Saturday, August 18, 2012

LOVE: YOU CAN'T JUST HAVE SEX WITHOUT EMOTIONS

I remember watching Vanilla Sky..in the car.

What's happiness to you, David?

What's happiness to me?

- What is happiness--- 'Cause for me...

this is happiness--

just being with you.

There's one thingthat bothers me.

Why did you tell Brianthat I was your fuck buddy?

I didn't tell him that.I didn't say that.

- When did you stop caring, David?- Caring about what?

About the consequences ofthe promises that you've made.

- Promises?- Yeah, the promises.

I thought--

Get the fuck--What are you talking about?

Do you understand how hard it isto pretend to be your buddy?

David, I love you.

I fucking love you!

I fucking love you!

Fuck!

Whoa, whoa, whoa!

Don't do this.Don't do this.

You fucked me four timesthe other night.

You've been inside me.

I swallowed your cum.That means something.

Slow down.

Four times-- it means something.

- Four times.- Stop the car.

Twenty-four hours a day, I livewith this aching possibility...

that you might call meto do something.

Let's go to your house.I wanna see where you live.

Just slow down.I want you to stop the car!

Don't you know when you sleepwith someone...

your body makes a promisewhether you do or not?

Tell me something, David.Do you believe in God?

What are you doing?

Okay, I love you.I love you.

Don't do it!

You're amazing.




Sex is always relational...and there is body of evidence to prove that. You cannot separate your body from the rest of who you are; therefore, what your body does, you do. You are doing more than exercise routine when you have sex. Sex intensifies your experience of closeness, whether in a committed relationship or not. Sex cannot be served from emotional involvement. Sex is the turning point. It make couples wonder what is expected of them now in a relationship. It prompt you to be more open, to desire stronger connection. Study have shown that there is a indisputable connection between the number of sexual partner they had before marriage and their likelihood of getting divorced. Involvement with just one sexual partner other than her husband during the dating years raised a woman's risk of divorce three times higher than that of the woman who had sex with only her husband. The more sexual partner you have, the lower your ability to stay faithful. The higher the number of sexual partner during dating the greater the chances of having an extramarital affair during marriage. Sex, love, and relationship are definitely linked together. Relationship seals the depth of commitment, which is necessary for the security of love ,which is turn enriches the fulfillment and satisfaction of sex and romance. Breaking the trio apart leaves the remaining two lacking the other essential piece. Think about it: relationship without sex or commitment, commitment without relationship or sex, and sex without relationship or commitment---all three pairs are inadequate to provide the full experience of intimacy.

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