU, my beloved!
Love,
Me
Dear soul mate,
I doubt you care about why I'm sending you this letter or why I refer to you as my soul mate but I want to explain to you. Just so you know. This isn't a pathetic love letter or some ridiculous sounding poem, it's the truth.
Whenever you walk into the room, I immediately notice you and inside, I smile. It's like part of me is 'coming home' when you're near me and when you're not around, nobody can fill the empty, unidentified space. I suppose I could say you complete me.
Sometimes, when I'm all on my own, I'll think about your reactions to me. Almost like you were standing next to me watching as I dropped my toothbrush down the toilet for the second time, I imagine you'd laugh and laugh at my bad luck. So would I; we'd laugh together.
Often, I wonder how long it'll be until our fate is sealed and we're held together through small pieces of metal upon our ring fingers. Doubts come into my mind sometimes but shake them away, allowing for destiny to take over, that's the greatest power of all. If it's meant to be, then so be it. If not, looks like I'll have to move on.
I dream of watching the sunset but also I think of looking after you; being your man around the house simply to do the mundane tasks like washing the dishes or doing the laundry. I don't mind how small our house would be or how messy it could get, just that wherever each other were, we called that place 'home'.
Every day I see my ex-girlfriends falling in love again with the most handsome guys but I'm still left alone. I look upon you and know in my heart that we're meant to be but it's heart breaking how you don't ever seem to see it. I'm not stunning or amazing, I'm just me. Notice I'm alive please?
I'll close my letter by saying this; you'll always occupy a large part of my heart and no matter how many other women enter my life, you'll always be the 'one'.
Yours truly and everlastingly,
A LETTER TO MY FUTURE WIFE
To My Wife,
You’re beautiful. You’re stunning. You’re absolutely perfect in more ways than you know.
I know you’re out there; I know you’re living life just as I am mine. If not now, then someday you will read this letter and gain some insight into who I was before we married. My heart breaks knowing how I betrayed you with those other women. I regret every touch, every kiss, and every fake “I love you.” I was so consumed with lust that I had mistaken it for love, when you are the only woman I want to ever truly love. For everything, I want to apologize.My prayer, at this present time, is that each day God is preparing my heart for you. Marriage is for life, so may what we’ll have last forever.
I know you’re not perfect either. I know you’ve made your mistakes too, perhaps with sins very similar to mine. If your heart is broken, I pray God will repair it. If you’re burdened from sin, I pray He will take away the guilt. Someday I want to look you in the eyes, forgiven, forgiving, and sharing with you a love the past cannot hinder.I can’t wait to know you inside and out. I want to hear all your favorite stories, music, and movies. I can’t wait to meet your family and learn who you were before we met.
Love Your Future Husband
I found myself thinking about you today. Wondering where you are, what you’re thinking and doing. It hurts a little not to be with you, but I can live with that for now, knowing that we’ll spend the rest of our lives together. I’m writing this letter to help you understand what I’ve been thinking about and why. I probably don’t know all the right things to say, but my feelings and words are from the heart.
Actually I find myself thinking about you more and more. The very idea of you provides a much needed break from the pressures of dating, relationships and life. In the midst of it all – the thought of you calms and refreshes me – makes me smile, in spite of my situation and surroundings.
I know it sounds crazy, but I picture you – your smile, the way you pull your hair behind your ear, your wonderful laugh, even when my jokes aren’t funny. I can’t help but wonder what our children will look like.
I’ve gone out with other girls, but something always seems to be missing. I go out and have fun but the idea of you and our future together is always in my thoughts. It keeps me focused and on track, aware of who I am and what’s important.
And loving you, without ever having met you, makes me want to be deserving of your love. So I wait for you – in mind, body, and soul.
I don’t usually talk or write like this, but my mind and heart are racing with anticipation. Because I love you, because I know you’re out there. Because the very thought of you makes my pulse race, my palms sweat, my stomach flip like I’m on a roller coaster. And what better way to show that I’ve always loved you than to save myself for you – completely. And I hope that you’re doing the same.
I know waiting isn’t easy. We’re taught to expect instant gratification. We’re told we shouldn’t have to wait – for anything. Too often we act on feelings or impulses, sacrificing the future by buying into the lie that sex equals love, leaving little room for commitment or marriage. But that’s not love and that’s not why I’m thinking about and waiting for you.
I’m waiting for you because I love you unconditionally. And I need you to know that what matters to me is not where you’ve been or what you’ve done, but where you’re going. Maybe you didn’t know I existed. Or you thought that we’d found each other, only to realize later that what you discovered wasn’t true love. Real love is so different from infatuation or simple pleasure. It isn’t abusive or selfish or purely physical. Real love involves mutual respect, affection, trust, equality, and a shared spirituality..
Have you ever been in the middle of doing something when you stop to think, “This would be perfect if….?” Those words come to mind often – for example, on a Fall day, with leaves covering the ground and crisp, cool breezes blowing, and I think, “This would be perfect if…. She were here.” The thought that someday you will be here comforts me.
And… I want that same thought to comfort you. Whether you realize it or not, I’ve been there in your thoughts, that shiver or the goose bumps you get every once in a while – in the long daydream or a lingering glance. You don’t have to wonder anymore, because I’m real, I love you and I am waiting for you – in every way. And now that you know I’m here, I hope you’ll do the same. Whenever you feel scared, unsure, or pressured to give a part of yourself away, read this letter. Think about us and how perfect it will be when we are together.
You may have been waiting and looking for me all the while. You may be starting today. Either way, we’ll know when we’ve found each other; we’ll be together for the rest of our lives and the wait will have been worthwhile.
All My Love,
Your Future Husband
Hey Wife,
I hope that you are doing well today. I know that you are and that God is protecting you and your heart. I’m sorry if you’ve ever been hurt. I’m sorry if some guy told you that he loved you and then broke your heart soon after. I’m sorry, but you must know that I’ve done the same (without saying that I love you).
I want you to know that I pray and think about you everyday. I want you to know that I’ll do whatever it takes to fight for you and pursue you. I desire to have what it takes, even if people tell me that I can’t have you or that you’re way out of my league. When we’re together, you make my heart thump more than anything You love me regardless of my faults, and I love you equally. .
I know that guys get a bad wrap when it comes to cooking, but I want to let you know that, while I may not be the best, I’ll give it a shot. After all, I do make a killer French Toast recipe, or so I’m told. When I see you my heart wells up in side. Not only do I love your outward beauty, but I also love your inward beauty as well.
When we get married, we are going to think things are perfect. We’ll go on thinking everything is okay and then we’ll have kids. I’ll try my best to serve you with my all, but I know I’ll fail at times.
I realize that we’re going to have our fair share of arguments. My face will probably be red, and sometimes I might take a walk because I’m so mad. But I want you to know that I’m sorry. Would you forgive me?
Thank you for accepting me for who I am and not what I do. I don’t think I’ve met you yet, but maybe I have. When I find you, I’m going to pursue you. I miss you and hope to find you one day.
Until then, I’m going to talk to God about you.
Dear Future Wife,
First let me say how I much I deeply long for the day when I know who you are. While I am living in the moment and being content with what God is doing in me for the time being, there is a huge part of me that wonders what you look like, how I will meet you, what your family is like, what you want for your life, what your strengths are, what your struggles are, what you want our relationship to look like, what is going on in your life right now, I really wish there was a way to open up a time portal and glimpse into the future. But I guess that would ruin the surprise. I want you to know that I am praying that God is working in you each and every day, and that you would hear his still, small voice when your head lays against the pillow at night. It is also my prayer that God would be working in me, so that every day I would be learning something that God wants me to know, in order to be the husband, best friend, and partner that God wants me to be for you.
There are so many things that I cannot wait for. I cannot wait to have inside jokes, to laugh, to go on dates, to sing in the car together, to just be together, in both good times and bad. To quote one of my favorite artists, jenny & tyler (FYI you will be hearing a lot of them in the car), I want to be the person to help carry you when you are weak. I want to be there when you are broken-hearted. I want to be there to pick you up when you fall. I want to be there to share your burdens.
There are just so many things about our future relationship that I am so excited about. But it is probably the chance to stand on an altar and pledge our commitment to each other for the rest of our lives, and then living out that commitment every day, that excites me the most. So know tonight when your head hits that pillow,know that I love you
Love,
To an unknown dearest,
I have never met you. You have never met me. Has fate decided it this way? Will I see your face one day? Or shall we be divided by the seven seas, the indomitable waves splashing our stunned cheeks until we've
had enough? I look around me here in the city. Of all these people, the watress and the grocery store cashier and the telemarketer and that woman walking across the street right there, how could I mingle with all of these people and not find you? I hate to think, what if one of the thousands of people I see a year was you and we passed each other, those three seconds of interaction never occurring, never
talking, never caring? We just never knew, we never knew…
God, this wistful contemplation is hard to take, and yet we must wonder.
Know this, my dear, that you are not alone. I can't fathom how I'll feel when you find that guy oh yes that guywhom you will adore with all your porcelain heart, how I'll smile when I hear of you making your success in this bittersweet, cruel world, how I'll wonder what could have been. But know this, darling, that you hold a special place in my heart.
Your unknown beloved
My beloved,
In The Four Loves, C.S. Lewis commented, "To love at all is to be vulnerable. "Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give
your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. "But in that casket- safe, dark, motionless, airless—it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable."
I am really writing from a state of vulnerability and brokenness today, my love. Loving others deeply can bring so much pain. My heart feels slightly cracked as I sort through heavy emotions. How do I love and trust someone deeply again? How do I walk the fine line of vulnerability and friendship, while trusting God's sovereignty and timing?
My darling wife, I am in desperate need of your prayers, wherever you may be. I'm ashamed to admit that it's such a battle every day to keep my emotions and my heart reserved for you. For the past few years, I have
allowed my emotions to run wild, investing it into people who catch my eye without tests of character or time spent in prayer. I allowed my wishes and my momentary fancies to dictate the contents of my thoughts
and my heart.
Although I am committed to waiting for you, it's been so difficult. Whenever someone catches my eye, I allow my heart to momentarily awaken. These longstanding habits that I have allowed to twist into my life are so difficult to kill. It takes an extraordinary amount of effort to wrench my eye and my heart away from the person before me.
This past week was rough. In countless moments I felt immobile, overwhelmed by the worries and anxieties that threatened to swallow me whole. I experienced great and deep sorrow that drove a chisel into it. Many hours were spent in His presence, where tears were better than words to express my desperation for my Learning how to die to selfish desires and haunts of the heart is not easy. Temptations are abound to give to others a little piece of myself that should only be saved for you. It is within the deepest parts of my heart - within the mess that is called my emotions, longings and hopes - that I am learning to surrender to God, and allow Him to guard. God.
My love,
The nights when we kiss are the sweetest nights of all. Sometimes it's tender, achingly slow and saturated with meaning, all our deepest longings and promises being spoken without a word. Or it can be playful, softly teasing and utterly ecstatic, sweetened with joy and delighted laughter. There are also times when it's passionate, intense, driven by heat and unleashed desire. But always, whenever and however you kiss me, I realize why it couldn't possibly work with anyone else. Only you can make this happen: the whole world fades away, time slows down, and you become the single most important part of my universe. In that moment, the heartbreaks of the past are forgotten and the doubts of the future vanish — nothing else matters but your touch and the beat of your heart against mine. I know then that I am meant to kiss you and only you for the rest of my life.
You really are the woman of my dreams.
I feel like im Closer and Closer to being with you.each day that passes leaves me speechless.In anticipation for you being next to me. Im waiting for your Kisses,Your Smiles, Your hands placed perfectly in mine.I cant wait for all my things to smell like you.And i cant wait to hold and Love on our children we will have.
I cant wait for how you say my name, For how you look right out of the showerNo make up, and just dripping wet.Im excited to wait hours, sitting in our bedroom bored waiting for you to get ready.
My Love,
You are currently out there somewhere, either looking for me or preparing yourself for this life-altering search. We're entering into a most thrilling game of hide and seek; I'm hiding almost entirely out in the open which should ease your task to some degree, but the bigger hint I've offered you is that I'm facing a very distinct direction- one which you will know and know well. Even though I know not your form or your heart, I anxiously await the day on which I can sing that I am yours and you are mine. When covenantal charms adorn our hands I will ever do that which I swear to do. Daily my commitment to you will remain; daily the appetite of my heart will consume your being… "
How on earth is it possible for me to miss someone I don't even know yet? I don't know the answer to that but I know I do. Love is so prevalent everywhere you look. Movies, songs, books, TV, it's everywhere. I'm not sure you can go even an hour without hearing about love. And not just love but sweet, sappy, romantic love that while I usually deny being a romantic and wanting, secretly (or not so secretly since I'm posting this on the internet) I want it more than anything. I've said it before and it's true, I'm working on being patient. I really am. I'm doing my very best to focus on God's plan for me and not think constantly of you and who you might be but no matter what I'm doing you plague my mind. I want to know you, I want to be held by you, loved by you.
I can't imagine how anyone could love me. I can't imagine how anyone can know me and know my world know how I think, how I get up in the morning, what I'm thinking everyday, my hopes, dreams, aspirations, my habits, my past, my likes, my dislikes, my pet peeves, AND STILL LOVE ME FOR ME! I just want to tell you right now, I'm crazy!
Dear someone,
You're like the sun on a cloudy day, you always peek through the crowd and make me smile. i love you:)
Finally I have found a place into which I fit perfectly, safely and securely with no doubts, no fears, no sadness, and no tears. This place is filled with happiness and laughter, yet it is spacious enough to allow me the freedom to move around, to live my life and to be myself. This wonderful place, which I never believed really existed, I have found finally, in your arms, in your heart, in your love.
You moved me. Not literally-you obviously didn't pick me up and place me in a different place then I was before, thought emotionally and mentally..I am- but you touched my heart in ways that nobody ever has
before. You truly taught me who I am and what I've done wrong. I trust you. You trust me. And that's all that matters. Because you're someone that has touched my heart and made me believe in myself in ways that
nobody ever has before.
If God doesn't give you what you want, it isn't what you need.
When God takes something away from your grasp, He is not punishing you but merely emptying your hand to receive something better.
You know what your problem is? You get attached, fast. And once you're attached to someone, you do everything you can to please them and make them happy. It's never been about what you want; it's always
everyone's needs before your own. You give out too many chances to people, who quite frankly, do not deserve them. They take advantage of you, and you become a pushover. But you're okay with that, because
they're in your life and that's all you ever really wanted. And even if they screw you over, you'll still be there for him. Because that's you, that's who you are. Once you get attached to someone, they capture your heart and they always have a place there. And that is why it's so hard for you to let go.
I've tried to block your memory to protect me from the pain, pretend I never knew you, and never heard your name. But the walls aren't strong enough and I fight my tears in vain. The feeling came creeping through
and the hurt is still the same. I wish I could forget you, or make you see me now. The pain will ease in time, and though I know it's over and what we had is gone, the memories will live forever in a corner of
my mind.
To my future wife,
You do not know me yet. You are probably wondering why I am even writing to you. You may think that, because I am a man, I will not be able to convey my thoughts, my feelings, my love, in words. But do not underestimate me. There are many things you do not know about me, yet. There are many things I want you to learn and discover about me because some day I want to marry you.
As I was growing up, and I never admitted this at the time, but I had great respect for my mother and father. True, we argued and fought, and disagreed on many occasions. But I never lost my respect for them. My dad, though not perfect, treated my mother like a queen. He never belittled her. He never second-guessed her decisions. He stood behind her at all times. He loved her. His love was a perfect example for me, and my brothers and sisters, to follow.
Now, as I grow older and hopefully wiser, and as I approach my own turn at marriage, my thoughts turn to my dad's model behavior. By being persistent, patient, and prayerful, he succeeded in being a loving husband to his wife and a loving father to his children. I hope to emulate my dad's good example; I want to be as good a husband to you as my dad was to my mom.
I write this letter to you because I want to be your husband. I truly want to be your husband. I want to be a husband who will love you, cherish you, and make you always feel special. Husbands nowadays are often mocked, scorned, and ridiculed. Men are often perceived as worthless, egotistical, and selfish. I am none of those. I am a man, a human being, who desires your love and respect. I need those gifts of love and commitment, which only you can give. And I want to return the same to you.
Why should you want me as your husband? What will convince you that I am the one you should look for and eventually marry?
I will be the one who will recognize your goodness. I will be the one who will respect you and appreciate your high moral standards. I will be the one who will admire the way you respect yourself. I will be the one to hold your hand when you need affection. I will be the one to kiss your cheek when you feel lonely. I will be the one who will hold you when you need to feel secure. I will be the one who will comfort you in your sadness and share in your happiness. I will be the one who will be by your side as you bring our children into the world. I will be the one who will love you as if each day was our last together.
But why do I want to marry you? Why not the blonde who winked at me on the beach? Why not the brunette who called me every night? Why not the redhead who challenged my savvy and intelligence? Why not the skinny, long-legged model who catered to my every whim? Why not the cute, perky girl who seemed to have everything in common with me? Why you?
Well, future wife, let me explain. All those girls interested me. But you will not merely interest me. You will love me. And I will love you. Your soft touch will weaken me. Your eyes will enthrall me. Your beauty will mesmerize me. Your goodness will enamor me. Your virtues will captivate me. Your trust will engross me. Upon securing your trust, my heart, mind and soul will finally find peace and contentment.
I really will not ask for much. I will ask that you stand beside me through both the heartaches and the joys. I will ask that you welcome our children with open arms as our parents welcomed us. I will ask that you tell me when I am wrong and tell me when I am right. I will ask for your honesty and respect. In return you will receive uncompromising faith, fidelity and love.
What will draw me to you, more than anything else, however is your love of God. And your attempt to follow His will. Your continued faith and love for God, through the failures and the triumphs, through the laughter and the tears, will only increase my love for you. So, please continue to be patient and wait for me. We will soon meet and begin our life together. And with the grace of God, through faithful devotion and loving sacrifice, we will attain eternal happiness in Heaven.
After reading this short letter, future wife, you should now know me a little better. I hope you will be pleased. I hope you now understand why I wrote this for you - so you will see my heart. It beats for you. It will always beat for you.
My dear future wife,
I have waited a very long time for you. Longer than I imagined I would. I watched my friends find someone, become a pair of people in love and then break up. I saw others who became husband and wife.
My love, I have waited.
There were times when I wanted to just find a nice girl, begin dating and hope for the best. There were other times when I wanted to completely ignore finding a woman to love because it seemed like it would never happen. There were times when I wasn’t even sure that God had someone for me….
And then I found one precious girl. She was beautiful to me. Soon enough God whispered to me that it was not meant to be her. I was crushed. This girl, she was perfect! But God simply whispered and said he had someone better for me.
This happened multiple times. It wasn’t hard for me to believe that I may not ever find you. Every time I ran into another girl my desire only grew. It only became more and more difficult to move beyond each girl. But every single time God said she wasn’t the one. He had someone better for me.
And you know what? Now I’ve found you.
I will never be able to let you go. I will never want to let you go. I know that I will be able to fall asleep holding you in my arms. When we have children we’ll most likely embarrass them by being sweet. They’ll be grossed out, but I will never be able to stop myself from loving you.
When I finally find you, nothing, save God himself, will stop me from carrying you away on our wedding night.
Coming from my already undying love for you,
Your future husband
Dear Soul Mate,
Forgive me for not using your actual name. It's not that I'm being impersonal or forgetful; I simply have no idea what it is. You see, we haven't met yet. Tell you what -- how ‘bout I just refer to you as Julie? I've always liked that name and I wouldn't be surprised if you ended up having it. Y'know, it feels strange expressing my deepest personal thoughts to a woman I haven't even seen, but I'm making an exception for you because, after all, we will eventually be together for the rest of our lives. Plus, just because we haven't been able to locate each other yet, doesn't mean we can't share our feelings, right? This way, when we finally do meet, we'll be that much farther along in the relationship. It'll be like our seventh date. I hope you have enjoyed the first six -- I know I have. But that's jumping ahead.
I'll be honest -- this past year has been a difficult one. After many years of not being able to find you, the frustration of the endless search started to get to me. I started to feel as though I would never meet my soul mate, never meet you. My heart sank. It seemed like I was right on track for turning into the male equivalent of the old spinster with seven cats and a passion only for crocheting sweaters for friends and relatives lucky enough to have found relationships. I felt myself beginning to experience the Seven Stages of No Soul Mate Grief.
First, there was Shock -- the horrifying realization that it's absolutely likely we may never meet. It seemed as though every woman I met had a giant neon NOT YOUR SOUL MATE sign atop her head. That shock ended up driving me to drink. But I'm not big on alcohol, so I'm now attending a 12-Step program for Snapple iced tea drinkers. Today marks my third month without a Snapple. One day at a time.
It seemed as though every woman I met had a giant neon NOT YOUR SOUL MATE sign atop her head.
Denial followed shock. All evidence to the contrary, Julie, I informed anyone who asked about it, that it was simply a question of time and luck before I'd meet my soul mate. They'd nod and give me a half-smile, attempting to be supportive, but, oh yes, I could see the pity in their eyes. It was the same look they gave Jennifer Aniston after she said she's even happier with fill-in-her-latest-boyfriend-here than she ever was with Brad Pitt. Or that they gave Russell Crowe after he said that was the first time he ever threw a telephone at a concierge's head. They realized I was only fooling myself. I knew they were right, but couldn't admit it, wouldn't admit it. I felt like Nixon telling the nation "I am not a crook," or Michael Jackson saying with a straight face that taking a little boy into bed with you is the most loving thing a grown man can do. Was I any different, saying "My soul mate is just around the corner"? No, clearly, I was only fooling myself.
As I moved into the Bargaining stage, I attempted to cope with my loss of soul mate hope by making a deal with God. "Lord, if You allow me to meet my soul mate, I'll become a better person. I'll be kinder to people, I'll make donations to charity even if they don't send the cool, self-sticking address labels, I'll stop taking your name in vain when the driver in front of me is too slow to make it through the yellow light, I'll subscribe to PBS. I'll floss."
Of course, the Guilt stage was no big shocker to me, as I was quite experienced in that arena. It took the form of multiple "If onlys." If only I hadn't turned Kathy down just because she sounded like a goat when she laughed. If only Nicole Kidman would at least send me some response to my countless emails a bit more encouraging than that restraining order. Like she wasn't flattered that I have a shrine to her in my room -- with its own back-up generator in case the power goes out.
It's no wonder I reached the Anger stage. I was angry at life for forcing me to keep paying monthly fees to online dating websites rather than the much easier and far more economical method of simply accidentally bumping into my soul mate in an elevator or supermarket, with appropriate Phil Collins or Elton John soundtrack music, just like in the movies. I was angry at myself for not having developed whatever relationship skills might turn me into a babe magnet. I was angry at my parents for not having given me the genetic gifts of George Clooney's looks, Bill Gates' intelligence, Fred Astaire's dancing ability, 50 Cent's street cred. If we can put a man on the Moon, why couldn't that happen, too?
Depression followed closely upon Anger, Julie. Look what you did to me and you didn't even know me. I lost interest in meeting my soul mate, much less dating at all. I sounded as though all the life and energy had been drained from my voice. I slumped. I couldn't even motivate myself to call a depression hotline. And here's how I realized I was truly, deeply depressed -- Snapple iced tea just didn't do it for me anymore. I went for canned Lipton. Canned Lipton, Julie! Canned Lipton! Do you know how deeply depressed a person has to be to open a can of Lipton iced tea? The horror. The horror. How can canned Lipton iced tea executives even sleep at night? But it's all I felt worthy of.
Finally, I became resigned to the fact that some people just aren't meant to meet their soul mates and apparently I was one of them -- the few, the lonely, the people doomed for the rest of their lives to face restaurant maitre d's who, while the Muzak is playing Roy Orbison's "Only the Lonely," look at them pityingly and ask, "Table for one?" and then shine a spotlight on them as all eyes follow them to their solitary table, offering looks of sympathy as the waiter removes one of the place settings and they cry out in anguish, "Please, for the love of God, look away, I am alone and hideous!"
So, how, you may wonder, did things turn out relatively well? How did I finally arrive at the last of the Seven Stages of No Soul Mate Grief -- the stage of Acceptance and Hope? Well, Julie, you see, there's some good news. Some exciting news. I met someone. Finally. Which to me pretty much constitutes proof of God's existence. I witnessed a miracle. Ten plagues? No. Sea splitting? No. Finding a woman who I like as much as she likes me? Bingo. Miracle. And I really like her. I even got rid of my Nicole Kidman shrine for her. Well, not totally; it's in storage. You never know. Is this woman my soul mate, Julie? Who knows? At this point, I'm not even sure what it would feel like to have a soul mate. I mean, come on, her name isn't even Julie. It's just that... maybe if you find someone you really like, who seems to like you, is pretty and smart and doesn't seem to mind your flaws and smells good and doesn't even bring up the subject of restraining orders, that's soul mate enough for any man. Even me. Now, if you'll excuse me, Julie, I need to go floss and get ready to sleep
Dear Soul mate:
From this day forward, you shall not walk alone. My heart will be your shelter,and my arms will be your home. I am so glad that you are a part of my life. It is a privilege to know you, to share myself with you, and to walk together on the paths that take us in so many beautiful directions.
I had heard of "soul mates" before, but I never knew such a person could exist - until I met you.
Somehow, out of all the twists and turns our lives could have taken, and out of all the chances we might have missed, it almost seems like we were given a meant-to-be moment to meet, to get to know one another, and to set the stage for a special togetherness.
When I am with you, I know that I am in the presence of someone who makes my life more complete than I ever dreamed it could be. I turn to you for trust, and you give it openly. I look to you for inspiration, for answers, and for encouragement, and not only do you never let me down - you lift my spirits up and take my thoughts to places where my troubles seem so much farther away and my joys feel like they're going to stay in my life forever.
I hope you'll stay forever, too. I feel like you're my soul mate. And I want you to know that my world is reassured by you, my tomorrows need to have you near, so many of my smiles depend on you, and my heart is so thankful that you're here
Dear Soulmate,
Before I met you there were many points in my life I had thought of you but never knew who you were. Id think of the perfect person. The one who would love me like I loved them. Someone who would make a sacrafice as big as I would. But as I went though the years I never found you. I went through relationship after relationship searching for you. Id be with one person for a few days and then know its not you. I had many dreams and hopes of you and as I waited for you I fell more in more in love with you. Although I had not met you. Or seen you or even known your name. I knew that you exist somewhere in the world.
From a young age this thought started. Not from when adults say you can understand love. Much much before. Oh yes a long time before. I was only eight maybe even seven. I would sigh at night whilst I dreamed of you. I would become depressed if people treated me like dirt. For anything and everything. But the thought of you keept me going. But even though I did not know you I still carried on the hope and the dream. I believed that if you believe hard enough in something then it will eventually come true. And that if you give up then you will never grasp hold of your dreams. Some people say that only those bold enough to chase dreams are willing to catch them. And I guess I thought I was one of those people.
Although the longer I waited the more painful it seemed to be without you I always had faith that I would be with you one day. I hoped every morning that today would be the day but it never came. I was getting use to getting exited and then getting it blown down. It was becoming a lifestyle more than anything else.
I would always picture your face in my dreams. You were like a princess. Like no other. Beautiful, kind, loving and strong. I pictured me and you being one. We would be stronger together. And that nothing would break our bond. However life didnt seem to be that fantasy. Life is not a dream but life is what you make it.
Eventually as I grew older the faith was their but it was getting weaker and weaker. Life seemed to be to long. However when your looking for something it’s harder to find. One day I decided to stop and go with the flow of fate. And that very moment I stopped. I found you.
Fate works in mysterious ways. Love can start in many ways. People can find love through a random click of a button or open of a door. But some can find it through long time of getting to know them. But I knew as soon as I saw you. The dream was in reach. But as I tried to catch I was scared. I would mess up the oppertunity however you cannot mess up fate. Destiny is ment to be. And you are my destiny.
When you catch a dream you make a new one. New goals, targets. And now that we have our love in the palm of our hands. I now see our next steps. I want to marry you. Have a family with you. Live with you. Grow old with you. And pass with you. And be eternally with you.
My love,
The nights when we kiss are the sweetest nights of all. Sometimes it’s tender, achingly slow and saturated with meaning, all our deepest longings and promises being spoken without a word. Or it can be playful, softly teasing and utterly ecstatic, sweetened with joy and delighted laughter. There are also times when it’s passionate, intense, driven by heat and unleashed desire. But always, whenever and however you kiss me, I realize why it couldn’t possibly work with anyone else. Only you can make this happen: the whole world fades away, time slows down, and you become the single most important part of my universe. In that moment, the heartbreaks of the past are forgotten and the doubts of the future vanish — nothing else matters but your touch and the beat of your heart against mine. I know then that I am meant to kiss you and only you for the rest of my life.
You really are the woman of my dreams. You know, literally. And someday, I hope I’ll wake up from dreaming into the breathtaking reality of your arms.
Waiting for you,
I’m writing this letter to my future wife… The woman I am searching for. The woman that I am striving to become a better man for. The reason why I work everyday. The reason why I exercise everyday. The reason why I pray more. The reason why my character grows. The reason why I watch romantic comedies. The reason why I wake up and I’m optimistic about everday. I know one day we will cross paths, see each other and recognize that only faith and chance caused our union. Our hearts will merge…. Our minds will meet on one track… Two becomes one. I will make you my responsibility. You will be my soulmate, I will be your protector. Your biggest supporter, your number 1 fan, your guide. Everyday I practice doing all these things so that when you come into my life, I am the best man that I can be for you. So when you read this letter, imagine that God himself took time out to craft to individuals to match with each other… And only time is keeping us apart. But one day our time will come, and the promise of our matrimony that God has for us will be fulfilled. That day, love will flow forever like a winding river, and nothing will never, ever make it cease.
You are my soul mate, my sweetheart, you are my dream come true, from now until the end of time I give my heart and soul to you.It's not who you are to the world, it's who you are to me. It's not how many times
I say I love you... it's how much I really do.I love you because you bring out the best in me, and holding on to that thought, I sincerely believe that just by being with you shall bring out the best life I ever could live.
There may be many flowers in a man's life, but there is only one rose.True love is not being with someone because you think you can be happy with that person, but because without that person you know you
can never be. Every day that passes by, every one of them I have my mind occupied by thoughts of you and me. all the nice things wonderful moments all spent with you I keep them burried in my heart, burried in
my soul where they will never be set free.happyness you cause to my heart to my soul to my life. just remember that every day that passes by, every one of them I have mi mind occupied by you and me
True love doesn't just fill your heart, it overflows into your whole body and soul. Destiny decides who you meet in your life but its your heart that decides who gets to stay in your life. Greatest love story that was ever told, could be me and you, you just never know.To hear your voice, to see your eyes, to taste your lips, to feel your touch, to say i love you when our hearts collide, if i can't, i'll still love you just as much. You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams!
True Love is when the look in your eyes shows pure devotion and a love that reaches depths no one else will ever understand for that special
someone.
Dear the love of my life,
I haven't met you yet, but I am more than anxious to, I haven't kissed your soft lips yet, but I'm dying to, and I'm writing this letter to assure you that you will be treated with the highest respect, and most greatest care. By the time I have met you, I would have endured plenty of heartaches, upset stomachs, sleepless nights, and useless fights. But I promise you those events leading up to our encounter will make you somehow fall for me even more, and will someway make me appreciate you beyond anything I have ever loved. I promise you, that when I fall for you, you'll wish you met me sooner, but there my love, is how this all ties together, the greatest experiences are those you must patiently rely on time, 'cause meeting you will be anything but a coincidence.
My dearest love,
Prior to your entrance into my chaotic life I never did come into contact with an individual so sensational as you. It is quite breath taking to read, to see the way in which you create art with both the spoken and written word. To find the beauty in the choice of paper and perfectly placed pauses, sybolized by the simple "..." Perhaps you somehow were present in my mind while composing this for, the pauses you inserted matched perfectly with that of my slow exhale in place of incomprehensible words.
"Your greatness is not waht you have, its what you give", well my kind sir, the greatness you exude is emmense. You; a true and most perfect example of the greatness all of humanity deserves to exist in the presence of. My reasoning for this being that this greatness you posess enhances the life all are set out to live.
My dearest love,
Just the mere existence of my mind, body and soul, you my love, are prevelent in a reality--my reality. I suppose we can go as far as to say my being. In such a magical way you become real in all of life; the waltz of the gentle spring wind, the warmth of the sun, the simple song of a bird, the innocent laughter of a child. Your words eloquently echo through the walls of my being as that of a perfectly sculpted harmony; the true art of music; poetry of the heart.
With the enterence of you into my life came the gift of inspiration. Inspiration to be, to know, to discover and reflect. With this inspiration each moment becomes an undiscovered treasure and oh how I long to brush aside the layers of dust, old memories of fears, dust away the present distractions camoflaging the very treasures of the magic we share.
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