PERSONAL/ LOVE/ DATING: WHY WOMAN ARE ATTRACTED TO ME AND WHY GIRLS AREN'T

A girl is attracted to boys. A woman is attracted to men. Now, this has nothing to do with the actual age of a person. I’m referring to maturity, life vision and stage of life. In fact, some people regardless of their age, will never really grow up. In my experience with dating...a girl has a checklist that prioritizes superficial qualities above anything else. Here is an example of how this checklist may look: Hot, popular, wears skinny jeans, over 6 feet tall, rich.. This is the checklist of what a woman may look for: High integrity, intelligent, kind, good communicator, emotionally available…all of which is me. Woman are attracted to me..not girls because I am not a boy.

I am a man..hence I knows what I wants, and I  goes for it. A boy may have somewhat of an idea, but not really. He doesn’t think too much about it, and even if he does, doesn’t exert much effort to get it. A boy is passive, a man is assertive.I always plans for future and is working towards building a foundation in order to have a family (I have a house, car, live in the long island and have saving).  A boy lives only in the moment and his plans are mostly around which bar he’s going to hit up on the weekend. A man like myself are attracted to woman with intelligence, who is supportive, grounded and encompasses a shared set of values. She doesn't have to be the most attractive woman in the world, but she must be the kindest. A boy cares mostly only for girls who are hot, wild and exciting. I am honest with my intentions ....I am looking to settle down. I will let you know where I stand in any subject.. A boy avoids. He ignores confrontation or any serious talks about feelings. Instead of dealing with a situation, he runs away from it or creates drama or excuses to mask the fact he’s not that into you or a relationship. A man like myself knows when to invest in a woman and jump in with two feet. A boy is always “testing” – he doesn’t fully commit because he never knows if he is quite ready. But the truth is, because he is a boy, regardless of who he meets, he will never be ready due to the stage of life he is in. I knows how to have a good time and be social, but I am often busy making strides in my job and in  building my life. A boy is getting crunk with his buddies at the bar every weekend. I have integrity. I means what I says, and says what I means. I follow through with actions on my promises.  A boy makes promises but doesn’t follow through.

A girl usually lack independence, is ruled by insecurity, .throw tantrums, perceives herself as a princess and believes people should treat her like so. She is entitled and feels that she is owed and therefore expects more than she appreciates. A woman, has standards not expectations So many girl feeling validated through her looks as their primary tool to get what she wants in life. A woman, knows her worth is beyond her physicality. A woman bases her value on her intelligence, her strength, her integrity,  and her values. A girl banks on me to be her financial strategy. A woman is financially independent – she banks on… herself. You won't believe how many girls are proud of the fact that they cannot cook or clean. A woman understands that being domestic is not a duty, but understands that it is one way of taking care of herself and others. The only way I can describe it to you is this..after spending time with a girl, you feel exhausted because she takes more than she gives. After spending time with a woman, you feel invigorated, because she empowers you with possibility, and a passion for life