PERSONAL/DATING: YOUR BIOLOGICAL CLOCK IS TICKING

Don't waste your time dating lower-quality men. You only have a limited window in which you can have children. I am sorry to tell you this ..but a ticking biological clock makes all the difference and will always be an impediment to true gender equality.The inherent inequality between men and women,is that women only have a 25-year window in which they can bear children, while men have almost 75 years in which they can father children, Just ask any fertility doctor Don't squandered your best years looking for men who weren’t as interesting, educated, or want to settle down. There are many marriageable men but you didn’t recognize them, or you carelessly dismissed them for superficial reasons, If you want motherhood within marriage, you have a limited window of opportunity within which to find a husband and bear your own children. Regardless of how your marriage ends or will not end, you will love your child forever. But if you miss your chance to be pregnant and deliver your child, then that dream is off the table forever Your fertility won't if you spend the 10 years after dating the wrong men.... all your dreams of family will whither before your very eyes.

I think the problems most women seem to have finding someone is the result of Einsteins definition of insanity(google it). As a result people find themselves in the same bed of frustrations and problems(instead of a worthy mate). The biggest obstacle to women's getting married today is their failure to understand this very simple fact.   Men who want to get married can snap their fingers and have a dozen candidates any time.  They can wander off to to Ohio and find young women with lesser degrees who will make perfectly good wives. While having a degree and/or a decent job is all well and good, women have to keep in mind that many men don't really care about your degree or job-they just want you to be sexy 

Women are socialized to believe that we can spend our 20s having fun and ignoring our biological clocks, getting tons of degrees and climbing the corporate ladder, then when we get mid-30s, find a successful alpha male to marry. Doesn't work that way often. Some women believe that their degrees entitle them to a man of a certain caliber, even if they are lacking in the looks department.


That's the way it is ladies, and yes, it's totally fair.  When you were 18 and gorgeous, you could snap your fingers and get 10 guys who wanted to jump in the sack.  You had power.  When men reach their mid-30s and want to get married, the situation reverses and THEY have the power.  Yin and yang. If you want a hubby, work for him.  Prepare to be a wife, not a competitor.  That means, cook and feed his ego. If you don't want a hubby strongly enough to make these compromises, then don't get married.

Men, for the first half of their lives, generally needed to scratch and claw for a woman's attention while she picked and chose without a care in the world, usually dating some bad boy(who, as it turns out, usually stays bad).  Some "dweeby" guy never got a shot at some hot-bodied 20 year old.  Now the dweeb, in his forties, may be making half a million a year and can date a 24 year old.  Yet, the same 20 year old in her 40's (now used up and out of shape) wants to know why she needs to try so hard to find a man.

.If you are a woman who wants to meet a good guy and not a jerk than know this, the 'good guys' work for a living all day, probably go to the gym afterwards, then go home to rest and eat because they have to work again the next day. So if you want to meet a good grounded guy, you probably need to be a little more thoughtful about where you want to find them  then going to high end  lounges and clubs, and making yourself available to bad boys.Just recognize that it may take more time, more good fortune and luck, and patience to find guys who are good.

It's true that a woman's fertility has a clock. Her best years are her more youthful years - just ask any fertility doctor. That doesn't they they shouldn't have a career. And that doesn't mean that all of the good guys are gone if you look when you are older.