I have a friend who is addicted to her ex boyfriend dick. Beside being in a sick love relaitonship.She was cock whipped. Let me define: She want his cock, his cock only, and want it all the time. Addiction is quite possibly the most accurate way to define whipped. Dick-whipped is making excuses for all of your man's naughty behavior. Dick is capable of making a chick go against her instincts and trust that the man she’s fucking will change his ways. Dick will make you turn a deaf ear to friends and family's advice.
The problem is that every woman have convinced herself that her pussy is top-notch and no other woman can compete with the way you fuck him. You hear the way he cums and think, “I got this man! He loves my pussy!” You have no frame of reference for how the next woman puts it down between the sheets, so you blindly let your ego convince you that indeed, you’re the best fuck he’s ever had.
Men DO NOT equate sex with love as women do. Sex and love are two mutually exclusive thingys! Most women, by the time they decide to open their legs--has some feeling for a man. Conversely, a man doesn't have to give a shit about you to stick his dick in you and yes, men will lie in the heat of passion and say, "I love you!" Take it from me- a man who's had his share of pussy. A man knows right away whether the woman he's fucking is girlfriend/relationship/marriage material from the first fuck. Too many women get dick-whipped because the man is giving them a lil' dick here and there and they interpret that as "love." Wrong!
You might have a rude awakening when you see another woman doing some gymnastics on your man’s dick that you could never do! You might have a reality check when that woman licks balls, ass and swallows your man’s cum and you are repulsed by those things! Never underestimate the next woman’s fuck-game—I don’t care how ugly you think she is or how fat she might be! That’s your biggest problem—underestimating the other woman! Your fucking EGO!
Some say it ain’t the dick. It’s an “emotional attachment.” Indeed, you are emotionally attached to that person, but it is from countless hours of being made love to—from being fucked into a state of emotional attachment—from having a man fuck you into submission, while whispering sweet-nothings in your ear! Indeed, you become “emotionally attached!" I have never known a woman who was "emotionally attached" to a man in a platonic relationship. Sex makes that shit emotional!
Hey Ladies! "If you lay down with dogs you’ll get up with fleas!" In other words, what kinda man are you dating? Is he the nerdy type with a college degree looking to raise a family? Or is he an unrepentant bad-boy who's has two kids he never told you about...give you lies about getting married to you and never kept any of his promieses....... up looking like your father's worst nightmare? This is who you brought home to daddy? SMH!
What’s the remedy for someone sprung on that dick? She might try to sleep with someone else but then she feel that she is cheating on him or that guy isn't as passionate in bed as her ex was.
It might take the dick-whipped to catch her man with another woman. It might take the dick-whipped to contract a sexually transmitted disease (and maybe one she can NEVER get rid of!). It might take the dick-whipped to get a text that he is leaving the state. It might take the dick-whipped to see her man’s newborn child from the side chick (again, maybe you’re the side chick feigning like you’re his #1?). Alas! It might take the dick-whipped to endure an ass-whipping by the man she loves to make the light of reasoning go off in her head.
All we can do is watch and listen. Out of love, we judge, because we can see what they can’t. We don’t want them to suffer heartache, but we recognize that erry’body’s grown up in here. The best thing we can do is not buy into their madness when they make proclamations of “I’m done” only to see them eat their words a day later. When you see them venting and complain, start your timers. They will recant their words in 5, 4, 3, 2…
If you’ve been this person, surely you can understand. I understand! I’ve been pussy whipped and because of that, I can, for a certainty say that “Dick (and pussy) is a hellava drug!”