LOVE/THOUGHTSWHY WE STAY

Everyone know about love....so I feel that we have something in common, you and I. Whoever you are. Everyone on here, knows what it's like to have an insatiable urge to just talk to that one boy or girl, man or woman.

And then there's the few of us that know what it's like to love someone with a burning passion that we know will leave us burnt out in the end. We feel it get more intense and swear we'll stop, after one more kiss, one more text, one more time. We swear it'll get better, and if it doesn't we'll leave for sure.

But we know we won't. Somewhere inside of us, that little voice of reason and honesty whispers, "Even if you had a thousand reasons to leave, you would look for just one to stay." That voice is right. Because, the way I see it, when you truly, really, without a doubt are one hundred percent commited and in love with another person, nothing and I repeat, nothing can stop you from waiting day after day after restless day for that person. But when that person makes it crystal clear that they don't feel the same way, either through actions despite their words, or words despite their contradicting actions, something in us shatters. It hurts more than anything because those incredibly strong feelings are so hard to come by. But don't let it break your heart, don't let it tear you down. Don't start speeding through new people, new relationships, and new experiences to try to forget the pain. It won't take away the pain. It'll make it even worse. Because every time you close your eyes and feel someone else's lips, you'll open them only to realize they don't belong to the person whom your heart belongs to.

That is all.