DATING: THE DATING SCENE IS SCREWED UP

How many men have ever felt hot ? Ever felt wanted by women ? Ever felt desired by women ?

Apart from the top 1% of guys...99% of men are oblivious to women.

The reason being is because most men can never compete with women in terms of desirability. Women are FAR more appealing to men, than men are to women. Whereas men, if they aren’t gifted with stellar good looks, need some sort of external display of success to get any type of love from a woman. It’s an imbalance that causes death and suicide in many men in this society; because without money or status, most men can never hope to ever get love from a decent woman in this society.

Notice that I said DECENT right ? When I say decent, I am talking about the kind of woman that you can marry: Chaste, In good shape, with a pleasant personality. These women drive a hard bargain in this society

Most men will NEVER know what it is to have a beautiful, high-quality woman, and most have just given up trying. Most women can never make up their mind as to what they want until they aren’t worth a damn themselves. Women know that men have a hard time finding mates in this society, and play their options to the fullest. Hell, in this society, even a damn average woman thinks that she’s a dime-piece deserving of the finest of men…Pathetic.

The problem is that too damn many women think this way, to the point where they think that they can SNUB men who are TRULY on their level. Most women have no clue as to what level they are on because men will F**K anything

Not because we want to

WE HAVE TO !!

Women have starved the supply of sex out to only the chosen few.

There is no balance and all, and many men in this society suffer for it. Like I said, the worst travesty in this society was giving women absolute power in the mating game, because by doing so, most men will never know what it is to even experience love from a woman; as women have far too many options, and the men have far too few. Therefore, the men have to take what they can get in order to have companionship at all.

My advice to other men who may be reading this : In order to combat this rampant problem, you better make yourself into an island, one that isn’t dependent on anyone else for companionship but YOU. Because, if you allow yourself to become solely dependent upon a woman for love, you will find yourself in a pine box.


 -OKCupid: Women consider 80% of men to be below average attractiveness

-CNN's interview with Lori Gottlieb

Gottlieb: ... I did talk to hundreds of men and women, single and married, for this book, in addition to the researchers and scientists. Talking to men was eye-opening. Men and women were asked, if they [had] any deal-breakers for going on a second date, what would those be? And men named three. If she's cute enough ... warm and kind ... and interesting enough to talk to, she gets a second date. Men are not going, "Am I going to marry her?" Men are like, "Do I want to spend another two hours with her?"

CNN: How did women respond?

Gottlieb: Women named 300 things that would be deal-breakers for a second date. We're talking a second date, another two hours with the person.

WHAT THE FUCK?



-Women want "jerks", "bad boys", etc

There's plenty of research showing that women find strong, confident, high-status men to be more attractive. One of my favorite examples is this study out of the University of Liverpool.

We gave to male participants either an aerosol spray containing a formulation of fragrance and antimicrobial agents or an otherwise identical spray that lacked these active ingredients. Over several days, we found effects between treatment groups on psychometric self-confidence and self-perceived attractiveness. Furthermore, although there was no difference between groups in mean attractiveness ratings of men's photographs by a female panel, the same women judged men using the active spray as more attractive in video-clips, suggesting a behavioral difference between the groups.



-The culture at large is uncertain about what it wants from its men. We give a lot of mixed messages. We say, on the one hand, that fathers are so important. At the same time, we say that fathers are optional. Many women seem to want men that are confident and have a strong sense of themselves. At the same time, they are put off by too much masculine, authoritativeness. I think a lot of men react to these mixed signals by retreating into themselves, becoming passive and reluctant and often waiting for women to make the first move.



 A lot of men are frustrated at the seemingly impenetrable wall of finding the love and intimacy they desire and have just decided that it's not worth the effort any more. They don't have the confidence/knowledge/experience to attract women, because all their lives they were given the really bad advice "just be a really nice guy, treat her like a princess.  Its been my experience that its just endless frustration for the off chance that you might get lucky and find someone who is realistic with their expectations. the fact that hookup culture generally only benefits the top 30% of males. This is a clear indication of how a large portion of the male population is being discriminated against and subsequently being left behind, which shows an obvious pattern of unrealistic expectations. It also shows how women are essentially able to "trade up" in terms of men of higher physical attractiveness and socioeconomic status.



The truth is, without the need for a beta provider male nowadays, most women can party it up in their 20's and enjoy life without having to worry about settling down, until their looks start to decay aroud 30.

Have you heard of the Lorenz curve? The same thing is happening in the sexual marketplace as is happening in the economic marketplace. The rich are getting richer. Women have less and less need for the bottom of the totem pole betas.

It kind disgusts me that this is the case. We're basically telling an entire generation of beta males(arguably a significant portion of the male population), that they're basically worthless. I dread to see how this will affect society in later years.


Woman  have now acquired a taste for alphas, and, while alphas might fuck them, they're not going to marry them. A woman in her 20s can screw above her weight class, by making it obligation-free, but she cannot marry out of her league.

Women mistake the casual sex market for the relationship market. In the causal sex market, women have inflated value, because more guys want NSA hookups than women do. In the marriage market, no such factor exists.

So a woman who is, say, a 5, can ride a steady train of 7 and 8 cock throughout her twenties, but when she hits 32 and decides her ovaries want a baby, the 7s and 8s aren't even returning her calls. They are either married to female 7s and 8s, or they are banging 5s and 6s younger than her (like, still in their twenties).

Male erections are common, and therefore cheap. Male commitment is not common, and therefore not cheap.

But women, rationalization hamsters busily spinning in their little rationalization wheels, are unwilling to acknowledge that the commitment market and the sex market are different markets.

Therefore, when they hit 30, they will either insist on males as self-assured, successful, and /or socially dominant ("alpha") as they are used to, and wind up "forever alone"... or they will lower their standards eventually.

But when they do, they will find that even the betas aren't biting. Many betas, burned repeatedly, will either learn to imitate alpha traits to the point that they make themselves more attractive and can get better women in the commitment market and/or steady action in the hookup market. Others will have sworn off relationships altogether. Still others will have married import girls from Thailand, or the Ukraine, or the Philippines, or other cultures where women haven't been spoiled rotten.

In any case, women are going to find that, for the 35-year-old versions of themselves, there is a desperately short supply of commitment-ready cock.

In the language of economics, the vagina bubble is starting to burst. The market in vaginas is about to crash. If you are invested in one, sell now. If you own one, get readily to pay for your own damn food, and suck a lot of cock.



It dawned on me yesterday how much I hate dating. It’s basically conducting interviews with a person who, for whatever reason, seems to be interviewing you for a similar position. I interview enough people on a regular basis as it is, I don’t need any more work.