I didn't listen to my mother when she warned me that my ex-wife wasn't right for me. I was so stupid. She told me a couple of things that I wished I listen carefully:
Your partner’s family, and your family, does matter. You’re kidding yourself if you think otherwise. I remember in the movie “The Godfather”? While attending his sister’s wedding, Michael Corleon references his Mafia family to his girlfriend Kate and says: “that’s my family Kate, that’s not me”. Fast forward and we all know that Michael became exactly like his family — and his father! This might be an extreme example but you are only kidding yourself if you do not believe your families will impact your lives together. For better or for worse — we marry into each other’s families when we marry each other. You might not like to hear this, but like it or not, it’s true. Even attempts to be different from our families acknowledge their influence on us.
My mom also told me... “all you need is love” is the biggest BS ever.. No, love is not all you need if you want to go the distance and live happily ever after. You need plenty of other things – the most important one being the ability to effectively communicate. As time marches on, and the you-know-what -hits the fan, and it will – communication will be the key for keeping your relationship strong and healthy!
Sexiness isn't about how someone looks ....sexiness is to show interest in sex..was another things that I didn't listen to. Just because someone looks great..doesn't mean she is great in bed.
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