LOVE: NEEDS

There is no” we” there is “me” and “me” is different than “you” so our needs are different accordingly..

Some can have similar needs , yet not all their needs are similar…

We all want to be happy.. healthy .. wealthy (or some modest would say “with no money problems”), successful , safe,,, having good sex etc in the general meaning of these needs ..while specific meaning of these needs can be individual to each and every one of us…

But each and every one of us has its own needs that are his/her specific needs that some of us can understand while others really can’t comprehend …

The lack of compassion and love towards one another cause us to make fun of each other’s needs in a way that creates arguments …or simply deny the need for those needs…

But believe it or not if we don’t start understanding the needs of the “another” then the “another” won’t show understanding to our needs and that can cause a chaos in a relationship , any relationship…

Did you ever think about your partner's needs as you were satisfying yours? Think hard ,,just as you were getting satisfied did you think of your partner needs ?

You know many couples simply split when they fail to consider, understand, satisfy their partner’s needs ,and others simply live happy ever after when they do ,,yet not always complying with your partner’s needs is a mission possible…

Trying though to react to your partner’s needs , understand it , to comply with it , to satisfy it would save your relationship…