REVIEW: I WATCHED BEFORE SUNSET AGAIN FOR THE MILLION TIME..

Celine: It's not so easy for me to be a romantic. You start off that way, and, after you've been screwed over a few times, you... you forget about all your delusional ideas, and you just take what comes into your life.

Celine: That's not even true! I haven't been... screwed over, I've just had too many... blah relationships. They weren't mean, they cared for me, but... they were no real... connection, or excitement! At least, not from my side.

Jesse: God, I'm sorry, is it... is it really that bad? It's not, right?

Celine: You know... It's not even that, I was... I was fine, until I read your fucking book! It stirred shit out of me, you know? It reminded me how... genuinely romantic I was, how I had so much hope in things and... now it's like... I don't believe in anything that relates to love, I don't feel things for people anymore!

Celine: In a way... I put all my romanticism into that one night and I was never able to feel all this again. Like... somehow this night took things away from me and... I expressed them to you, and you took them with you! It made me feel cold, like if love wasn't for me!




People just have an affair, or even entire relationships. They break up and they forget! They move on like they would have changed brand of cereals!
I feel I was never able to forget anyone I’ve been with. Because each person have their own, specific qualities, you can never replace anyone. What is lost is lost.

Each relationship, when it ends, really damages me. I never fully recover. That’s why I’m very careful with getting involved, because it hurts too much! Even getting laid! I actually don’t do that.
I will miss on the other person the most mundane things. Like I’m obsessed with little things.

…

Little things. I think it’s the same with people. I see in them little details, so specific to each of them, that move me, and that I miss, and will always miss. You can never replace anyone, because everyone is made of such beautiful specific details.

Like I remember the way, your beard has a bit of red in it. And how the sun was making it glow, that morning, right before you left. I remember that, and I missed it! I’m really crazy, right?”




I loved the first film in the Before series, I was immensely charmed and I couldn’t help but conclude that It’s indeed one of the best romance films that I’ve ever seen.

And I had to know what was going to happen afterwards even if Linklater could have terminated Jesse and Céline’s story, after the first one without problems.

I’ve also heard that the two films following up to the first one were even better than the first one, so I just had to see for myself. I must say that now that I have seen them, up until now I think It’s true.

As I said I loved the first one, but this one found It’s footing quicker, it had the same philosophical conversations, but also had incredibly witty and highly comedic banters, where I couldn’t have resisted laughing even if I had wanted to, but much sadder, hard-hitting conversations too.

This one moved at a pace that felt somewhat more natural, I was surprised by how quickly time had passed when it ended.

Anyway, I’m going to delve into the review now, of the second film: Before Sunset.

Nine years have passed during which Jesse and Céline didn’t encounter each other, even if both lived in New York at the exact time, but New York is busy and densely populated, so your chances of finding one particular person in those streets are very small indeed.  

They had promised each other nine years that they would meet in December six months later in that exact same train station in Vienna.

Jesse showed up and waited for Céline, who was unable to show up due to her grandmother’s funeral, and since they hadn’t exchanged phone numbers, so they never got to see each other again.

That is until luck or fate would have it, they meet again in Paris during Jesse’s French book tour, he wrote a book about their time together.

The fateful bookstore where Jesse is is Shakespeare and Company (cinema’s and Céline’s favourite Parisian bookstore). Céline shows up and spots Jesse, and before they know it they are talking like no time has passed at all.

They’re exchanging jokes, are flattering each other and are once again having deep conversations, and when you look at them it becomes clear that they just click, they’re simply two people that seem made for one another.

It becomes fairly evident that they both still harbour deep feelings towards one another and have never properly moved on. But life continued, both have had new lovers, and Jesse is even married and has a son.

Both are despite appearances deeply unhappy in their respective relationship and marriage and confess to one another, with each other they can tell the other one literally everything.

And when they are together they are both happy and are their best selves, they bring out each other’s best qualities, you’re rooting for them to be together, you’re almost wishing for a married man to cheat on his wife.

And Linklater absolutely knows you’re thinking this and plays around with it, ending it on a fairly ambiguous note, as Céline goes into full flirty mode and treats Jesse to her best Nina Simone imitation. With her delightful attempt at an American accent, and at the end both Jesse and Céline, and the audience knows that he’s gonna miss flight (“baby you’re gonna miss that plane”,“I know”).  And that Céline is not merely flirting but seducing.

Hawke and Delpy were both fantastic in Before Sunrise, they both shined and I really hadn’t been so impressed by any acting in a romantic film in a long while, the last two times that I honestly remember being wowed like this was with Blue Valentine and Blue is the warmest colour (apparently I have something with the colour blue).

But upon watching Before Sunset I must admit that I was perhaps even more impressed with them than the first time, you could tell that the bond the two had to build while filming Before Sunrise must have grown even more, as far as I know Hawke and Delpy were never lovers in real life, but you can see that they love each other in real life as well, as friends, on a platonic level.

Which is why I think they are so great at playing lovers because they trust each other. Hawke and Delpy were in this one again both charming, unforced, natural, believable, realistic and ultimately utterly convincing, both just deliver a consummate performance.

Jesse and Céline hadn’t seen each other for a long time, so naturally, there was some awkwardness, there was even some discomfort initially, but there was also the exact amount of excitement and happiness at seeing each other again.

They act the way people that once shared something really intense and appreciated each other greatly, even fell in love but had to part ways on good terms, though, would behave, so when they see each other again all those memories flood back of course.

And It’s both exciting and overwhelming. They talk and very soon It’s as if they never were apart, you can see them fall in love all over again, they have the same dynamic: talk about everything, tease each other, and Céline once again pulls out her wonderful, sarcastic, daring somewhat spicy humour (”How are your sex problems?”,“my sex problems?!”), which Jesse more than gladly responds to, there’s brilliant stuff there. 

But then he drops a bomb: He’s married and he has a son back home in the United States, he avoids the subject of his marriage but eventually confesses that he isn’t happy, neither is Céline with her photographer boyfriend, but when Jesse and Céline are together they both light up, they come alive, they’re the love of each other’s lives and they seem to know it.

Yet they can’t just throw a grenade and blow up their respective lives, so they repress it, and for the rest of the film, you see two people who are dying to touch each other, there are looks and little touches that say a million words, and in the hands of lesser actors they could have easily looked like two horny, selfish idiots.

But they manage to make it beautiful, sexy, raw, gripping, tragic and utterly heartbreaking. It’s the first time that a film has really made me root for someone who’s married and a woman in a relationship, to cheat on each other’s partners.

They’re literally the loves of each other’s lives but have been separated by circumstances that they didn’t ask for, you’re almost naturally inclined to say, oh okay you guys deserve one last steamy night.

After that, you can go back, to the reality that makes you unhappy, and neither the French dude and the American gal has to know right? But that would be playing it dirty. I mean even if you can’t be with each other, isn’t seeing them one last time and just knowing that there’s one person on earth who really, no doubt loves you, even if there’s an ocean, a continent separating you, enough?

Hawke and Delpy capture this illicit longing, sort of forbidden love perfectly, each of their emotions, they’re expressions and body language feel spot on, they force you to feel for them and put yourself in their shoes and think about what you would do.

Linklater then frustratingly and purposely ends it with a massive and ambiguous cliffhanger, because he knows what you’re thinking.

Céline has just sung Jesse a song, that was clearly about him, and then does the Nina Simone imitation with an attempt at an American accent, that you can tell she’s purposely trying to make sound as sexy as possible, while she moves along to the song.

And usually when a woman behaves like that, we all know where It’s going, and if you’re not twelve you can almost naturally deduct what will happen next, but then again Jesse and Céline aren’t in a normal situation, it would be cheating, so maybe they went for it or maybe they didn’t…

Linklater never reveals this, at least not in this one, and at the time it literally killed me, but It’s a genius and flawless, well executed, extremely unconventional, un-Hollywood ending.

Very few times have I seen an American director venture into such territory, usually, that stuff is left to the more “hedonistic” European filmmakers.

It’s inappropriate and would offend people with extremely tight morals, but It’s real life, stuff like this happens, all the time, all over the world. I thought it was extremely brave, Linklater is a director with guts if you ask me.

As I’ve said earlier in the review, I loved the first film. But I loved the second one even more because, in both the acting and direction you get to see a progression for the better, both the actors and Linklater seemed to have gained more confidence, you could tell that he and they knew exactly what to do.

The pacing and timing of the film are near cinematic perfection in my view, every joke and every lovely or less lovely, unexpected surprise in the film is delivered at the exact right time when it has the most emotional impact.

The film moves at a perfect rhythm, not too slow but never too fast, you’re never confused and you’re never about to fall asleep either, It’s exactly right, unlike Before Sunrise, which I never found boring, but some scenes could have benefitted, if only a little from a quicker pacing.

The cinematography follows Linklater’s usual classic recipe: European city, Jesse and Céline, the camera follows them up close. But I do have to appraise Linklater for something, once again instead of opting for showing off the city, which Paris lends itself to perfectly, It’s the city of light, the city of love after all, I’ve been there three times and it is positively one of my favourite places in Europe or the world for that matter.

And most filmmakers, especially American ones, can not resist to show it off, Linklater does and instead shows off his two main character’s emotional connection, he deeply connects us with them.

What we do see of Paris, are lesser known parts of the city that aren’t shown in films so often, I honestly don’t think that the Eiffel Tower ever made an appearance.

I think but I might be going on a limb here, that the showing less known parts of Paris, could be seen almost as a symbolism of Jesse and Céline, finding and exploring new sides of each other.

The soundtrack is great, pleasant and highly atmospheric music, we’re treated to some Nina Simone which is always nice, but the highlight is the song that Julie Delpy sings for Ethan Hawke’s character, Delpy shortly after released an album of her own which by the way happens to be excellent.

In Celine’s apartment, Céline put on a CD “Just In Time” by jazz singer Nina Simone, who had died a few months before filming started. Céline animatedly tells Jesse about seeing her in concert. The scene had a special resonance for the two stars.

“I picked that song, which is my favourite song of hers,” Delpy said in an interview.“Ethan and I were supposed to see Nina Simone play in Vienna when we were shooting the first film. We never got a chance to see her, because she was too sick to get on the plane. So, later I went to see her, and I was always sad that I never got a chance to see it with him. It was kind of like a little personal reminder that we never got to see her together.”

To end the review on a quick and more uplifting note, this film is one of those rare, very special instances where the second film in a trilogy is as good as the first one or even better, my final thought was well done, Richard, bravo!

DATING: LIST OF NON SEXUAL FORM OF INTIMACY

List of Non-sexual forms of intimacy

watchingtv/movies together
going to events together like carnivals, festivals etc.
going on dates like to the movies or shopping
sharing secrets
hugs
sharing drinks
phone calls
talking
touching noses
cuddling
philosophical discussions
hand holding
sharing jokes
sharing smiles
laying your head on someone’s shoulder
linking arms
massages
tickling
playing with hair
scratching backs
tracing designs on arms
talking about the future
a hand written note
moving your head to their chest and listening to their heartbeat.
singing together or playing instruments together
dancing
feeding each other
drawing/writing on one another
brushing your partners hair
sharing food
sitting knee to knee across from each other
doing beauty treatments like facials or manicures, hairdying or face masks
reading books together
take care of your partner when sick
talking about the relationship (how I feel with you, How I feel w/this relationship)
cooking together
head-scratches
hugging
discussions about yourselves (like flaws, shortcomings, passions, stuff)
being physically/emotionally vulnerable
just sleeping together,
an actual open honest conversation
bathing and taking care of hygiene together
butterfly kisses
nuzzling
telling on-the-fly stories
meditating or sharing spirituality
grooming
sharing hobbies
studding
sharing personal stories
shaving
seeing each other without make-up or all dressed up
moral support for major events
crying, sharing emotions, comforting each other
listening to someones heartbeat or breathing
camping/hiking
sleepovers
being with animals together
going on trips together
sharing clothes/jewelry/personal items
sharing online social media
cleaning someone else’s living space
going with them to a doctor/therapist
doing art together
kissing different body parts
making out
volunteer together
work together
talking about wants and desires
experience new things together
do an extracurricular together
play games together
play sports together
walking together
being respectful and kind to one another (helping them do things, open doors for them etc.)
sharing responsibilities (chores, babysitting etc.)
giving each other presents, special things from the heart
talking about and respecting each others boundaries
public displays of affection
grooming in front of each other
wrestling or play fighting
texting/talking online
looking in each other’s eyes
complimenting each other
falling asleep over skype or chat
making faces at each other
sky watching
write poetry
inside jokes
respect each other
tell them how you feel about them
get to know each other better (playing 20 questions)
go for a ride together
close your eyes and memorise each others faces with your fingers
walk arm in arm
make a playlist together
make up your own words or slang
go out to eat
list each other’s best features
bring your faces close without touching and feel each other breath
go shopping together
throw a party or other event together
leave love notes
exercise together
exchange something meaningful
try to have a whole conversation with only eye contact and facial expressions
sit back to back and feel each other’s heartbeat
learn their favorite food and make it
run errands together
look at photos together
take photos together
go people watch
have a staring contest
learn something new together
take turns leading each other on a nature walk blindfolded
get to know each others family and friends
draw or sculpt each other
paint each other’s bodies
play with kids together
practicing a skill together
sharing food
being in comfortable clothes together
waving goodbye
being comfortable with each other’s bodily functions
any others you can think of?

STORY: MEETING THE ALPHA MALE OF HER DREAM

Sometimes, what we want in our lives isn’t control but rather, the loss of control…

… the need to be free of responsibility and just hold on for the ride.

… the desire to know we are special enough to make another person want to lose it because we are worth it.

… to be able to see and experience that hidden side of our partner wholly and without interruption from our actions, nor hesitation on their part.

The exhilarating freedom that comes from surrender as we feel the comforting weight of their body atop ours or the grip of their fingers into our skin from an excess of emotion; the assurance that we want to be taken in the most primal and wanton of ways possible without active input on our part…

… a chance to engage in a passionate encounter so consuming we don’t care if the bed is creaking or the neighbours can hear.

… a moment to be a man or a woman rutting feverishly rather than two dull people having sex.

… and last, but not least, to be able to moan and swear heatedly as you experience the hot, visceral spurt of aching climax that makes you cry out their name like a curse: not an orgasm that is blissful and leaves you feeling like a lover, but one wretched and draining that let’s you know how much of an animal that no one else knows you can be.

What had started as an diverting night at the bar, had turned more intense than she would have imagined her evening would be tonight - all because she had dressed in particular manner and blurted out one of her particular catchphrases.  That’s when she felt his eyes on her.

She didn’t know who he was, not at first anyway.  But the intensity of his eyes made her fidget and restless - he wasn’t going to be ignored - and so she turned to face him. He was the alpha male she was looking for. Dreamed about.

And she knew.  Not his real name, no one traded that online to strangers, but they had traded other things; late nights spent breathing deeply as she typed salacious words of need and want and longing, biting her nail as she tapped the enter key as she committed the words to him to fuel his lust that in turn kindled hers.  All the while safe in the anonymity of being behind a screen, and she more brazen because of it.

Her breath now quickened again, much as it had before - here, before her, was not some faceless fantasist, or even an uncharming pervert she had half-suspect lay on the other side of the screen - well proportioned and charming, he was as much a specimen as he was a man.  A stranger, just less, but one who knew all the things that made her writhe in her bed or leave her computer when the pangs of desire came too great to bear.

He came to her, and she knew what would come.  As a person, she needed to stand her ground.  The elemental woman in her wanted to submit.

The bed groaned as she landed hard upon her back; her hair dishevelled, her face flushed, her body womanly and naked and perfect.  Somewhere at the bar, her friends were probably still giggling over something silly, but she was here, watching him pushing the door closed and turning the lock.  Click.  It sounded loud, like the sound of her fate being sealed.  Then she watched him undress.  The room felt hot, but a shiver ran down her spine.  Between her legs, the lips of her sex were already wet, even though he had barely touched her.

Anticipation.

Her breathing started to become ragged, yet all he was doing was walking towards her.  His cock was hard and large and in his hand as he made a show of stroking it with smooth, practised motions that whispered of many lewd nights she had spent to inspire him to it.  There was no sign that he had a condom or was intending to use one… She thought to tell him, but made the mistake of locking eyes with his and the words caught in her throat.

The bed creaked.  From her mouth, a soft gasp issued.  His hands seized her legs with strong fingers and parted them almost effortlessly, and her breathing was quicker now.  His eyes weren’t those of a man looking for a quick fuck - they took her in, everything about her, in her entirety.  He didn’t want to have her pussy.  He wanted to have her.

It was debatable whether she could muster any resistance.

He filled her in one thrust.  Stretching her to make her toes curl and her fingers dig into his arm.  Disengaging her, he held her down by the wrists.  The bed began to object vocally to their carnal exchange, yet there was no room in the primitive mind for care or concern except for the act of claiming and being claimed.  Their voices mixed; moans, grunts, inarticulate cries of pleasure and the taunts of flesh striking flesh in the unmistakable articulation of sex.

He took her the way she wanted; the way she dreamed - deep, harsh thrusting strokes of his bare cock into the soaked folds of her womanhood that sent waves of dizzying pleasure uncoiling through her body and resounding in the tips of her nipples and the sobs of her lips that she managed between drinking down deep breaths of air.

In her ear, the sound of his primitive groans urged her to thrust her hips back up into his.  She wanted his cock, and she wanted the other thing he had to offer her greedy, clenching cunt that rippled in spasms around his girth.

And then…

The moment, she secretly desired.  His blunted, swollen head, kissing the entrance to her womb as he took hold of her legs and threw them back.  Her vagina felt like it had melted a lifetime ago, hot and wet and well used.  A temple.

His temple.

He asked her if she was on the pill and his eyes demanded no lies.  Her face was halfway between shock and confusion, as though it had been a crucial detail she had forgotten, but the walls of her pussy squeezed convulsively.

His face turned savage.  His hips welded to her as the loose sack of semen-laden balls kissed the tight circles of her anus.  He ground her into the mattress until the seductive call of her slippery passage became unbearable and the thick, ivory flood of his genetic material came, angry and fierce as his hot desire to claim her and own her.

Delicate pink lips parted in a wordless ‘O’.  Above her, his eyes had become blind, but his hips continued to work her as though possessed.  Now, he was fulfilling her deepest, darkest desires; desires she had typed out and told him with brutal and shocking explicitness in a night of lust-addled desire meant to scandalise and entice.  Enticement to which he now responded as he spilled his seed and bred her pussy with every intention of making her carry his baby.

THE NEXT MORNING:


As his hips beat to a blissful rhythm between her wide-spread legs, her mind drifted away on seemingly unrelated matters, even as her hands clutched desperately at his muscular buttocks to urge him to greater efforts whilst the creaking leather beneath them acknowledged those straining efforts.  On the carpet, discarded clothes lay forgotten; a long tear in her skirt and several buttons popped from his shirt mute testament to the urgency of their carnal need.

Her neighbours who thought her prudish; friends and family who still thought of her as ‘that little girl’; work colleagues who barely gave her a second glance.  The looks she would have gotten if those very same people could see her now as she moaned out her pleasure as she received the exhilarating rush of an uncompromising fuck from the stallion of a man who desired her more than he could bear to wait for a moment longer without her.

With the seductive velvet of her sex already soaked from dire arousal, his manhood and loins were glistening with the juices of her need; a need impossible to define with mere words, but desiring expression regardless.  Gathering her up in his strong arms, his hips clapped against her repeatedly as he drove the throbbing inches of his shaft into the soft folds of her pussy, his every thrust resounding from her core in surging waves of pleasure through the rest of her body.

They knew they had risked much for this moment, but he needed her and, in so knowing, she in turn needed him with a desperate fervency that itself bordered on madness.  To see that unbound desire in his eyes; to hear the panting of his hot breath; to feel the hot throb of his bare cock buried in her and driving her to heights she could never attain on her own - that unrestrained, unreasonable, and yet, undeniable craving of a woman to feel the hot, gasping spurt of seed - of life - emptied like a bursting torrent into her waiting depths.





HER THOUGHTS:


Another day that I can’t write something beautiful without thinking of you; without painting the image of your face as a reference to why my heart beats too loud. Like every song played in the radio, poems and metaphors scribbled by poets directly points me to you; making me remember all those nights where we bathe the darkness and redness of love and pain. You are a tattoo etched between my meninges, you reside in my brain. You are the cells and oxygen that runs through my valves, you nourishes my stomach with butterflies and ache. You are everything and everywhere. And I want to stop loving you but every inch of my being still cares. I know, I feel too much, but I think you deseve this kind of love, even if in reality, you’re no longer around.

DATING: SEX QUESTION TO ASK YOUR PARTNER

About You

What is the size of your penis/breasts?
Does your penis have a curve?
Are you circumsized?
Have you ever had an STD?
Have you ever been pregnant/gotten someone pregnant?
What type of underwear are you wearing?
What is your favorite type of underwear?
When was your last erection/arousal?
Have you ever had an erection which someone noticed?
Has anyone seen your private parts other than yourself?
Explain your ultimate fantasy.
What are your turn-ons?
What are your turn-offs?
What is the strangest thing you’ve ever been turned on by?
Have you sent a sexual ask to someone on tumblr (Anonymously or Not)?
Have you sent a nude photo or video to someone?
Did it include sexual acts?
Have you ever posted a picture of image of you in the nude on a website?
Did it include sexual acts?
Have you ever anonymously sent/posted a picture or video of yourself in the nude?
Did it include sexual acts?
If someone you knew asked for a nude image, would you do it? What about a tumblr follower?
What was your latest sex dream about?
Have you ever had a sexual fantasy about someone?
Was it about anyone other than your lover?
What was the last fantasy about?
Have you ever fantasized about someone older/younger than you? How much older/younger?
Have you ever told any of these people that you fantasize about them?
Do you have a favorite person or few people to fantasize about?
How often do you fantasize about other people?
Have you ever showered with someone?
Have you ever confessed you were aroused by someone?
Are you open about your sex-life and sexuality?
Do you orgasm easily?
Have you ever played “7 minutes in heaven”? Explain the experience.
Have you ever played “spin the bottle”? Explain the experience.
Have you ever played “Truth or dare”? Explain the experience.
Have you ever played strip poker/strip beer pong/etc?
Do you shave your pubic hair?
Have you ever had your pubic hair shaved?
Do you prefer clean shaven or unkept?
What is your favorite type of underwear for the opposite sex?
Do you own any lingerie?
How much lingerie do you own?
Whats your favorite lingerie outfit?
Do you like the way your genitals look?
Are you comfortable naked?
Masturbation

Do you masturbate?
How old were you when you first masturbated?
How often do you masturbate?
When is the last time you masturbated?
Do you masturbate to any stimulus?
What do you think about?
What is the last thing you thought of or masturbated to?
Have you walked in on or caught someone masturbating?
Have someone ever walked in on or caught you masturbating?
Have you ever had cyber sex?
Have you ever had phone sex?
Have you ever had a wet dream?
What is your method of masturbation? (i.e. Hands/Toys/Lotion/etc.)
Are you loud or quiet when you masturbate?
Has anyone ever watched you masturbate live online?
Has anyone ever watched you masturbate in person?
Have you ever masturbated with someone? (Mutual masturbation)
Have you ever watched someone masturbate live online?
Have you ever watched someone masturbate in person?
Have you ever masturbated to someone?
Who do you like to think about when you masturbate?
Have you ever told them you think about them while you masturbate?
Whats your most embarrassing masturbation story?
Whats your funniest masturbation story?
Have you ever used something unique or strange to masturbate?
Is it easy for you to orgasm or do you have to work for it?
Whats the easiest way for you to get off?
Is there only one way you can get off? (i.e. Vaginal/Clitoral/Toy Use)
Does anyone know you masturbate? How did they find out?
Have you masturbated because your partner wasn’t around to help? Where were they?
Have you ever masturbated to a fictional character?
Are you able to achieve orgasm through only non-conventional or indirect methods? (Breast Play/Hands-Free/Anal)
What is the strangest object you’ve used to masturbate vaginally or anally?
Do you ever double penetrate while you masturbate?
Do you ever suck on a dildo while you masturbate?
Do you edge when you masturbate? (Get to the point of orgasm and stop repeatedly to enhance the experience)
What position do you typically masturbate in?
Describe a typical masturbation session.
How often do you usually last?
Whats the quickest you’ve ever been brought to orgasm?
What’s the longest masturbation session you’ve had?
What’s the most amount of times you’ve cum in a day?
Relationships

Are you straight/bi/gay/etc?
How many relationships have you been in?
What has been your longest relationship?
How old were you when you had your first relationship?
Have you ever been in a long distance relationship?
Have you ever used an online dating site?
What do you look for in a partner?
What do you look for in a hookup?
Have you ever had a one-night-stand?
Have you ever been a booty call?
Have you ever had a booty call?
Who was it?
Have you ever had a friend-with-benefits?
Who was it?
Have you ever cheated on a partner? Explain.
Have you ever been cheated on? Explain.
Would you ever be in an open relationship? Have you?
Porn & Sex Industry

Do you watch porn?
How often do you watch porn?
What is your favorite category?
When is the last time you watched porn and what was it?
How do you feel about hentai (Anime Porn)?
How do you feel about gang-bang porn?
How do you feel about cumshot porn?
How do you feel about lesbian porn?
How do you feel about amateur porn?
How do you feel about cuckold/cuckqueen/swinging porn?
How do you feel about threesome porn?
How do you feel about teen porn?
How do you feel about Japanese/Asian porn?
How do you feel about mature porn?
How do you feel about ebony porn?
How do you feel about bondage porn?
How do you feel about masturbation/solo porn?
How do you feel about rough/violent/humiliating porn?
How do you feel about BBW porn?
How do you feel about orgy/party porn?
How do you feel about trans/shemale porn?
How do you feel about POV porn?
How do you feel about blowjob porn?
How do you feel about bukkake?
How do you feel about extreme porn?
Have you ever tried to recreate a scene?
Have you ever used porn to show a partner what you like/want?
Has a partner ever used porn to show you what they like/want?
Who is your favorite pornstar(s)?
Have you considered getting into porn?
Have you considered being a webcam performer?
Have you watched cam girls?
Do you have a favorite cam girl?
Have you ever watched porn with a partner? Describe the experience(s).
Have you ever watched a cam-show with a partner? Describe the experience(s).
Have you ever performed in a cam-show with a partner? Describe the experience(s).
Have you ever been to a strip club?
Do you frequent strip clubs?
Do you have a favorite strip club?
Do you have a favorite stripper/dancer?
Do you get lap dances or just watch the performances?
Whats your best strip club experience?
Most embarrassing strip club experience?
Funniest strip club experience?
Have you ever orgasmed from a lap dance? Describe the experience(s).
Sex

Are you a virgin?
How old were you when you lost your virginity?
If you haven’t, when would you like to?
Explain your first time in detail.
How many sexual partners have you had?
Who was your best sex partner?
Did you tell someone after you lost your virginity? Who?
Do you give oral sex?
Have you received oral sex?
Do you prefer to give or receive oral sex?
Have you had anal sex? How was your first experience?
Do you have any friends you would hookup with?
Have you wanted to have sex with someone, but couldn’t? Why couldn’t you?
Do you like dirty talking?
Do you like being called names?
Do you like being called obscene names? (Bitch/Slut/Whore/Sissy/etc)
Are you loud or quiet in bed?
Whats your favorite position?
Have you ever invented a position?
Whats the strangest position you’ve tried?
Have you ever been caught or walked in on while fucking?
When is the last time you had sex? Describe the experience(s).
When is the last time you received oral? Describe the experience(s).
When is the last time you gave oral? Describe the experience(s).
When is the last time you had anal sex? Describe the experience(s).
Which celebrities would you want to have sex with?
Any fictional characters you want to hookup with?
Have you ever had shower sex? How was it?
What is your favorite position(s)?
Where is the strangest or wildest place you’ve had sex/oral?
Have you ever broken up with someone because they couldn’t satisfy you?
Have you used anything to improve sexual performance? (Penis Extenders/Tingling Lube/Cock Rings)
Whats your most embarrassing sexual experience?
Whats your funniest sex experience?
Have you ever had any performance issues? What were they?
Are you on birth control?
Do you use condoms?
Have you ever faked an orgasm? Describe the experience(s).
Can other people get you off?
Is there only one way you can cum? (i.e. Clitoral Stimulation Only/Anal Only/Toy/Specific Position)
Have you ever been rejected? Have you ever rejected someone?
Have you ever been stopped mid-sex? Describe the experience(s).
Have you ever had sex outdoors? Describe the experience(s).
Have you ever had sex in public? Describe the experience(s).
Have you ever had sex in front of others? Describe the experience(s).
Have you ever had sex in a car? Describe the experience(s).
Have you ever given or received road head? Describe the experience(s).
Have you ever had sex/oral/manual sex in a movie theater? Describe the experience(s).
Have you ever had sex in a fitting room? Describe the experience(s).
Have you ever had sex in a plane? Describe the experience(s).
Have you ever had sex at work? Describe the experience(s).
Explain your best sex experience in detail.
Which non-genital parts of your body do you like being touched or stimulated?
Do you ever take pictures or videos when you have sex? Explain the experience(s).
Have you ever given a strip tease to a partner?
Have you ever given a lap dance to a partner?
Have you ever received a strip tease from a partner?
Have you ever received a lap dance from a partner?
Have you ever “titty-fucked” before?
Has someone ever “titty-fucked” your breasts?
Do you prefer your partner to be vocal/moan loudly?
Do you enjoy having your nipples played with?
Do you ever role-play?
What situations or themes have you role-played?
What would you like to role-play?
Do you role play with costumes?
Do prefer lingerie in the bedroom?
Do you enjoy rough sex?
What would you like to improve about your sex life?
Have you ever gone into public with hickeys? Did you know they were there?
Have you ever had a threesome? Describe the experience.
Would you like to have a threesome?
Who would you like to have a threesome with?
Would your partner be okay with a threesome?
Would you like to be with two men at the same time?
Would you like to be with to girls at the same time?
Would you like to be with more than two girls at the same time?
Would you like to be with more than two guys at the same time?
Have you ever been double penetrated? Describe the experience(s).
Have you ever had every hole filled or been involved with filling each hole? Describe the experience(s).
Have you ever tried ’69’? Explain the experience.
Do you like cum or is it gross?
Have you ever tasted cum? Do you like it?
Where is your favorite place to cum or receive cum?
Have you ever had sex while on a period/with someone on a period?
Do you listen to music while you have sex? What kind?
Have you ever used a buttplug while having sex?
Have you used any form of sex furniture? What kind?
Have you ever brought toys into the bedroom with a partner? What kind? Describe the experience(s).
Do you eat ass?
Do you like to have your ass eaten?
Have you ever anally fingered your partner?
Do you like prostate play?
Is it gay for a man to enjoy anal stimulation from a woman?
Have you ever experienced a prostate orgasm?
Have you ever double penetrated/been double penetrated with the assistance of a toy?
Have you ever experimented with the same sex? Describe the experience(s).
Do you prefer sex with a man or with a woman?
Have you ever had sex with another couple(s) monogamously? (Not touching the other couple(s))
Have you ever watched another couple have sex?
Have you ever gotten cum in your eye?
Has anyone ever cum inside you on accident? How did you feel about that?
Have you ever cum inside someone on accident? How did they respond?
Have you ever cum in your pants? Describe the experience(s).
Have you ever sexted?
Do you like to play with balls/have your balls played with?
Are hand jobs boring or are they underrated?
Describe your average orgasm.
Describe your average cumshot.
Whats the quickest you’ve ever been brought to orgasm?
Whats the quickest you’ve ever brought someone else to orgasm?
How long are you usually able to last?
What’s the most times you’ve had sex (or sexual contact with a partner) in a day?
Whats your longest sex session?
Toys

Have you ever bought a sex toy?
What is the last sex toy you bought?
What sex toy do you currently want?
Would you let someone buy you a sex toy?
How many toys do you own?
What kind of toys do you own?
What is your favorite toy?
Have you ever used a washer/dryer as a sex toy?
Have you ever used a shower head as a sex toy?
Have you ever used a pocket pussy or Fleshlight?
Have you ever improvised a sex toy? (Cucumber/Banana/Etc.)
What is the strangest sex toy you’ve ever used?
What is the strangest improvised sex toy you’ve ever used?
Do you prefer sex toys or the real thing?
Do you own any buttplugs?
Do you ever wear a buttplug in public?
Do you have any vibrating panties?
Do you ever wear vibrating panties in public?
Do you like nipple clamps?
Fetishes

What fetishes do you have?
What is your favorite fetish?
Have you indulged in all your fetishes?
What fetishes are you yet to experience?
Are there any fetishes you don’t have yet, but may be interested in?
Have you experienced BDSM? Do you practice it?
Are you a top/dominant a bottom/submissive or a switch?
What is it about BDSM that you like?
Have you experienced being tied up or restrained? Describe the experience.
Have you experienced rope play? Describe the experience.
Do you enjoy long, extended teasing/edging sessions?
What is the longest you’ve been teased/edged?
Do you enjoy tease and denial?
Do you like to be denied?
Do you have a panty fetish?
Have you ever purchased panties from a woman online?
Have you ever used panties to masturbate? (Stuffing/Wrapping/Etc.)
Do you have a hosiery fetish?
Do you like pain?
Do you like spanking/being spanked?
What do you prefer to use to spank? (Paddles/Hands/Whips/Etc)
Do you like to hit or be hit? How hard?
Do you enjoy choking or being choked? How hard?
Do you like to bite or be bit?
Do you like to slap or be slapped?
Do you like pulling or having your hair pulled?
What is your safe-word?
Have you ever done a cum-walk? (Walking in public with cum on your face/clothes/etc)
Would you do a cum-walk?
Are you an exhibitionist?
What was your best exhibitionism experience?
Are you a cuckold?
Are you a cuckqueen?
Are you a hotwife?
Are you a bull?
Would you like to watch your partner have sex with another person?
Would you like to have your partner watch you with another person?
Have you ever been cuckolded? Describe the experience
Explain your best cuckold experience
What is it about cuckolding that you like?
Do you like to be humiliated?
Do you like to humiliate your partner?
Do you like to be humiliated while cuckolding or do you prefer a friendly environment.
Do you like to be forced into crossdressing?
Do you like to be forced into feminization?
Do you like to be forced into sissification?
Have you ever fisted? Explain the experience.
Do you like extreme insertion? Have you ever experienced it?
Are you a swinger?
Do you soft-swap or hard-swap?
Have you ever been to a swingers club (with a partner)?
Would you ever go to a swingers club (with a partner)?
Explain your best swinging experience.
Would you ever participate in an orgy? (4 or more people)
Would you ever participate in a gang bang? (4 or more people)
Have you ever pegged/been pegged? Describe the experience.
Do you peg often?
What is it about pegging that you like?
Describe your best pegging experience.
Do you enjoy large strap on dildos or smaller?
Do you enjoy sucking or having your strap on sucked?
Do you like incest?
Have you ever experienced incest?
Do you like face-sitting/smothering?
Do you have experience in face-sitting/smothering?
Do you like weapon play?
Do you like forced cum eating?
Do you like rape play?
Have you experienced rape play?
Do you like to be dominated?
Have you ever been dominated online?
Whats the most humiliating thing you’ve been forced to do?
Do you enjoy pet-play?
Do you like daddy dom/little play? Describe the experience(s).
Do you like to be worshiped?
Do you like to worship?
Do you like to be spit on or spit on your partner?
Do you like to keep the slave play in the bedroom or carry it over to real life?
Have you ever been suspended while having sex?
Do you like ball-busting/CBT (Cock and Ball Torture)?
Do you like to be told what to do?
Do you enjoy giving/receiving JOIs? (Jerk Off Instructions)
Describe your best JOI experience.
Have you ever given or received a foot job?
Would you ever swap cum with your partner?
Have you ever tried fetching? (Sucking cum from a partners anus or vagina after finishing)
Do you like watersports?
Do you like sounding?
Would you participate in a bukkake?
Do you enjoy brat play?
Have you ever participated in chastity?
What is the longest you’ve been locked up or forced a partner to be locked up?
Have you ever cum while in chastity?
Have you ever experienced a full friction/lap dance?
Have you ever cum or made someone cum from a full friction lap dance/grinding?
Do you enjoy outercourse/hotdogging/pussyjobs?
Do you enjoy cumming or watching someone cum over strange objects?
What is the strangest way anyone has made you cum?
What is the strangest way you’ve made anyone cum?
Do you enjoy forced cum eating?
Do you enjoy premature ejactulation?
Have you ever experienced a ruined orgasm? Describe the experience(s).
Have you ever had your prostate milked or milked a prostate?
This or That

Vaginal or Anal
Vaginal or Oral
Oral or Anal
Handjob or Oral
Handjob or Anal
Handjon or Vaginal
What feels better, masturbation or sex
Rough Sex or Intimate Sex
Car Sex or Outdoor Sex
Dominant or Submissive
Spit or Swallow
Facial or Cum on Tits
Facial or Cum in Mouth
Facial or Cum on Ass
Facial or Cum on Belly
Cum on Tits or Cum in Mouth
Cum on tits or Cum on Ass
Cum on Tits or Cum on Belly
Facial or Creampie
Facial or Anal Creampie
Vaginal Creampie or Anal Creampie
Circumcised or Uncircumcised
Boxers or Briefs
Tits or Ass
Ruined or Complete Orgasm
Vaginal or Clitoral Orgasm
Prostate Orgasm or Regular
Cuckolding or Swinging
Pegging or Grinding
Lap Dance or Strip Tease
Grinding Orgasm or Titty-Fucking Orgasm
Be Humiliated or Worshiped
Footjob or Hotdogging
Lace Panties or Cotton Panties
Latex or Leather
Silicone Dildo or Glass Dildo
Dildo or Vibrator
Hitachi or Sybian
Real Cock or Sex Toy Cock
Real Pussy or Fleshlight/Pocket Pussy
Cam Sites or Porn Sites
Strip Clubs or Porn
Dirty Talk or Loud Moaning
Faked Orgasm or Premature Ejaculation
Cum on Clothes or Cum in Hair
Lingerie or Naked
CFNM or Naked
Corset or Bustier
Thongs or Cheekies
Porn or Sex
JOI or Lap Dance
Fishnets or Nylons
Big Dick or Small Dick
9" Dick or 4.5"Dick
Length or Girth
Big Tits or Small Tits
Petite or Chunky
Muscular or Average
Beard or Shaven
Pubic Hair or None
Thigh Gap or Thick Thighs
Twerking or Slow Tease
Prostate Orgasm or Frenulum Orgasm
Anal, Clitoral or G-Spot Orgasm
Big Ass or Tight, Toned Ass
Skinny or big
Nerdy or Preppy
Cheerleader or Nurse
Firefighter or Cop
Sex on the Beach or Sex on a Plane
Sex in Public or Sex in a Car
Vibrating Panties or Butt Plug
Ball Licking or Rimming
Nipple Stimulation or Neck Stimulation
Hair Pulling or Spanking
Choking or Slapping
Big Dildo or Small Dildo
Realistic Dildo or Smooth Dildo
On Top or On Bottom
Long Hair or Short Hair
Giving Head or Receiving Head
Getting Anal or Giving Anal
Pussy and Anal Penetration or Ass and Mouth Penetration
Two Girls or Two Guys
Bukakke or Glory Hole
Reverse Gang Bang or Male Gang Bang
Doggy Style or Missionary
Cowgirl or Reverse Cowgirl  
Cuckold or Be Cuckolded
Cum On Someone or Be Cummed On
Drunk Sex or High Sex
Slow or Fast
Veiny Dick or Curved Dick