LOVE: ITS AWFUL FOR ANY GUY LOOKING FOR LOVE AND MARRIAGE

The situation is awful for the guy looking for love and marriage today. Take into account the fact that childhood has been extended an extra decade (with predictably bad results), add into concoction the societally deleterious notion of postponing marriage and childbirth, and top it all off woman who want to "marrying up"  Today. The average man flips the two-sided coin of marriage-divorce, and more often than not it lands on the side of "the Justice Department and the entire American legal system demand that you bend over". Who would play Russian Roulette with three chambers loaded? I did and i got divorce.

Most women are absurdly difficult to date. The infamous 463 bullet point list of requirements is a reality, even for ones you would consider to be 'the best'. Imagine feminism of the 1960s as if it were personified by Agent Smith in the movie, The Matrix Revolutions. By the time Neo encountered him for the last time nearly every single human in the Matrix was a Smith. The entitlement complex whereby your average Millennial Princess believes she not only deserves the best, but that she is the beat. I've seen girls of mediocre looks shut down respectable, decent guys because....pick a reason. It's not that it's happened to me, it's happened to most guys. Rejection is a fact of life for men, whereas for women it is 'rejecting', as in, they are the ones that usually do the rejecting. Feminism has convinced hundreds of millions of women that only the best will do, and if any man does not fit that description then he is worthless.

Fair enough. They're not required to date someone they don't want. There's no law, no standing order that dictates a woman must date the first man who propositions her. However, that type of strawman is pointless in a serious subject like this. I have read one and only one romance novel in my life (not Fifty Shades of Grey, but a knock off of it), but it was one of the most highly rated on Amazon. It was about a hapless young woman who falls in love with a dominating, arrogant, powerful billionaire. It was at that point that I realized I hadn't read only one romance novel, but about half a million because a fantastic percentage of romance novels feature the idealized man falling in love with a secretly capable, kind-hearted, often ignored woman. Usually the man is hyper-wealthy and ultra-confident. He commands and dominates and doesn't take "No" for an answer. No wonder women are riding the alpha-cock carousel until they're aged out of it: they know that nothing but a dull, white-bread life in the suburbs awaits them.

How depressing a life, to have everything provided for oneself, to want for nothing, and to have someone in love with you!  It would be one thing if she was super-hot, wealthy, fit, and the perfect cook....but most women aren't that. They're not any of those things, and that's fine, men don't require them to be; men learn early on in life that they won't marry the model (though they'd like to), that their wife won't be perfect, and that he has contribute to the relationship more than a warm body. Women of the past two generations have failed to grok that about the world: they think having a near-infinite list of desires and expectations makes them desirable and worthwhile. It doesn't, but it does set them up for a lifetime of disappointments when they realize that the men in the romance literature they've been lusting ravenously for don't actually exist except in the uppermost echelons of Western society.

So, what is the solution to this problem?  If you're an Alpha like me, based on genetic disposition, hard work, upbringing, or pure guesswork, then you've got it made and need no advice. If, however, you find yourself in utter abhorrence at the way Western women have devolved into feral hyperga-mice then the only option is to Go Elsewhere, young man! Use your twenties to build your wealth up, then get the hell out of here. If you're a marriage-minded man, then my advice would be to head to a foreign locale to find a marriage-minded woman from a traditionalist country (Poland seems like a good destination). I'm sure there's good women still in America, but after years of doing my damnedest to find one, you could say I'm a little disillusioned at how even those I could properly say are the best all around, who fit every criterion necessary for a good future relationship, are still indistinguishable from their fellow Sisters in the dating game. .

 I am done with the games so woman play. It is a fruitless endeavor and a waste of time, because if you have to do that much work to get into the bed  One should always seek to be more confident, more capable, more intelligent, and stronger, but not to attract women, but for yourself. What the feckless hordes of horny losers don't is that doing all that work with one thought in mind ("getting laid!") is a mind field of failure just begging to be walked on. Why spend years building oneself up in America for a nagging, divorce-prone princess with an entitlement complex when you can find someone of superior quality across the pond, the Pacific, or down in South America?

The majority of American women who think they're Gods gift to Man are ludicrously deluded and just not worth it anymore. They don't deserve to be Gamed, they don't deserve to be wooed, they don't deserve anyone with a shred of confidence, they don't deserve to be respected, and they don't deserve to be told they're special. Believe me when I say I'm not bitter or angry, just disappointed. And with that disappointment, I'm resolved to not put up with it for a second longer than necessary. I believe in getting things done and to not dwell on the more cynical side of life; you wouldn't know it from reading this, but I'm almost always optimistic. I don't like being miserable or unhappy or cynical, which is why I'm against learning Game in America. Going through all that work for pure, unadulterated hedonism in a nation that is about to go through terrible times is the very height of foolishness.

Men have been responsible for most wars and national disasters in human history; women can take responsibility for this one, this Sexual Disaster that is rapidly draining the nation dry of men who are willing to put up with the abuse any longer, or even at all. I hate to say it, but it's nothing less than what the West needs to experience, for the good men (and women) to go Galt. The good women of the West, like the men who still are possessed of a backbone, are few and far between. Yet, in a sea of stupid, lazy, and evil, there's still light to stand against the darkness, despite the world's relentless attempts to stamp it out. Its rare and it's faint, but it's there. This isn't the end of the West, it's just another page in history in humanity's long march through this life. It's time for a change.

A man (with options) who is evaluating wife or mother potential has a whole lot of other criteria he's looking at. And if you don't make good wife or mother material, what the heck would be the point in committing to you? We would only be wasting your time and ours if we never intend to marry you.

A man looking to commit will want to see ample signs of honesty, integrity, trustworthiness, thrift, sensitivity, sexuality, physical fitness, wholesome values, non-sluttiness, and other character traits.

The sad truth is that the vast majority of American women are simply unworthy of commitment. They are washed up party girls, who spent their attractive years drinking and sleeping with every good looking douchebag that hit on her. When she realizes her looks are starting to fade and she doesn't like working that corporate job, only then does she start looking for a sucker to rope into commitment. By then she is nearly worthless as a wife and mother.

Women in other countries (non-western) seem to get that if they expect a man to make the major sacrifice of commitment, they need to give him her prime beauty and reproductive years. She needs to be skilled in the nurturing arts and demonstrate loyalty. Otherwise she'll be an awful wife and mother. Men do not want a hard-bitten corporate warrior who can't stop competing with everyone in her life. Your degree means nothing to us. Your "independence" means nothing to us (except as a red flag).

If a man is going to risk half his wealth to divorce theft, you better be a high-quality woman, period. Otherwise you should be expecting to get pumped and dumped nearly every time.