LOVE/ DATING; I AM GOOD ENOUGH

It seem like I always get the woman that i don’t want to fall head-over-heels in love with me, but when I find someone I want, I fail miserably. From what I know about spirituality the real issue here is what is the problem that “wanting” is causing? If you can have the ones you don’t want wrapped around your finger as love slaves, then something about you “wanting” someone is what’s causing the real problem here.

Let’s examine what I think my problems is:

Just like that movie "She out of my league" ...sometimes..the one I want...deep inside i feel like I am not good enough for her.

He’s out of my league / I’m not good enough for him-

When you BELIEVE and ASSUME that you are irresistibly attractive and that a woman (or any woman) wants you hardcore, it often comes about. My beliefs are completely under my control. But I need to step up and stop programming my mind with garbage.I have to stop falling into the
trap of telling the only-the-ones-I-don’t-want-want-me sob story, STOP IT and never do it again.Instead, start “brainwashing myself” into this belief:

The ones I want the most will find me irresistible and they want me, hard.

You’re only not good enough when YOU decide that you aren’t good enough. I need to stop being deperate. I wasn't like this before I got divorce, but I think what happen to me weaken my self