PERSONAL/DATING: ONCE UPON A TIME

Once upon a time my heart fell in love and it wasn’t ordinary everyday, simple love. It was the need you,want you, can’t be without you kind of love I would smile for hours so thankful that I found you.So sure and so positive you were exactly where I was meant to be. And I couldn’t imagine that a day or time would ever come and change everything about our life and love
But it did.Time, trials and troubles have taken us on a rollercoaster that sometimes didn’t seem to end and before we knew it our hearts were tired So tired and worn out from all we had seen,all we had been through and all we’d experienced and love somehow turned into comfort the comfort of knowing someone was there. But those feelings of excitement and passion somehow faded along the way and now we’re left wondering just where it all went. I believe we can find love again because love is where it all began and once upon a time you were all my dreams come true.

I want to love and be loved again,I want to laugh and to cry,To feel the uncertainty loving bestows.And the hope that a glance can be the beginning of everything. I want to live over my dreams that are gone,

So many people think that everything in life is determined by destiny, and it's true that a lot of what we experience is brought our way by the universe. However, when it comes to what is sent our way, I believe we play a big part in what comes through to us, and what doesn't come through to us. It has to do with how open we are to receiving what the universe is offering us. For example, It seem like every woman is looking for a guy who is nice, funny, has a job, attractive, close to their family..ect. And yet here I am, with most of  the things they are looking for, but yet they pass me over.

I want to fall in love again.I miss the feeling. I miss the joy. It was like being under the sun and melting. It was like being under the moon and shining..I want to love again. But…my heart is scared. I could not feel it. It may be missing. It might have died a tragic death the lies, the betrayals and the hurt. I don’t think it could endure again. My heart is full of doubt,afraid to take step for I might fall down again, be stepped upon, crashed and broken I want to fall in love again but my heart is SCARED.

I need you like the earth yearns for rain. I want you a remedy for my loneiness. As flowers live for sunlight,so my soul desires your touch.The lifeline to my being I have never needed one so much. Don't deny me of my wishes. Don't lengthen or add to my sorrow.Only you hold the answer

Coming home to someone is many things. It is more than the sound of the key turning in the door and the voice that calls from the porch. It is a choice, a promise, a declaration. It is a return, not as a person to a place, but as oneself to another. It is one individual saying to another: ‘You are the one I choose’.

If you want to feel in love again, you need to act in love again. Acting in love might entail greeting your partner at the door and giving him a hug as you say, “Wow I’ve really missed you.”Love is in the small, everyday gestures that say, “You are important to me.”

We all long for moments of expressions of love, closeness and tenderness, but at the critical point, we often draw back. You see, there is no such thing as "painless love." The closer we come to somebody, the greater potential there is for pain.I would say that all of us have been hurt in a relationship before. The question is, how do you handle that hurt?