LOVE: WHEN A WOMAN REALLY LOVES YOU

There used to be a time when I would believe just about anything another individual would tell me. I would ignore all of the tell tale hidden signs that they’re actions were presenting to me, and totally concentrate on the inconsistencies their lips convinced me of being their truths. This left me open for being hurt and disappointed… A lot.

It’s not like I didn’t see the opposite actions that the individuals were portraying, I was perfectly aware that they were telling me one thing and doing something completely different than what they were saying. I guess in a sense I was hoping that what they were saying with their mouth would trump what their body language, personality traits, character traits, and whatever else they consistently said knowingly and unknowingly, without them actually saying one word; basically, everything else they were telling me without parting their lips. But, that was rarely ever the case. No ones word can ever trump their actions, despite what some may think or speak.

In order for me to avoid being hurt or disappointed I would have to drive home to myself, that some people aren’t aware that their actions and words aren’t in alignment with one another. In fact, there are a few who simply don’t care that their actions have left the track altogether.

What became more of an importance to me was that all my words lined up with my actions. That I could control… all day, everyday. As far as others are concerned… well, I still continued to listen to what people tell me, attentively actually. The difference now is I listen more to what their actions are saying than I do to what they are actually saying.

So many woman inmy life said they loved me and their actions didn't match. So many woman read my word and tell me ...we are in the same page but their interest level in a matter of a few days to a few weeks would decline. Actions don't just speak louder than words, actions SCREAM the truth at you

When a woman falls in love, her world is literally turned on its edge. There is nothing that she will not do for her man. She will change jobs, change her clothes, leave her friends, change religion, stop talking to her relatives, and she will probably move to a new city.

A woman jumps into her relationship with both feet. She is 100% committed to loving her man. She goes to work, and all day she thinks of his love. She cannot wait to get back home to be in his presence, to kiss him, to hold him, and to make love to him.

A woman loves a man so much, that she will put him first in her life. He is his priority. He is the reason he wakes up early and deals with her boss. She will do whatever it takes to make sure that her man is taken care of.

I will interject here with the following statement: not all women love perfectly. However, their love is perfect. The love they feel for their man is pure. It is real. Nothing in this world is more real than the love a woman feels for her man, when she is truly in love. She will cry for her man if that is what she feels she has to do She will die for her man if that is the only option. She will tear herself apart if she thinks that will make him happy. Some woman go as far as putting their husband before their children.

A woman's love for a man is intense and unconditional. It is true love.