When I am with a woman...i ask myself...what is she telling me about GOD?
Beauty is essential to God. Beauty is the essence of God. God created the world fill with glory? In what way?...Primarily through beauty. Massive thunder clouds are rolling in, bringing with them the glorious sunsets they magnify. Nature is no primarily functional. It is primarily beautiful. The reason a woman want a beauty to unveil, is that God does it as well. God has given us woman ...as his crowning touch of creation. Beauty is the essence of a woman. I want it to be perfectly cleast that I am talking about both a physical beauty and soulful beauty. God gave woman a beautiful form and beautiful spirit. She express beauty in both.
I have wander for hours in galleries and I have never seen one painting of an naked man. When artist have tired to capture the essence of a woman..they have painted her or photograph her or sculpted her at rest.
What does beauty say to me? Think of what it is like to be caught in traffic for hours. and then remember what its like to come into a beautiful place. a garden....or a beach. There is room for your soul. It expands, You can breathe again. You can rest. It is good...all is well. I sit outside on a summer evening and just listen and behold and drink it all in, and my heart begins to quiet and peace begins t o come to my soul. That is what beauty does....ALL SHALL BE WELL>
And that is what it's like to be with a woman at rest, a woman comfortable in her feminine beauty. She is enjoyable to be with. She is lovely. In her presence your heart stop holding its breath. You relax and believe once again that all will be well. I need what beauty speaks. What is say is hard to put into words, but part of its message is that all is well.
Beauty also invites. Recall what it is like to hear a truly beautiful peace of music. It captures you, you want to sit down and just drink it. We buy CD and play it many times. ( This is not visual, showing us that beauty is deeper than looks) Music like this commands your attention, invites you to come more deeply into it. The same is true of a beautiful garden, or a scene in nature. You want to enter it, partake it, feast on it. i don't want to merely to see beauty, though, God know, even that is bounty enough. We want something else which can hardly be put into words..to be united with beauty I see, to pass into it, to receive it into myself.
The essence of a woman is beauty. She is the incarnation in human form...of a captivating God. All around us God's creation shouts of his beauty and his goodness. The silhouette of lace on a barren tree draped with ice, the rays of sum streaming forth from a billowing cloud, the sound of a brook trickling over smooth stones, the face of a child anticipating the arrival of the ice cream truck all speaks of God's good heart...if we will have but open our eyes. God's beauty is lavished on the world. The beauty of the world is almost the only way by which we can allow God to penetrate us.....beauty captivates the sense in order t obtain permission to pass straight through to the soul.......the soul's inclination to love beauty is the trap God most frequently uses in order to win it.
So the choices a woman makes is not to conjure beauty...but to let her defence down. So the unveiled beauty of a woman entices and invites. The heart of the woman determines what it is she inviting other to...to life or to death.
A woman who makes herself vulnerable and available for intimacy invites others to do the same. She says to the world....through her invitation to relationship...You are wanted here.... I want to know you...come in...share yourself..be enjoyed as I share myself. A woman who is controlling and cautions cannot invite other to rest...to be known. Any man would feel controlled in her presence. It won't feel safe there. A woman who is unveiling her beauty is inviting other to life. She risks vulnerable : exposing her true heart and inviting other to shares there. You see, ultimately, a woman invites us to know God. To experience through her that God is great...that he is tender and kind. That God longs for us....to be know by us and to know us. She invites us to experience that God is good, deep, lovely, alluring and captivating.
For a woman to unveil her beauty..means she is offering her heart....not primarily her works or her usefulness...but by offering her presence...and surrendering. The gift of surrender is a rare and beautiful gift. To come...unguarded, undistracted...and be full present, fully engaged with whoever we aer with at that moments. That woman wants to be near him...to share a meal, take a walk. What a woman offer by surrendering is her heart. She gives something of God. A man needs mercy, a kind word, a smile. Grace at the end of the day, Beauty isn't demanding, instead it speaks from desire. To offer your heart is to offer your desire....instead of your demand
Most woman fear intimacy and then offer strength. The scariest thing for a woman is to offer her beauty into situations where she doesn't know..if it will make any difference. or worse,,,that she will be rejected....for their question would be...am i lovely? and to be rejected is to hear a resounding NO. A woman doesn't want to offer beauty unles she guaranteed that it will be well received....but life offers no guarentees. But what most woman do....is to hide...control do anything but offer submission. They are afraid. They have given way to fear. How much are they motivated by fear...because she believe she isn't beautiful...and believe she is ugly. Most woman love to work....because they know what to do at work...they don't know what to do in their relationship...in love.
But my suggestion is this...you can't wait until you feel safe to love and invite. Of course it's scary to surrender,,,it's vulnerable..it's naked. You need to stop hiding...and dominating, and just trust ...and offer your true self. To possess true love...you must be willing to suffer. Woman who are loving are woman who had their heart enlarged by suffering....by saying YES when the world says... NO. By paying the high price of loving truly and honestly without demanding that they loved in return and by refusing to numb their pain in the myraid of way available. Every woman possess a captivating beauty. Every woman,but for most of them it has been buried, wounded and captive. Unveiling your beauty and submission is the greatest expression of hope. Your beauty and submission does make a difference. Unveiling beauty is the greatest expression of love because it is what the world most needs. If you choose not to hide it ...and choose to offer your heart....you are choosing to love.
How does a woman best love a man? The answer is simple ...with your PY. When she dims the light and put on a silky something that accentuates the loveliness of her body, reveals the beauty of her naked form...yet also leaves something yet to be unveiled. She put on perfume and lipstick and checks her hair. She allures her man. She hopes to arouse him and invite him to come to her and enter her. In an act of stunning vulnerability she takes life's greatest risk---offering her unveiled beauty to him, opening herself up to him in every way.
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