PERSONAL: WHAT I AM NOT

I’m not gonna bore you by talking about how I’m a great guy with brown eyes, a great smile, and a sharp sense of humor. I’m also not going to drone on about how totally awesome and sexy I am. (That should be obvious!) Instead, I’m going to tell you what I'm NOT about: I AM NOT A JERK, so if you're turned on by guys who are rude, mean, like to use you and abuse you or whatever, then you need to click away right now. I AM NOT A BROKE LOSER. I have a house and a car. So if you're looking for a guy who's constantly spending all his time working just to afford beer, or mooching off you in some way, that's not me. I DON'T USER DRUGS OR DRINK, so if you're looking for a guy to smoke meth and/or crack with while chugging a bottle of jack, move along. I'm high on life baby. I don't spend my time with computer games. I AM NOT A STALKER, and I am not desperate. I know I'm a great catch for any woman, so if you want some insecure guy who's obsessed with you, I'm afraid that won't happen here. I'M NOT A HEALTH NUT. I do take care of myself, but I am not a body builder. So if you're only looking for muscle-bound guys who like to spend more time at the gym than they do with you, move along. I'M NOT ABUSIVE and would never physically harm a girl, so if you feel the need to be with a creep who beats on you and treats you like crap, please, for the love of God, do not waste my time because I would never ever hurt a woman. I am very close to my family..

With all that said...that's not to say my experiences with dating and relationships have been a cakewalk. A lot of woman are clueless and their priority are totally messed up.When it comes to choosing a husband, only one thing really, truly matters: character. So it stands to reason that a man's character should be at the top of the list of things you are looking for, right? But if you're not married, I already know it isn't. Because if you were looking for a man of character,you would have found one by now. Men of character are, by definition, willing to commit. Instead, most woman are looking for GQ model or someone rich. Or someone who knows what an Eames chair is. Unfortunately, this is not the thinking of a wife. This is the thinking of a teenaged girl. And men of character do not want to marry teenaged girls. Because teenage girls are never happy. And they never feel like cooking, either.

The reality is, only a handful truly fit the mold of what being the woman a man truly needs and desires.The deal is: most men just want to marry someone who is nice to them. The bottom line is that marriage is just a long-term opportunity to practice loving someone even when they don't deserve it. Because most of the time, your messy, farting, macaroni-and-cheese eating man will not be doing what you want him to. But as you give him love anyway -- because you have made up your mind to transform yourself into a person who is practicing being kind, deep, virtuous, truthful, giving, and most of all, accepting of your own dear self -- you will find that you will experience the very thing you wanted all along:
Love.

So if you haven't been scared off by now, we may actually have something here! So send me an email with your number. I dare you. I double-dog dare you. :-P