Saturday, September 1, 2012

LOVE: TAKING SOMEONE FOR GRANTED

I Miss You

To see you, when I wake up is a gift I didn't think could be real.
To know that you feel the same as I do is a three-fold utopian dream.
You do something to me that I can't explain.
So would I be out of line if I said, I miss you.

I see your picture, I smell your skin on the empty pillow next to mine.
You have only been gone ten days, but already I'm wastin away.
I know I'll see you again whether far or soon.
But I need you to know that I care and I miss you.




Very weird, funny and painful at the same time is when we lose someone in irreversible way, then find out how much we loved them .. Did that ever happen to you ?

Someone who is close to us , so close , yet for some reason we take that someone for granted , maybe because we are so sure that this person will always be there , or maybe because we are sure that the love of this person is so true and unconditional and will always stay or for any other stupid , silly or unaware reason that simply makes us blind ( and usually that's the human nature we appreciate more the people who dislike us or that don't pay us any attention, the people that reject us , those damn people are our challenge usually to make our life a living hell ) or maybe because we were busy checking other options that treated us the same way ( took us for granted etc),and just when we lose that person in any way , either by death ,or maybe simply because that person woke up and realized you weren't worth that challenge and they are better off without you and that their human nature should change or maybe they found a better person to love and love them back etc..

Then we suddenly wake up ! and say :OMG what have I done ? Why do I feel so miserable ? What's missing ?? Damn "that person" is missed , their love , their presence, their talk , even when we thought it was a bother or too much love that we are smothered with it , we wake up to realize what a loss we had , how stupid we were , what kind of a fool we were to simply let such person go without giving them the credit ,they loved us unconditionally even when we were assholes and didn't show them they are loved back or appreciated, we let them leave without showing them the love we know that we had towards them but were not aware it was there because we were selfish ,,But I must say that it's so cruel that we realize their loss only when it's too late ,,,

So , folks , look around you , does the above remind you of someone around you ?? If it does , don't wait till you lose them to wake up , be wise and appreciate them and their pure love now , because believe it or not , there might not be another chance to share that love with them or with anyone else if so ever, because you can never be certain to get the same chance they gave you, by them or by anyone else

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