PERSONAL: GREETING TO YOU

Greetings to you,  

Will your eyes invite me to your heart? I have seen your add and I think that you are a very interesting person. So, I decided to use the chance to get to know you. Hope I will be lucky:-) I don't know if you answer me or not. But why not to try? I will regret if not to try. I think we should use every chance to find our happiness.The essence of profile compels me to ponder what is it you seek, and why? Perhaps you may grace me with your answer? Helplessly, I find myself wishing to offer you some insight about who I am. My entire life I've longed and wished for the woman of my dreams to walk into my life and give me the gift of loving them. You know the feeling, when you're happy with the material things you have, happy with the friends and social life you lead, happy with your job, and just happy with your life in general. But you feel like something is missing? Something that could complete and concrete your happiness? Bumping into someone that you dig mentally AND physically just doesn't happen too often. Especially when you're a little tired of the bar scene. In brief...I like to think I'm a handsome well-rounded person.  In a perfect world I'd be dating a woman that possesses looks AND personality. I have to admit - that personality accounts for perhaps more than half the equation, I'm interested in someone genuine and FUN w substance and integrity who I can have an intelligent conversation   I am a man who want a loving, committed relationship. I seek someone who is emotionally generous- someone who gives freely their love, their praise, their affection and their appreciation's. 

 Dear fellow searcher,  

I am sure one night you sat down one night at your computer, and said to yourself "I'm tired of the dating game and you put up your ad. Just based upond your ad and your picture I am sure you are getting TONS of responses. I am sure it has become a bit frustrating responding to so many e-mails or just deleting them. So I ask how can I make mine email stand out above the rest? It is my words against all the other responses, against all your past aches and broken hearts.It my words against all the other men who are bidding for your heart. Will you trust me? Will you pick me out of the sea of response. It not only that you will find what you heart has been seeking but for me to also find that person who was meant for me. I find myself becoming hopeful,perhaps too hopeful; that my words are being read by the one I've been seeking. And that you will see how truly sincere I really am . And this makes me both nervous and ecstatic at the sametime. Is it possible that through our thoughts and feelings on this screen, we will know each other? I it possible that the decision for you to place your ad, and and my decision to respond was what suppose to happen for us to finally met? 

  

 I decided to write a long email so you can get a sense of who I am. I suggest you grab some coffee and take a seat and read this with an open heart.  I feel as though there is a purpose for all of the people who come into our lives. Perhaps it is through the "wrong ones" that we will know the "right one" and honestly cherish them. I've been single for while now and I 'm not really not looking for a fling or just-for-fun relationship. I have reached a point where I know I want to be married someday. I have had many friends, associates and family members who attempt to "set me up" on a "blind date" or "to meet someone" simply because of her profession or something similar. And everyone claims that I'm "letting good women" get away because I'm "so picky." Which is not true. People constant ask me, "You are such a good catch, why are you single?” I tell them that the problem is not finding a woman, but "the right one". I am just not willing to accept a lower standard of love for the rest of my life. I did that in the past and I will not anymore. Everything else I can comprise with, but not the love. Over the years, I had several girlfriends, though none turned into a wife. They honestly didn't treat me the way I was treating them. You may be asking what is it that I am really looking for?. I'm looking for the substance of love--for kindness, compassion, deep caring, listening heart, connecting, joy, generosity, harmony, spirituality, and for someone who has the capacity to love me as much as I can love her.