I am not looking for a arm piece, a pretty woman who doesn't think much or have all that much to say. I don't want to be with someone who only wants me for what I can do for her.
I am a bright, big hearted guy who valued loyality and kindness. I am not so fixed on what type of person i want expect that she skinny and has a job. I am more concern with someone who shares my values. Love doesn't come from "type hype"
I love the movie 500 days of summer. Tom ignores all obvious sign of potential failure,,,,like the fact that she doesn't believe true love is possible and doesn't desire marriage..and simply homes is on how ideal her beauty is, how she's good at karaoke, how she dresses in adorable fashion and says funny/quirky things.
After the initial rush and passion of a new romance, fter the sex, and times passes, you will eventually get used to your partner. You wil get older. Your need and desire changes with time. All the great sex and good looks in the world won't cover for the fact that if you can't get along with your partner, if you don't enjoy spending time with them or talking to them, if you aren't friends---it;s not going to work. It's like the befuddlement one feels when someone cheats on a gorgeous actress. People ask how could he run out on one of the most beautiful people in the world. Because beautiful doesn't equal "we'll get along". Beautiful doesn't equal happiness. Beautiful doesn't mean they're a good person or stable person or kind person of the right person for you. Beautiful is just that. Beautiful. A gorgeous person could be faithful or they could cheat. Values are the things that tell you who is right.
My values is intellect, stability, fidelity and loyalty.
When I was young, I was focus on conquest over commitment, It wasn't that I didn't desire that, infact I am desperate for it....but why get close to someone who was just going to leave anyway. And the pain of loss is too great to risk again. I still desire the closeness, the satisfaction that I get dating hand having sex with a woman. It was a subsitute for the affection lacking in my life,,,but now I couldn't separate emotional intimacy from sexual intimacy. The two are wrapped around each other. I substitue sex for real imtancy. I don't want to get hurt again, so sometimes I don't like to give up anyting up because it's something I can't afford to lose.And the main thing I can't afford is my damage heart. That is the reason why i talk about sex constanly...about my desire for it, and how i am so good for at it.and write about love...I crave emtional intimacy but I have channelted all that deisre into sex. So don't be surprise if i talk about sex.
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