Friday, January 18, 2013

LOVE: OPENNESS IS ACCEPTANCE

There are plenty of good looking women out there,However, there IS a shortage of attractive women. By attractive I mean the kind of woman many men want because she’s so delicately beautiful, genuine, authentic, magnetic, sexy, compassionate and exciting.

If you want to be just good looking, and surface level attractive, sure, there are plenty of men out there who will be willing to stuff around and be there just for a good time.

However, what truly attracts men is an energy. It’s your unique feminine energy of radiance and authenticity. Your vibe.

Think about it from your own perspective for a minute: have you ever seen (on the street, on television or in a movie), that kind of man who stands tall, is confident, genuine, masculine, charming, strong and centered, totally present with you when you’re talking to him; the kind of man who is not willing to take anyone’s crap? The kind of man you felt instantly drawn to, and whom you couldn’t HELP but feel attraction for? The kind of man you’d give anything to be around?He’s rare, I know. But can you even imagine him, if you can’t think of one you’ve met before?

The same applies to men well to me. I respond to you when they can feel your authenticity. so, what I mean by a “you” energy is an energy that is uniquely yours, a part of your DNA.feminine energy. I love  Openness. Something most women do not realize is that men crave, absolutely crave to be with a woman who is open to them. This world is full of women who are closed off (for good and bad reasons), and what this signals to men is that you’re not interested in them, and that you’re just in to yourself.

Being open  DOESN'T  means being revealing. Y’know, revealing “details”. connect, share and reveal stories, details and ‘things’ in your lives and in other people’s lives to share and create bonding. This is not the way to be open to a man.  Openness is Acceptance. Most women simply don’t understand how important acceptance is to a man. I remember the first time i fell in love. I was so afraid of our first date..and she just took me my the hand and told me not to worry. TO me that was acceptance and from that point on..my heart was open.

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