LOVE: THE INEXORABLY TOWARD UNION......LOVE

Love is not just hearts and flowers --thought it is that too. Love is essentially a raging torrent rushing inexorably toward union. That is why most people don't understand my need for sex...the inexorably to finding oneness.A river tumbling irresistibly toward the ocean, the ocean sweeping up into the river mouth in its high tide. Love is usually very messy, very troublesome, very dangerous, very consuming...have you not see my website? It is no so much the desire to possess as the desire to be possessed. 

Did God really want to compare Himself to the hunger of man and woman for one another, a hunger which in its pervasiveness is unique among the species about which we know? A hunger which cause all kinds of trouble in the human conditions. A hunger which causes all kinds of trouble in the human condition? We are a species endowed with a very unique kind of sexuality, one oriented not merely, and not even principally, toward reproduction but toward bonding. I want to bond.

If love is a torrential force toward a union that bonds, it will bring sustained happiness only when it is focused, disciplined, intent, experienced, mature, patient, kind, and all those other nice things