JOURNAL: QUESTION I WOULD ASK MY FUTURE WIFE

Death is always on the way, but the fact that you don't know when it will arrive seems to take away from the finiteness of life. It is that terrible precision that we hate so much. But because we don't know, we get to think of life as an inexhaustible well. Yet everything happens only a certain number of times, and a very small number really. How many more times will you remember as certain afternoon of your childhood, some afternoon that's so deeply a part of your being that you can't even conceive of your life without it? Perhaps 4 and 5 times more. Perhaps not even. How many more times will you watch the full moon rise? Perhaps 20. And yet it all seems limitless.

                                                                                  

from Brandon Lee’s last interview(THE CROW)

1-what is your favorite color?

2-what is your favorite movie?

3-what is your favorite type of music? You favorite Song of all times?

4-What character on TV or in the movies best describes your personality?

5- what is your favorite book of all times?

6-What are your favorite places to go?

7-What is your favorite TV shows?

8-What is your favorite Movie of all times and why?

9-Do you like when a man stroke your hair…read poetry to you…or read a book to you?

10-Do you have a high sex drive?

11-what is the wildest thing you did sexually ever?

12-Your favorite position?

13-What was the most romantic thing you ever did for your partner?

14-I am a person who jump into a relationship…do you jump into relationship as well?

15-When was your last relationship?

16-When was the last time you had sex?

17- How many people have u had sex with?

18-How do u deal with disagreement?

19-How do u deal with angry? Do you just shut down?

20- Are u close to your family…are u closer to your mom or dad?

21-Describe your dad to me? Do you want someone like your Dad or the totally opposite?

22-What was one thing that you remember that you partner did for you that made u feel so loved my him?

23- Is there a certain memory…bad or good that is so deeply a part of your being that you can't even conceive of your life without it? That it made you the person who u are now…tell me about it.

You know, I saw a TV show last night where these two teenagers fell in love and were having their first kiss. It was so romantic, the way they felt drawn together, the chemistry slowly building until they had that romantic, passionate first kiss. It got me thinking…..I’d be curious, what was your first kiss like?

Do you remember the first time you fell in love? Everything seemed so fresh and new and amazing, remember? It was like that first time when you really understand that someone really like you, just the way you are. If you don’t mind me asking, what was that like for you?

My Friend Anna was telling me about the most romantic date she was ever on. It was amazing. Imaging this: you are out with a man you really like and find really attractive. You are sitting in this gorgeous out door restaurant, overlooking a lake. The autumn colors are just perfect. The air is fresh and smells so great, you feel like you don’t eve need to eat, just sit there and breathe that sweet air. Anyway, that’s how she put it. And you have this incredible date as the sun goes down over the water, the stars come out and then the moon rises, and two of you feel so connected, so in love, you know what I mean? What would you say is your most romantic moment ever?

I was having this discussion with my friend, and I wonder what you think .Do you believe in love at first sight? Where you see someone and you just feel that ‘click,’ and it’s like. Even though you are meeting for the first time, you feel like you’ve known him forever? Or does that feeling of attraction just build inside of you, slowly? Have either of these ever happened to you?

Do you believe in destiny, like certain things or relationship are predestined to happen? I am sure you know the feeling when you see someone and just feel the that ‘click’ and even though you are meeting for the first time, you feel like you’ve know him forever? Has that ever happened to you?

My friend Suzy is falling in love. It’s so fun to watch. She was telling me about meeting this man and feeling like she’d known him all her life. Like she felt like ‘Oh, it’s you even though they just met. Have you ever met someone and just felt like you ‘d know him forever?

I’ve been thinking how great it would be to take a vacation, and asking people what they’ve done that they really loved, It’s been fascinating to hear about people’s ideal vacation experience. What’s your absolute fantasy vacation?

You know it’s interesting how different people feel special in different ways. I mean, it’s like each person has his of her own code for feeling special, connected, and really loved. I’m curious how do you know when a man really appreciates you/

As certain afternoon of your childhood, some afternoon that's so deeply a part of your being that you can't even conceive of your life without it?

Part Two Question:

1-General Health:
Do You belong to a gym? Do you work out?

2-Religion:
Are you spirtual?

3-Living arrangements:
Do you have roommates?
How long have you lived at your current house/apartment?

4-Finances:
How long have you been at your job?
Do you love your job?
What is your job?

5-Children:
Do you like kids/

6-Relationship:
Why did your last relationship end?
Do you have any brothers or sisters? Do you get along with them?
Does your family live near by?

7-Goals:
Where do you see yourself in 5 years?
What are you most passionate about?
Where did this interest come from?

8-Work:
What are your hours?

9-Alcohol:
Do you drink and how much?

10-Career:
What kind of work do you do?
What do you love about it?
What is your dream regarding your work

11-Self-Esteem:
What have youf done in your life that you're most proud of?
What do you consider your biggest failure?

12-History:
What's the best thing that happen to you in the past year?
What's the worst?

13-Playfulness:
What would you do if you didn't have to work?
What is your dream vacation?