I am one of the searchers. There are, I believe, millions of us. We are not unhappy, but neither are we really content. We continue to explore life, hoping to uncover its ultimate secret. We continue to explore ourselves, hoping to understand. We like to walk along the beach - we are drawn by the ocean, taken by its power, its unceasing motion, its mystery and unspeakable beauty.
We like forests and mountains, deserts and hidden rivers, and the lonely cities as well. Our sadness is as much a part of our lives as is our laughter. To share our sadness with the one we love is perhaps as great a joy as we can know - unless it is to share our laughter. We searchers are ambitious only for life itself, for everything beautiful it can provide. Most of all we want to love and be loved. We want to live in a relationship that will not impede our wandering, nor prevent our search, nor lock us in prison walls.
We do not want to prove ourselves to another or compete for love. We are wanderers, dreamers and lovers, lonely souls who dare ask of life everything good and beautiful.
I was a kid who wanted to be handsome, but more desperately wanted to feel loved. My self esteem increased through the years, but I never quite shook the sneaking suspicion I’d be never be handsome enough. Or maybe lovable enough I just never learned to notice and appreciate all the beautiful things about myself. I never learned to give myself the credit for all the good I do in the world. I was too busy cataloging my weaknesses, mistakes, and flaws to recognize it. It seems like such a cliche to say pretty is as pretty does, but the truth is physical beauty is subjective. And no matter how closely someone matches your ideal of physical perfection, that will eventually fade. What endures are the qualities, passions, and habits we nurture.
Have you ever seen a woman who at your first view of her seemed unattractive, but became quite lovely as she started speaking and interacting with you? I have.In addition, some women may be considered beautiful at first glance, but become dull and even ugly as soon as they speak, or you get to know them more. It can be quite disappointing. It certainly doesn't help that we're living in a world that seems to be virtually SINKING; who's values are declining and who's standards have dropped.I look around me and am often disappointed. Not only because I'm constantly seeing girls who are constantly cussing, getting themselves drunk, want to constantly travel, married to their job, being more like men and not ready to settle down. But they also have an obvious penchant for trouble and for RUIN - physical, mental and moral!. I am hoping that there are still existing who value personality over looks...and have kindness in their heart.
Men are attracted to a woman’s beauty visually on the outside. They will have sex with you and you’ll feel a strong connection but men don’t usually feel this strongly. A man does feel a connection with you but it is only physical for them not emotional. Some women have a hard time distinguishing the difference. If you want a man to have an emotional connection this must come from with in you, you must be able to stir him up emotionally. Making a man feel good being around you is what will turn him towards you even more. “THE CLASSY WOMAN” has so much beauty on the inside that he can’t help but fall into her. He thinks of you as being the most beautiful woman he has ever seen and known. I don't see that many woman who are beautiful inside and out.
There may be makeup to perfect looks, but there’s none to perfect personality.Sometimes beauty is just a mask to hide the ugly inside them. An ugly personality destroys a pretty face.Make-up can only make you look pretty on the outside but it doesn’t help if your ugly on the inside. Unless you eat the make-up.
The best way I can describe it is that most ‘beautiful’ people I know radiate a kind of peace and harmony, a oneness within, and when they share with me and that feeling lingers on. Beauty... when you look into a woman's eyes and see what is in her heart. A beautiful woman to me ...see me prefect. If someone does not see as perfect in their eyes, this does not mean that I am not perfect, but rather that they simply do not see me.People should be beautiful in every way - in their faces, in the way they dress, in their thoughts, and in their innermost selves.The moment one gives close attention to anything, even a blade of grass, it becomes a mysterious, awesome, indescribably magnificent world in itself. For one who sees all your imperfections, another will see no imperfections .For her attractive lips, speak words of kindness to me...her lovely eyes, seek out the good in me. Her figure, share her food with me. For her beautiful hair, let me run my fingers through it once a day.For her poise, i will walk with the knowledge that I will never walk alone again.
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