PERSONAL: IT'S HARD TO FIND A WOMAN WHO LOVES SEX

It hard to find a woman who love sex.

I had two woman in my life who rare desert flower.  They were ready, willing, and able to get it on nearly 24/7.  We are both total freaks and enjoy a variety of kinks, so it’s constantly different and exciting. We had sex on Sunday we woke up, fucked, got some lunch, fucked, got some dinner, fucked, and fucked some more until we passed out.

I like to fuck  about 5- 6 times  day on average (sometimes more). I’m addicted to it, mostly because of the emotions that come with it.  I love a woman who love to give blowjobs. And I get so fucking sick of the "women would rather have chocolate /shoes/purses/etc. than sex" stereotype that I want to vomit. Chocolate’s nice, but it doesn’t hold a candle to when a woman to suck my dick off, then have I cuddle up with her and fall into a post-orgasm nap knowing that she reduced me to a blissful puddle of goo. I miss the days when my girlfriend wanted to please me all the time.....suprise me with a BJ in a car....wearing a short dress and no underwear.....wanting to touch me ...fucking me....MAKING ME FEEL WANTED.

Women sometimes feel like men want one thing — sex. This is not true.What guys really wants is for you to WANT to have sex with him, for you to ENJOY being with him and for you to INITIATE it. His deeper needs, and yours, will be met when you, as the woman, initiate a physical connection, rather than leaving it up to him all the time to see that it happens.

Ladies, I'm talking to you. Let's be honest here. Think back to the last time you initiated sex . I know all the excuses that are coming to your mind right now — too tired, don't need it, takes too much energy, etc., etc., etc. No one likes excuses — we all like positive results. If you are too tired, you shouldn't use that as an excuse night after night. You should decide that your physical relationship needs to be important to you, too, and not just to your boyfriend You should decide to take a nap, or grab your hubby by the hand earlier and start showing him affection instead of waiting until you fall into bed, half dead from exhaustion.

Why

HE needs to know you are crazy about him. What your man really wants is YOU. He needs to know that you need him, in a physical way, just like he needs you. When you show him that you want to be physically intimate with him (and often), it will let him know, in a very obvious way, that he excites you. He ignites passion within you. That feeling will make him feel more manly and more loved than he has felt in a long time.

I usually come quickly when a woman is down on her knee and sucking my balls...my shaft....hungry for my cum.

Sex =Validation

The biological effect semen and sperm  diminish on women is very noticeable when you compare when a  man has had a vasectomy. The proteins and such that sperm carry have extremely strong bonding effects on women. It helps prevent pre-eclampsia, allows the cervix to soften, moderates the immune system in receiving women, has antidepressant effects, antispasmodic effects (pain caused by prostaglandins such as period cramps), gives a buzz via dopamine receptor, and also calming. They enhance female vaginal orgasm by enhancing contractions wherein the cervix moves and "sucks up" semen into the uterus. While the effects are more greatly felt or shall I say received via the vagina (within 10-30 minutes post ejaculation). The effects are also felt anally and orally. Proof in the bonding effects are that women literally cannot break up with a male so long as sex with him ejaculating into the female continues

The best way for a woman to understand this dynamic is to relate it to another physiological need. If you've had a baby, you may relate to the experience of milk building up in your breasts a few days after giving birth. The buildup of breast milk becomes annoying (and even painful) until the milk is expressed. You may have even had the embarrassing experience of leaking breast milk when it was not expressed. A male's semen buildup is sometimes released through nocturnal emissions if it is not otherwise relieved. Just as with breast milk, sperm production tends to "keep up with demand." The more often a man has sex, the more semen his body is likely to produce.

To me, the real evil is the over-romanticized idea of relationships that movies and books often portray. Women view sex as an extension of love and romance, and I believe this gives them a warped view of sexuality from the beginning. The idea that we each have only one true soul mate with whom we will live in harmonious and uncomplicated bliss for all eternity is a crock of shit. If people would focus their attention on finding a partner who, while not perfect, shares most of their core values and at least a few of their personal interests, and then treat their partner’s sexual desires with respect and an eagerness to ensure their fulfillment in whatever way works for that individual, we’d have many more happily coupled people in this world. We have to not only destroy the idea that good sex is some kind of automatic bonus dropped in your lap when you meet Mr. or Ms. Right, we also have to destroy the idea that there is only one particular Mr. or Ms. Right for each person, in whom all relationship problems will magically vanish.