I have always believed that you must always be what it is that you're seeking. This is a universe of attraction and energy. You can't have a desire to attract a person who is confident, generous, nonjudgmental, and gental and expect that desire to be manifested if you're thinking and acting in nonconfident, selfish, judgmental or arrogant ways---which is why most people don't attract the right person at the right time. There's no point whatsoever in a unloving man or woman bemoaning their ability to find a partner. They're doomed to endless frustration because they don't recognized the perfect match when it appears. That loving person could be right there, right now, and their resistance doesn't allow them to see it. So many people who read my blog and my website come to me with alot or resistance. They wanted to be with someone like me but their resistance stop them. You have to let go of any resistance to your ability to attract the right people, or you wno't recognize them when they show up.
Love and sex can only be attracted by and returned by love and sex. Once you connect with the oneness of the universe, you will then at on intuition with a deep sense of knowing that you're on track. You're actin in accordance with this new awareness. Everyone you need for this journey of life of yours will show up, and that they'll be perfect in every way for whatever needs you have at this time. They'll arrive at precisely the right moment. In this intelligent systems that you're part of, everything arrives from the source where the infinite, invisible life force flows throught everyone and everything. This include you and everyone else. Conceptualize your invisivle connection to the people you'd like to attract to your life. The same energy source flowing through the people you perceive to be missing from your life, and then realign yourself in thought with that person. When your thoughts are low energy vibrations, you simply can't attract the high energy people you need or desire. Even if they come rushing up to you announcing a sign saying I;m Yours, you won't recognize or believe them while you're so busy trying to attract more fo what you can't have and don't deserve. Take a look at your past and take not to all of the people who've shown up as characters in this play called your life. it has all been perfect. The good times,, the struggles, the tears, and the abuse--all of it involved people coming into your life and then leaving. This is your past, and whatever your energy level at the time, whatever needs, whatever situations in life, you attracted the right people and events to you.
This year I really want to learn how to be less annoyed and upset with other people. In order to change the nature of relationship, you'll need to change your mind about them. It's the idea that you are the source of the anguish in your relationship, rather than the individual whom you've pegged as the most outrageous, the most despicable of the most infuriating. If you focus of your inner dialogue about your relationship with them will be experienced. If your inner speech centers on what's annoying about them, that's what you'll notice. As much as you're inclined to blame them for your annoyance, its yours, and it's coming from your thoughts. Think of the relatives whom you've balmed for your feelings of anxiety, annoyance, or depression. You're focused on what you disliked about them or how they treated you, and your relationship has always had an uncomfortable edge to it. Rather than reacting to their low energy of hostility or bragging reactions...you instead bring your intention of peace:
-I never thought of it that way, tell me more
-That's an interesting point of view
We all have to learn to stop taking ourselves so seriously. I remember goint to Pathmark or in trafficand then my stress-producing ego telling me in a inner dialogue :"I'm being victimized. There always someone just ahead of me who is fumbles with money, going slow...or whatever ...id designed to keep me from getting where I am suppose to be." I have to stop and shift from being pissed to being blissed. I have to take the focus off myself.
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