LOVE: THOUGHTS ABOUT LOVE

You mean everything to me.... you are the first thing I think of when I wake up, and my last thought before I go to bed, you smile at me in my dreams. When you are sad, I feel sad. And when I see your smile, I feel like there is no other thing around, and all I can see is you

When I look into your eyes my whole world feels so right but to me its no surprise because your the best thing in my life It takes billions of people to complete the world but it only takes you to complete mine.



It’s the way I miss you even before you leave, when i know i can listen to you talk all night and never get the slightest bit tired of hearing your voice. It’s the way every time someone says your name I smile and it’s the way every time i close my eyes, I think of how much I love you and could never be without you.

Do you realize what you are to me? What you're always going to be? You are the love of my life... everyone else will always be second best. There will never be another you. You're my way of getting away from the world
 when i`m with you everything seems to be ok. Every since the first time
you held my hand  I wanted nothing more than for you to hold it forever.


You know your in love when all it takes is one song on the radio to make you think of her. You know you're in love when you can say anything to the person and you know they won't laugh at you. When you can see their face when you close your eyes. When you can still feel their arms around you holding you tight long after they are gone. When you can still taste their kiss after you have said goodbye. You can tell you're in love when you miss them before they are gone. When their voice lingers in your ears. When their presence eases any pain. When their name sends chills down your spine. When they are the only thing you can think about. You know you are in love when you can see all their hopes and dreams and their soul when you look into their eyes. When they call you at four in the morning, tell you, "I love you," and mean it. When your tears stain not only their shirt, but also their heart. When they are hurt just because of these tears. When even a simple chore done with them can become a lasting memory. Ultimately, you know you are in love when you can't imagine living without them, and can't figure how did you live before you knew them. When they fulfill every need and without them you are incomplete. The love of someone else completes the heart, sound, and mind all at once.

when you kissed me that night i couldn't help but think....this is exactly what I have waited for my whole entire life. I love you because I can't remember what life was like...before I had you. I want to get to a point where no matter whathappens ` no matter how long we go with out
being together`no matter how many fights we get into that all we need is a kiss and suddenly we remember why we love each other

Never in a million years did I think id find someone so utterly and completely perfect, someone who'd make me happier than I ever dreamed I could be, someone that would touch my life so profoundly and just give me a whole new reason to breathe, but then I found you and realized that everything I anticipated you'd be doesn’t even compare to what you are.

I dont ever want to forget out first kiss, or our last touch. or let a day go by without telling you how much you mean to me, how deeply i love you, and how much i need you. I dont ever want you to doubt the way i feel, or how much happier i am because of you.


Did you ever notice that people give up on love as they get older? When you're a little boy, all you want to do is fall in love. Then when you're a teenager, every girl you meet you think is "the one". Than when you're an adult and you have been hurt from the breakups as a teen, you're not interested in love anymore. You just don't want to be alone, so you settle for someone you might even know isn't your soul mate. I know so many adults that aren't truly where they want to be. I just try to think about what they might have went through to make them settle for second best, and I hope that doesn't happen to me.


I know that you're truly amazing because every single time you walk into a room, I instantly feel better. You make me feel that it's okay to be myself. You encourage me with my dreams, no matter how silly they may be. And the thought of you makes me smile, even when it makes me cry, because I would rather cry a million tears then to have never met you.

Have you ever met someone and thought they were the greatest thing ever and fell totaly in love with them and then realized how wrong you were about that person because they were the exact opposite of what you thought they were going to be, but you loved them some how and just cant let go of them and what they once where. You just want to forget them and move on, but you cant cause they were your first true love. You have so many emotions going on inside you and you don't know what to do about them. It makes you so mad at the world that you feel like you could break down and you don't know how to explain your emotions to your friends cause they don't understand and if they do they think it's stupid how you feel cause they never felt that way. So therefor you have no one to turn to and your stuck loving that one person who makes you feel this way.


You want to know what happiness is? It's waking up in the middle of the night for no reason, shifting under the blankets and feeling the heat of the person next to you. You turn around and see them in their most peaceful, innocent, and vulnerable state. They breathe as though the weight of the world lays on anyone's shoulder but their own. You smile, kiss their face in the most gentle manner so as not to wake them. You turn back around and an involuntary grin forms on your own face. You feel an arm wrap around your waist, and you know it doesn't get any better than this


after we hung up the phone last night,i just sat there in the dark.all of a sudden tears started running down my face.i didn't understand how i could be crying when i was so happy, but then i realized they were tears of joy. i thought about how lucky i am to have someone like you, someone so understanding,and so caring. the more i thought about how great you are, the more the tears ran down my cheeks.

Someone once asked me *do you think it’s possible to love someone forever?* and I thought of the way I love you and said   - - - * forever isn’t long enough *

i love you so much. people say that at my age, i don`t really know what love is. well, then maybe there`s another explanation for the way i feel about you. how every second i`m away from you seems like an eternity. how every time i try to think of something else, i can only think of one thing, and that`s you. how every time i see you, i smile more and more, and how i`m so happy i could cry. how every time i talk of you to others i want to tell someone how wonderful you are. how the times i`m most happy are when i`m with you and i miss you the most right after i leave your side. maybe there is another explanation for this uncontrollable feeling inside of me, but right now, i`ll hold the thought that i love you inside my heart forever.


I love it when I am just walking away from kissing you good-bye and we both turn around at the same time to get just one more

Every long lost dream, led me to where you are. Others who broke my heart, they were like northern stars. Pointing me on my way, into your loving arms. This much I know is true, that god bless the broken road that led me straight to you

 It's love when the only thing you want to see are her eyes gazing into yours. When the only thing you want to feel are her arms around you. When the only thing you want to taste are her lips against yours. When the only thing you want to smell is the gentle scent of her skin. And when the only thing you want to hear is her voice, telling you how much she loves you.



"You are my other half, without you I'm the dance without the song. I'm the heart without the soul. Without you I'm the words without the book, you mean so much to me. There aren't enough words to explain how much I care about you, and how much I need you in my life. You and I are connected in a way that goes beyond romance, beyond friendship, beyond what we've ever had before. It has defied time, distance, and changes in ourselves and in our lives. I can't explain it. I just feel it. It's there in the way my spirit subtly lifts whenever we talk, how the sound of your voice brings me home in a way I can't explain. It's in the delight I feel when we laugh at exactly the same things. When I'm with you it's like a tiny part of the universe shifts into the place it's supposed to be, and all is right with the world.


I look at you and I see my best friend. Your energy and passion inspire me in ways I never thought possible. Your inner beauty is so strong that I no longer fear being myself. I no longer fear at all. I never thought I'd find someone to love that would love me back unconditionally. And then I realize that although we were often apart, you were always with me and you were always my soul mate. You give me purpose when I feel I have none. Without you my soul would be empty, my heart would be broken, my being incomplete. I thank God every day you were brought into my life and I thank you for loving me.

I love you with every part of my being, from the inner most part of my soul. Your name on my lips is the sweetest thing I have ever tasted, other than your lips on mine. I do not breathe the same without you, the skies are less blue and the stars are duller. Your face is the most beautiful face I have ever seen, and with each day you become more beautiful to me. I do not laugh the same when you are not around, movies are more boring, and songs have less rhythm.  Your smile is the most sensational smile I have seen, I love the way your eyes sparkle almost as much as I do your dimples. I love you like no other, you're not only my friend, but my best friend, and my one and only true love.It takes billions of people to complete the world but it only takes you to complete mine.

baby,, i`m scared

because I don`t want anyone

to have your heart;; I don`t want

anyone to kiss your lips

I don’t want ANY0NE to be in your arms

I don’t want anyone to be the

One you love .. im scared because

I Don’t want anyone to take my place


dear anyone,
how do you know if you're in love? :(
and if I am in love, what can I do to get myself the fuck out of it?
-me

And in case you were wondering, you are like a sunset to me. You're all k.i.n.d.s of beautiful as you end my day.


Being near you is indescribable, I could stay here all day; you're so warm, the look in your eyes makes me so happy to be alive, the way your face feels, the way you move, every little thing you do. The smell of your hair that stays on me forever, the way you dry my eyes & promise me everything is going to be alright. The way you kiss me good night as we watch eachother fall asleep. Your feet nudging mine as we hold our hands even tighter, could you be any more perfect if you tried? Your laugh, your smile, everything about you just makes me so happy. How you told me you were never going to leave. I would never have imagined anyone like you until I met you. You're the 1st thing I think of in the morning & the last thing at night. The way you helplessly ask me to hold you. I'm in love. & sorry if I'm ever a mess it's just there's no need to put on a front when I'm with you, & sorry if I ever bore you to death, just being with you & wasting my time with you makes my day.



your eyes still give me a reason to breathe and midnight conversations still mean everything to me.This morning I woke up and saw your smile; that smile. and i knew i wanted to spend the rest of my life with you.

A boy & a girl stood in life for his favorite rollercoaster. the girl shuddered in fear... her fear is heights.she glanced at the boy with watery eyes and managed to say "i can`t do this."he put his hand on her cheek and smiled. "i promise you. if you fall out, i'll go with you"



You know why you never felt that "spark" with any other guy? It's because they weren't your soulmate..They arent meant for you. They're not your one and only.And I'd rather be standing outside in the freezing cold with you
than to be warm in the arms of someone else. Lets sip hot chocolate and sit by the fire and be the winter romance everyone wishes they could have
You kissed me, and looked me directly in the eyes, & told me how much you loved me, and for that second , i knew that i was the luckiest guy alive

 Love is the most incredible, precious feeling in the entire world. But when you're in love..you get so caught up, in intertwined fingers and passionate kisses. You're completely blind to the rest of the world. It's like you're floating in midair and you can't even remember that there's a hard, cold ground waiting for you to fall on. And if you aren't careful, you fall and you get so incredibly hurt. You get bruised and broken and you can't even remember how you fell so hard. And that was what I had felt then. And that was what I was afraid of feeling again.

 Love is always a good thing no matter how much it hurts. Even after it's over, even through the pain, anyone who has ever really loved will tell you that they never regretted a second of it, no matter how much it hurt in the end. And if you tell me differently, I will tell you that you were not truly in love



he whispered to her;
the only way i could ever hurt you
is by holding your hand too tight

you are the answer to every prayer ive offered
you are a song, a dream, a whisper, and i dont know how i
could have lived without you for as long as i have.
i love you, more than you can ever imagine.
i always have, and i always will.



dear diary...
today i saw that girl and i wonder if she noticed me. She took my breath away

baby, I want the whole world to see, just how good your love looks on me


I held her close to me with my eyes closed, wondering if anything in my life had ever been this perfect and knowing at the same time that it hadn't. I was in love, and the feeling was even more wonderful than I ever imagined it could be


I learned that it is possible for two people to fall in love all over again, even when there's been a lifetime of disappointment between them. A love story like ours should be on the big screen or in the pages of a novel

The only thing better than a kiss is the moment right before your lips touch;
oh, the look in her eyes will leave you breathless. People can call it passion. Or lust. Or obsession. I don't really care. When I'm with her, touching her, is the only time I feel completely alive. If you've never felt the power of that, then I feel sorry for you

I could spend forever trying to tell you what love is. But I'd be wasting my time. Until you experience it, you wouldn't understand the simple answer: that it's too complex an emotion. It's not positive or negative. Love just is.





 bottom line ..if you want me, i'm all yours

And suddenly I got what the big deal was about kissing. How someone could suck on your bottom lip and make you come completely undone. That someone stroking the hair back from your face could make you swoon and someone sliding his hands underneath your top could make you feel wanted for the first time in your life.



My favorite part in those old movies is when the girl and the boy finally find each other. really find each other, after a lot of soul searching and heartbreak:; right after their eyes meet, the rest of the world just kinda melts away. he picks that girl up, twirls her around, and holds her like he's holding the world."

When you love someone that much and that person is away from you, sometimes it literally feels like you can't breathe, as if your body is aching for air. And then that person walks into the room, and all that ache inside of you, all that longing, dissolves and you feel yourself breathe again. But it's as if he takes the same breath with you. You're both one


You've never really lived until you found someone worth dying for...because falling in love with you was possibly the best thing i've ever done in my entire life. I can see myself waking up next to you. Your face being the first thing i see everyday.I love how just holding your hand can send scorching sparks up and down my spine.


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PERSONAL: WAITING TO BE FOUND

To my future soul mate...

Although we are apart & may never have met, those of faith say that within this world of space & time, we are already together, but just can't see it yet. So, to ease the pain of relentless time, I am writing this letter in hopes that it will somehow draw your soul to mine. Truth be known, I have looked for you and still do everywhere. In the streets, in my dreams... in the eyes of every soul I meet. I have spent this time apart from you alone, setting goals, realizing dreams and becoming the man I have always wanted to be. I have had many journeys within my life, ones that I will share with you. For someday I will also learn about what you have endured in your own path, while searching for me too. There have been many who have asked me who you are and what you stand for. My response to them has always been the same, that the woman I love knows my worth and loves me more. All she asks I shall be.... so she will always know that all she needs will always begin and end with me!

They say that one's best success comes after their greatest disappointments. So here I am. No stranger to life's disappointments or love's scars, but still willing to make the journey to find love & happiness. The most wonderful of all things in life, I believe, is the discovery of another human being with whom one's relationship has a glowing depth, beauty, and joy as the years increase. This inner progressiveness of love between two human beings is a most marvellous thing. A sort of Divine accident. So you could say that I am here, waiting to be FOUND.

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ARTICLE: Is the Key to Getting Rich Work, Risk or Luck? By: Robert Frank

The role of luck in getting wealthy is no longer just an academic issue: it's also a political one.

If we assume that wealth comes from working hard, taking great personal risk and coming up with great ideas, then the wealthy don't necessarily "owe" society for their success.

But if the rich are simply lucky, or if they get wealthy on the back of America's publicly funded infrastructure, they owe more of a debt in the form of taxes or philanthropy.

The debate over luck or work, self or community, came into the spotlight last summer with a commencement speech at Princeton by author Michael Lewis. The speech was called "Don't Eat Fortune's Cookie." Success, he said, often comes from luck and happenstance—yet the successful often "rationalize" their success as stemming from talent or work or intelligence.

"Recognize that if you have had success, you have also had luck—and with luck comes obligation," he wrote. "You owe a debt, and not just to your Gods. You owe a debt to the unlucky."

President Barack Obama reignited the debate during the election campaign with the "you didn't build that" line. Many said it was taken out of context—he was talking about roads and bridges and public schools—but it still hit a nerve. And it fueled the battle over the wealthy paying their "fair share" in taxes.

But what about the wealthy themselves? A study from Spectrem Group, the wealth research firm, shows that while some of the wealthy say luck played a role in their success, many say hard work, education and risk-taking played a much bigger role.

(Read More: Top 1 Percent Control 39 Percent of World's Wealth)

Among people worth $5 million or more, more than 98 percent cited hard work as a "wealth creation factor." More than 90 percent cited education, followed by "smart investing," "frugality" and then "taking risk."

Slightly more than half of those surveyed cited "being at the right place at the right time" as a factor in their success—ranking it far below hard work and education.

Among business owners, however, the number of self-described "lucky wealthy" is much higher: 79 percent of them cited "being at the right place at the right time" as a factor in their success. Fully 68 percent of business owners cited "luck" as a factor.


Among corporate executives, 64 percent cited "being at the right place and right time" as a factor in their success while half cited "luck."

So are the wealthy downplaying luck or is wealth truly self-made?

"One way to interpret the data is that it's a balance," said George Walper of Spectrem Group. "Some acknowledge that their success is partly based on luck. But some people don't. And maybe ego plays a role among the people who may understate the effects of luck."

DATING: THE STATISTICS OF MARRIAGE, RELATIONSHIP AND LIFE. THEY DON'T LIE

The statistics clearly show



-According to the U.S. census, there are 95.9 million unmarried people in the U.S. of which 45% are men and 55% are women.

-Over 50% of all singles in America have not had a date in more than two years.

-76% of women date men that are at least 6-8 years older than them

-80% of men date women that are at least 7-10 years younger than them.

-An average woman goes on about 24 dates before she finds a keeper.
She will also endure six bad dates, have six one-night stands, be cheated on four times and meet at least one partner online before that magical 24 date.And not only that, but she will spend $3,000 in the process!

-the average man is likely to kiss 23 girls, have ten one night stands and their be left heartbroken by six women.

-In the online dating world, women are afraid of meeting a serial killer. Men are afraid of meeting someone “fat.” The truth is about 3% of men are psychopaths, of which only a tiny percentage are serial killer

-15 per cent of women had ended up with a 'stalker' after a bad date or relationship.


-Of the women who are casually dating and did not identify that their last sex partner was a committed partner – almost 32 percent have a regular casual sex partner, 42 percent a ‘fuck buddy’ or ‘friend with benefits,’ nine percent a ‘booty call,’ and 17 percent had had a one-night-stand.

-Twenty-nine percent of Americans have had sex on the first date

-The most common time for breakups is around three to five months


-Nearly 45% of women have never been married,

-Men regularly marry women who are younger, less intelligent, less educated

-47 percent of American women who give birth are unmarried at the time.

-88 percent of 35- to 44-year-old women with four-year college degrees have married,

-New York state has the highest percentage of never-married women in the country, and in New York City it’s even higher. 34.8 percent of New York state women over the age of 15 have never married; in the city, it’s 41.7 percent.

Now let's say you are in a relationship:

-Percent of men who admit to committing infidelity in any relationship 70 %
-Percentage of women who admit to committing infidelity in any relationship 55 %
-Average length of an affair 2 years


-50% of women experience domestic violence in relationships


-Average dating time before marriage is around 2 years

-There’s a 50% probability that women will marry for the first time by age 27, researchers say; the probability of marriage for men doesn’t hit 50% until age 29.

-The probability of first marriage by the age of 30 is 74% for women and 61% for men

-when a couple gets married today, they have 55% chance of getting divorced.

 dismal odds of marriage for women over 30
-20% of white, college-educated women who reach age 30 without marrying can be expected to do so.
-After age 35, the figure dropped to 5%.
-For those over 40, the researchers said "perhaps 1%" would marry.

There is a noticeable decline in the fertility rate starting at age 32 to a level of about 10% per month. At 35, the miscarriage rate is 30% and the risk of Down syndrome becomes about 1/350.

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DATING: SHORTAGE OF MEN ...MEANS YOU HAVE TO CHANGE

70 per cent of all American women marry before they are 24 years old. From then on, it’s a downhill slide. By the time a woman is 30, there is about one chance in two she will ever get married and at 40, only one chance in five. By the time she is 50, the chances she will marry are just one in 16, and after 60, her chances drop to one in 62.

Undaunted by the statistics, most single woman still attempts in the direction of marrying throughout their lifetimes they want to tell themselves that they at least they tried.

There is man shortage there is a study that assert that only 20% of white, college-educated women who reach age 30 without marrying can be expected to do so. After age 35, the figure dropped to 5%. For those over 40, the researchers said "perhaps 1%" would marry.

There is a large number of unmarried, over-30 woman and what most woman grew up doing was learning to be perfect, to be successful, to be in control. Control becomes an important theme because somebody in the family was wildly out of control.As you  take it down from attraction to unavailable men into what you can control. And in any good relationship, one party or the other is at some point going to have to give up control. For single women vexed by their status, the control question can be particularly confounding.

As divorce rates have climbed and birth rates have dropped, the practice has continued, leaving fewer men in the so-called "eligible" category. Soaring incomes have narrowed the marital choices for these women still further, since a lot of men will not marry a woman who make more money than them.

I hate to tell you ....when you have a surplus of women most men tend to have more alternative relationships with women. They are less likely to make commitments to women, and more apt to have higher divorce rates. And then add  a whole generation of men who wanted to remain boys, who didn't want the responsibility of being men. Adolescence for men I think used to last until 30. Now it lasts until 40 At the same time, you have women who have learned to take care of themselves--who have, in effect, become men.

And from my experience once a women becomes an emancipated, independent adult, and learns to take care of herself. she is not nearly as tolerant or accepting of any kind of settling into a relationship. She is not going to settle as easily.

And It's not that they don't want to be married, It's that they don't want to marry the men who are out there who are still brought up to believe that women's major role is to supply them, the men, with their emotional needs. Women want to marry equals...these same women, when I talk to them or even met them are expecting more, because they are not these dependent, child-like adults.

I read in so many profile a lot of single women who say they've never been happier than they are today. These are women who have master's degrees and Ph.D.'s and are into management-level stuff in corporations, and they are doing quite well. They have opted for a career, then turn around and find themselves devoid of eligible men, and in a position where they haven't developed certain skills and arenas in order to pursue men and connect to them. It's so funny. They can be confident handling difficult business interplay, they can be brilliant in the courtroom, and you put them in a social situation with a man and they are absolutely terrified.

The reality is that there are very, very few men statistically but the other side of that is that there are some.,,,they have to realize it's a needle-in-the-haystack thing. If they keep getting caught in the hay, then they can't go on.But it's really their fault, they made wrong choices. I love how so many woman tend to deny unpleasant things.

To the dismay of the unmarried woman who would like a prescription, whether for a husband or for a happy life alone, no magical elixir is known to exist. You have to change yourself.

I have met several women of about 30 who are still single, and who share one thing in common. They all have a shopping list of attributes for 'Mr Right'.

My advice to anyone with a shopping list would be to lose it and have lower expectations. Some would say 'Why should I lower my standards?'. I would say there is a difference between expectations and standards. For example there is the super successful, handsome, Alpha male, house(s), bling cars, and a girl in every city. Or there is the regular Joe, ordinary looking, steady job, small apartment who will be loyal and loving and make a great dad.

I even said to one, 'If you had to chose, lower your expectation or stay alone, what would it be?'. Back comes the answer, 'No, I shouldn't have to chose'. Stay as you are then, single'.Blunt I know, but it makes the point.

Over the past several years I have seen countless articles report on today's post-grad woman: She's career-driven, she isn't defined by marriage, she's focused on advanced education, she'd not concerned about waiting to have children. It's a domino effect of soft metrics that you don't seem to need an expensive study to figure out. If a woman focuses most of her attention on her career, then that woman focuses less attention on finding a partner, developing that relationship and introducing children into the mix.

A generalization, but one rooted in logic.

This study, though, takes it one step further. It delivers the very specific finding that "30 has emerged as a soft deadline for marriage, home ownership and career advancement, a development that has much to do with the pragmatism that informs today's younger consumer."

Let's talk about that for a minute.
So, marriage by 30. As far as I see it, it's a math-versus-fate debate.


Fact: Your chances of experiencing complications with a pregnancy dramatically increase after age 35 and grow more serious every year after. So, if you want to have multiple children without risk of complication, starting that process after the age of, say, 34, is a vital consideration.

It takes approximately one year to plan a wedding, bringing us to engagement at age 33. Most couples date for a minimum of one year pre-engagement, making 32 the year you meet the guy. So we're technically safe after the 30-year hump, but not if you want to date for more than a year, enjoy any time together as a married couple before children, or have more than two of them over one year apart once you've begun.

Yes, you can have children well into your 40s. Yes, you can meet a man and marry him three months later. Yes, you have the whole of your retirement to travel alone together. But we're talking about a life defined by the pragmatic approach. Pragmatically speaking (based on factors rooted in science), if you want a certain kind of family and future, you should aim to get married somewhere around 30.



 if you’re single and want to have kids with a partner, you need to find one now

However there is lots of evidence to show that a woman’s biological clock takes a nose-dive at age 35. I know, because that’s when I started having kids with my ex wife and for two years we tried with no success. A geneticist showed me and my ex wife at that time a graph of Down’s Syndrome and we nearly keeled over when we saw the cliff at 35. We had no idea. That Down’s Syndrome cliff, though, is a stand-in for everything, because a huge percentage of fertility statistics get bad at 35.

20% of pregnancies end in a miscarriage. This means you have almost a 50% chance of having to go through three pregnancies to have two kids, which means you should start when you’re thirty.

If you want to have babies when you’re thirty, then you probably want to be married when you’re twenty-eight. A man can work full-speed ahead on their career in their early twenties, but women cannot afford that. Women need to make time in their lives to search for a mate in the same systematic, focused way that women have been searching for careers in their early twenties. And don’t tell yourself you’re waiting until you know yourself better. Getting to know yourself is a lifelong process, and after age twenty-five, waiting to get married won’t decrease your chance of divorce.

The good news here is that a large body of research shows that you will gain more happiness by being married than by having a good job. Yes, you should not have to choose between a good job and marriage. But this is not about what is fair or what is just. It is about what is real.

You have a biological clock that does not pay attention to issues of social justice. You cannot control your biological clock and you cannot control the workplace. But you can control where you spend your time and energy, and you should look hard for a husband early on. Line up the marriage first, then the career.

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PERSONAL/ LOVE LETTER/LOVE LETTER:I LOVE EVERYTHING

Sitting here in the moments before dawn contemplating us and the beauty of you . Your inner-beauty which so fervently takes the reigns in the depths of my soul. Your warm and gentle heart that at times acts like my barrier of protection from the realities of this harsh and cruel world. Your child like playfulness and joy that never fails to bring a smile to my face, and of course your smile in and of its self whos beauty surpasses the human understanding of perfection. You are light even in times of darkness and you are joy even in times of sorrow.You are strength in times of weakness and you are my ever-present hero. Your love has presented me with an opportunity to redeem myself in qualities i thought i had lost. You've shown me that my own heart can feel and heal again and that i am deserving of love. I am grateful at the seemingly simple part that you have played in my transformation but the main attribute of this action which can not be over looked is the restoration of my faith in love and the most high. Through you i have reconnected with parts of myself i feared were permanently lost Thank you for being the vessel through which this healing occurred i am grateful toward you and will forever remember your kindness and great love.


I love so many things about our relationship;
I love the closeness between the two of us,
I love that you are more than just my soulmate;
You are my best friend too.

I love that we share more than just love;
we share our dreams, our fears and our thoughts.
We can talk about nothing and anything.
I don’t love just one thing about you;
I love everything





PART 2


From the moment I heard your voice I felt a connection to your soul. I can still remember exactly how youlooked the day we first met. Your beautiful eyes captured my heart and your smile erased any and all doubts that I had ever experienced. When you opened your arms I stepped into your loving, kind embrace and knew that I was "home" right where I had always belonged.

You knew just the words to say to put me at ease and when your hand reached out to hold mine, I realized that I had found my future, my soul-mate and the love that I had always dreamed of discovering. We spoke for hours about every possible subject and never ran out of words to say to each other.

I could see the longing and passion in your eyes and I am sure that it was a reflection of the incredibly intense desire that I was feeling at the same moment. The world had ceased to exist and there were only the two of us sitting next to each other, holding hands and experiencing emotions that we had never felt before.

When you first whispered the words, "I love you," into my ear as we walked along the beach, it was the happiest moment in my life. My joy was deeper, richer and more intense than I had ever dreamed possible. I can remember the tears in my eyes as I turned to look at you. The kiss we shared that night was one I shall never forget. Having to tell you "Good Night" and return home without you was the hardest thing that I have ever had to do in my life. Even knowing that you would call me on the phone later to wish me goodnight once more made our parting no easier to bear.

The moments when we were apart seemed like a bitter eternity and I could barely wait until the next time I would see you or talk to you. Never have distances seemed so long and cold and lonely. Our phone conversations would often have long moments where the two of us just held the phone to our ears and took comfort from the sound of the other's soft breathing.

You are the only person that could cause my heart to skip a beat with just a sidelong glance or a gentle smile. I gaze into your eyes and lose track of where I am, and even who I am. Your voice stirs a deeply intense longing in every fiber of my body and your caress makes me feel as though I am melting inside. These are feelings that I never knew existed and now I never want to lose these feelings, not even for a moment.

Ever since you came into my life I have known what true love and desire really are and these are emotions that many people will never know. You appear to me in my dreams and even these imaginary kisses rock my world and thrill me to the very core of my being. I can barely wait until the night is here, when I can lie in bed and dream of you once more.

I want nothing more than to spend my life with you at my side. When I wake in the morning I want to find you there beside me. When I go to sleep at night I want to feel your arms holding me, protecting me from the world.

You are the one true love of my life and I am only sorry that it took us so many years to meet. Now that we have found each other and are making a life together I will never again know the empty feelings of loneliness.You have made my life complete and I shall cherish your incredible gift of unconditional love and devotion until the moment that my body takes its last breath on this Earth.

I love you, my darling. No matter what the future holds for us I will love you until the end of time, and beyond. These words are my promise to never take you for granted or doubt the love that binds us for now and all eternity. 

Why not try your hand at writing some long love letters to your partner? The more you just let go and let it flow from your heart, the easier it gets to express yourself on paper. Surely your lover will cherish it forever!





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SPIRITUAL: LEARNING TO LOVE YOURSELF

Imagine this....Every day, when you get up, your partner tells you

-your ugly
-no one will love you
-you can't do anything right
-every decision you make is wrong
-you will end up homless
-you will die alone
-you will never get married
-you will never have kids

You wouldn’t allow yourself to be abused like that by anyone, knowing that if you did , your self esteem would be destroyed.

Well, guess what? A lot of us are putting up with that kind of abuse, but not from a spouse or a parent. Often, the most abusive person in our lives is the one staring back at us in the mirror. The voice we use to talk to ourselves is often shockingly nasty, mean, cruel and downright damaging. And make no mistake about it; subjecting ourselves to that kind of abuse on a daily basis takes its toll, just like the abuse from another person would. In fact, it makes little difference where the abuse comes from, as long as we believe it. And when we bombard ourselves with the same messages every day, we will come to believe them. In short, self-abuse is still abuse, and it does just as much damage as being mistreated by someone else.

Self abuse is the worst kind of abuse

In fact, self-abuse has the chance to do more damage, for several reasons:

You have a lot more access to yourself. You may get a respite from an abusive partner or parent (they have to sleep sometime and you can usually get away from them for a few hours a day), but we have to live with ourselves 24/7. There’s no getting away from it.

There’s no buffer. When someone else says something mean to us, we have the chance to disagree with them. We can see how others react and get a sense that these types of words aren’t acceptable (we don’t always, but we can). But no one can hear what we’re saying to ourselves. It’s like having an invisible abuser yelling obscenities at you, and no one else can see them. We have no other perspective but our current one to view the abuse through, making it that much harder to choose a different point of view.

How we see ourselves determines our perception of how others see us. That means, that those who disagree with our twisted view of ourselves can’t make it anywhere near us. We can’t hear a word they say. Self-abuse is the most effective way to shut out all contradictory and positive messages, ensuring that the abuse continues. Abusive partners will often isolate their victims, limiting the amount of contradictory feedback they get exposed to. This is the exact same thing.

Awareness is the first key

 When you first become aware of how youve been addressing yourselves, you are often totally shocked by just how nasty you are being. You would NEVER talk to anyone like that, and yet, you've been lobbing some of the worst insults one can imagine at themselves for years.So, how can you become more aware of how you’re talking to yourself? Well, first of all, decide to pay attention to your self-talk. That intention goes a long way, and may be enough to make you conscious of how you’re addressing yourself.

Second, Imagine that you’re talking to a small, adorable child. Suddenly, you’ll be hearing every word that comes out of your mouth (or mind) through the filter of saying it to someone defenseless and innocent. Whereas before, you may have dismissed some of your self-criticism as “not that bad”, you’ll definitely become aware of the destructive nature of your words. What would you think if you heard an adult tell a small child “You’re so stupid! I hate you! You’ll never be good enough!” You’d probably have the urge to step in and protect that poor child (and possibly smack the adult). And yet, many people talk to themselves in exactly that manner.

You can’t be strong enough to withstand the abuse

At this point, some people like to point out that even though they wouldn’t speak to a child in such a horrific way, they are not children anymore, and can “handle it”. They feel that they can process the abuse, that their minds know that they don’t really mean it. This is when I have to call Bullshit.

Your mind, and especially your subconscious, knows nothing of the sort. The words you are using are a reflection of the beliefs you hold about yourself, which means that your mind is accepting all those nasty insults as truth. This, my denial filled dearies, is how you truly feel about yourselves.

How you talk to yourself reveals how you truly feel about yourself.

And thinking that you’re tough enough to withstand the torrents of abuse, that you’re strong enough to weather the constant onslaught of nastiness, is dangerous at best. Sure, maybe you can keep yourself from having a total breakdown, but you cannot subject yourself continuously to an environment of abuse and not pay a hefty price. And, let me ask you this: Why would you even want to try?

Why would you ever need to prove that you can withstand constant abuse, unless you secretly fear that you’re weak and are trying to prove yourself wrong? How is your suffering proving anything, and who, exactly, are you trying to prove it to? Just because you’re strong enough to “take it”, doesn’t mean that you have to!

Telling yourself that you’re stupid and lazy and fat and ugly will take its toll. It will absolutely affect  you, how you feel, how you interact with others and your world, how successful and happy you are, how much love and money you let into your life, your relationships with your spouse, children and friends – in short, every aspect of your reality.

You can’t exactly leave yourself

When someone’s in a truly abusive relationship, I generally advise them to get out. In most cases, the environment that they’re in will make it damn near impossible for them to shift their vibration to a better feeling one. The sheer force of the abuser and the fact that they’ll try and exert even more control over their victim once that victim becomes stronger and begins to pull away can be too compelling. 

But what happens when you’re the one abusing yourself? You can’t very well leave your own head or ship off your subconscious to be healed, while you take a nice vacay and sip Mai Tais on the beach. What happens when you take the abuser with you everywhere you go?

The good news is that, unlike with an external abuser where you can’t control them or create in their reality, you have no such limitations here. You CAN create in your own reality and you can definitely change your own vibration and elicit very different behavior from yourself. And as you do, you’ll see massive changes not only in the way you feel, but in your reality as well.

Learning to love yourself

When you run everything through the filter of talking to a small, innocent, adorable child (or anyone you really love and have no negative feelings towards), you instantly become softer. Your tone is much kinder, you don’t berate, you encourage more, you let things go (a.k.a, everyone makes mistakes), you choose nicer words, and you may even find yourself apologizing to yourself for all the past nastiness (which, incidentally, is not a bad idea).

For example, let’s say that you’re late for a meeting. Your default response may be to tell yourself how stupid and incompetent you are. Why can’t you EVER be on time (suddenly it becomes an absolute. You’re ALWAYS late…)? Why can’t you be more disciplined? You’re going to lose your job, if you carry on like this!

Now, imagine that a small, adorable child (or love object of your choice) is a few minutes late. How do you respond? The same way you used to? Unless you’re a total douchebag, you wouldn’t dream of talking that way to someone you loved. You’d be much more likely to say “That’s ok. You’re only a few minutes late (diminishing the situation instead of exaggerating it). They’ll understand. Everyone struggles with traffic. Maybe they won’t even notice.” You’d soothe the little child, tell them it was no big deal. You wouldn’t go off the deep end, spiraling into the worst case scenario (like getting fired). You’d be much more likely to treat it as an isolated incident than part of an inherent character flaw. And even if the lateness was part of a pattern, you’d be more willing to look for a valid underlying cause than condemn the offending party as “broken” or lazy or incompetent.

So, noticing how you address yourself and shifting your tone and language and intention is the first big step to recovery.

The road to recovery

The good news is that as we learn to be kinder to ourselves, as we let go of the need to be perfect, as we cut ourselves some slack and actually act as though we give a crap about ourselves, our energy begins to rapidly shift into higher vibrations. When the abuse stops, we move rapidly and often dramatically into better feelings. It’s like finally being able to breathe again after being held under water.

I’Think about it: Going back to the first paragraph in this post – if you were used to this constant barrage of abuse, with very little positive feedback to balance it out, you’d be feeling quite horrible. But let’s imagine that this abusive person was suddenly replaced by your fairy godmother, or a hot guy or girl, who constantly told you how amazing you are, how gorgeous you are, how smart and beautiful and competent and sexy you are? What if you were consistently reminded of what a bright, shining, powerful light you are and how you, yes you, have the power to influence the entire Universe for the better? Sure, it would feel weird for a bit, but after a short amount of time, that constant flow of support and love would start to sink in, and it would change you.

Well, you don’t need a fairy godmother. You can do this for yourself. It takes a bit of dedication, and yes, it feels weird as hell at first, but if you keep it up, you can expect things to get better, fast. I challenge you to try monitoring and shifting your self-talk for 30 days. Hell, even a week will bring noticeable changes (but you’ll just be out of the weird stage…) 



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POETRY: YOUR BODY SHAPES YOUR BEAUTY

I often dream of you
Skin so soft
I like how you feel when you're next to me

I often dream of you
Your touch so gentle
I relax when you lay your hands upon me

I often dream of you
Getting lost in your eyes
And not wanting to be found

I often dream of you
Holding you close to me until the morning light

I often dream of you
Kissing you, caressing you, holding you




2


I lay here in your arms,
our voices soft.
My eyes flutter
and I drift away,
With your voice
surrounding me




3

When I?m with you
everything else just disappears;
I have no problems,
no worries and no fears.

I?m suddenly overwhelmed
with a sensation of joy and happiness;
My life flashes before my eyes
only to see unimaginable bliss.

I open my eyes, astounded to wake from a vision of a life
that can be mine.
What have I done to deserve this love, this life,
so beautiful, so divine?

It's not what I've done,
it's what I must do to be so deserving of this love.
I won't neglect, but will protect;
embrace the love bestowed from the heavens above.

The love we have will soon grow
as we grow together and learn from life,
And when the time is right, and with God willing,
you will be my wife.


4

There is no begining, no end.  
There is only the moment.  
Here hope has existence,
peace has meaning,
and love fills
my very heart and soul



5

the first laugh that answered my laugh
tha first eyes that lit up to see mine
and to me, you are the only love
who lasted my lifetime....



6

Walking through your garden just the other day
I came to admire your flowers in a very special way
At the entry gate two beautiful roses stand
They represent the beauty in your two loving hands
I gently walk down a narrow cobblestone path
I see small birds splashing as they take a bath

The ground is covered with small white wild flowers
Each one is a loving thought from you
that gives me such power
Walking further still I see two crystal blue ponds
They represent your eyes in which I am so fond
Upon the ponds were lilies more numerous
and white shining from the sun
They represent all the many angels
that guided our paths to one

I stopped beside two apple trees
with large apples it bore
They represent spiritual food you give me
that makes my spirit soar
Further yet a found a beautiful bird of paradise
This represents your beauty of which you do surpass
I reached the center of your garden
and found the largest oak stand
This represents the conviction of your love
and future wedding plan

The garden is full of life and sounds of every kind
My senses became consumed with all the new things I find
I then walked and became lost with many paths I tried
And found myself at the edge of an enormous red flower shrine
The red was deep, almost like blood,
and dew upon them like diamonds did shown
The flowers represent your heart
and the dew represents the many moments
that love has made you grown

Walking lost still looking at so many things I see
I see a flower that is familiar and looks just like me
Upon this site was broken grown
as though it had just been planted
But growing fast and with strong root it had just been granted
A place for my flowers to grow
And a place where our love could sow

I sat down there and lay asleep
Many dreams, so vibrant, so deep
Waking after some time to see the path no more
For I had been captured by this heart and into love I soar
Your garden is my life similar to this poem
But always shall it be the place where I call home



7

The night I laid my eyes on you,
There was nothing more my heart could do.
I knew in my soul God had chosen you,
To make my life,
My life un-blue.

The first time you touched me,
There was nowhere I could go,
I knew right then,
My heart would never again, beat alone.
That, I will always know.

The time you looked into my eyes,
I saw the rockets burst in the sky.
At that moment and at that time,
my un-happiness inside... did die.

Forever in your arms,
Our lives intertwine.
The two of us,
one heart...one soul...one mind...


8

Her eyes are like the ocean
A semblance of all that's mighty and free
Cleansing my soul of its tribulations
Granting acceptance of my tainted history

Her voice is like soft thunder in the night
That hails down from above
Caressing me tenderly with wondrous expressions
Of no greater emotion than our love

Her touch grasps the bare essence of my being
And creates an overwhelming sensation therein
Of not just desire or gratification
But sincere sentiments of yearning from within

With all these remarkable heartfelt delights
It's amazing how it could be true
That so much pleasure could be derived
From simply the presence of you..


9

When i think of all the special things we do
i keep them stored in a special place
and your special kisses are stored there, too.

When you come into the room
i can feel the intensity of our love filling the air
it's a wonderful feeling
and every touch from you gives me chills
just to know i'm lucky to have you in my arms.

To have you kiss my lips and just to have you near
is a blessing to my heart.
I still remember when we first started dating,
we went good together like a fine wine
that gets better with age.

Our relationship will do the same
and it will be forever.
And till that day comes
all the time and all the days we spend together
will stay in my heart...
'cause there is a place in my heart for you.



10


I want to breathe
your fragrance in my dreams
and embrace the twilight
that glimmers in your eyes

I want to become snowflakes
falling ... falling
melting into the hollows of your body

Your far flung music
haunts my sleep
like waves arising
from a tumultuous sea

But you are beyond my touch
like the vast overarching sky
or a rainbow, whose colors
fade into dusk

I can recall your softness,
and those quiet mornings
when we felt our oneness

Where have you gone?
Are you alone now?
Do you still feel
my hands reaching for you
in the stillness of night?



11

my love for you
this undying passion
spawned without my knowledge.

my love for you
this enduring feeling
addicted and in denial.

my love for you
this continuing mood
created ever so carefully.

my love for you
this enveloping emotion
covered me so gently.

my love for you
this living compassion
developed from your love of me.



12

Everyone has their own priceless angel,
Though perhaps one you'll never meet.
It could be a friend, or a stranger-
Or maybe the girl who fell at your feet.

Don't go looking for a halo, however,
Or even a pair of white wings.
"Real" angels would never dream
Of revealing these sacred things.

Look into the eyes of the ones you hold dear
And maybe then you will see the the glow.
Is this your angel? Don't ask me...
It is only then that you'll know.

Your angel will provide the light to a path
Of a life that you have never known,
Shaping your mind, your heart, and your world-
You are no longer in this alone.

Neither for the good nor the bad
Are these footprints left in your fragile heart.
It's merely for the satisfaction of knowing
That you now have somewhere to start.

Your angel will walk in your footsteps.
She will protect you while you sleep.
Your angel will come to embrace you
Through the pain you hesitate to speak.

And when you finally reach the top-
Having never given up the fight,
It's then that I will turn to you and say,
"Why give up on what I know is right?"



13

Sometimes I wonder if
I'll ever fully realize
What you mean to me -

If I'll ever be able to
Show you how deep
My love for you goes.

Someday God might give me
The words to say to you
To let you know how I feel.

Until then, I pray that you
Can catch a glimpse of
How wonderfully happy you make me.


14

If I had a million breaths,
I would give them all for you,
If I had a million aches,
You could soothe them all, too,
If ever there was trouble,
You'd always come through...
If ever I needed you,
By my side is where I would find you...
If ever I needed a hand,
Two hands is what you'd extend...
If ever I could stop,
Stop lovin you,
Girl you know that would never be true,
Cuz you know I could never stop lovin you...
And If I had a million breaths to take,
I'd use them all for a moment with you,
And If I could change one thing about me,
It would be that I never lost you...
Because you were the only thing in my life,
The only thing that was ever true...
And that's why I'll always be standin here,
Lovin you....


15

Your voice gently caresses my heart
like a thousand wispers,
or as an angel on a harp.

Your hair beholds your beauty
just as the leaves cradle the rose.
The gentle wind carries it
as free as an eagle flows.

Your body shapes your beauty
to be as proud as nature stands.
I know this because I've held you
between my own two hands.

Your touch delivers a sense of love
that always sets me free.
I can search but never find
a truer form of ecstacy.

I am lost within your eyes
as they reveal the you inside...
So vulnerable and beautiful.
Still I see the tears you have cried.

Will you ever break away
from all the pain and misery
For a moment just to say,
you would like to try a life with me?



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