You know what I learned..if you’ve been interested in women who weren’t interested in you. You have two choices:
1) look to yourself, and see if you’re doing something wrong; or
2) blame it on the other party.
And that’s what I do. I am such a great guy. Women just want to hurt themselves. They just want “jerks”.
Except, they don’t. When you say “jerks”, you mean men that treat women badly. Men that abuse them, verbally, physically, psychologically, or all three. You think women want that? They don’t. They really, really don’t. Women end up with that, because there are a lot of aseholes who trick them, take advantage of them, and have no respect for them. But choose? No. Women do not choose to be abused. The very suggestion implies that women deserve the abuse that they get.
So, by definition, when you describe yourself as a “nice guy”, like I do.... you are describing yourself as a man who does not treat women like shit. Which is great, but women should be able to expect to be treated well. Everyone should. Treating women with respect just makes you a decent human being; it doesn’t entitle you to anything. When other people are nice to you, do you think that they’re some blessed God sent down from the heavens, that you want to spend all your time with? (I hope that you don’t). It’s great that you have a respect for women, but so you fucking should. There’s absolutely no reason for me or any other man to expect woman to want to have sex with them or a relationship with you just because of it. Or do you expect something deep and meaningful from every single person you’re ever nice to? You don’t get rewarded for being nice. And you shouldn’t treat women and their bodies as prizes to be won, anyway.
Besides, expecting women to date you or have sex with you because you are nice to them implies that you would have absolutely no desire to be nice to them if you weren’t interested in them in that way. Which makes you a complete prick, rather than nice. which I have been for a while.
There are men like me who on the dating site who declare themselves as “nice guys”, and prove that they are anything but. Men who have long passages on their profiles listing all the reasons that they are the perfect man, usually followed by an announcement that they are sick of being rejected all the time, and sick of seeing women with jerks, so they are considering becoming one themselves. Men who assure their visitors that anyone would be lucky to have them, but answer questions about women’s appearances, weight, obligation to shave, and sexual partners in the most misogynistic way possible. These men cannot understand why women wouldn’t want someone as nice as them, but expect women to look and smell good at all costs and times, refuse to consider women who are even slightly overweight, believe that it is a requirement for women to remove their body hair, and feel that it is perfectly possible for women to have slept with “too many” people. In other words, these men are complete asseholes, who have no respect for women or their bodily autonomy, and expect them to exist to please them.
I guess i am an example of the pretentious, bitter, successful guy who feels ENTITLED to Grade-A p*ssy because he got straight A’s in school .The LIE that I tell myself that i have been WRONGED by women because women are too shallow, stupid and ignorant to see the “good” in the less flashy guy, while they are completely obsessed and enthralled with “the bad boy” or “pretty boy” who has no real substance. I want to believe that I am intrinsically different from bad boys in the sense that while they only hooked up with her to get a*s, I would have treated her like the princess that she thinks she is. And then I make excuse for woman because woman don’t know what they want and don’t know how to properly choose a GOOD man..is a load of BS i give myself. I have to be more honest.
Guys who didn’t get women in high school or college weren’t overlooked because the size of their vocabularies were too large or because women have an innate affinity for THUGS, it’s because they simply were NOT cool and they did NOT have characteristics that women found attractive.
The thing about the pretentious, successful guys like me is that we don't like to admit: We are superficial jerk.We fail to acknowledge our own hypocrisy of turning down the smart, studious girl [who's like us] because she doesn’t have a D-cup, or a banging-a*s body like the head of the Cheerleading squad.
Young women DON’T just pick thugs and gangsta’s, they pick young men who are funny, interesting and charismatic. Whether you are a NERD or captain of the Football team, if you are devoid of ALL of those three-things, you are STUPID for expecting ANY human being to just WANT to spend time with you. What do you bring to the table except awkward silence, a severe lack of confidence and an inability to effectively communicate? There ARE women out there who only date thugs, but how do you account for the other 96% of women who DON’T want to get it in with you?
Any man who gets women knows and understands that sometimes you will FAIL as much as you SUCCEED. Some nights you may get nine women who tell you to go to hell and only ONE woman who actually gives you her real number – but in the end, you MAN UP and MOVE ON. Only a pathetic, frail, loser of a man would invest ONE second of his successful life to look down upon a girl who didn’t want him over a DECADE ago.
Oh, so you’re a CEO in an Armani suit, with a stack in your hand, and a yellow Lambo in the background, but you get some sick, twisted pleasure out of telling a girl who didn’t allow you to hit it when you were 17, that she should “beat it” because now you are TOO good for her? Actually YOU’RE NOT – you have just successful proven that you are still that same wounded, sad and charismatically-challenged little boy that she rejected years earlier – but you have just been blessed with the gift of social leverage. Well don’t let your big house, income, car and career make you forget this one fact: Just because you have achieved some measure of success in your life, it doesn’t mean you are now BETTER than everyone else and it DAMN SURE doesn’t mean that you DESERVE a dimepiece.
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