PERSONAL: FOR THE WOMAN WHO REFUSES TO SPEND HER LIFE AS JUST THE GIRLFRIEND

For the woman who refuses to spend her life as 'just the girlfriend' from the one who's planning to split from her long-term partner because seeing other friends get engaged 'breaks her heart' -I am here for you. While the vast majority of women are happy to let their relationships develop at their own pace - there are apparently quite a few who feel the total opposite...i am looking for you.

Ladies, don't play wife to a man who had no intentions of marrying you at least moving into the next stage of your relationship. *If a man cannot see you in his future, then why waste your time on him? If he cannot make a future commitment with you then LEAVE!!! No matter how hard, it will only end in tears anyway. *Men know what they want and who they want, and will actively pursue the woman they want in their life. *DO NOT give a man who is just your boyfriend a child. Your body clock, I'm sorry to say, is a bitch. I don't say this in order to hurt its feelings. But the tick-tock of women's fertility, which starts declining at 33

I want to get married. I was married before. I love marriages that work; I love the stability that comes with marriage, the family structure, the coming together of two families, the meeting of hearts, and the love. It’s all so beautiful.

And if you want to get married then your first challenge will be to figure out what your priorities are in a husband so you can make the best “deal” possible.  A good way to do this is list what you would trade for what.  Is a good job more important than height?  Is a sense of humor more important than looks?  How much game would you be willing to give up for some other quality.Keep in mind that this isn’t about settling, it is about getting the most bang for your Sexual Market Value buck.  If you can pull a man who looks like Brad Pitt, is 6 ft 6, has perfect game and earns like Bill Gates then of course you should do so.