SPIRITUAL: A SPECIAL SYNCHRONCITY IS UNFOLDING BETWEEN ME AND YOU RIGHT NOW

We do not create our destiny.....we participate in its unfolding. The fuke or choice or happenstance that uncovers a whole new possibility. The unexpected, unusual, uncanny..and improbable of finding love here. How we meet our soulmate is usually at work in our lives. We inevitably meet just the people who teach us what we need to learn about life, love and ourselves.We bond with person who will show us what we have not worked through from our past and who will help us complete our unfinished emotional business. We may meet just the person who shows us our hidden potential. Someone uncovers an orientation in us in the area of sex or whatever. Over and and over again in life ....we are meeting exactly the people who helps us wake up to what is dormant in ourselves. It can happen on a blind date...in a chance meeting....or someone writing...like myself..where we met now.

Everyone and every event in life's drams is part of the metaphor of our journey in life. Most of us keep meeting partners who show us exactly where our work is. Our wounds are opening into our missing life. Often, the only way to lost a piece of ourselves or of our history comes back to us is through another person. The unknown is scary....so just the right person and events come along that helps us go there. When this happens to me...i say to myself....If this is happening to me...it can be one of the ingredient of my destiny. The only thing that can get in the way is my own ego, not the events that occurs or the people who bring them.

In addition to our meeting people, we also meet up with exactly the experiences that open or awakens us. It can happen through a book that is life changing, a blog, ..a ad that hurls an unexpected advantage toward us, a loss that makes room for new possibilities, an opportunity that was meant for someone else and came our way, a plan failed and become a boon unhoped for, a rejecting by one person followed by an unexpected appreication by another, something crossing our path that disturbs or profits us, everything falling into places.

To surrender is to go with what wants to happen, not stopping the momentum of that which I cannot change but riding it, jumping on the train just as it come through the track. Trust is always an invaluable companion on the destiny track. Our work is then to capitalize on conscious choice moments that match inner unconscious momentum. We may not know how what is happening right now really fits into our future....it might be the beginning of our happiness or not...we can only trust that in addition to all that we see, there is some other vision that will appear and make it appear as just right for our growth.

There is a special synchronicity in suddenly Yes to an offer or experience that would ordinarily be out of character for us to assent to. We break through an inhibition or fear and suddenly we find ourselves in a new unexplored world that challenges and stretches us. And lo, this new relam accurately reflects our deepest needs and wishes. A whole new chapter opens in our lives because of a chance change. The yes to something that any times before would have received an no within us taking us beyond our limits....this is just a moment. We must trust the universe to be in on our journey to venture beyond the limitations of our controlling ego. Our destiny is to evolve, to be fulfilled, to be self-realized, and to share our unique gifts. It is the spur of the moment in that it spurs us on....and it happen just in time for us to grow..A hidden feeling or truth waited to be awakened by just the right person...like me.