I don’t buy this ‘poor me’ shit. So man woman are spoiled thinking they can get everything they want. But they are also stupid to think they HAVE to get everything in order to be happy. I agree with the proverb: Sometimes not getting what you want is the biggest stroke of luck.
But WORSE…I don’t understand these women. They sound needy and annoying as they look for perfection then complain when they make wrong choices. These women complaining about everything they wanted and then got.
Do you know what I miss about having a girlfriend? Planning birthdays, finding the perfect Christmas gift, knowing the stories that will make her laugh, walking in the middle of the night, hearing another crazy story from her day, surprising her, letting her surprise me, laughing at things we find funny and no one else understands…I miss doing things that will make her happy. I miss knowing that no matter what I might encounter in my day, hearing her voice will be the best part of it.
When you get them on the phone they like to talk about partnership but it seems what they really want is someone to cradle all their emotional baggage and make a lot of money. Of course, I want someone to talk to. And financial stability is always nice. But I don’t mind helping make these things happen. In fact, I want the exchange.
I want someone I can completely trust with my insecurities and fears and who trusts me with the same. I want someone who gets me without me having to explain it all the time. I want someone who knows I will make mistakes. I want someone in my corner so I can also be in her. Is this really so difficult? Isn’t it what we all want?
And you’ll say…”You’re being picky and you don’t know it! You’ve met all these woman and you don’t give them a chance to earn your trust!” You can’t force trust. I’ve trusted a lot of women. Some of them have just see me as a ATM machine. And others have become friends. Maybe not best friends, but friends. I clearly don’t have the trust issues so many people have or I wouldn’t end up at rest stops in Irvine…right? I keep TRYING. Lord, do I TRY.
I’m also not saying I’m perfect and no one is good enough. I’m very aware that a guy doesn’t have to be perfect. I’ve never actually met a perfect person. That would be creepy. That might be the one person I WOULDN’T trust.
I think there are a lot of men like me out there. In fact, I think there are men who feel this way, too. We’re actually not that crazy and picky. But I think we do want to love this person 100% before signing up for anything. That’s important. I don’t want to be buddies who get married. And love And dammit, I’m not giving up. I’m not. I refuse.
Here’s my vow–and I dare all women who want to be with someone to take it with me. Let’s ALL reject this crap we’re being fed. Love doesn't happen in the first date, love takes times. Chemistry blinds you to see if this person is right for you or not. Didn’t we just find out the world population is nearly 7 BILLION? What the hell, there’s MORE PEOPLE THAN EVER!!! We need to find each other. This is clearly our own fault. We have been lazy.
So raise your right hand NOW and pledge with me:
I will attempt take a chance to meet people who are in the same page as me. I will become a real risk taker. I will place my trust in the Universe and know that whatever happens as a result of my risk-taking is something I can survive. I will let love grow. No matter what. I will do this. Dammit.
(You have to say the dammit’s or it doesn’t count. So go back if you didn’t, dammit.)
If they treat you weird, you’re gonna brush it off and laugh…because they don’t get it. Or email me and I’ll help you feel better because you’re awesome for being a risk taker. If they want to know why you don't believe in chemistry and let love grow. blame me. Tell them it’s part of a social experiment we’re all doing.
That’s it. I can’t stand the whining anymore. Seriously. Who’s with me?
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