LOVE: THE WORD LOVE SHOULD MEAN SOMETHING

How can someone say they were in love. Love doesn't fade, love doesn't grow cold, and for God's sake love doesn't disappear once you get in a fight with someone. Love perseveres through those situations and remain strong through time. People turn their emotions into love far too easily in modern times. A 15 year old girl will walk up to her boyfriend of 10 days and say she loves him, a college student who meets an interesting woman downtown will call her and tells her he fell in love with her, a middle-aged woman will tell her husband who she's been cheating on that she still loves him and none of these situations show the true emotion of love. If you say you love your boyfriend after 10 days of dating chances are you're confused and it's easier to tell him you love him than it is to tell him how much you care about him. A college student would much rather tell the girl he fell in love with her because he has trouble telling her just how much of an impression she left on him after just one night and feels that maybe if he uses the word love she'll give him a chance. The wife would much rather tell her husband that she still loves him rather than have to explain that they were young and foolish when they got married and now she is seriously questioning her commitment to him because that would push him over the edge. Maybe what needs to happen in this crazy world we live in, is that people need to stop using the word "love" around like Skittles to a kid with A.D.H.D. Maybe, just maybe people could step up to the plate, formulate a statement using some verbal diction, and tell others just how they feel. Then, just maybe, people would stop complaining about how they fell in love and lost it, how the person they love doesn't know how they truly feel about them, and how love is some powerful indescribable thing that no one can explain but they somehow feel it. I only know of one true love we can use as a perfect example and that comes from the Good Book and the Father, God Almighty.

Whatis love?

For me, its every moment your mind has free time your thinking about the person. You don't see her for a day you're missing her, and even when you do see her dring the day it always seems like it wasn't enough time spent together. You burn for physical contact, I can't believe shes real, something so beautiful can't be real. You burn for return feelings, for discussion, for interaction. And most importantly shes perfect, not as in some impossible to fill ideal created by man, but in your standards, and as a human shes perfect. Also shes so beautiful its like looking at the stars, you can make a second last an eternity. And you never get sick of being with her.


Love is reserved for "i'd die for you" love, or "i want to be with you the rest of my life, struggle, make you food, bear your children" love, "i would leave my job for you" love, or "i willnever give myself to anyone else" love

NOT "i love cuddling with you" love, "we both like sports" love, "he's met my parents!" love, "oh i love making out with you" love, "ill give you my last coke" love or "he makes me laugh" love. dont be so stupid, this is the one thing about our generation i cannot stand.

LOVE IS SOMETHING THAT IS SO SPECIAL THAT YOU WILL LIVE ON THE DIRT STREET TO JUST SURVIVE WITH THEM. Don't say "I love you", if you don't feel that way. Me... having two sisters I know how women react to that phrase. They take it extremely seriously.