Sometimes I don't understand people...it's pretty rare that people find the perfect person they've been dreaming of their entire life. Finding a partner is about seeing the other person for their innate qualities and not for how they match up against your checklist. Most woman have a list of qualities they want ...like handsome, tall, smart, sexy, or love to travel instead of thinking of values. Does the person you are considering share the same values? Because they could be handsome, smart, sexy but they don't share your values...that is ...WHAT YOU FIND VALUABLE...hello McFly...then you will have a very long slog. One of my friends had a list of spiritual, well traveled, rich, and handsome....and the man she married is all these things, but he's also a workaholic, unable to relax, not comfortable with intimacy and don't want kids.
But you see, every relationship that you have started was a mirror of your interior landscape. It was a mirror of where you were at that moment. If you are uncertain how you are doing in your life and how you feel about yourself, take a close look at the people you are attracting. The people with whom we choose to be in a relationship mirror exactly how we feel about ourselves and what we deserve. If you work on becoming awake, kind and compassionate, then you will naturally draw similar people into your orbit. If you met the world with negativity, caution, or violence, then you will draw similar people and experience.
So you are in a relationship to learn about your partner and to learn about yourself. Because that is what a relationship is there for. It's not just to have fun, great sex, groovy weekend trips, and the pride of having someone desirable on your arms. you are in your relationship for your own spiritual growth. It won't always be fun, and sometimes the spiritual lesson. The point is that every relationship, no matter how screwed up and painful was there for you to get to where you are now, operating at a higher plane of awareness.
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