To me, for the good of any relationship or marriage, no relationship takes precedence over it. I tell my friends all the time.."Take care of your marriage because if that fails, so does everything else..." If your relationship fails it means your child wont have the benefit of having both parents to love, care for, instruct, & impart knowledge on him/her so the child is missing what it needs most from life. It takes two parents to make the child and it takes two parents to raise a mentally stable, healthy & complete child. If your relationship/marriage fails from neglect, you cannot teach your child how to have a successful relationship/marriage because you don't know how yourself.
When couples put each other first, their needs are met. This creates a stronger bond between them, which makes them better able to meet their child's needs and create a positive, healthy atmosphere in which to raise a family. When you put your children first, you risk losing your partner, which causes family upheaval and fear and insecurity in children. It is the couple relationship that helps the household run smoothly
Single parenthood is a unique challenge I don't think I could do it.I was involved with a single woman for three years. I learned a lot during that time.
I realized that I require a lot of attention which most single mom are unable to provide since they have to give most of their attention to their kids. I totally understand that. Being involved with a single mom doesn't involve just one heart, but the hearts of her children. Most kids are more likely than not would to resent me and my presence for not being their real dad. Ex-husband or boyfriend are always in the picture which always cause alot of drama.
A lot of single moms also don’t want to have more children which I do want. Ex-husband or boyfriend are always in the picture.
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