If you've been dating for more than 6 months and for some reason you still don't trust your partner then there's definitely a problem. The basic foundation of a healthy relationship is trust and if you don't at least have that then the whole relationship will crumble sooner or later.
2-You lie or without the truth
3 Comparing.
It's not cool when your parents compare you to your cousins or your siblings. So what makes it any more acceptable if you're comparing your partner to other partner you had or your friend have.
4. Whenever partner talking to you you never pay attention and refuse to listen.
That's just rude. If you can't take the time to listen to him then he shouldn't have to listen to what you have to say. But obviously that's what you guys are there for so if nobody's listening to each other than is this really what you would call 'relationship goals'?
5-. You're embarrassed to admit your relationship around other people.
Hey, it was your decision to get into a relationship with your man. Even if you're perfectly content with him, if you're afraid to post pictures with him or walk around holding his hand in public then it just shows how much you really want to be with him.
6-You take the sweet gestures he does for you for granted.
He took the time to give you things and watch over you and listen to you complain about Anna from work. The least you can do is take the time to say thank you and repay the favour back to show that you do in fact appreciate his efforts.
7-. You boss him around.
The thing about relationships is that you two are equals. There is nobody in charge or nobody in the submissive-- you are equals. That being said, there is one thing to be assertive and another thing to boss him around. That makes him feel unappreciated, unimportant and below you which should not be the case in any relationship.
8-. You demand to be spoiled but cheap out when it comes to treating him out.
Every girlfriend wants to be treated like a princess, But it's another thing to completely expect him to spoil you simply because you are the girl in the relationship. Pay for the bill once in a while and treat him the way he treats you.
9-You never stick to your word.
Is it not the most annoying thing when you make a promise with someone and they never follow through with wha they say? Yes it's annoying and it's even more annoying coming from someone who you could potentially spend the rest of your life with. Don't be an asshole and fulfill one or two of your promises once in a while because, yes, true love is unconditional but true love is also honest and consistent.
It's gonna take some work, but you've made your bed--- so it's time to lay in it sistah.
10-. One of the reasons you're dating your man is because of his paycheque.
The thing about using people is that it dehumanizes the person being used. This guy might really, really like you but little does he know that you don't see him for what he is-- you see him as a bank. If that doesn't say what type of girlfriend you are , then I don't know what will.
11- You're always keeping tabs on favours.
Everyone thinks that relationship is give & take. To some extent it's true but at the same time it really isn't. The theory of give and take kind of works on the theory that one person from the party is to give the equal amount of what was taken. The thing about relationships is that both of you work in harmony to help each other grow in life. Cutting all the sappy info out, what I'm basically saying is that there is no 50/50 in a relationship.
Both of you give to one another because you genuinely care and want to help make life easier for the other person. If you decide to keep track of who does what for the other person, it takes away from the genuine intention of being in a relationship.
12- You don't know what you want.
We don't know what we want whether we want pizza or pasta, to watch a movie or go out for a walk, to nurture a real relationship or play some games to keep you occupied.
People often walk into relationships thinking that they can handle the full commitment of it all but sometimes people aren't always ready and realize that they have other goals and intentions to pursue. Other times, people realize that they can't handle a long term relationship and that they want to have 'fun' with different people before settling down.
13- You treat others like crap..including him.
What can I say, bad girlfriends who treat their S/Os like crap are often shitty people who treat other people like crap. The first step to treating your boyfriend with the right care and nurturing is to treat other people with a basic sense of respect and kindness. It's corny but it's true. If you're a bully to others, you're most probably a bully to him too. And nobody want to stay in a relationship with a bully... or a bad girlfriend.
No comments:
Post a Comment