Imagine your body with fine, thin threads of electrical current extending from you. These currents are so fine they cannot be seen. They extend several feet in every direction. They are like tiny feelers. They connect to a person before we ever engage in conversation. These energy currents are positive and negative forces, responding and rejecting. They reject energy completely different from their own. They respond to similar patterns. These circuits play a very important part in what we attract.
Soulmates are attracted to the ethereal body or the energy patterns of another. This is the initial attraction. The first conscious attraction can be either ethereal or physical. The attraction that lasts is the ethereal.
The soulmate relationship is a marriage of two similar souls or two similar energy patterns. When we are physically attracted to someone, we hope for the opportunity to know that person.
If you are physically attracted to a person more than spiritually, you should get to know the person before making commitments. Beyond physical appearance the soulmate is concerned with the soul.
In Bernard Gunther's book, Energy Ecstasy, he sees man as energy in different degrees of speed, density and intensity. He says man is a series of ever changing energies. The soul or the spirit of the ethereal body is affected by the constant exchanging, interchanging and rearranging of the energy field. The etheric body is constantly changing.
As we change we desire our partner to change. If one or the other partner doesn't grow in the same direction there is a strong chance of changing partners. It is rare to find someone on our own frequency of consciousness that is transforming in exactly the same way.
The soul of man is forever learning. Together soulmates learn life lessons. Soulmates help each other learn to further their soul growth.
When you experience a strong mutual attraction, you may have met a soulmate. Your soulmate is not the physical person in front of you. Your soulmate is their spirit.
Your soul shows itself to you by the people you attract. When you are drawn to someone, their energy will tell you all you need to know about your soul growth. Many clues to your own nature lie in what you attract and repel. You are always attracted to someone that reflects you or your own potential. You are rarely attracted to someone that is nothing like you. You are connected to your soulmate through attraction. Your soulmate has a similar or identical energy pattern causing you to feel a connection in their presence.
When you are connected to your soulmate you influence them and they influence you. You are experiencing the soul's vibration. You may think of this energy as their attitude or personality. Your combined energy is magnetic.
There are certain Universal Laws that can help us understand why we attract certain individuals into our lives. They are;
1. The law of attraction; you can only attract to you those qualities you possess.
2. The law of reflection; the traits you respond to in others, you recognize in yourself.
3. The law of resistance; that which you resist, you draw to you and perpetuate it's influence in your life. You are complete when you have grown to understand these principles and practice them.
Deepak Chopra, best selling author and lecturer, in a interview with Tony Robbins, author of Unlimited Power, tells about a research that was recently done with mice. According to Dr. Chopra, a set of mice were placed in a room and given electrical shocks. They were then removed. Another set of mice were brought in. He said that instantly the new set of mice began to panic. These mice smelled the hormones or pheromones of fear from the other mice. Humans also send off pheromones. He says that pheromones are the hormones of our emotional state. He believes every emotional state has its own hormonal energy that is not confined to the body, but is released by the body. The emotional energy field can now be captured on film. It is done by a method called Kirlian photography. It is fascinating.
Emerson once said, "who you are shouts so loudly in my ears I can not hear what you are saying.
Dick Sutphen is the author of many best-selling books on metaphysical topics. I found his tape series, Predestined Love , interesting. In this series he discusses cases of men and women who discover reincarnation through regressive hypnosis. His clients tell stories that strongly suggest they have returned lifetime after lifetime to be reunited with their soulmate.
He says a soulmate or twin soul is a perfect partner. He feels you share the same vibrational level and a lineage of past lives. He believes soulmates have a relationship which will allow both to fulfill their "dharmic direction" and accomplish their "soul goals."
According to Mr. Sutphen there are different types of soulmates. Some soulmates are supposed to be together forever while other relationships are destined to end. A soulmate relationship is simply a love that is destined. These relationships fit into three categories: Karmic, Dharmic bond and Counterpart companions.
Mr. Sutphen lectures that Karmic companions are two people destined to form a union confronting unlearned lessons from past lives. Usually this relationship is centered around conflict until the lesson is learned. If the relationship cannot be healed, the couple must let go with love. If not, they will meet again in another lifetime.
Relationships started entering my life. One at a time each relationship taught me something. Woen often sensed my insecurity. I attracted woman in my life that were troubled, because I was troubled. I'm sure if we met today it would be different. I am no longer attracted to the women in my past because I am no longer the same person. That was a timewhen I was projecting my need for fulfillment on others. I was unaware I was on a personal path of transformation.
The path to personal transformation can be long and exhausting. I had so much to learn about relationships. I had to learn relationships are excellent tools for the evolution of your own consciousness. I didn’t know needing someone for fulfillment was not love, it was dependence. I learned being single was not a disease and no person was the answer to my life. It took a while, but I eventually realized where you leave each relationship is where you begin the next. The more loving, forgiving and confident you are, the more love, forgiveness and confidence you receive. Karmic companions are our friends. Allow yourself to honor each relationship. Relationships are great teachers, if we choose to learn.
The second soulmate type is Dharmic bond companions. These soulmates share a goal. This relationship is like Karmic companion relationships in that two people come together combining their energy for one task, however when they have succeeded in reaching the common goal, their future depends on how they have structured their relationship. You will have few Dharmic companions. You will always remember dharmic relationships. They will have a more dramatic affect on your life and may remain in your life on non-romantic terms.
Joanne is a dharmic relationship. We came together to learn that we can learn to love. Our romantic relationship ended after three years.
The third soulmate type is the Counterpart companions. These companions experience a loving, supportive relationship in which the couple will comfortably live their life. They will have problems, but most of the problems will be outside their relationship. They harmonize with each other, however, outside influences can challenge them. The relationship will usually last a lifetime.
I have met very few individuals that have a counterpart relationship. These relationships are often referred to as twin souls . These relationships communicate soul to soul through equality. No one is superior or inferior. They communicate honestly, openly and truthfully. The two people are usually evolving at the same rate and frequency. These soulmates do not limit their lives by staying with each other because it is the right thing to do. They stay together because they want to be together. There is mystery surrounding what holds these relationships together.
When I began searching for a soulmate my first questions were; who would this person be and what would this person be like? I envisioned her as kind hearted. She would be skilled to cope with stress and life's pressures. She would love me for all that I am. She would except my past as part of my path without jealousy, judgments or punishment. She would comfort me through all my experiences, good and bad. She would love me unconditionally and without reserve. She would have compassion when I make mistakes and kind when I cry. She would be gentle, passionate, and strong. She would be my lover and my friend. What were the chances of any one person fitting this description? I confess I laughed.
More questions kept coming. Could this person really exist? Believing gave me hope. I could not get her out of my imagination. Unknowingly I was on a mission, determined to find my soulmate.
My search had begun. I would journal in my blog nightly my thoughts, ideas and progress. I could see my soulmate in my mind's eye. She had beautiful dark hair and eyes that sparkled. I fantasized about her. Her touch was magic. She was flawless. She was every man’s dream, and she was mine .
Time passed. My life changed and so did my relationships. With each relationship I grew. I became more adventurous, passionate and wise. I had an expectation that any moment she would arrive. I was looking and was consumed with finding her. I felt attached to her and would speak to her in my mind. I wrote songs and poetry about her. She was my life, my breath, my soul. I meditated, I prayed, I begged God for her. He didn’t come. After a while, I became very discouraged. I began to question the love I was imagining. I was having trouble distinguishing between a sexual experience and a soulmate experience. Time would always tell. Relationship after relationship ended.
When on a search, you seem to encounter others that are on the same search. During that time I had the opportunity to speak with several individuals about their idea of a soulmate. They invariably described someone who would rescue, romance or in some way complete them. Like me, they wanted that perfect person. Men desired physical appearance and a sex goddess while women seemed to desire a hero. One woman even described his soulmate to me down to her toes. Physical beauty and heroism were at the top of the list. Ironically none of these people, including me, had found their imagined soulmate.
What was I missing? Thoughts began flashing through my mind. What would a perfect person want with a person like me? What about me was attractive? How could I change to become more attractive internally as well as externally?
I began studying personal development. I learned egos have no place in a relationship and feelings dictate what we do, say, think and believe. I read you experience love from within not from someone externally. I read the words but I really didn’t understand them. I read that a soulmate’s job is not to fulfill your fantasies, but help you be more loving, giving and gentle. I learned real soulmates don’t let you off the hook, they challenge you to be all you can. We seem to fall into negative habits of repetition that hold us on the surface of what we can achieve and usually don’t live up to our own potential
I began to realize when you actually accept another for who they are, you give them an invitation to change. I found accepting oneself is the creative force of change. I had to change. I needed to examine who I was in order to change. I relaxed into a meditative state and began. I allowed everything positive and negative to come to mind. I quietly listened as thoughts about myself began to surface.
The soul’s deepest desire is to be seen as we are and loved. In my mind I thought of everything. I was determined to accept the things I could not change and change what I could. I wanted to be everything I desired in a soulmate. I wanted to be kind hearted, skilled to cope with life’s pressures and love myself for the entire person I am, past and present. I wanted to be a comfort giver, unconditional lover...etc. I knew like attracts like and I needed the attributes I desired in my soulmate. This realization made me ask the difficult question “which of these have I mastered? Truthful self-examination is difficult and change is not easy. Old habits are hard to kick.
I then came upon a book ,Ramtha Intensive Soulmates, Ramtha, a channeled entity states, "there are very few entities who ever find their soulmate, ever." He goes on to say that we have lived many lifetimes without seeing the other side of ourselves. He says that we think we have met this special person and yet in time they disappear from our life. We assume that our soulmate would be everything we desire.
He encourages individual's to examine themselves. How desirable are you? How honorable are you? How much integrity and virtue do you process? He then goes on "Behold! Look at the door! Come forth, soulmate! and you turn around to see, with great anticipation, what your soulmate looks like, what would you do if it was you walking in the door, with all of your hang-ups and limitations."
Finding your Counterpart soulmate takes time. I’ve learned invaluable information while searching. There is no woman out there who is going to save you. Soulmates are rarely what you imagined but exactly what you need. Soulmates come into our life to help us heal. They expose areas we want undiscovered. They help us become more intimate.
The eyes are the windows to the soul. When you look someone deep in the eyes you engage in a rare form of intimacy. Do you long for the day you gaze into your soulmates eyes and experience the sense of being whole. Most people won’t allow intimacy and look away. Soulmates have this intimacy.
In order to experience the soulmate relationship we must look past our intention and what we expect. Soulmates challenge our inconsistencies. They stand by you, not necessarily agree with you.
A soulful relationship offers two difficult challenges. The first is to come to know oneself. The second is to get to know the deep subtle richness of the other.
You may have to enter the confusion of another. This is a way soulmates reveal their souls. You will touch upon issues charged with emotion. Soulmate relationships cause you to dig deep into the stuff of the soul.
A relationship may look like an arrangement of two people getting together but it is more profound. It is the arrangement of a soul recognizing itself in another.
Soulmates are brought together for growth. If you do not work out your issues in each relationship, you will attract another partner with the same soul agenda. We are quick to see other's dysfunction. We deny our own inappropriate behavior and cast blame.
We attract into our life what we express. In truth, the quality of our relationships are products of our own habitual thoughts and actions.
The idea of looking for your soulmate it is an admission that you are separated. With this admission comes the fact that anything separated from it's source has a strong chance of becoming lost. This explains the disconnection we feel when we are not experiencing intimate love.
Real intimacy is when you are emotionally naked before each other. There is always a higher purpose to a soulmate relationship. It is for real intimacy and it is the desire for that intimacy that creates a bond between two souls, they will find a way to join together. The longing to experience intimacy keeps your soulmate alive in the subconscious.
This past summer I fell head over heels in love with a woman from Brooklyn I experienced a weekend of heaven. I felt strongly this person was my twin soul but as it turned out, she literally jerked my feet out from under me. She told me she loved me, made love to me and promised me the world.
We danced together and made plans for our future. She looked directly in my eyes and said, "I've known you before, I don't know where or how, but I know you." I was mesmerized. She was the one and she said all the right things. This relationship lasted during the summer. I was devastated. Obviously this person was a karmic companion and I had something to learn from the experience. She was a liar . I was left to examine how I attracted her. I knew I was not a liar It took some time, but I did come to the realize I lied to myself and was unfaithful responding to my own needs and desires. I was made aware of my need to please others more than the need to please myself. I developed better relationships as I became stronger .
Our egotistic nature likes to show off. We act like we are something we're not. We hide our dysfunction and have difficulty being honest. We fear we are not good enough. We lack confidence in ourselves, yet present ourselves perfect for the person we are pursuing. If you play this way, you will be busted.
We constantly do things that do not promote intimacy. At the same time, we want our soulmate in the purest sense. This dichotomy is why most individuals never find their soulmate.
Relationships are challenges. The path that leads to your soulmate is honesty. Your walls must come down in order to experience such a relationship. As long as you have walls you will not be a true partner.
The way to your soulmate is through self-love. You cannot truly love another when you do not love yourself. Loving yourself is the beginning. Be honest and open. Through your honesty and openness you experience intimacy and find your soulmate.
When you are genuinely ready you will find your twin soul. People claim they are ready but their soulmate hasn't appeared. It is possible to be emotionally, but not spiritually ready or vice versa. Most people claiming they were ready, looking back, realize they were not.
Nature shows us there is nothing in the universe out of rhythm. Our universe is held together by such perfect timing the conscious mind cannot fathom. Your soulmate will show up right on time. Be devoted to your highest good. Desire your soulmate for the right reasons. You and your soulmate may have different interests but your personal development will be compatible.
If you find yourself making excuses for anothers behavior you must question what in your behavior needs corrected. Once your behavior is corrected you will no longer be attracted to poor behavior and you will lovingly leave.
It is not your mission to change your partner. It is your mission to change yourself. The soul always manifests itself. This is your journey of change.
How do you recognize a soulmate relationship?You will recognize your soulmate when you recognize yourself in a person. A soulmate will admire you when you admire yourself and love you when you love yourself. You will recognize your soulmate through your own love and admiration. They will recognize you by the same principles.You will know when you have found your soulmate because you are completely comfortable. You share the same spirit. You experience a profound connection and a rare form of intimacy.
Your soulmate is not a person. It has no body. It is the magnetic patterns that attracts you to a person. As you change you attract a partner with like patterns.
Your inner guidance is always directing, if you listen. When you become the person you desire, you will experience a counterpart relationship. A person does not necessarily have to change partners to experience this soulmate relationship. You could be with your soulmate and not be able to recognize them because you haven’t learned basic skills that connect you to your own love.
The search for the great relationship is the inner search we have to connect with something greater. The connection is with ourselves and our own spiritual quest. We are ultimately seeking a complete union between ourselves and our true nature, the universe or God.
Follow your inner guidance to change. Real love is feeling your own fullness. You will find your soulmate when you have healed from within. Change yourself! You will never know for sure if a person is truly your soulmate as long as you are not true to yourself and to your own soul. When you are, it will be very clear whether the person is your soulmate. Become all you wish in a soulmate. Be patient. You have and will always attract your soulmate.
"Would you be happy to meet you? So prepare yourself, so you will be happy with yourself. Start dealing with the aspects of thine self that you do not like. What you create in yourself you shall find. The soulmate is a mirror, and the mirror reflects itself perfectly. The neurotic reaches for the neurotic, the negative for the negative, and so forth. That is why marriages fail. They have not prepared themselves. Looking for their counterpart, they find it." Ramtha
One of my favorite recording artists, Doug Stone, recorded a song on his 1992, From theHeart, Album. The song, Made for Loving You, was written by Curly Putman and Sonny Throckmorton. The song summarizes my feelings about soulmates. The words are:
Everybody sings a different kind of song
All God’s children have somewhere they belong
Oh I’ve heard it said and I know it must be true
We meant to be, I’m made for loving you.
All God’s children have somewhere they belong
Oh I’ve heard it said and I know it must be true
We meant to be, I’m made for loving you.
Everybody had something he must be
Call it fortune or just call it destiny
I have spent my life making my way to you
See the way we fit I’m made for loving you
Like blue skies always seem to go with sunshine
And just as laughter goes along with good times
I have spent my life making my way to you
See the way we fit I’m made for loving you
Soulmates fit together and when something fits you know. Having a soulmate is real. Soulmates are finding each other. I challenge you to find yours!
Call it fortune or just call it destiny
I have spent my life making my way to you
See the way we fit I’m made for loving you
Like blue skies always seem to go with sunshine
And just as laughter goes along with good times
I have spent my life making my way to you
See the way we fit I’m made for loving you
Soulmates fit together and when something fits you know. Having a soulmate is real. Soulmates are finding each other. I challenge you to find yours!
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